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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm getting mixed vibes from him but I like him a lot.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

- Hoping people can help me here. I like a guy a lot and am getting mixed vibes from him... not sure whether he likes me or not but seems like he does. Today I got a long email from his buddy pretty much asking me to contact him. Is this guy trying to pawn me off on his buddy or ... (81 words)

My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I'm a virgin and I'm 18. I really do want to have sex but I take my virginity a lot serious. My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you. Do you think that's true in this case ... (79 words)

I will never like my bisexual friend as anything other than that... a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem... I have a male bisexual friend.... I am a straight female. He wants to have sex with me but I'm not interested because he is bisexual. He keeps asking me to come over his house but I keep telling him no but he is my best friend at the same time. He is ... (132 words)

What's the best thing to do when you get slagged off at school all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do when you get hurt by people slagging you a lot at school? xx... (17 words)

What's your definition of love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone please define love for me? Because I have this strong feeling for someone and I don't know if it's love or just infatuated love *-) xxx... (28 words)

He asked my friend that I contact him which I did but he hasn't replied, now I feel stupid.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy recently through one of my friends. We seemed to get on well and after that he asked my friend to get me to contact him. I decided to so I emailed him but he hasn't replied back to me. Now I feel stupid for getting in touch and also annoyed that he ignored me. ... (66 words)

I'm 18 and have never had my first kiss or a boyfriend.

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in college and have never had a relationship. I've never had my first kiss or a boyfriend. It's scaring me a bit because lately I've been thinking of myself as undesireable. It's not as if I'm drop dead ugly, I honestly don't know what it is that's making me an ant... (99 words)

I have trouble sleeping...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't a relationship question, and don't ask me to see my psychiatrist, cos some time I will get around to seeing her, it's just I've been so busy lately. I've been on Lexapro for seven months. I still have trouble sleeping sometimes, leg twitches, and I have gained up to ... (296 words)

How do you flirt with a girl who has been a close friend for several years?

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7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - how do you flirt with a girl who has been a close friend for 3 years now?... (17 words)

My ex and I still think about each other but I am planning marriage with another, when in reality I dislike this new relationship and wish I were single! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi ill get straight to the point! ive been very silly full stop. I was in a rocky relationship with my ex of four years on and off our problems were only caused to me basically acting like a little girl and causing arguments for the sake of it and being a bitch i was only 16-20 ... (721 words)

Do breasts look better pushed together or separated by a bra?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I my bra size is 30G and when I wear a bra my breasts are pushed together into a 2 inch cleavage line (most of which I do not normally reveal as I am not a HUGE fan of overly low cut tops). However when I am not wearing a bra my breasts fall out to the side and I don't has ... (179 words)

I'm so confused. Is my flatmate flirting with me? I want to know where I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im curious for other peoples opinions on where I stand with my relationship wth my flatmate. Now before anyone goes off on a "you should never date your flatemate" thing - that's not what I'm asking. Im simply asking for opinions as I'm not 100% sure. Basically I live in a ... (466 words)

What did he mean by this comment? He would if he could?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys, quick question. There is this guy I liked but he has a gf. But we were talking about me and how guys don't really see me as thgf type. He text me back once saying "all I can say is I would if I could". I just said to him I don't know what you mean and he said a... (89 words)

I think she wants me and is interested but why then does she refuse to talk?

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7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, i just cant understand this girl. she looks at me everytime and also her freinds do that and play with her hair. so today i was walking and hit her quitely just for special flirt !! and i think she wanted that because she didnt move from my way and there was... (146 words)

I am her first boyfriend, she is very nervous when I am close, how can I help her relax?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf is always very nervous when we are together especially when i hold her hand or touch her leg or when we kissed for the first time. She is very great to be around when she is nervous too but i sort of feel bad for making her feel nervous. And she said it was fine and we ... (107 words)

I am a week late, should I take a test or keep waiting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently a week late from my period I was to have it Oct 1 and still haven't had it. I have take two hbt and they both came out negative. But move lower stomach is tight, hurts, my boobs hurt and i'm always tired. I had a Miss carriage like seven months ago or so and just ... (79 words)

