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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does my ex keeping popping into my head all the time when I don't want to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help, I am in turmoil. I was with my ex-boyfriend on and off for 7 years. We got together when I was 17 and split up when I was 24. I ended our relationship because I had slept with someone else. I then immediately started a relationship with this other person. I am ... (140 words)

Have I missed my chance with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A few years ago a boy told me he wanted to be more than friends. At the time I didn't think I felt that way about him so I said no, he didn't give up though, and over the course of 2 years he asked me out about 4 or 5 times. The boy in question is really truly lovely, and we've ... (296 words)

He's too immature for me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a bit of a dilemma, I've recently started seeing a guy who is 4 years younger than me (he's 21 and I'm 25). Although I don't mind the age gap I'm just finding him a little immature and I don't know whether I should continue seeing him and give it a chance or do I let ... (95 words)

She's coming 100 miles to see me but I'm terrified as I'm still a virgin!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Guys and girls! OMG I am so nervous, I'm terrified. Ok, here goes. I am a virgin. In fact, I've never kissed a girl in my 19 years of life. A girl I met on the internet (seen her on webcam, she IS real!) And she's making a special trip from a 100 miles away to come and see... (316 words)

Diet advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles, I have quite an embarrassing question and I'm after a bit of diet advice? if thats right? I'm 16 and I'm 5 foot 4, size 10/12 clothes but I'm 12 stone, I have manly muscles in my arms and a four pack which really creeps me out, I used to spend a lot of ... (155 words)

I have trust issues but feel I am too controlling if I restrict him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 1/2 years. We are at different colleges, me in Florida and him in New York but he lives in Florida and comes home for breaks. We spent most of last year broken up trying to figure things out since it was our frist year apart at ... (331 words)

Bumps on my tonque and in back of my throat. Do I have oral herpes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i have oral herpes but i have never had any outbreaks at all. but i have a small bump on my tongue that has been there for a week and i think another one is developing. i also had some bumps in the back of my throat that was hurting but it went away much faster. i also ... (73 words)

Do you think that you forgive someone who did something very wrong to you?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think that you should continue to talk to someone who did something very wrong to you? I mean this person tricked you but they still try to be nice to you and somtimes you go along with it.. do you think that person should leave them alone for good?... (51 words)

How am I supposed to deal with my friend? She's getting very annoying!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a girl best friend and a guy best friend. I hang out with the girl all the time but this past schoolyear I've gotten really close to my guy best friend again and now she gets really jealous and really mad about me talking to him. like I hung out with him today and she ... (191 words)

Suddenly she wants to use condoms... is she cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i think my girlfriend is cheating on me. we have been going out for just over 3 months and because she is on the pill, we dont use condoms. however, over the last couple of weeks, she has insisted that we use condoms. we are at different universities and dont get to spen... (80 words)

Get out of his life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, just wanted some advice... I've been together with my bf for 5 months now but we got together pretty soon after he finished with his ex of 5 years... to be honest we were kinda going on while he was still with his ex but i wasnt aware of that fact, if i knew i wud ... (178 words)

What's the best way to meet up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, quick question, not immedialtely love related, but close enough. Only UK residents need answer due to obvious reasons Two people want to meet. One lives in Colchester, Essex one lives in Cannock, West Midlands. What's the best place and way to meet up. This is i... (64 words)

I think I'm ready for light BDSM but my boyfriend says I'm not! Is he right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There is something that I would LOVE to try with my boyfriend, and I've told him about this. I would love to try some light bondage, some light domination. (I say light because I've never done it before, so I'd just like to try it out and see if I like it. The thought of it ... (147 words)

I had my period in school and now everyone makes fun of me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my name is mary and i almost died of embarrassment when i had my period in school and everyone called me bloody Mary for the rest of the year and some of them still do. i need help and/or advice!... (40 words)

I work in a man's world here and I feel my work and accomplishments, are overlooked! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

- This is not really a romance question but I know there are some people here who could maybe help me with this. I am working on a government committee and I have written some resolutions which were voted the best in the area that I live in. I travelled out of town at my own ... (303 words)

My husband of 8 years cheated before we got married and NOW he tells me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 8 years just told me about having sex with another girl about 2 years before we got married. I was immediately tooken back when he told me this last night. I mean, why now? Why didn't he tell me then? I tell you why, because I would've left him in a heartbeat. Now ... (283 words)

