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*handy
writes:hi everybody,i need your answer for different viewers (men and women)my question is how much time would a girl satisfied of foreplay before getting in? its ok if i take 10 minutes foreplay before getting in?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): Alright...this is soo simple...yet so complex...you have to just start by kissing...and touching...and just exploring one anothers everypart and positions...this can definately take more than 10mins my friend...and I can tell you from experience...even if the foreplay gets a little exhausting....the sex is so much more worth it...dont ever just rush into sex...I'm telling you...foreplay is the key my friend...you might even get surprised ...sometimes you dont even need the sex if the foreplay is good enough ;)
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reader, Rhandy +, writes (24 July 2008):
Rhandy is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the advises it helps me a lot, a
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 Lets put it like this. If you are timing the foreplay, you are doing it wrong.
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reader, Yos +, writes (23 July 2008):
 Two lesbian friends of mine one evening decided to tell me 'the secret'. The secret being: what women really want and how to make love.
They way they told it (as far as i remember, we were rather drunk) was "make love as if you don't have a penis", meaning "make love without intercourse".
That doesn't mean don't have intercourse of course! What it means is, don't think of intercourse as the main course! Foreplay is not 'something you have to do' to get to 'sex', but rather it is sex. It is an end in itself, a destination, not a journey.
So the answer to your question should be: "your question makes no sense because its based on incorrect assumptions".
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): Annalisa, your words are so true....
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reader, dr.know  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 A sexual relationship is between 2 people, well most of the time and it is all about discovery and exploration. Asking your partner or paying close attention to what she responds to is the best way to get your answer. As a woman I believe that foreplay isn't only part of the sexual act, it is part of the relationship overall. You can begin your foreplay the day before, by buying her some flowers, complimenting her, sending her sexy emails and text, giving her long kisses before you go to work, then by the time you get into the physical part she will be about to burst. Also since your asking about sex, you may want to look into Karma Sutra and Tantric Sex....you may find some interesting tips there as well...I wish you a great and satisfying sex life with lots of sexy foreplay!
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 As Uncle Phil has said, there is nos such thing as too much! Personally, I've always held that the more foreplay, the better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): The truth is, my friend, that there is no rule on this, no 'industry standard'. All women have different needs.
I have personally experienced one woman who didn't need more than 5 minutes' arousal time and also came very quickly during the act and wasn't interested in repeats. Another needed half an hours' worth of foreplay and then couldn't climax until I was in! Psychological, I suppose.
Anyway, learn to enjoy the foreplay experience as a fun part of lovemaking, building the tension if you like. And use your own sensitivity to judge what is 'right'
It'll all come with experience.
Good luck.
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reader, the ex wife +, writes (23 July 2008):
 Hi. All women are different. 10min may actually be too long. It depends on the lady. Foreplay is definately a must because it helps enhance the mood and also helps the lady by giving her a chance to be more intimate for you and her. Let her body tell you. When the foreplay gets really enhanced and/or wild, it's probably time to "get in there" as you put it...lol If she's slow with kisses and touches, give her more foreplay. If she's slow, gets hot and then slows down the foreplay, you've made out too long. That's just my advice. Hope I helped.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (23 July 2008):
 Uncle Phil is dead on! But the one you should be asking and checking with is her....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): I think the female point of view will be that there can never be enough of it, whereas the male's idea of foreplay goes something like "Are you awake?" or the Australian male's perception of it is "Brace yourself, Sheila!"
Ok - let's get serious. Most women have the capability of having several orgasms pretty much one after another, so there's no harm in carrying on the foreplay with your tongue or whatever until she orgasms, before going ahead and having one yourself through penetrative sex.
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