I want to spare my boyfriend the heartache when I die! Should I let him down gently by now? Or continue being with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend loves me and i love my boyfriend more than anything else in the world and i want to spend the rest of my life together with him (yes i am gay!) I have an inherited disease called Cystic Fibrosis and i wont live to be beyong my mid 20s. My boyfriend knows ... (143 words)

If my ex said he wanted to be my best friend, why doesn't he talk to me at all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

7 October 2008 (?) age 26-29 - My ex-boyfriend said he wanted to best friends....i broke up with him almost 2 months ago, and he wont talk to me. I asked if he was mad at me, and he said no. But if he says he wanted to be my best friend, why do you think he doesnt talk to me? Its been over 3 plus weeks since ... (71 words)

I don't get engaged in conversations as I am too shy to raise my opinion or even chat! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i am incredibly shy and do not get involved in conversations with my girlfriend or even some of my best friends because i am too shy to raise my opinion or even chat. my social life is in ruins because of my shyness and i am good in most subjects so people consider me as a... (64 words)

Should I tell my mum before she finds out herself?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well my question/problem is this- I am 15 and recently had sex with my boyfriend of 11 month. We both love each other and don't regret anything but recently one of my friends slept with a boy from school and her mum and dad found out via her texts.. so I was wonderin... (89 words)

My boyfriend is only able to cum through oral sex and not intercourse.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age - I am 49 and my boyfriend of 7 years is 38. We have sex 4-5 times a week. Lately, he is only able to orgasm through oral sex. Although I don't mind pleasuring him that way, I wonder why he is having trouble having orgasms through "regular" sex now. He doesn't have any ... (137 words)

I am gay and frightened to come out... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and gay. I have been since I was 15, I have a boyfriend, I have slept with him but no-one knows about us yet. I want to come out but I am frightened to death about what my friends and family will think. Also I haven't a clue how to come out, and by that I mean that I ... (152 words)

I feel insecure, I hate my looks and wish I had bigger boobs!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Help me, I'm such an insecure idiot... I hate my looks. I just feel very insecure. Especially with my boyfriend. Yes, he thinks I'm pretty and have a nice body. But there's this factor: a) I asked. He likes toned bodies and bigger breasts. Toning can be done. Boobs, nay. ... (445 words)

Do I play the waiting game for my mum's married friend who is the love of my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm seeing my mum's friend and my mum and dad are totally cool with it, this woman is 35, seperating from her husband, has 2 kids 12 and 5 and has told me she loves me and wants to spend the rest of her life with me, I am 18 and I can see myself havig a happy life with her, I ... (80 words)

Please help this stupid shy girl...

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7 October 2008 (F) age 36-40 - The problem is that I'm very shy around the guys I like. I am too shy to start a conversation and sth like that. At the moment there's a guy I see quite often, he sometimes works in a nightclub I often go to. So was the last week. I went with my friends to that club and I saw ... (276 words)

Is it normal that I'm feeling this upset and angry towards some humans who can do things like this to other living creatures?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

- Ok this is nothing to do with love I guess I'm just looking for comfort... I've just read the most horrific case of animal cruelty on the net and I'm in tears. I love animals and support the RSPCA. But sitting here now, I'm so upset by it, that I'm feeling a bit silly..... I... (124 words)

How can I improve our weird relationship?

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7 October 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hay everybody, I need advice because I really don't know what to think anymore. There's a guy in my class (let's call him Mark) who acts really weird. I'm not sure if he hates me or he likes me. We're both 18 years old. I like him because he's intelligent, honest and knows... (385 words)

Rumours are going round my boyfriend's sleeping with my EX!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, and my boyfriend's 25 and we live together. Our relationship's been great up until about 4 weeks ago. We were out shopping, and had fun in the sales, and I happened to see my ex (who lives in the same region/town as us). We got talking, and my boyfriend got on... (199 words)

No symptoms but late period....could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

- Im 24. In the middle of august I had unprotected sex. I thought I could of been pregnant but I came on my period on 5 september. The period was a lot shorter and lighter than usual. I didnt think much of it. Now Im 4 days late for my next one. I have not had unprotected sex ... (91 words)

Are we wrong in not wanting to go over to his parents because we don't want to be around his ex (who lives there now).

