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writes:Hi, i've been going out with my bf for just under 3 years and literally 16 days before the big 3. He turns around and tells me that he doesn't know if he loves me anymore.Yet he says that he still fancies me?I'm confused. - What does he want? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): If this is some sudden decision out of the blue i would be thinking that maybe there is someone else on the scene that is making him think about your relationship. Sit down and ask him what has changed. It isn't necassarily that he wants to hurt you but he may be wanting to explore what many others your age will be exploring (dating different people) if this is the case tell him he needs to be fair with you and also certain that he isnt going to change his mind...........as many do after realsing the grass inst greener! Hope it works out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): A few months ago my boyfriend told me that he doesn't know if he loves me anymore but we're still together and everythings fine now.Basically he's saying he still finds you attractive both inside and out but he's confused about his deeper feelings for you. Just make sure that he knows how much you love him and keep being affectionate and intimate. I'm sure he will come to his senses and realise his feelings for you. could it be that he's a bit afaid of commitment? three years is a long time and he's probably just evaluating the relationship and checking how he feels about you.If he keeps being unsure than all you can do is be paitent.Good luck
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be +, writes (24 July 2008):
 Maybe the realisation that he's about to reach a milestone in your relationship has shaken him slightly. I imagine something like that can be quite daunting. Just make sure you let him know how much you still love him, and he should come to his senses and re-assert himself soon enough.
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