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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I wait for this guy when we had such a wonderful relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! 4 months ago I met a guy who was in the process of breaking up with his girlfriend. He was very open about this, but also said he was very attracted to me and after he ended things with his girlfriend we began the most amazing relationship - random people would come up ... (304 words)

I've never cum when I'm having sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never cum when I'm having sex... the only time I have cum is when I do it myself with him helping out... any suggestions? ... (25 words)

How can I look at her without thinking about the fact that she slept with someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I seperated for a few months. We dated other people, she said was only dating to get to know other people, however we decided to get back together last week and she told me that she had sex with someone else. I know we were on a break (Ross and Rachel) but I am ... (131 words)

Why insist on meeting me when you have nothing to say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I need some advice on this situation - broken up for more than one year - he cheated and lied a lot. Kept in touch/contact. I was in his city with some friends this weekend and he insisted on meeting. So we did meet for dinner with my friend - but no conversat... (109 words)

Does a circumsised penis feel any different during sex to an uncircumsised penis for the man or woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Does a circumsised penis feel any different during sex to an uncircumsised penis for the man or woman? Is it unusual for someone to have the snip for the sake of prefering the way it looks? I'm uncircumsised and I'm happy with my penis when erect but when it's flacid my ... (71 words)

How can I find somebody who truly loves me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello.. I'm 20 years, I'm working like a model.. i have never had this kind of troubles, but i don't know what's wrong with me ?.. a couple of days ago a guy asked me out.. so I said yes! then he call me and said I'm sorry but i can't go there.. i have a trouble sorry! .. nothi... (241 words)

I married the wrong person and I just want her out of my life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is there anyway to divorce without money? And also if the wife doesn't want to get divorced? I married the wrong person and I just want her out of my life, but because she gets so many benefits with me I guess she doesn't wanna go back to being broke. Is there anyway to get her ... (68 words)

He says I'm too old for him but I'm only a year older!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I met this guy I really like but he's an 8th grader and I'm a 9th grader. When I asked him out he said he wanted to date someone closer to his age and I'm only a year older than he is but he says he like likes me back. He's totally confused me by liking me back and then saying ... (69 words)

Am I too old at 19 to still be living with my parents?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) age 30-35 - At 19 years old [a few months away from 20] am I right in thinking I'm far too old to still be living with my parents? I'm going to community college, but can't drive and consequently don't have a job, so there's not much hope of moving anywhere until I can get that license.... (93 words)

Was he just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been seeing this guy for 4 months and we had sex and I got worried coz I didn't want to get used so I asked him if he was using me and he said no, I really do like you and I would never use you, so we were having sex for a while and then all of a sudden he stopped ... (126 words)

My sister is making my life a misery...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - 3 things happened today with my sister 5 year old lives with me and my girlfriend for personal reasons. 1) I got an angry call from my sister's teacher saying she call a dark skinned girl the and word. Her teacher said she went home in tears and her parents are threaten... (210 words)

I'm starting to fall for my ex school mate...

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25 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there. I just want to ask for your opinon. I am starting to fall for my ex school mate. I've known her for 6 years and I've always liked her. I even had a crush on her at some point. We came to be good friends, but the thing is I don't see her often, but I am still ... (74 words)

Should I alter my lifestyle slightly to allow me to meet more women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm in my early 30s and struggle to find the right type of partner. I have been dating women I'm not really attracted to as sometimes I feel in need of female company. I've decided to stop that as it's just wasting mine and their time. I don't particularly go out of my ... (226 words)

What is asperger's syndrome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone tell me exactly what aspergers syndrome is? x... (11 words)

Is my boyfriend gay???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is stereotypical, but the only time he gets off is when he has sex from behind. And he always want to have anal. Just recently we watched an immoral video, i believe, about some horse f*****g a guy. I was disgusted. He was amused, watched it again, and got hard. He ... (181 words)

