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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there no chance we'll get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship for two years, on two occasions the guy I'm with (or was with) has contacted an ex when things have been rough between us and then he doesn't disclose this information, until way later. Last week we were having problems and he mentioned that the ex ... (196 words)

Ex on the scene for nearly 6 years! Advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I split with my ex nearly 6 years ago who i loved more than anything i fell pregnant by him but i was only a kid at the time and had an abortion for both our sakes but it killed us both and it never really worked after that but i was sure then and now i loved him very much. We ... (470 words)

Why not bask in this love now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have the most unique connection. We've been good friends for over 2 1/2 years, and have had and on again-off again relationships. I worry constantly as to how people perceive me, struggling to comes to terms with how i feel. He's an amazing boyfrien... (90 words)

Ways for us to pleasure each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi ya! Ok, im a virgin and my boyfriend is quite experienced but im not ready for sex yet. ...what can we do sexually other than oral, fingering and sex? ....i really really want to make him soo horny! Thanks x... (54 words)

Should I give up that easily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So i'm dating this guy. he's a year older than me. i've known him for about a year. the whole time we've been friends he was the sweetest guy i've ever met. we just started dating 2 days ago. now it seems like he's a complete jerk. he makes jokes about nazis. and im a jew. he ... (221 words)

What do I do about this boy I like? It gets me depressed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14. I like this person in my fourth hour and we are both in High school. Everyday it is the same thing i look forward to that hour that i get to be with him in but i become extreamly depressed when that hour is over and i know i won't get to see him untill tomorrow. He is ... (114 words)

How do I find out how she feels?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Readers. This is not my first time to ask for advice on dearcupid, but the last time I didn't really get any advice that helped me and my problem... Basically, I'm a woman in my early 20's and am, and have been in love with another female who's in her early 30's, ... (401 words)

I can't get my girlfriend's casual past out of my head!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together since 3 months now.I am 26 and she is 24.She's beautiful,sexy,honest and fun. My problem is i cant get over her casual past.It keeps haunting me. She has numerous casual sexual encounters and has tried almost all drugs. She was sexually ... (286 words)

Does this teacher like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so i'm gonna start from the beginning because it's easier. this teacher started at my school, and i fancied him, i didn't say anything to him or anyone else because lets just say he's not the most attractive person going. so then when i finsished yr 11 (last year of sc... (307 words)

How do I get things to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I need some advise... Please.. For the past two and a half years. I have been "talking" to someone.. Its really complicated because I want to be with him, its like we are boyfriend and girlfriend but its not. We act like it though and we always tell each other I love ... (173 words)

My bf has really changed recently and I don't know what to make of it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i reali love my boyfriend and i never want to break up with him. he means a lot to me so if im going to receive advice on breaking up then please keep your advice to yourself. ive been with him for 3 years and every moment i spend with him is magical and hes just the... (226 words)

He won't go to counseling and I'm in debt because of the wedding! What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have booked my wedding for next yr am in debt with my half of the deposits, we have 2 kids have been with each other for 4years lived together for 18mths he was abused as a child by a man,at the start it was great lots of love attention and affection. he is 10 yrs older than ... (372 words)

Newly weds but he doesn't seem to want sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello cupid. i need help... i have been with chuck for 3 years .. and we recently got married. we didn't even have sex on our wedding night...is there a reason why he might not be sexually interested anymore? please help. we only have a pysical connection about 4 times a ... (79 words)

Does he even care about me at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - we had been together just over 2 years, he is now 46 and im 26 now, he ended it , but he texts me through the week when he aint got anyone else, then from thursday till monday/tuesday i dont hear from him at all he dont answer ma calls or texts,yet he texts or calls me to c ... (119 words)

I know he likes me, but how can I push him to ask me out?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy I really like and I've liked him since I met him in the summer. He is often in my country but a lot of the time he's at uni in England. We text eachother every day for a few hours and we talk on msn all night. We're really flirty and romantic in the messages we ... (193 words)

