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writes:My boyfriend is currently working out to improve his health and also the looks. He's a big build guy (typical Scottish guy), blond hair and blue eyes. I know he's faithful to me and will not go out with any other girls. Since he started working out, he has numerous times where girls/waitress give him phone numbers. Even his female trainer started asking him out to movies and drinks (which he said no). He will tell them he has a girlfriend. However, I live far away and only spend our weekends together. So it's hard to show my face to all these female admirers.I'm not jealous about that and I trust him 100%. But it's bugging me a little since it's not just 1 or 2 cases, it's like 3-5 a week. I am not use to my boyfriend getting so much attention.
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reader, eddie +, writes (23 July 2008):
 I don't believe there are any guys that get invited out 3-5 times a week. It may have happened one week, once in his life but not on a regulare basis. It's nice he's honest but it's bothereing you. Let him know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): Maybe he should stop telling you all this, I mean it's not like your tell him every time a guy checks you out. It's all about trust now, maybe if you two are serious you should think about moving closer together?
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 If he started working out to improve his health, that's great. If you both knew it would improve his looks, then this was bound to happen.
Why dont you get him to take you out to these places? Maybe you should ask to meet his female trainer: then simply show her (dont tell her outright, that could offend her) that you're both happy together. That should help to reduce any unwanted attention
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