Am I making the right choice here?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I gave him my virginity, and now he wants it over and over again (I'm 15 and he is 15) and I try to tell him no but he pushes me too hard and just say yes. Am I making the right choice yes or no? Please answer my question, I ... (67 words)

Does this mean I don't really love my fiance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Evening all, I have been with my fiance for 5 years (we have a long distance relationship) and the initial spark has gone for me.. he however is still loving and attentive as he was when we 1st got together. I do love him but I no longer get that excited feeling when we ... (152 words)

Am I in love or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have a wonderful boyfriend who treats me like a princess and i do love him and i like being in a realtionship-we have been together 4 years. Heres the thing- a few of my colleagues and friends are single and they all go on about their 1st dates and get excited about th... (121 words)

Was he just trying to be a good neighbour or does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, About a week ago I posted a question about my next door neighbour saying that I had a bit of a crush on him. Well, about 5 days ago I had a genuine problem with my heating and hot water system and as I had no-one around to help at the time, I thought I would go... (185 words)

Why is it that nowadays, looks are the only important thing to people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Why is it that nowadays, looks are the only important thing to people? Personality doesn't matter anymore. It's all about hotness. Personally, it annoys me. The pretty girls get everything; boys, money...but if you're overweight, no one cares. You might be the pretties... (112 words)

Why does my husband not want me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for less than a year. We have sex only 2 or 3 times a month. Is this normal? I realize there is no 'normal' but come on! When we first got married I would find porn on his computer a lot. I tried to talk to him about it several times ... (312 words)

Is she playing with my head? Should I just tell her how I feel about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've got this friend. I'm 21, and she's in her early 30's. We're quite close but not in a 'talk to her every day capacity'. But, I know I can trust her to go talk to her if I'm trying to deal with something. I met her about 5 years ago, and we instantly hit it off, but we b... (362 words)

Why do I still care? Why do I still want to talk to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some final advice on this matter and Im not sure why I cant get over it. The guy Ive been 'waiting' for and liked has used me, disrespected me, ignored me and lied to me many many times in the past year. When we started hanging out, i thought as a couple, he was s... (251 words)

What can I do to get some line of communication open?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age - My husband divorced me after 15 years. I tried everything to make him try again and not give up after so long but he didn't care. Since then things have been very bitter between us by him holding out on money and me being very difficult over him spending time with the children. ... (258 words)

I cannot face intimacy with my husband - how do I decide what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I cannot face intimacy with my husband - kissing, hugging or full blown sex. My husband has been emotionally and physically abusive and I have tolerated it. In addition his family have also been emotionally abusive to me - again which I tolerated and was made to feel guilty ... (349 words)

I've been having an affair with my boss. How can I end it and explain to him what it is I'm looking for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Im seeing a bloke at work and he's my boss. Were both married. (yeah i know im stupid for doing it). We only see each other when he is staying over in the nearest hotel. We have seen each other 3 times now. I admit its exciting and passionate and thats what makes it hard to ... (245 words)

He broke up with me but keep saying "right now", what does it mean? Will he want me back later on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - when he broke up with me after about 2 1/2 weeks,he said he just wants to be friends cause he needs to focus on some stuff and he feels bad he isnt spending enough time with me cause hes busy. but he kept using the words "right now" im wondering if this means he plans on ... (68 words)

Is he over me? He acts like he is not, what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I split up with my ex 8 months ago,after a 2.5 yr relationship we was engaged and i was his first love since that day we have been n/c. we ended due to him wanting space - it turns out he had a break down that him push me away. i have seen him a 2 x since we split once when... (538 words)

My guy-friend got me pregnant but I had a miscarriage, why is he mad at me now for everything I couldn't control?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me! My best guy-friend said he loved me, so I had sex with him and I got pregnant. I'm only thirteen, so I was scared, and then I had a miscarriage, he got mad at me for getting pregnant, then he got mad at me because the baby died. He is making me hurt in all kinds ... (120 words)