How do I get over my best friend's boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel a bit jealous of my best friend's relationship with her boyfriend. Also i used to like him and i sort of still do. I hate thinking of them together. But i want to get over this. I don't want to tell my friend how i feel because i don't want her to feel she "owes it to ... (83 words)

What could I do to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want to know what I can do to make my guy go crazy sexually. I don't feel like Im satisfying him well enough and would like to get more of a reaction out of him. All the things I do to him: I give him oral sex which I love doing, but the last time I got kinda faded ... (154 words)

It's always me who rings.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - It's always me who rings!! I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore who is pretty down on his luck - his girlfriend has split with him temporarilly, he is out of work and hence does not have much cash!! This guy knows I love him and is happy for me to call him and arr... (127 words)

"He doesn't want to cut in on his grass"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was chatting to a guy at work today and he used a phrase, "he doesn't want to cut in on his grass" when we were chatting about another guy I work with. Has anyone heard this before and if so what does it mean.... (46 words)

What can I do to be less needy and not want her time all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16. She's the kind of girl that doesn't have to see me for a whole day to call it spending time and I'm the exact opposite and so I need help to find a way to where I can become the same way so I'm not so (needy - I guess you can call it) but ... (101 words)

We have been getting intimate at the cinema. I don't mind, but I don't want to get caught!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, im 18 and my gf is 19, we both go to the cinema to get some alone time because we can never anywhere else, and we want to go farther, weve started to get a little more intimate at the cinema, shes given me a handjob already, she wants this to carry on, what do... (89 words)

My wife is cheating, but doesn't want to leave me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Thing between my wife and me have not been right for a while. She has been chatting a lot to other men online. A while back I found out that she was sending naked pictures to these men. I thought she stopped but recently she started talking to an old school friend. She started ... (190 words)

I am having an affair with someone who is in a relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been having an affair with a guy from school. he has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for about a year. we have not had sex, including oral sex, but we have been messing around and spending nights together. this has been going on for about two weeks. my friends ... (144 words)

Can you get a false positive on a clamidia test?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was just wondeering whether a positive clamidia test result could be wrong? I have just been tested and the result was positive. But I am wondering because I have only ever been with one man, ever. I hve only ever done anything sexual with one person. My partner has h... (134 words)

Why is he being grumpy and cuddling another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months, but recently hes been really moody and grumpy im not sure whether this is related to his new job as he has to get up early for. I am also worried that he is going off me, as last weekend he had a girl come down to visit whom ... (183 words)

Do I really like him even though I don't know him personally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i have met a boy 2 years older than me on an online game. we have been talking dirty to each other qiute a lot and i like it. the problem is that i really like him but i dont no whether i should ask him if he likes me and if we should be together as i dont no him personally. ... (169 words)

Love or just sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiyah..well this is kind of embarresing but i need to ask sum1.:S well to start of with the first time i had sex was when i was 14 with this lad that i am currently having sex with now.i am now 15. i feel like i love him.. but the problem is..he doesnt luv me back.. wel... (301 words)

My ex slept with me and his new girlfriend is sleeping with her ex!

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, last nite i had sex with my ex bf of about 2 weeks he left me to go bk to his ex but there having problams, they are not together but there trying to work it out the thing is she doesnt trust him, Anyway, shes been having her ex round to stay and i mean in the same bed... (182 words)

Does he hug me just to get me to shut up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello my boyfriend allways when we talk he stares at me smiling, and hugging me, does this mean that he doesn't give a crap of what I am speaking? does he hugg me for me to shut up? Guys please opinions... (41 words)

Have you ever loved someone you couldnt have?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

- Has anyone else ever fell in love with someone who you cant have? Either cos they are already with someone or they just dont love you back? I feel so alone. Im head over heels in love with this guy and have been for 5 years. Weve never had a proper relationship but we have been ... (122 words)

My wife is cheating to relieve her depression

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

30 October 2008 (?) age 41-50 - my wife is cheating on me, she's been very depressed lately over losing her daughter's custody. suddenly she changed and i didn't know how, she became more active and happy, just a week ago my wife's best friend told me that my wife's having a relationship with a guy she met at ... (101 words)