I have no idea what he wants...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I met a bloke 3 weeks ago and we've had sex 3 times. He lives about an hour and a half away and we chat on msn and text regulary. I just don't know what he wants and it's too early to put pressure on him. I don't want to get hurt or attached to him incase he does just ... (107 words)

How to ask girlfriend to let me know her plans without imposing on her sense of her own time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like some advice on how to get over my anxious feelings when I'm on my own. In the morning and daytime I'm usually busy with things to do, but when my girlfriend gets out of work I really want to see her. The problem is that she's in a job she doesn't like, and gets ... (232 words)

Does he really like me, if he does whats the deal with his girlfriend?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i recenlty moved to university, and ive met this boy who also attends here, il jus call him chris, i was chatting to him online 2 weeks befor arriving and we exchanged phone numbers, just so we had a friend when we got here. we went to the beach together once but his friend ... (280 words)

Do I have a right to be jealous?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day my boyfriend of a year in a half, ask me to go to the movies with him and his two new female friends. I didnt really want to go because I already felt jealous and insecure that these girls were cool with my boyfriend (i know it sounds stupid). It really bothers ... (296 words)

My husband and I have a two week old baby. But I found out he's been hitting on my cousin... What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated my husband for three years we've only been married for a month and have a two week old baby. but he tried to hit on my cousin who is practically my sister. he denies it but i know its true. so what do i do now? do i file for divorce? or stay and try to make it work for ... (64 words)

How can I help my husband understand that my daughter will know him as dad when she is born?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I'm married and was getting a divorce but my husband came back after 8 mths. of seperation knowing I was pregnant for a married man. The father of my child and I have no relationship or contact since April of 2008. Never will in the future. He wants no part in my babies ... (103 words)

Going to see a band tomorrow night but have to walk back to my house. What can I do to keep safe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 16. This isnt so much a relationship question but a question i want advice 4. Tomorrow im going into the city centre to see a band play but im walking back to my house in the middle of the night through the centre of the town. What can i do to keep safe?... (55 words)

I'm too shy to admit my true feelings for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help, well i shy when it comes to admitting my feelings, i dont no why, but i think to myself i will tell him how i really feel, then when it comes to it i clam up and just say i dont feel anything, but if i do tht much longer im going to lose him, and i dont want tht, he loves ... (226 words)

My grandmother doesn't let me have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my grandmother doesnt allow me to have a boyfriend.and i do.we've been going out for 5 months now and i love him,yes i do.but what i wanted to know is if i should wait till im like maybe 16 reaching on 17 to tell her and that she should meet him.and im 15 turning 16 in ... (107 words)

My bf has had sex before, now he wants me to sleep with him for my first time but I'm scared...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a bofriend that had sex oready but i didnt have sex if him jet he said come i make your frist time speacil I want to but i am scread that he will hurt me or just want to have sexwith me.... (44 words)

Why is it hard for parents to let a teenager date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why do you think its so hard for parents to let a 16 year old date? ... (16 words)

Does this make me a slag or something?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 13 but i look way older. And the other day a guy came and started talking to me and my mate. He thought i was his age and was asking which college i attended. i said i didnt go to college but he didnt believe me. He asked for my number and my mate convinced me to give it to ... (231 words)

Confused about a co-worker!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I work with a woman who is married, but am confused about how she feels about me. This woman always wants to work with me, has baked lasagna for me, and even had a hand in having my office moved next to hers. We went for coffee a few times during work hours, and she told people ... (165 words)

Is it normal to not have climaxed yet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for eight months and I know I love him, but I'm not crazy about our sex. Sometimes I'm just really not interested in having sex and nothing he does will get me in the mood. And I haven't climaxed yet. Is this a normal situation? I guess it ... (77 words)