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently my fiance's ex girlfriend, "Kayla" has moved into his parent's house. He had a daughter, "Liza", with her about 3 years ago and has recently decided not to see Liza anymore. Kayla is a little loose in the head... she's popped people's tires and chased after my fiance ... (219 words)

Do I go back to the ex and think of what I've missed with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. Please help. I am currently taking a break from my boyfriend becuase I'm trying to get over my ex that I thought I was over but cleary am not. I broke up with my ex and had to change my number and email because he wouldn't leave me alone when I broke up ... (740 words)

Should I ask my best friend?

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7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my best friend have been really close, she makes me smile and help her when she's down. My little sister recently started to get to know her and they've become fast friends. But she started telling me that me and best friend seem like we have feelings for each other. A... (118 words)

Are we just friends with benefits or are we more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Maybe someone can give me advise. I have a friend with benefits and I feel like I am in love with him. He has told me that he loves me too but that we are friends not bf/gf. Since the day we met we spend alsmost everyday together. He wants me to come over right after work. my... (357 words)

What to do? Strange situation...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Well, basically, at the begginning of the year February time, me and my boyfriend had a bit of an argument, he had looked at my phone, seen I had text an ex who meant absolutly nothing to me, but I'd rather be friends than enemies at the end of the day and I knew that it ... (593 words)

Am I expecting too much from people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need some thoughts about this, I have been with my boyfriend 9 months, he has introduced me to his friends, I cannot say that his friends are bad people but they are people that I wouldn't choose to be friends with me because they dont have professional ambitions. But ... (335 words)

Why am I bleeding? (NOT my period)

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay basically, I'm a virgin, but a week ago i met this lovely guy, we got both were quite drunk and i dont have much memory of the night (neither does he, i still talk to him)- but i do remember kissing him quite a bit and then going into a bathroom with him- as far as i rem... (181 words)

Snickers is great but what is life like on Mars?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I are in our mid-20's and have been dating since high school. We're deeply in love but our sex live is less than perfect. I want it more often than she does, and also desire more variety in the act. She likes meat and potatoes sex once or twice a week,(or less... (370 words)

How should I handle this woman who is a danger to our household?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a situation that I need advice handling. I'll try to summarize as best I can for sake of shortness. My wife has a friend. This friend of hers is a long term friend so they are somewhat attached to each other. Her friend has a long history of some sort of mental illness, ... (409 words)

He asked me to get breast implants, I refused, but now I can't let go of the worry this has caused me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend asked me to get breast implants early in our relationship, and it tore me apart because I thought he already liked the way I looked. Why get together with someone if you're going to ask them to change? All of my boyfriends in the past had been proud of my appearan... (448 words)

How do we deal with his annoying ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am about to marry the best man that has ever come into my life i am divorced and have 4 boys my fiance was never married but has 3 boys w/ his ex. we have both been divorced/separated for 3 years. Everything is great except for the ex. she is rude and constantly calls and ... (250 words)

What should I do about my relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, i need an advise, me and my boyfriend were dating about 3 years, we did argue alot over stupid staf, the last time we got in to arguement things run out of control, he was trying to hold me back from breaking staf and some how i end up at the hospital with an broken arm, ... (175 words)

I need suggestions on how to cope with my jealousy of his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys my name is faith and i am having a bit of an issue. i cannot seem to get over this jealousy of one of my bf's ex girlfriends. We have been dating for a year now and im sure your thinking oh my gosh not another one of these. well my story might be a little different. i ... (340 words)

Me and my girlfriend split three days ago, but I want her back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've just broken up with my girlfriend, we was only going out for a short period of time, we broke up because she said we kept argueing. but i still want her back, is there any way to find out wether she likes me still, without out being to obvious?... (54 words)

Is he not interested, or is he just in a bad place, having lost his mum?