I miss my ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last summer, I met a guy that completely stole my heart. Although at first I didn't notice him, when we started hanging out my attraction to him was undeniable. The more time I spent with him, the more I fell for him. Eventually I told him how I felt and he told me he felt the ... (823 words)

We should be close to the same stage in life now, right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I never saw it as a problem but everytime we have an argument my gf says it is because or ages are different and we are in a different stage in our life as i am looking to settle down whereas she is not yet ready to settle down, we have been together for 5 years and I thought ... (136 words)

How do I stop thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey people I have an issue. Don't worry i have plenty of tissues. I really like this guy at school and I know that he will never like me like I like him. (I apoligize for all the "likes" in that sentence)So how do I stop thinking about him. ... (49 words)

What should I do when I see him? Should I say Hi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of months ago, i decided to get a friend to ask a boy out for me, because i really liked him and i was too busy crying because it was the last day of school lol, and we were both going to different schools to each other after that. My friend came back and told me he'd ... (222 words)

I want to get to know him, but I'm really shy around boys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really shy around boys. when i talk to my girlfriends i cant stop chatting but when it comes to boys I cant speak like for example the other day a guy i fancied said " hello how are you " All i could say is " fine and u? " and he says " fine " That's how our conversation ... (90 words)

He's got a secret cell phone, could he be cheating on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I think my husband is having an affair! my husband has a cell phone that i "accidentally" found out about! he says his mom gave it to him. he hides it ALL the time, and if i ask to see it, he gets mad. the one time he let me hold it for a minute, i noticed that it had a ... (119 words)

My fiancee isnt affectionate at home, just when we are out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He is very sweet. I love him and I know he loves me. We are getting married nov2208. He isn't very affectionate. Well to me he still holds my hand and puts his arm around me. He wants me to go everywhere with him. but it seems like when ... (72 words)

I'm a married woman, but can't stop e-mailing my online man.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman now for 17 years with three kids. Recently I met this married man online. We have talked now for like three months straight. Only of course when he's at work. I sit and wait for his emails day in and day out. Someday we talk all day back and forth and other ... (149 words)

My ex insists on coming to me for advice and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. My ex insists on coming to me for advice. He is basically obsessed with my best mate (talk about rubbing salt in the wound),and he never shuts up. so i told him that id find out if she would ever go back with him to shut him up. i know fine well my best friend will say... (130 words)

What are signs that he 's falling out of love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for a year now and just recently moved into a beautiful place. Everything is going great just that since moving in together we've been having less sex. We went from having sex together everyday, to only once a week after moving in together. ... (201 words)

How do I tell him that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there is this lad that i really fancy and i can't stop thinking about him. He is really good looking and got a lovely personality and i would love to go out with him. My friends all say that he fancies me too n whenever we are together we always flirt with eachothe... (101 words)

I like two completely different guys. Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i like two guys , i cant decide unless i make a mistake The first guy i like is the lead singer in a populare local band, hes allright looking, got a great sense of style.. but he can act like an idiot sometimes which embarrases me, he is soo skinny and often comes acro... (198 words)

Things are moving so slowly... does she just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been getting close to a girl for the pst three months. Started off emailing and texting with the old paranoia of 'does she like me?'. then we started hanging out- cinema- meals etc. eventually i told her i liked her- she reciprocated. Then i told her last week i'd like to ... (527 words)

He liked me when I was underage... now I'm 24 and he wants to go out with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 24 now and he likes me now too. Obviously the age gap is okay now, but what do ... (187 words)

I want to end this two year affair... NOW!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi- I am looking for Advice on a situation that I have been in for 2 years. I have been married for 14 years and only started cheating 2 years ago. I have had many lovers in those 2 years (I know that it's wrong) I have ended all of the cheating and sneaking around except for ... (138 words)

Is he just with her to make me jealous???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think he wants me back but playing mind games! I split with ex of 2 an half year 3 month ago because he drank to the extent he became a horrible person, I asked him to quit and he said he couldn't. Since then he got a new lass who he's been with for a month. She's twice his ... (203 words)

What does the word "emotionally" really mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, what does emotionally mean? I mean if someone says "I've never been close emotionally to someone before..." what does it mean?? I'm a bit confused ... (29 words)