Anyone else a single mom with a lazy, controlling, 13yr old son?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Help me out here mums and dads if you can. I have a 13 year old son and an 11 year old daughter. My daughter is probably more mature than my son, but aren't girls usually? She gets up in the morning before him, she makes her own packed lunch because she enjoys it, yet he has t... (504 words)

What do you think he's trying to prove?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, well I have been with my boyfriend for the past two and a half years. Well our relationship is complicated and I have done so much for him, more than I can explain. From not going anywhere, to doing everything he wants. And well a friend of mine from Elementary graduated ... (201 words)

How do I get rid of wrinkles at my age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering if anyone could give me some advice. I have just turned 19. Since I was 16, my skin on my face has shown visible signs of aging, and in particluar, around the eyes and on my whole forehead. Im quite embarrassed about this, and a lot of people think I ... (363 words)

How can I subtly ask if this guy is still interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys long story cut short, I am dyyying to know if this guy i am completely besotted with and really like, still likes me. I know guys work differently, especially different than women, but I want to find out if he does, he can be weird at times. He has admitted before s... (132 words)

Why am I like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When I am on my period, I have an a major urge to clean everything and tidy up. The rest of the month I'm fine, its just when I'm menstruating. Is this normal? Why I am I like this?... (39 words)

My son lacks so much confidence.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, my son lacks self confidence and there isn't many self confidence groups in my local area. Although it started before this (a year before) I think it has come to a head after the passing of his grandad earlier this year. He's 21 and has become so introverted. He also ... (80 words)

Do I go out with him? I still want my mates to respect me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help, what do you think i should do.??? well im sorta like in love with the only person i thought i wud never ever fall in love with, and im worried what my mates will say as i have told them i would never ever get with someone like him, but now i cant help thinking about hi... (371 words)

Should she take the ex back and trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age - My daughter was in a relationship for 15 months. she is 15, him 17. they broke up over the summer, mainly due to him hearing rumors and believing his friends over her. At this time anyway, things were stale in the relationship. During the summer he found another girl, ... (160 words)

We were soul mates, but his family, certainly made trouble for us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age - Dear Cupid: My boyfriend and I have been parted for 9 months now. He has just recently told me on my e-mail to start my life anew, he has done so can I. He never really came out with he was actually going with someone until last month. He just stopped calling, stopped... (151 words)

My friend is renewing her vows. Do I still throw her a bridal shower and bachelorette party since she's already married??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was recently asked to be a Matron of Honor for my best friend's wedding next year. However, she got married 5 years ago at the Justice of the Peace. Now she's having a tradional wedding/renewal of vows. Do I still throw her a bridal shower and bachelorette party since she's ... (71 words)

Do I love this guy or am I obsessed, infatuated or what? I'm starting to get really down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I don´t know what is this that I feel. I think and feel is love but hopeless one.I need your help. A year and a half ago, delivering phones I met some military guys and one of the was the one who caught my attention. I liked him since I saw him, like a lightning st... (270 words)

I always tell me gf where I am and what I'm doing but she never does the same I always have to ask her! Am I being unreasonable??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so here we go. i tell my gf wat im doing and where im going just so she doesnt have to wonder or let her imagination go crazy thinking im doing things. my gf doesnt tell me anything i always have to ask its not so much that im tryyin to be controlling its that my job is ... (217 words)

Is he worth a second chance even though he has hit me twice...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on holiday with my boyfriend in sept just gone, i am 29 he is 25 though very wise and mature for his age in some ways. Met a year ago on holiday and started going out in may this year, he suffers from schizophrenia though i never knew how bad, he has a counsillor which ... (581 words)

What should I do about the hair between my bum cheeks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a little embarrassed but here goes, I am in my 20s and I was just wondering what are females are suppose to do with the hair in between the bum cheeks, are you suppose to shave/wax or just leave it.... (41 words)