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7 October 2008 (F)

- well two months ago I met a guy when I was out we really hit it off. He explained how he has not chatted a woman up for 2 years and is very out of practise. Also he told me how his mum was really ill and how hard things were. Well over the next month we stayed in contact by ... (521 words)

I don't know how to give a blow job. And do you remove the tampon before having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya. My boyfriend keeps dropping really obvious hints that he wants a blow job. It's not that i don't want to give him one because he have had sex, but i've never given one before and i dont want to seem stupid. So any tips? Also my friend has sex while she's on her period, ... (65 words)

I'm under 21 and can't go out for a drink with him and his friends! Shoutd I be hurt or embarrassed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 39 and I am 19. Despite the age difference, we have a good relationship. We have been together almost a year. The only age related problem we have is that he doesn't want me to meet his friends because they may ask us to go "grab a drink" and since I am not ... (169 words)

Should I stand by my demand? To me, marriage is NOT glorified dating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I, was going for 8 1/2 years we had our ups and downs, but what relationship doesn't. When we had our son he finally realized that he wasn't happy and wanted to leave the relationship. I didn't stop him because I'm not going to force anyone to be with me. And ... (916 words)

I used to last for 45 minutes... now I'm down to 5 and embarrassed! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So, my fiance and I use to do it like rabbits.(we did it for 100 days straight almost!!) Its died down a bit which is normal. My problem is, I use to be able to have sex for a good 45 minutes or so, now I last no more than 5. She is getting very frustred and I am embarassed to ... (66 words)

Young love in trouble! I changed my whole life around to be with him and he does this CRAP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband is in the navy so he's in Virginia at the moment I am in California. I am expecting his child, about a month ago I was looking through our phone bill an there was this one Virginia number that kept coming up at first I pushed it away and didn't think nothing of it ... (300 words)

How do you ask out your best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - how do you ask out a girl whoe has been your best friend for a very long time?... (18 words)

Is he confused about this new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to him and we were friends with benefits for months but i felt like I was being used so I said no more. He then asked me to be his girlfriend and intoduced me to his friends as his gf but then he started to freak out about this new label and said that he ... (236 words)

Was I drugged and raped?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend is the same age as me and we have been close friends for about four or five years. he recently developed a problem with cocaine. i wanted to offer him my support and friendship and help him get off the drugs, so after he agreed that he wanted to quit i have kept in ... (672 words)

Is there anything else I could put in the room to make it even more special and romantic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hey all, my girlfriend is going away for a few months. i have organised a really fancy dinner, and a posh hotel room, for our last evening, i have some surprises for her along the way...and i am also going to put some things in the hotel room before we come, like champagne some ... (90 words)

I cheated on my husband 6 years ago with his best friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I cheated on my husband 6 years ago with his best friend. I told him after the fact and we have been together ever since. We are still friends with his friend. We have 3 children together and I love him with all of my heart. He is my world. There were other things that led up ... (240 words)

I think this girl is amazing and a personality to die for and I want to be with her but what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I have known a girl for 4 years. We were quite close but this year have really grown to like this girl and I eventually asked her out. We saw each other all Saturday and Sunday and we were brilliant together. But on Sunday night I got a call saying that she found it a little ... (119 words)

Should I have left a long time ago to make my step daughter happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm going to try to make this as short as I can, but not sure if I can... there's a lot of history. I have been married to my 2nd husband for 12 years. I have three children from my first marriage and he has one daughter from his first marriage. We won custody of his daughter... (1234 words)

Should I tell him and risk our friendship, or let him find out from someone else, which would perhaps lead to an awkward confrontation between him and me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy at college, who I've become close to! At first I hardly spoke to him but now we never shut up and really get along - as friends!! But the thing is, I don't see him just as a friend. From the moment I saw him, I instantly had a crush on him (Which was why I was ... (387 words)

Do you think he has genuine feelings for me or do you think he is trying to break up and still look like the good guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online and we began dating, he was very intense, talking about future and using the love word(albeit indirectly) after just a few weeks. We were getting on great and he bombarded me daily with texts etc, then last week discovered he was back online on the dating ... (234 words)

What's the best way to remove hair from the bikini line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What is the best way to remove the bikini area hair? Is it just shaving or any good products that you could recommend. Thank you... (25 words)

He says I'm his soul mate but he doesn't want to be with me anymore...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge problem... and I don't really know what I need to do. This guy I've been with for just over 2 years decided he didn't want to be with me any more. But he still says that I'm his soulmate and that he loves me more than anything. I'm so Confused! We were engaged for ... (168 words)

