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After we've told each other secrets, I don't hear from him for a few days. It confuses me. Why does he do it?

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Question - (23 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2009)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey. Ok, well Im 15 and my problem is with a boy, who is 17. Me and this boy, lets call him "Lee" get on really, really well and we always have done. We have a real laugh, can trust each other 100% and just like being around each other. We do flirt with each other a hell of a lot, but thats as far as it goes. My problem though is that he'll give me lots of attention and talk to me loads one day, then he won't speak to me for a few days after. We'll be with each other all day talking, then when we've each gone home we'll chat on MSN, then we'll send E-mail and/or texts then I won't hear anything from him for maybe the rest of that week. Yeah, we flirt but when we talk its usually about stuff that means something to us and we'll share secrets (sounds childish, but it isnt)and we'll just be really in-depth then when he doesn't talk after that I start to think things like "Did I say too much?" or "Is he avoiding me because he regrets telling me these things?". It just really confuses me and gets me down. Why do you think he does this?

Thanks;

xx

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntHe sounds immature, you need to leave him alone until he grows up! If he's cold with you then just leave him too it! Don't share secrets with him, he seems untrustworthy! X

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