Doctor Troubles

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - For the last 3 weeks ish I have been feeling so depressed and my mum booked me an appointment for the doctors tomorrow but she can't come with me and I'm scared that the doctor will think I am overreacting because I'm on my own and not take it seriously. I know I need help and ... (73 words)

I'm really beginning to HATE his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

- The girl that my ex dumped me for has put pics of him and her on her facebook page and I found them this morning. I feel so bitter I keep going to write her a nasty message but then stop half way through cos I know it will make me look bad. But It would also make me feel a lot ... (112 words)

Dating a friend's ex equals insecurity

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm dating a fantastic girl right now. We've been good friends for years, we absolutely head over heels for each other, sex life is great, etc. etc. There's just one thing that's causing me a bit of a hangup: she's the ex of a really good friend of mine. I was friends with... (575 words)

What is it like to have a significant other who can't get over your past.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - There are a lot of questions on this site from guys who couldn't deal with their girlfriend's pasts. I'd like to know what it is like for the girl that has had a boyfriend or husband like this. What happened in your case? Did he ever get over it? Did he end up leaving you? ... (74 words)

We get on great but lately I've been feeling this distance from him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. We always have had a great time together, I make him laugh and I thought that he might be the one. Lately however, I have been feeling this distance from him. Intitally it was just him not wanting to be close. He said it ... (267 words)

A question to those who broke up with their first love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - A little question for whoever fits this category. Has a lad ever split up with their first love, hung on and not known what's going on for about 5 months and then been told that you can't get back together by her, that she wants a fresh start at uni etc then got back togethe... (65 words)

Do I continue to tell him how much I love him or do I just let him go and figure this out by himself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and this guy have been dating for about 5 months and in this 5 months we have only spent about 2 weeks apart! He is different from anyother guy I have ever dated. Well his wife in which they have been split for 2 years has started causing us problems they have 2 children ... (262 words)

Did I push him too far by putting him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have beein in a relationship for twelve years, and have children. My boyfriend and I were having problems and we broke up because of his flirting and he moved out. However we were back sleeping together soon after he moved out and I really thought we were getting back on ... (347 words)

He has asked me for a BJ. I am afraid if I say no that he will think I don't like him anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have never given a bowjob and i am scared that i will do t wrong and my boyfriens has asked me to give him and i am scared if i say no he think i dnt like him any more what do u thnk i should do ?... (49 words)

I want to dump my boyfriend for my ex who is in the same family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - am 18, he is 18 as well we have been dating for five and half months now but i do not love him as much as i did before. i want to dump him, but i do not know how. besides i want to leave him for the guy who is his flesh and blood family member that i dated before him. what ... (76 words)

I love her so much but am not totally happy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I love me girlfriend very much and I feel she loves me, but there are things in life that I want that she doesn't share, she doesn't share my ambitions in life and doesn't see our future as I see it. Is this something that we can get over or is it something that we can put ... (120 words)

Is he losing interest already?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 or 3 months and I'm having the time of my life. It seemed that he was too, but over the last 2 weeks or so he hasn't been sending me the cute little messages he used to or giving me compliments when we're together. I asked him lots of questions ... (447 words)

He's married now, but I am still in love with him! How do I stop these feelings?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in my very first serious relationship with a guy for 5 months before he left for basic training for the millitary, I didnt hear from him but slowly started finding out that there was another girl in his life, his ex girlfriend before me. we broke up because I told him I ... (542 words)

How can I let him know I would like to date him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

30 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i really like this guy named brian who works in the grocery store in my town. he's only 18 and i'm 15. i know he notices me because my mom says he will look at me when i'm pretending to ignore him. also when i go by myself he will flirt. and when i have a guy friend with me he ... (112 words)

Could his stalling mean his love has faded?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Quick question Mybfriend of a year said he wanted to move in with me (his idea) this year but now says its too soon and he has so much to sort with his house/mortgage. He is still being the same with me as before but does go distant some times (always has had his moments) I ... (121 words)

I have become insanely jealous! I know this isnt normal!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The fact is, I've never loved anyone before - but I am most definetly in love now with my amazing boyfriend. He's lived in my street for a few years and from the moment I laid eyes on him I knew I had to be with him. He was gorgeous; tall, dark and handsome - the type of guy ... (963 words)