I might be falling for my co-worker but I'm married! Need some input on what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am falling for my co-worker pretty hard. The problem is I have been married for 6 1/2 years. My marriage is good, but I feel more attracted and connected to this co-worker everyday. He greets me everyday with how is my beautiful little five foot ray of sunshine. He listens to ... (162 words)

I feel my boyfriend doesn't like to spend so much of his time with me, what is wrong with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I want my boyfriend to want to spend most of his time with me. I feel like sometimes he really blows me off.. We aren't fond of eachother friends so it makes it slightly difficult, but even when i try to hang out with him and his friends i feel like he doesnt want me there..... (56 words)

Staying with a woman who is great, or looking for a younger model to have children with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - The woman I'm Dating so far has treated me better than any other woman I've ever dated, she behaves like she has won the lottery !! It is very nice, but she cannot have anymore children and to become a father and settle down has always been of the most heart felt importance to ... (75 words)

Am I too young to make a move or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Back in June my mum and step dad got married and at the reception i sat next to the usher (Liam) who is 18 and who i got on with really well with, but at the wedding i got drunk and i had to go and sit in the house upstairs by myself to calm down for the rest of the nigh... (150 words)

My boyfriend's ex, using their child as an excuse or does she want him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice! I'm finding it really really hard to deal with my partners ex! He just cannot see her for what she is, a malicious controlling bitch! She's now taken to texting him daily, he claims that it is about his daughter but surely not? Every day she's only 4 h... (71 words)

Am I ready for sex with an older boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i m 16 years nd 7month girl frm india i m getting sexual feelings am i ready for having sex with my partner whose 18 years and his a sexpert?... (30 words)

I must admit I enjoy sex with men, but also love my wife. should I come out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 37 yrs. old and married with two children. I had my first gay encounter when i was 13, and thru age 23 had about 12 more. after being married about 5 yrs., i had a want to have sex again with a man ( encounters consist of oral and masturbation ). i had around 5 more ... (122 words)

I am on the pill, but my periods come at the wrong time. Who do I see for help ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I’m beginning my second year of university and have just moved into a house with five other girls. I’m on the pill so should only get my period during the 7 day break but have started bleeding whilst talking the pills. I am starting to worry, I don't know if it’s just ... (95 words)

Is teasing a sign of flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just wanted to know if a guy teases a girl, is that a sign of flirting, does that mean a guy likes you or is he just being friendly? Thanks... (36 words)

Should my man be spending Christmas with his ex (for the sake of his kids)?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys - I'd be very grateful for your advice on something that's bothering me, but I'll just set the scene first. I have been with my boyfriend for a year. I'm 30 and he's 40. We don't live together yet, but we spend about 3 nights a week together and see each other every... (473 words)

What are the ladies preference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - A question 4 the ladys... I want 2 know what do you ladys more enjoy whilst having sex? Also when it comes to the guy's penis, do you like it thick or short, slim or long... x ... (38 words)

How can I help my best friend to feel good about herself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, I seriosuly need help! My best friend has been depressed for a while now, but when her boyfriend dumped her a few week ago she just fell apart. Then, she started saying she wanted to kill herself. I'm so worried about her and I don't know what to do. I have told my ... (296 words)

Does my boyfriend still love me now that I had sex with him????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend had never had sex until me and know he wants it all the time but i do not know wether he is actually still in love with me ? ? my boyfriend is 17 and i am 16 we were all okay until i had sex with him and then he started to take advantage a bit, i love him but n... (124 words)

I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. We have both cheated, and now we are living apart. Where did we go wrong ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age - I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. The issues releted to bad very infrequent sex. Discussed this with my wife many times but she did not change. She just did not care for me and was always more engrossed in her work, a lawyer by profession. We ... (157 words)

I've made a really big mess, what should I do now?