Can anyone help me with a few thoughts on how much time and space I should give this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Ladies, (or gents) can anyone help me with a few thoughts on how much time and space I should give this girl? I have been spending some time lately with a girl I like a lot. We have a lot in common and want a lot of the same things in life (home in the country, children etc) ... (202 words)

Is there anything I can do to get her to clean up and seek marriage counseling? Is it even worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for a little over three years now. We have 2 beautiful children whom we love dearly. She believes I had an affair or multiple affairs and cannot stop dragging this through the mud. She went so far as to have me arrested, thrown in jail on ... (208 words)

Please help me build the courage to leave my abusive boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has verbally abused and verbally abused and verbally abused me for months. He blamed it on the fact that he was going through a rough time in his Life and that it would pass as soon as he found a job. He has found a job and it hasn't stopped. He accuses me of... (897 words)

I want to ask her if there's someone else but I'm afraid of the answer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is hanging out a lot with her friends. I am okay with that because she should have her own private time to do what she likes and with the people she wants to. Usually, she goes out for her hobbies. I tried to like what she likes but it ain't working. Instead... (258 words)

Getting the love back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am worried about my marriage. My husband is very negative, introspective and moany. He hardly ever looks forward to or shares excitement about anything. He's really focussed on nitty gritty things like not wasting water, how many times we flush the loo, not letting the ... (195 words)

My boyfriend is a functional alcoholic, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do I have to pay for my boyfriend being a functional alcoholic? Why do I get called names by him when he is drunk, He belittles me in front of friends, He does not talk to me, he tell mes that he has NO problems and that I am the problem, (he hides all of his problem behi... (500 words)

Is he over it or am I fooling myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been through a lot in 4 years. It started with a break up and he met another girl. Then we got back together with my assumption nothing ever happened between them because I believed what he said. I would catch texts and phone calls from her and we would ... (198 words)

I'm obsessed by this girl... what to do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

7 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Long story. It began in early 2005, I had recently moved and joined a new school in the 11th form. I used to take the bus to school, and well, there was this girl who was on the same bus... and during every ride we took on the bus, every day, over the next several months, we ... (1093 words)

I worry about my boyfriend constantly for no reason.

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I keep wanting my boyfriend to be with me all the time and I think it's annoying him. We've been together just over 2 years. The thing is I always worry about him and ask him to let me know when he gets where he's going. I've worried so much before that it's made me feel sick ... (130 words)

47 and confused about my sexuality...

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7 October 2008 (M)

age - Dear cupid I have a real good friend that has a girl frind. The other night we had some drinks and he said that he thought I was gay but in my heart of hearts I feel that I am not but for some reason I got the feeling that he wanted me to give him a blowjob I felt that I would ... (72 words)

Does sex disappear in all relationships?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she gone off me??... (52 words)

I need some guys opinions...would you guys care if a girl had scars on her breasts from reduction surgery?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A few years back I had a breast reduction surgery...and while I am more comfortable in my clothes I must say that I'm not so comfortable outside my clothes...the surgery has left me with scars and one of my nipples is a different shape than the other. Although I'm a very ... (130 words)

I want to leave my boyfriend for another man but don't want to hurt him.

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help me. I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years with my bf, I am 35. Things are not going good. 2 years ago we were so happy to find out we were having a baby (no kids previously or since), but things went very wrong and we lost it at 16 weeks. I was ver... (310 words)

Pregnant on the pill? First time user needs reassurance

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Been on microgynon 30 for almost 3 months now, and have only just started having sex just with the pill (only done it once on sunday, we're all in the clear regarding STIs etc) with my bf, but lo and behold I'm still worried. I've been on time for all my pills in my curr... (96 words)

How can I stretch my vagina in preparation for sex?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyrfriend of a year and half are planning on having sex within the next two months. i was wondering how i can possibly stretch my vagina out as it is quite tight. yes, we will be using a condom.... (44 words)

I love her but now she has moved away! What can I do?

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7 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i have a friend who i have known since 5 years. i love her to the bottom of my heart. she know i love her. i should not say this but i have always helped her going out of my way. now she's taken me for granted. she' shifted to another country. what should i want to make her... (68 words)

She said she was ok with the fact I have a girlfriend and baby, but now has disappeared!

