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writes:Hi everyone,I need help. Tonight i kinda got rejected by this girl i like. We have been getting along really well and talkin on msn all the time and we always send each other kisses and that sorta thing.Well anyway we were going to go out together somewhere but then we started talkin about "us" and she went offline and said she needed time to think. She came back on and said she liked me more as a friend.Does this mean the end? Should i still try and get her to go out somewhere and perhaps change her mind? She says im a really nice guy and i think she finds me attractive.Please help because i think i might love this one.Thanks a lot in advance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): I used to be in the same situation, and the best advice I can give you bro, is do not change your ways out of nowhere. I mean, don't show her a sign of a dramatic change in your relationship with her. She might even be playing a game with you... you never know with girls. Just keep it steady and do what logic and heart tells you. Good luck
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reader, mamasaidknockyouout  +, writes (23 July 2008):
you can deal with the his a few ways.
1)be all pissy about it and ignore her - not reccommended lol
2)confront her with how she was flirting with you and stuff and ask why she felt the need to stop.
3)keep flirting and spit your game brotha lol
note: it is possible that she valued your friendship so much that she doesn't want to take the risk of dating you, which might result in an awkward breakup, ending your friendship as well. she may really like you, too. if that's the case she might act a little different to get over you.
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reader, xnickx +, writes (23 July 2008):
 Angel dust is right that there isn't a whole lot you can do if she just wants to be friends. The "friend zone" is a tough place to get out of but if you show her you can be more than friends she may reconsider.
Keep in contact with her like you normally would before this. After a while (but not too long) go to places where you think you might meet her (parties, a park, whatever) and talk to her normally until you two together comes up again tell her how you REALLY feel about her without sounding creepy or needy. Just something like "hey i know you might not want to talk about this but i really like you and would like to know you better or maybe go to the movies or something..."
Seriously, i know what you're going thru. If you don't feel comfortable with this then don't do it. Its not guarunteed but girls (at least where i live) seem to like it. I hope that it all works out for you. If it still doesn't work and you really like her keep trying. She'll either like you for being pesistent or maybe not like you for being a "stalker". So be careful cause you might lose her as a friend as well.
Good luck and i hope i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): What's wrong with "Just Being Friends?" That is perhaps one of the best things to be. And as time goes by, she see's what a special person you are, things could change. So, no sweetie....This isn't the end....Just the begining! Good Luck Chick Pea!!
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (23 July 2008):
 If she just wants you as a friend, there isnt much you can do. I would suggest just being a good friend to her and maybe she wil realize what a wonderful guy you are and decide she wants to date you
Stay postitive!
XxAngelDust13xX
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