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,(SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT NEED ADVICE ASAP) ive split with my bf around 3 weeks ago now,i still talk to him, anyway hes now back with his ex the mother of his child ill call her sam,anyway sam she doesnt trust him and me as she thinks we are still seeing each other, well ... (372 words)

I thought that we had a great sex life, I found out he watches porn. He promised to stop, but hasn't. My heart is breaking.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 35 Years old,Married for 4 years . i my self and my husband still we do not have children in order to have fun in our life .i was very happy with him he's wonderful ,i thought that we had a great sex life together .after a while from our marrage i discovered that he ... (219 words)

Hopelessly single! How am I to embrace my singledom and to rebuild my self esteem so I can actually begin to flirt again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently become single again after a 3 year relationship. It was a really nasty break up, my ex cheated on me and ruined my self esteem. I have been single for 2 months. I have enjoyed the odd drunken snog but it is becoming patently clear that I haven't the firs... (359 words)

My sister got beaten up pretty bad by her ex partner. Now she says that her ex has apologised and has 'problems' and she wants to help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My sister got beaten up pretty bad by her ex partner, whom she still lives with. She was punched and bitten on her face, and threatened with a knife. Now she says that her ex has apologised and has 'problems' and she wants to help! I understand that this is a classic ... (149 words)

My girlfriend's family is marrying her off to another guy and I need help to figure out what we can do to avoid this from happening!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4146 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, This z raj kapoor please litsen my problem this z very big for me, i know u r use to hear these stories but plz help........ acctualy i m from india and there is in some places very orthodox peaple living and between them there z my girlfriend's family, they are very na... (306 words)

WTH is My Problem?? I'm LOST & CONFUSED !

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi ;) BACKROUND.. i was with my ex for about 5yrs everything was good untill we married, about 6 months into the marriage we seperated. because of my attitude and insecurities,he didnt love me anymore,couldnt stand me..blah blah. we than divorced by the 11th month Ab... (233 words)

I've fallen in love with a girl in another country!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm nearly 15 and I know this is a site for adults with real relationship problems and worries, and I feel a bit pathetic as a hapless teenager using this site, but there you go. I just want advice. A few days ago I returned from the German Exchange with my... (308 words)

How do I fall out of love now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody, I feel so frustrated because I fell in love with the wrong guy and now I do not know how to get him out of my head. I met him 3 months ago at a movie screening that I went to with my co-workers. I had finished a relationship recently and was not really ... (624 words)

I've been married since 1975 and I'm so tired of it all, what can I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age - im 51 he's 53 im searous hes not i am open and need to comunicate or talk he hates to he will not confront any issues that requires action. im tired and need some ways to get him to partisipate more and help with the responsibiltes of marrage. we have been together since 1975 ... (77 words)

I am in love with my boyfriend (we are both going through divorce) but why do I risk losing him for casual sex with others??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What am I doing??? My husband and I are going through a divorce. It will be final in about 2 weeks. We have been seperated for about 5 months. For the first 3 months I begged and begged him to come home. We were very back and forth. I did go out with two men. Slept with them ... (431 words)

My girlfriend left me two months into her pregnancy because I "aggravate" her and I'm in shock!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - WHY does god hate me.... i gave everythign for the one girl... we were so happy for so long... we were engaged and she got pregnant and we were so happy... now shes leaving me only 2 months into the pregnancy because i "aggrivate" her to much. we were laughing and kissing ... (124 words)

How to know if he is nice or actually cares for me without making him uncomfortable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I am in love with my former instructor. We have known each other for a little over a year. He is abnormally shy. How do I know if he is just being nice or if he actually cares for me without making him uncomfortable or embarrassing myself?... (56 words)

We are in our early 60's, he always stood by me with good advice for the past years, how do I let him know my new feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age - My story may sound strange coming from some one my age. After three years of having the greatest friendship one could ask for, I suddenly find I have fallen in love with my best friend. He has stood by me during a couple toxic relationships, he was always ready with ... (166 words)

How to get him to notice me more and get to know him better? Do I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay this is really long. i have only ever really had a crush on 2 people. The first was last year, when i thought i really liked this guy but didn't make any moves. It lasted for about 6 months, then i realised i didn't actually like him in that way at all, and felt really s... (278 words)