Why do some people constantly disrespect others by trying to force their religeous beliefs on them

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is no doubt going to be a controversial topic but here goes: I am an atheist and quite happy with my beliefs. However I quite happily respect and accept everyone else's beliefs nor do I ever disrespect anyone else's beliefs / religions etc by forcing my atheist views on... (423 words)

Do you think my first love ever thinks of me, too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

30 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi would like know: does first love really last in a womens heart? eg - we went out at age of 13. she had few boyfrends, plus engaged and divorced now. but what i would like to know is does she think of me or even miss me? we see each other often but did not speak for about ... (69 words)

I feel alone and unwanted at school

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello peoples, i have a question. Right, at school, we just got 15 new people in September, so you know i started off friends with evryone, and all my friends from the previous year too. But in the last 2 weeks or so, i just feel like nobody likes me! Like, if i sit down in... (162 words)

Burnging and itching after being fingered

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend fingered me without asking and about a week after he did that, I got an itching problem and when I showered it burned. What could this be? There is no discharge.... (33 words)

Should I see a doctor about this stuff?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and lately ive noticed that my vagina has been having some problems. i have tryed fingering and so have other people but its just like way to tight and it hurts way to much. ive noticed that sometimes this white liquidy stuff comes out and is really smelly like urine sm... (121 words)

She seems to have lost her confidence and I don't want to lose her

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30 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - (I'VE ADDED MORE TO THIS PREVIOUS QUESTIONS AFTER BEING ASKED FOR ADDITIONAL INFORMATION) I've been getting close to a girl for the pst three months. Started off emailing and texting with the old paranoia of 'does she like me?'. then we started hanging out- cinema- meals et... (548 words)

Short question, What does this mean?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a simple short question, i know i sound silly but i was a little confused when someone said this to me, "i wouldnt think u would differ from the truth" what does this mean???... (42 words)

I am afraid he wont want to be with me when he finds out my age

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i have just started to talk to this boy on msn, and he sounds really nice but he's 16, and i'm 13. I'm worried that he won't want to be with me when he finds out. please help me i really like him... (43 words)

He's lost his confidence since I cheated on him and I don't like how it has changed his personality

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm in a long term relationship and currently engaged to be married in the next couple of years. The thing is, things seem different between me and my partner these days. It seems that over the years our roles have changed somewhat, I used to love how confident he was and ... (430 words)

He says hello to me. How can I get to know him?

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30 October 2008 (F)

- Theres this guy at my uni who I see around campus lots. I havent seen him in any of my classes, but he always looks me right in the eye, smiles and says hello everytime I see him (which is frequently). I smile and say hello back, but we never actually stop to talk. Im so shy, ... (103 words)

I had my period, could I be pregnant anyway?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - iam 24 years old,i slept with someone a month ago but i had my period and they lasted for the whole two weeks and usually they take 5 days,but now my problem is yesterday i started to vomitt,so what i wanna know is could i be pregnant? are these the signs please help.i really ... (56 words)

Could fingering get me pregnant?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I'm a little bit worried so I hope you can help. Last night I gave my boyfriend a handjob and he finished himself off - with cum on his hands. Afterwards he went to the bathroom and washed his hands and stuff (but I'm not sure if he used soap. You would normally... (115 words)

I would like a girls view on the situation

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30 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex split up about 5 months ago. We were each others first loves. We met up quite abit in the first month or so, then i found out she kissed her lad mate, so i disappeared and didnt speak for about 2 months, in that time i slept with another girl. Out of the... (436 words)

My wife can't get over my past...

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30 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my wife are having a hard time she cant get over my past. Now it seems that every time it seems that we are getting better she just goes back to my past. I admit that before i met her i was out of control I'm in the army and this has been the first time i've been away ... (154 words)

Is it wrong for me to masturbate the nights he works?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hello my husband works 4 nights a week we are in our early forties we have lots of sex no need for me to want more ,but at night time is when im horniest even though he pleases me is it wrong for me to masturbate on the nights he works?... (51 words)

I'm hurting because the person I love doesn't trust me.