I need help on how I should kiss for the first time??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been on a few dates with this boy and he started to kiss me the other night and I kind of freaked out because I have never snogged anyone before and everyone tells me just relax and you will know what to do because it comes naturally, but it didn't and we ended up ... (113 words)

I hate the fact he is in love with this probably normal and perfect girl and his so happy...how can I deal with this??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all. Ok, I have known this wonderful (I thought he was at the time) Highly intelligent and musically gifted man for 10 years, we met, we had sparks and I would see him on and off with our mutual friends. I knew the first time I saw him he was the one and I believe he... (1166 words)

Need some advice on this guy at work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am looking for some advice, I am a 24 year old female who has never had a boyfriend for various reasons, I have always concentrated on my job just trying to impress etc. plus I have never fallen for anyone and vice versa guy has never fancied me. However, I do split ... (247 words)

If I was pregnant, how do I tell my parents and my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old. I had sex 5 days before I started my period. My parents are really religious in there Christian beliefs. If I was to be pregnant, how would I get by with telling them? and how would I tell my boyfriend?... (45 words)

Having a really hard time getting over my ex! Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am having real troubles with getting over my Ex. We were together for just over a year and had a messy break up (with cheating on his part) - and after taking him back, he later broke up with ME! 2 weeks later he is seeing a new girl - a girl who he knew i never liked to ... (127 words)

How do I get my dad to allow me to have a boyfriend? All my friends are allowed to date!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - so there is this boy and we hang out all the time! i am between the age of 12-14 and he is the same age! it seems like he really likes me but i asked my dad if i could have a boyfriend and he said no your too young but all my friends are aloud to date and i feel like a pathetic ... (99 words)

My best friend told me my husband cheated on me prior to our marriage, 7 years ago! Now I've become more insecure, should I tell him why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What shall I do? To cut a long story short, my best friend has recently confessed to me that she knows my husband cheated on me with his ex, for over a year. I believe this happend prior to our marraige 7 years ago. I am insecure and look at his phone - silly I know! I have ... (394 words)

After all these... I presume I can rule out pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im hoping someone can help me. I'm on birth control and during the pill free week I did not get any period - nothing at all. I did a pregnancy test and it was negative and started the next pack of pills on schedule. I stopped the pack mid cycle and during that time got a 1-2 ... (112 words)

I keep blaming my boyfriend for everything and constantly watch his innocent comments for hidden meanings, so I'm worry he will leave one day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid... i keep blaming my boyfriend for everything. when we have a drink sometimes things are fine but mostly i get ratty and irritable and actually look for reasons to blame him for sth, find fault etc. i feel awful the next day as he's such a fantastic bloke and i'm ... (405 words)

Why would he be like this now? Why say yes, give me his number and seem all set and then just back off? Was he ever interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this guy for 10 years and we went to school together. We always flirted, got on really well and went to the school dance together but nothing ever happened between us. After school ended we only saw each other a few times at parties and we would always talk and ... (393 words)

What is this pain in my clitoris? It's sore and the surrounding area gets itchy. It's on and off.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

- For about 6 months now, ive had on and off pain in my clitoris. It gets really sore to touch and i cant wear tight pants because this makes the pain worse. This pain may last a couple of days and then it wont come back till weeks later, sometimes even a couple of months. ... (185 words)

I cannot seem to stop watchin porn! Please help

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been watching porn sine 6 years and when i am trying to come out of it i am not able to do so. Every time i think of not watching it , but again i watch it. really i terribly feel bad.Need your help badly.... (50 words)

How can guys make their lips look more attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How do guys make their lips look more attractive? Girls have lip gloss and all but for guys?? The reason I ask is that my lips look really weird. So any advice?... (35 words)

My ex gf mum has cancer...and I don't know what to do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex girl friend mum has cancer. I still love her. Want to be there 4 her. We broke up not 2 long after we found out. Because the pressure on her was too much. Even I still want her back . I want to do the right thing. She does mean a lot tome ... (57 words)