I'm starting to wonder if a relationship with a profiteer is better than nothing at all...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, there's a lot of back story here before I get to the actual question. I was with this girl, my first girlfriend (I'm 32, kind of a late bloomer in this area). I don't have any relationship experience of my own, but I've seen lots of other people. My relationship with ... (313 words)

Did he send me a wrong message or was he testing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - He's my classmate. At first, I didn't care about him, I treated him like a friend. One week ago, i had a feeling that he liked me. Before the exam, i told him i could tutor him; he agreed( I just wanted to help him out) ONe night he sent me a text message and said"I miss ... (159 words)

I'm confused, should I still try for a second chance, how can I obtain it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So i have been in a relationship with this girl for 2.5 years. I thought we were doing great and was going to ask her to marry me soon. Anyway after school i was moving back home which is three hours away so that i could pay off some debt. WE both agreed it would be best to ... (253 words)

Is he "the one" for me? We're best friends since kindergarten! I think I have feelings for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ben and I met in kindergarten and have been pretty much inseperable ever since! When we both grew into puberty, everyone around us thought (and still think) there's something going on between us, but I don't really know what that could be. Sure, I find my best friend cute and ... (242 words)

My sister's boyfriend kissed me forcibly and she doesn't let me explain that it was not my fault!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

25 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My sister's boyfriend (shes 17 and hes 18) came over to my place to watch a movie with her. I (im 15) was watching it then he put his arm around well my sis was in the bathroom and he even to kiss me. I tried my best to push him off but he was too strong. Than my sis came back ... (134 words)

I liked my teacher in school but of course nothing could happen then. Now I'm 19, should I take a chance on going back to see him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is a teacher who is 8 years older than me which is not that bad and i like older guys anyway...hes a special ed teacher and he was NEVER my teacher when i went to high school. When I was in school we flirted and I felt like he payed more attention to me than many other ... (370 words)

I've pushed him away so much, how do I get back his trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'ts been a very turbulent month in our relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together two and half years and we've been madly in love the whole time. For some reason I have this need for him to keep proving himself to me so I used to say things like 'you don't reall... (555 words)

Any mention of sex seems to make my wife run the other way. What am I to do or think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am not sure what to think here. I am going on the second year anniversary with my wife. She hasn't lately been feeling very sexual. I would say our sex life is at an all time low. I got some for my birthday a week ago, but any mention of doing it seems to make her run the ... (122 words)

Why do many marriages fall apart? How can you tell it's not going to work? How can you mend it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (M) age 41-50 - They say 50% of marriages brakes down. This is very frightening. I wonder why is the other 50% stays alive... Is this partly because of religion? It s almost feels like plague. Spreading ,like a virus. We all know its coming, but you don't know when. I would like to ask, wha... (100 words)

Is it wrong that he as a friend checks out on me just because he's married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male friend who's living far with his family from me. He's supposed to be on vacation with his family.Well, I received a little note today checking in on me, wanting to say hello and trusting I'm OK. I met him in person a year and a half ago and kept in touch since b... (150 words)

I made fun of a girl without knowing she was my boyfriend's sister and he dumped me...

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25 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - So there's this girl that my friends and me like fun of. She overweight so we cal her fatty mcpatty (she eats McDonald's all the time). My boyfriend (I haven't met his family yet) and me hanging out at the mall. And I saw her and im like there's Fatty McPatty (her rea... (78 words)

My chiropractor and I always flirt, I'm worried I'm starting to like him too much, what do I do?

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok.. i have a question, i have been going to my chiropractor for about 2 weeks now, he is only 29 yrs old and i am a very mature 18 year old, when i go to visit him we flirt. laugh, and hold interesting conversations, i am really starting to like him, he is not married, and ... (139 words)

I regret my reaction to my boyfriend telling me he was bipolar! Help!