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I come from a crazy past. I was an addict, i slept around and i just partied my ass off! Then just over a year ago i met a boy who helped me change into a much better perosn. I love him so much... I'd do anything for him. He's my best friend. But he always thinks I'm gonna or ... (200 words)

How can I make my girlfriend get back with me after I slapped her and beat my friends.

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30 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How can I make my girlfriend get back with me after I slapped her and beat my friends coz I was drunk and I dont know what took me that night. I was always the one against women getting hit or violence period and I'm the one involved in it so please tell me what i should do ?... (59 words)

I simply want to know... is he into me?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not sure how to tell when a guy is really into me. I started seeing someone who was into me a lot and wanted to spend tons of time with me right off the bat, but now all of a sudden, he doesn't feel like the same guy with that attraction and desire there as before (... (214 words)

Do guys like having their nipples sucked?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I need as much deatil as possible please A time or two I have had guys lick/nibble my ear and I really liked it, but I have never done it to someone else, and I would like to try it out, areas to avoid _________, certain areas only get ________ anything helps Also... (115 words)

Guys opinions.... does he mean what he says or does he want more?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So i have recently stopped things with someone i was seeing for a few years, and i have had feelings for someone in his circle of friends, hes not good mates with him but knows him... This guy has made it known that he is keen on me, but has also said he just wants a bit of ... (223 words)

Should you tell if you were with someone else whilst on a break?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So i have been with this guy for 2 years and i love him completely, but im really confused because lately i have had Major feelings for somone he knows. he isnt really mates with him. He is on his new footy team. I have spoken to him more than my guy has. Anyway My guy and i ... (327 words)

We both love each other but she doesn't want to go out with me.

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30 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old and I'm having a couple of problems. I have a best friend (a girl) and I've known her for 3 years but last year I started crushing on her, but this year I've been really obvious about how i feel. everyday i tell her i love her so much and she says the same. ... (104 words)

Is it normal for a girl to be REALLY tight?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering. Is it normal to be really really tight. People have tried to finger me but it just hurts way too much so we stop. The other night my boyfriend and I were talking about it and we thought maybe if we just went straight into having sex it might work. W... (133 words)

We broke up, now she's dating my best friend!

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30 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old me and my fiance were engaged for 6 months, we broke up a few weeks ago but I still love her with all my heart. She still talks to me sometimes she told me when we broke up she wouldn't date no one else that she would wait on me but she's started dating a boy ... (91 words)

Porn distresses me!

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30 October 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hey, I have a question, mainly for the ladies, but anyone who can help me is welcome to answer. In short, I have a huge problem with porn. It distresses me, I constantly allow it to make me feel insecure, inadequate, ugly, unsexy, you name it. Yes, I have a boyfriend, ... (392 words)

Signs a guy likes a girl

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I was just wondering what are some signs that a guy likes a girl?... (15 words)

What is my teacher playing at?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I need help. I just want to know what this means. Why does he do this? Who is he? He is my teacher, whom I have a little (by little I mean a lot)crush on. Why does he does this and what does it mean. One thing that you should know is that he was my teacher last yea... (170 words)

16 and still never been out on a date...

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30 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering... When is the age when you're a little old to not have had any kind of relationship with a girl? I'm 16 I'm good looking (I get that a lot not making it up) I'm a regular person with a regular life (I'm not wierd or crazy LOL) but I've never so much as ... (123 words)

My friend hates my ex, now I'm back with him... do I tell her?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex were together for a while then I broke it off then we were just on off like most teenagers do. Well my best friend hates him, and he and I talked and took a few weeks and worked out all of our problems... i really love him... I'm scared to tell my friend though. ... (191 words)

These rides to work are really pissing me off!

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 21 years. He has started a new job and is giving a female co-worker a ride to and from work. He picks her and her kids up in the am and takes the kids to daycare. Then after work around 3:30 he hangs out with her or other co-workers ... (265 words)

Why are my friends so mean to me?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello people of this earth! I need desprate help with my friends. I love my friends with all my heart, but sometimes I honest to God just want to die. Well, I'm not the most popular girl in school. I am actually considered nerd, geek, wierdo, freak, dork, and yeah the list goes ... (309 words)

She freaked out and doesn't want to have sex with me any more.