How do I know if this girl likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well.... I've just moved to a new country and new school. i have never really liked any girl in my old school and ive been to ALOT of schools, im only 14.. i dont think i should be worrying about love and things like that.. but i keep feeling this wierd feeling about... (347 words)

16 and want a baby with my 27 year old boyfriend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im sarah im 16 and in a relationship with an older guy. he is 27 and i do love him very much. the only problem is we have been talking about having a baby bt he has 1 with his ex. i reali want a baby but will he love is 1st more than mine? i am jealous that he has a baby ... (96 words)

I'm confused and broken - new man on the scene but am I ready?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had my heart broken by my long term boyfriend a year ago and have dated since but haven't had a relationship or slept with anyone. I don't want him back and haven't seen him since we broke up. There is a man I like who likes me. I've know him for about a year as an acqua... (302 words)

I slept with someone at work but I don't truely love her..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i am sleep with one girld that work in one organization with me trully i am not in love with her but she always said me i need you for my life so i need to be with you always and also plan to work by share with me by franchizing a new bussiness and also she need sleep with her ... (87 words)

Am I being pushed out of my best friend's life by the new boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My best friend and I are drifting apart ever since he met his new boyfriend. His new boyfriend is wonderful and all, and has been a great influence upon my best friend and makes him really happy. Before my best friend's new boyfriend we'd hang out all the time, go to the gym ... (177 words)

How can I start up a conversation with this cute girl??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Id like to talk to a cute girl but I dont know where or how to start one. Im a freshman and shes a sophomore, we don't have any of the same classes, but I see her from time to time, and we go in the same direction after school. So basically I want to know what interests h... (75 words)

Is this young woman sincere or is she just playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

- Susan(32) is a woman I met last year(September 2007) and we went out for a couple of weeks in Early to mid June. She had known each other for months when we started dating. The dating started when a mutual friend suggested I ask Susan out as Susan had told her she was attracte... (361 words)

How can I create a relationship with females when I'm so shy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and I haven't a girlfriend yet. This is because I am extremely shy. What the best way to get a girlfriend?... (26 words)

He has a baby with his ex and when I see them together I feel so jealous even although he's with me now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. I am really happy but then comes the jealousy. He has a baby with his ex and I'm so happy for him but when he sees the baby and her, I feel like their old memories are going to come back to light and I'm going to get left with ... (119 words)

I want some sort of commitment from her, is her moving in with me the answer?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for over 5 years now and we have had mostly a very good and happy relationship but there has been one thing that has been missing and that is us living together, I asked her after 2 years if she would move in with me and she said she wasnt r... (235 words)

My girlfriend is 17 and I'm 21! My other relationships have been more mature, how can we overcame this difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'am 21 and my girlfriend is 17. We get on really well together and her mum is fine with us seeing each other etc. The problem is i have had girlfriends before my own age and the relationships have been more mature but i sometimes forget that she is only 17 and still has live ... (133 words)

Will I be able to move out of my home (South Africa) when I'm 18 to move to the USA or will my parents be able to stop me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I hope someone here can help me with what I want to know. I think I actually already know the answer to my question but I want to however double check and make sure I'm right. I live in South Africa at the moment and am a citizen here by birth, I'm 17, I'm turning ... (285 words)

Lost in translation! Problems with adapting in my boyfriend's country. Help!

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I moved countries to live with my boyfriend. In their country they speak a foreign language and I don't nderstand it. I am learning though. But my boyfriend is working late and even though I have a job I can't communicate with anyone in the office! I sit alone all day at work ... (181 words)

He's enlisted for the army and I'm so upset over it. I don't want him in danger...