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My bf just told me that he was bipolar im just 13 and i didnt like him at first but now i love him to death. He thinks im always going to break up with him but im really not. After he told me his bggest secret.... that he was bipolar, i was a jerk. now i am crying over it and ... (90 words)

I'm seeing a married man, I love a married man. How do I know if he is serious about leaving his wife ?

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm seeing a married man, I love a married man. He says he's going to leave his wife not because of me but because he's no longe happy in his marriage but some of the things he says about her I just don't know that I beleive him, How do i know if he is serious about leaving?... (58 words)

My friend's parents treat her badly and keep threatening her, what can I do?

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I have a friend whose parents are her like crap. While they haven't actually hit her yet, they've threatened too. They've said they were gonna smack a look off her face, beat her with a belt, knock her head off, and they keep pulling chairs out from under her so ... (108 words)

I have alot to lose if I move acroos the country to be with a man that I'm not too sure about. Please give me some advise.

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So i have been with my boy friend since mid January ( almost 10 months now ) He recently has finally told me he loves me and expresses his difficulty in showing his feelings. He is a vet from the war in Iraq, hes been deployed a few times and has seen some very rough nasty ... (604 words)

I love him, but I'm not "In love" with him. How do I handle this ?

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Alright, so me and my boyfriend dated for a year and he is the best boyfriend i have ever had. We also have the same interests and want the same things. The only thing is I'm 26 with a kid and he just turned 20. He is head over heels for me but I broke up with him in July cause ... (368 words)

First my crush tells my friend he likes me, then he says he doesn't. Should I believe my friend ?

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on this guy and I don't know if he likes me back. And i got my friend to ask him if he likes me and the first coupel of times he said maybe and today my friend asked him again and he said no. But I don't know if my friend was lieing because my friend doesn't want ... (70 words)

Should I cheat, get a girl on the side ?

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25 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am loyal to my wife and I do work very hard (80+ hours a week) to provide for my family. I am Nice to be with, a good lover and a strong sex drive. How ever I am soo frustrated because we have sex once a month. I expect my day to end with a nice spicy touch but Oh no..She ... (157 words)

I feel like I am dating a Mama's boy!

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry the explanation is long, but please bear with me and give me opinion! I would greatly appreciate it!! My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years and i go to college and work and he stays home and watches his little sister for his mother, who is a full time work... (1293 words)

I promised her oral sex...would it be tacky if I backed out?

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help... I need some advice soon. I am a 25 year old married woman. I have been married about three years. My best friend since freshman days in college is a woman my age and married just about as long. In fact, we were each others Maid of Honor at our weddings. Both of our ... (362 words)

My boyfriend's porn is 75% big girls ( I'm a small girl.) Is he even attracted to me at all?

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Help guys! My boyfriends porn is 75% big girls I'm 105lbs, A cup, attractive, and have decent confidence, but I'm starting to get worried about what he's attracted to. He says he only looks at big girls 10% of the time because he feels like they would be lucky to have him (he'... (160 words)

I resent that he slept with a prostitute, 5 years before he met me!

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I cannot get over the fact that my husband-to-be slept with a prostitute 5 years before he met me. I did the wrong thing and asked for all the details, but he did too when he told me about it when I didn't ask. After three years of living with this it still breaks my heart that ... (272 words)

How do I "re-grow a pair"?

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25 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I got dumped after an almost 3 year long relationship. The last year or so was a long-distance arrangement until she finally cheated on me and told me it was over. The whole situation obviously shrunk my self-esteem quite a lot, but now, almost 10 months later I still don’t fe... (92 words)

I love her, but we're friends, I don't want to ruin what we have.

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25 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm in love with this girl at school, but i don't know how to tell her. We're good friends but i don't want to ruin it. What should i do?... (30 words)

My head says he still cares...but does he? Is there anything there?

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25 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently my ex and I have been going up and down. We haven't talked or seen each other in three weeks. The last time we talked we had arranged to hang out. But he called and told me he didn't want me to like him anymore, he didn't want me to need him, and we couldn't be best ... (252 words)