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30 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My fiancee and I just had sex for the first time. Well, some of you might not really call it that. I'll spare you the details. We were both virgins. She was even my first kiss. Basically we went slowly but once it was all the way in she started freaking out cause she didn't ... (335 words)

My gran's death has triggered off fears of dying... please help!

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. My gran passed away about a fortnight ago, coming up 3 weeks and I'm finding it really hard. She was only 65, but she had smoked all her life and in the end it was that which killed her. She knew she was dying right up until the end and I was lucky that I got the ... (806 words)

After my divorce, how can I keep close bonds with my son?

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30 October 2008 (M)

age - My wife of 14 years left me for another man, the divorce was final 8/28/08. She left on 5/2/07 and took our 12 year old son, as I expected. Since then my relationship with my son has deteriorated to the point that we haven't talked in over two months. At first we would talk 3-4 ... (356 words)

He hasn't called after 2 months so I've told him I'm seeing someone else (which I'm not) have I done the right thing?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I told him I was seeing someone else because 1. I wanted to let him know that while he was gone, I wasn't stuck on him and 2. that I am worthy of meeting someone who wants to be consistent with me. Thing is, that statement is only half-true. Though I implied I had a ... (599 words)

This is more of a vent than anything... your opinions are appreciated.

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30 October 2008 (M)

- I've read a number of posts on here about loving devoted men who are struggling with sexual frustration stemming from their loving partner's lack of interest in sex. So many people say do this, do that and be patient yet most of the questions seem to come from guys who ha... (460 words)

We're having a lot of arguments about the way she dresses.

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30 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I love this girl we are dating for a year and a half now she is soooooo sweet adorable lovely caring beatiful hot everything a man would want in a girl but lately we have been fighting a looooooot about the way she dressses... now I know it's silly and I should not leave her ... (141 words)

I'm not sure if he wants to take this further or not.

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy for almost two months and have been on couple of dates. The thing is that I'm not sure if he wants to take this further or not.. A couple days ago we were texting and he said he didn't want to be kissing me if I wasn't his girl friend. I said that I woul... (232 words)

Is she trying to imply that she just wants to be friends?

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30 October 2008 (M)

Are our lives predestined?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - We all know that things happen whether they are good or bad.... but do you think that whatever happens to you in your life was supposed to happen to you? I mean is it to teach you a lesson or is it just that things happen? What if it was bad, am I just suppsosed to say okay ... (74 words)

Could difficulty swallowing be due to oral herpes?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Could difficulty swallowing be due to oral herpes? What about a small white painful bump on the tip of the tongue that lasts more than a week or what about small bumps at the back of the throat and dehydration?This has been lasting a while now and when I eat it causes pain to ... (72 words)

3 years together and she doesn't even think she's ever been in love with me.

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30 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, My girlfriend moved out of state and asked me to join her which I did recently. She lives with her family and I live alone. We have been together for 3 years and a few months. She has been going to school full time and working a few nights a week. She told me that... (199 words)

Is there anything else I can try as in my state with anorexia I am unlikely to last longer.

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 years old, I have an ok life with a boyfriend who suffers from depression and sometimes lashes out due to alcohol and drug problems. I missed out on my teenage years due to being thrown out by my mum who left the country when I was 15 I lived on the streets of london for ... (378 words)

In a relationship and I am not happy...should I break it off?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and now I've become unhappy in my relationship. He's a great guy but we haven't had sex yet and yes we had the talk but he is paranoid about pregnancy. I'm on birth control but he can't help being scared. He wants to be with me and he ... (103 words)

How do you get past 'just friends' into a relationship?

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30 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have not had much luck with 'dating' girls, so therefore haven't really had a girlfriend. I think it is about time since I have been through 4 years of University, and still have not seemed to figure it out. How do you get past 'just friends' into a relationship? Ho... (99 words)

Do I tell him the truth or let him think I don't like him?

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old I have this thing called D.I.D which is basically a fancy term for multiple personalities. I lost the whole of yesterday to a black out and when i woke up this morning i had a voicemail from my boyfriend Cameron asking why I had said all the stuff I had last ... (118 words)

Love Crisis

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30 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no confidence in myself. I cant really talk to men because i'm shy. I have a crush on a guy in my local youth group. I never had a boyfriend before and I feel this is my problem with not getting one I really need your help.... (49 words)