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7 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a problem and i don't know how to get out of this, i have a girlfriend who also a mother of my son, as we are not living together i happen to fall in love with another girl, i told her that i luv her but i have another one who have my child even if i have another girl ... (91 words)

She's left me because she wants a kid at 30 and didn't think I could give her that.

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7 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years now and this year was the year I was going to ask her to marry me. All she's gone on about since January / February this year is when are you going to ask me to marry you, when are we going to have babies, So I always answered with "o... (959 words)

Is cheating still bad if my bf wont find out?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i love my boyfriend but i want more. he can be quite shy when it comes to even leg touching and he says he wants to kiss me but he always chickens out, and we ave had PLENTY of opportunitites! but there is this guy i like who is prepared to go all the way if i want and he knows... (92 words)

Must I move back home to a man that can not trust me and who is verbally abusive and make all these threats or must I move on with my own life?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody, I have been engaged for 16 years and every year I ask my fiance when will we get married and his answer is always one day well. This past year he just doesn't want to do any thing with the family, he always comes home after work and sits in front of the TV and ... (422 words)

I dream of my boyfriend with other women!

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I am a 26 year old. I have a great sex life with my boyfriend. But I have one strange problem. I like to fantasise other girls having sex with my boyfriend. It is a huge turn on. I like to fantasise that I am watching him while he has sex with another girl. I like the fact ... (111 words)

She seems so distant with me now...

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7 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. It has been 6 months since I worked and move to a different country. The first month I got here, the distance makes her miss me more and more. I feel great and for a moment, I think long distance relationship isn't bad at all. To save phone bill, we use instant messenge... (389 words)

I feel so guilty that I cheated on my boyfriend of 3 years with his best friend, now I can't stop thinking about him.

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I'm 20 and I have a boyfriend. We've been together for about 3 years now. I really love him a lot, we're kind of a "happy couple", you know. But 2 months ago, I cheated on him with his best friend. We went to a birthday party together (my boyfriend, let's call him X, his ... (266 words)

What is the definition of an 'alpha male'? Come on, ladies!

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7 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - LADIES, LADIES, LADIES! Pray tell: what is your definition of an 'alpha male' exactly? Also: what do you mean when you say that a guy 'is out of your league'? Is it better to go out with a guy who is at the top of your league, or one who is at the bottom of the next league ... (86 words)

Do I just block her out of my life completly or should I do something to try and get a relationship to work?

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7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 18 I think I'm love with a girl but I can't be with her. I met this girl 2 years ago and we went out for 3 months. But she lives over 5 hours away by car. We tried a relationship but it didn't work and we broke up. I thought it was just a crush and I would get over her... (136 words)

Why does it hurt everytime I have sex as much as the first time?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about two weeks. We have done it about 8-9 times and every single time it hurts just as much as the first time. I don't understand why my body won't adjust and it seems that even if i take a little while off from it it hurts more. I... (71 words)

My boyfriend proposed and I said no because I wasn't ready. I feel guilty.

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7 October 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 3 years proposed to me. I told him no because i'm not ready to get married. I do feel a bit guilty cause he was a little upset. We've been fighting about dumb stuff (like who forget take out the trash.) What should I do? The guilt is killing me. ... (56 words)

Halloween - Going as a sexy she devil. But what could he be?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going to be a Sexy She Devil for Halloween. My boyfriend kinda wants to match with me but we can't really come up with any ideas for what he could be. anyone got any ideas?? thanks a lot.... (42 words)

I keep catching my supervisor looking at me as I've become more curvy. Does this change his opinion of me?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I work a seasonal job, so once a year for about a month I get to get together with my coworkers and friends again. It doesn't feel like a job, more like a family. My superviser, only about 4 yrs older than me treated me like a little sister last year, but now im 18 and i feel ... (140 words)

I think she wants to see other people during our break. What do I do?

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7 October 2008 (M) - Last sunday my Girlfriend said we need a break, that she needs her space. OK i understand that and i am giving her space, she wants to call me ever couple days just to stay in touch, so i know she cares, but i think she wants to see other people what should i do. P.s I car... (71 words)

I try to start a conversation with him to be civil and I always end up embarrassing myself.

