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How can you beat a "player" at his own game?

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Question - (23 July 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

if you know a guy who claims is and honest but is a player when it comes to women how can the woman beat him at his own game and him not even know he is being played back?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008):

I have no solution to your question, but just a quick comment. Looking at your age on this posting, I can see you are a grown woman and I am sort of sensing you are wise and can take care of yourself very well, in any dating situation. So why would you waste you time on someone like this, hun? Quite often, players only care about one thing--themselves.. and certainly NOT you. What ever you do, look out for yourself and take care of YOU. good luck and happy dating!

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (23 July 2008):

Yos agony auntWell, 'the rules' are there to help you find 'Mr Right', but they include the (necessary) ability to catch and catch-out 'players'...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Rules

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2008):

hlskitten agony auntHi

I bet it would be hard. After all, they know every trick in the book. I'm always warey of a guy or anyone that actually says they are nice, honest etc a lot. If someone is naturally honest and nice, they dont need to shout about it. And the experience ive had with the ones that do shout about it, turn out not to be!

Frustrating as it is, i dont reakon its worth playing them. Normally they get caught out in the end, they eventually learn. very few are still playing in their pensioner yrs after all ey!

C xxxx

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (23 July 2008):

O Connor agony auntwhy bother? your only stooping as low as him then, i think your old enough to be above playing games with men.

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A female reader, Curiousbynature United States +, writes (23 July 2008):

Ignore him and flirt with his friends. Make his friends enjoy you more than they like him. Be funny and outgoing. He'll notice, trust me! And if you really want to beat him, just let him go, he's probably not worth your time!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

and what would those rules happen to be?

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (23 July 2008):

Yos agony auntYou have to follow 'the rules'

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