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years has enlisted in the army and I am so worried that he's going to have to go overseas and fight! He enlisted without even telling me, he did it and THEN he told me, he never gave me a chance to tell him how I feel or to discuss it. I am so upset, both... (482 words)

In love with my brother in law, while I love my husband as only a friend. What should I do?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in a serious dilema and I need all the help I can get. My brother in law loves me. I hate to say this but I am so in love with him. He tells me he loves me, he is the best uncle to my kids, he lives with my husband and I and my husband is gone a lot of the time, and ... (323 words)

Can he be in love with me, too, without willing to admit it or am I being played?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can he be in love with me, too, without willing to admit it or am I being played? We first met almost 10 years ago when I already in a relationship. I'll call him "A". We spent a lot of time together and really enjoyed each other company. On top of that our view of the world ... (513 words)

I hate limbo... some advice please?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old and I am worried that I will never find true passionate love. My biggest worry in the world is no one will ever love me in that passionate head over heels, one and only way. I don't connect with people my own age, because most them are still maturing and... (654 words)

My girlfriend decided she doesn't want to have sex anymore.

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10 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a while. We dated dated in high school twice, seperated by a whole year. Everything was good. When I first started dating her, she told me that she wanted to wait to have sex. I was fine with this and we continued to date and hook up. ... (422 words)

I want to move out and I'm very responsible at 17, any advice about how to find a good place to rent?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I will be Seventeen years old this coming May. I have a stable good paying job.Over $5,000 saved.My liscense and a car.I got my GED about a month ago and next fall I wanted to go to college.My Good friend and I really would like to rent a house together.He will be Eighteen ... (116 words)

I had a bad case of acne, which left some scarring, girls seem uninterested in me, and some say I am handsome, but I think they are just being nice, why won't girls show interest in me?

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10 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and I feel as though there are no girls interested in me....there will be girls that say im handsom but are they just being nice...or do they mean it....I feel ugly sometimes from my acne scars....why do girls seem not interested they look away?... (49 words)

Can my boyfriend have lots of female friends without it being something more?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can men and women really be friends only? My boyfriend has a lot of close female friends. I am always suspicious when he hangs out with them alone. These one-on-one dates between him and his female friends take place at least once or sometimes twice a week, when I myself only ... (207 words)

I am supposed to be a student, but I have not been attending, my mom thinks I have been in school, non-attendance affects my helath insurance, how do I tell my mom and what do I do about the insurance problem?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - It's not a relationship question or anything, but it's something I need help figuring out. My mom thinks I've been taking classes, when I haven't. The truth is, I can't afford to pay for them, I've been saving so I can go back next semester. This jeapordizes my health insuranc... (81 words)

Teasing me or is there something more here?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like these 2 boys there really hot, one of them gives me mixed signals. I was in flag football n so was his little brother and he pretty much came to every game. He was always flirting with me n I was always flirting back with him, then one day he told me that he ... (115 words)

I am gay and have fallen in love with a gtraight guy in school, I am afraid to tell him, as we are friends, and that may change if I tell him, how do I approach him?

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10 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone i'm gay and i'm too afraid to ell a guy that i'm in love with him. i'm scared because i dont want to humiliate he and i but i cant stand seeing him everyday at school and after school and even before school, because theres this hole inside of my heart that only he ... (177 words)

I am in a three year relationship, we now live together, he constantly lies to me, should I continue to live with him, in spite of his lies?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age - I've been living with someone for about 1 year, and dating for 2 years prior. This man continues to lie to me, to my face, until I hound him to tell the truth. It has been a series of different events, small and large lies, but constant none the less. Tonight I get home and ... (111 words)

My boyfriend is serving in Iraq, he wants me to write him a letter, detailing everything I am going to do to him, when he returns, please give me suggestions?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is a soldier and he is in Irak serving .. and he wants me to write him a letter telling him step by step what i will do to him when he gets back.. omg !! I need help ... (41 words)

My alcoholic husband, do I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

10 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - He's had an alchohol abuse problem for a while now. I've stopped trying to change him,but when I did,I used anger, neglect, ridicule, love, patience, criticism,and other negative tactics. But all this did was to cause him to disassociate himself from me. Unfortunately, we ... (147 words)

This girl in my class who, seemingly hates me, I sat in her seat and wouldn't move, just to tick her off, she threatened to mess things up between me and my boyfriend, do you think she will do it, and did I do the right thing?