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - how can i stop making an idiot out of myself when i see this guy? we have a past,though not a very long one.but definetly a personal one.i work in a very public place,and i see him come in there often.sometimes ive ignored the fact tht hes there and pretend i dont see him.a few ... (210 words)

How do I get him to shape up?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so me and my guy have been on and off FOREVER! i love him and i know he loves me. so heres the problem hes so wishy washy and changes his mind all the time. hes affarid to grow up and accept respondibility for any thing. we both know we have issues to work on and it's like i do ... (140 words)

My boyfriend gets angry more easily now, and we fight a lot. Is there anything going on?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy for almost 2 years now. He's a really great guy, but in the last few months I have been noticing a few changes. He gets angry more easily, we fight constantly (mostly about porn and him spending time with me) and we only see each other on the weekends. ... (94 words)

I fixed the car and he got mad - what's the big deal?

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7 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and me went on a rode trip. But our car just had to broke down. He was going to waste about $1000 just to get it fixed, when I have the skills to fix it (I keep a tool box with me just in case.) When I fixed it for him, he seen ungrateful. bf: ``You I know I c... (111 words)

Will our baby's name be hyphenated if we can't come to an agreement?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I live in Saskatoon, Sask. and am unmarried, and 5 months pregnant. The father is still around but we are no longer together as a couple. I want the baby to have my last name but he wants it is, I heard that if we can't agree the baby's name will be hyphenated but I've always ... (85 words)

My husband left me, and won't return my calls. What do I do?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for 2 years my husband left me n said he cant live with me anymore I really love him and want him home we have a 3 year old girl aswell. he won't cum n pick his gear up or answer my calls or txts I have supported him finacially since weve been married and now ... (71 words)

How much do guys fantasize about other women when they're having sex with their girlfriends?

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7 October 2008 (F) age 30-35 - How much do guys fantasize about other women when they're having sex with their girlfriends? I know I never think about other guys when I'm having sex with my boyfriend, but I'm curious about how it is for guys. I once asked my boyfriend, but he said he only thinks of me. This ... (102 words)

We date on and off, but we can't seem to talk face-to-face.

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7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a high school student (first year)and it seems throughout the past 2 yrs me and the girl have been dating on and off for quite a bit (maybe 4 times) and we always get close over the internet and txt messaging, but at school it seems like she always hangs around her friends ... (138 words)

Told him I miss him and he said I shouldn't miss him because he doesn't deserve it and asked me to not fall in love with him because that truly scares him and he doesn't want to hurt me.

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am completely perplexed. I have been dating my boyfriend for going on five months now and I was just starting to fall for him hard though I have not told him I love him. We weren't able to get together this weekend because he spends every other weekend with his child from a ... (223 words)

Crush in the workplace...

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I work at a hospital as a RN. There is a physician that I find so attractive. He is always touching and rubbing my arms, shoulders, hair, and hands. He is around 59 years old and I am only 30. I can't stop thinking about him. I heard he flirts around with everybody but I ... (174 words)

My husband's friends are "coming on to me" and it's making me uncomfortable.

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure where to begin with this without making it a long drawn out story, so I'll do my best to make it short and sweet. My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years now and during that time we have aquired mutual friends. I'm not by any means bragging but, ... (248 words)

I'm bisexual and my "friend" is coming to spend the night.

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and I'm bi. I haven't really done a lot with girls but this Friday my good friend is coming to spend the night her and we are planning on doing stuff with each other. I'm kinda nervous. Does anyone have advice on what it will be like? and if theres stuff we should do ... (87 words)

Is her dad too over protective of her?

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7 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 1/2 months her dad is really protective. We were holding hands this weekend and later he asked her "Are your hands on each others legs when you hold hands at all?" her being the good daughter and obedient tells the truth which I don't ... (169 words)

How does the outcome look?

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7 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Was with my boyfriend for about 6 years.. and it was a long distant relationship. He broke up with me because i called him a wrong name.. and he was helping me a lot with finances. Not only calling him a wrong name he says he felt like a door mat and he got burned.. financially ... (743 words)