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*yesha
writes:What do i do?I recently just broke up with sons father after being in the relationship for over 5yrs but the funny part is i don't feel bad nor am i having second thoughts about my decision. The reason i came to this decision after all those years was because it was all a lie from the begin by this i mean i had just broke up with a guy i was deeply in love with so i was hurting and he reminded me of my ex so much that's why i got with my sons father. Anyway its funny because anytime we were having problems my ex always seem to pop back up at these times. When we broke up for good the other day guess what my ex pops back again, i told him i was now single and he came to see me when he hugged me i felt so secure and it felt so right he then told me everything i had waited to hear for the pass 5yrs and more. We both feel the same for each other after all these years but the problem now with him is that he's afraid I'm gonna break his heart again and he feels abit of a fool for following his heart after so long anyway the next day we had an argument and now he won't even pick up the phone 2 me and its killing me and I'm reliving all the pain an hurt again. I keep asking myself questions like did he mean what he said? Do i leave him and wait another 5yrs? Should i follow my heart?I need some answers because right now I'm so lost. I really do love him and i know he feels the same.What do i do?
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reader, syesha +, writes (23 July 2008):
syesha is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much.xx
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (23 July 2008):
 I would say give him a little space and let him see that you are not going back to your babys dad. That maybe what he is affraid of.XX
Hope all works out for you both.
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reader, syesha +, writes (23 July 2008):
syesha is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes i was 14 when we first meet. i knw im still young(21),but the feelings hasn't gone away and its been over 5yrs. Is it the real deal or am i just kidding myself? I want to leave him to make his mind up but im afarid he wont come back i knw i've been 5yrs without him by my side but he was in my thoughts everyday.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (23 July 2008):
Sweetheart, I'm not sure that I understand you correct. Your post say's you are 18-21, you have been with your babys dad for 5 years. That means your ex is from when you were 13-16, do I have this correct?
You are still very young, as is the boyfriend I guess. And you can understand his fears of you hurting him again.
Maybe you should spend a little time on your own with your son and see how you feel. It could be that your just scared of being alone, and that niether one is right for you.
There is an old saying "What will be, will be" and its so true. You cant force these things, but if there meant to happen they will.
XXX
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