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10 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - There's this girl Jenny (not her real name) in my class. I think she hates me. Well the other day I sat in her "seat " and told me to move. Jenny: "get out of my seat, Maggi" Me: "I dont see your name on it" Jenny: Maggi if you out now I wont make your life living hell... (137 words)

My ex-boyfriend moved away and has a new girlfriend, but I am still in love with him, how do I get over him?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - as seen in my other post.. i am still inlove with my ex boyfriend after almost two months. it might sound weird but i just can't get over him. i want to so bad, so thats not it. i have tried to date other guys but i just can't stop getting signs that he is the one i am meant to ... (145 words)

We have been married for four months, he was great before we got married, we had sex twice on our honeymoon, he sits at his computer, and then he goes to bed without even a kiss, I thought about an affair, but didn't, this is making me very sad, what

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for just over four months. He was very affectionate while we were dating but as soon as we got married that changed. We only had sex twice on our week long honeymoon. He does not even kiss me or cuddle with me. We went four weeks without ... (213 words)

I am not interested in doing threesomes anymore, should I tell my boyfriend, I want to stop?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - confused about threesomes... (3 words)

My long distance crush and I, were talking more, but I was initiating the calls, she said I was not bothering her, I decided to take a break, she has not contacted me, what should I do, I am thinking of moving on?

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10 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi In the beginning, my crush and I chatted a little on IM (she would initiate a conversation every so often, and so would I). She has since moved to another country. Lately though, I found that I was initiating a conversation on IM more often. I asked her if I was annoyin... (155 words)

Should I follow my dreams or listen to my friends?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My friends are mad at me for following my dream. ive always dreamed of being a really good cheerleader. And this year I tryed out for my school cheering squad, AND MADE IT!!! The girls in cheerleading say im really good, and im extreamly happy about all of it. But my friends ... (88 words)

She left 3 weeks ago to get some space and I'm so scared I will lose her for good! Help!

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10 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife left me 3 weeks ago. I feel like my world has fallen around me. She left because she said she isn't happy and loves me but she is not in love with me. I'm so scared I love her and I don't want her to leave with my 2 year old girl. I try to talk to her and she seams like ... (84 words)

She's married and is a good friend of mine. But she leads me on-what should I do?

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10 October 2008 (M)

- Hi, I want some advice on a Friend of Mine. We've been best of friends for 3 years in December, had a few ups and downs but have always reunited back with each other :) because we are very close. Anyway I'm 20 and she is 18, she recently got married and her husband is in th... (272 words)

I don't condsider him boyfriend material so I want to cut him off sexually but still be friends.

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I've been having an on/off 'relationship' with a friend who is emotionally unavailable. He is insular and he and not very giving of himself. Recently we've been seeing each other but I feel that it is on his terms. I do not want to be his girlfriend as I do not ... (275 words)

My boyfriend is too over protective.

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is too over protective. He needs to know where I am every minute of the day. Im with him everyday of the week. He gets mad if I even go somewhere with my friends or family. Im not aloud to text/talk on the phone while Im with him. He dosent like it when I wear ... (109 words)

When I think about the fact she only sees me as a friend it breaks my heart in two

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10 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Compared to this girl nobody else I've ever dated or known has mattered. I loved her so much, but I was selfish and broke her heart while I took some time to myself. This devastated her and when I came back she said she didn't love me anymore. She said she loved a new guy, even ... (273 words)

I'm thinking of doing a spell to get my ex back. Am I wasting my money and do they work?

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10 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm thinking of doing a spell on my ex to get him back, I'm wondering if they work? I've seen one I can get on the net which will cost around £25. I don't wanna waste my money but has anyone known them to actually work? ... (48 words)