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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

We're newlyweds and my wife has no sex drive, help me !

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 22-25 - OK, Well me and my now wife have been together for 8 years and have been married a little less than 1 year. We have been together since I was 16 and she was 17. We did not have sex for the first year and a half. but after we would get crazy and have sex in the car in a parking ... (231 words) 

I like my best friend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - Me and this guy know each other for 7 years now. we are great friends and we always call each other if we need to talk about something. We know everything about each other but when we are around each other we are always flirting and picking at each other. He flirts with me ... (151 words) 


   

What does it all mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - There is this boy who is a year younger than me and we started emailing because we both have the same friend but I really fancy him but he seems really shy as he's younger and I don't know what he feels. At first he didnt know who I was, but then when he did it was just a w... (259 words) 

How do I tell my boyfriend's best friend that I will break up with my boyfriend to begin a new relationship with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - I have feelings for my boyfriend's best friend, we have a lot in common and I really can imagine us dating. How do I tell my boyfriend's best friend that I will break up with my boyfriend to begin a new relationship with him?... (46 words) 

He seems to want to get more intimate but I'm scared I'm doing something wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for one month. I love him to pieces and love spending time with him. I recently went over to his the other weekend and we watched a film. We lay on his bed kissing for a while and he put his hand up my top and down the trousers. I didn't ... (95 words) 

   

Nothing happend so why is everyone making such a big deal out of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - There's this guy, 18 (im 15), and I've known him all my life since the day I was born (let's call him Ollie). Hes been like a brother to me all my life and looks after me helps me etc. We've always been very close and would cuddle up on the sofa, and nothing more than good ... (221 words) 

I'm also going away on holiday soon and would like to feel more confident in my bikini so any tips wuld be muchly appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - Okay I would really love some help here.. Im a 15 year old girl, about 5"6 and 9.5 stone. I'm very active a swim everyday and run a fair bit as well. The problem is I still don't feel like the skinnyest person ever. Dont get me wrong, I'm not one of those obbsessive size zer... (113 words) 

How do I stop thinking about my ex and her relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 18-21 - I keep having nights where I can't get my ex out of my head. We broke up a year ago next month, so I would have liked to believe that she would have left my head by now, even if we were together for 2 years. But no. I still think about her, and it still burns me up that we are ... (223 words) 

I am 17 year old boy and currently I am considering having surgery to get my flabs taken out, and am wondering will it leave a big scar on my stomach?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  - dear cupid I am 17 year old boy and currently I am considering having surgery to get my flabs taken out, and am wondering will it leave a big scar on my stomach? I do not see any other way of getting rid of it as i lost all my fat and thought that it will get me to look thin... (105 words) 

Do you think she loves him more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - I'm a 13 year old girl. Me and my whole Family love each other but even though we don't see each other all the time. My 22 year old cousin(girl) has two boys. A 8 month old baby and a 2 year old. Every time the 2 year old comes over he gets all the attention. Even more than his ... (85 words) 

Anyone know anyone serving time in the Samara (near Iraq)?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 36-40 - Anyone know anyone serving time in the Samara (near Iraq) right now and how's it going out there right now?... (20 words) 

How do I stop his porn addiction?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

5 February 2008 (?)  age 18-21 - My boyfriend is still watching porn daily, and I can't stand this horrible feeling that I have. I've asked this before, but I'm not satisfied with any answers or results. How should I get him to stop watching porn? He wants to marry me and i want to marry him too, but i always ... (162 words) 

How can I respond sensibly to my girlfriend when she asks why I look at porn sometimes?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age - Hi this looks like a nice site. Hoping I can get some sensible advice. I'm living with my girlfriend, and we have been talking about getting married. Been together more than 2 years. She can be cool, knows I go to strip clubs with the guys some times, all that, but she is... (139 words) 

How can I solve our communication problem??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - hey.. I've been dating this guy for a year now, we will be celebrating our 1 yr anniversary 3 days before valentines day :) (yes we have had the exclusivity talk). My major problem has been communication.. he doesn't call me as often as i would like. He feels like there is no... (453 words) 

What can I do about the situation and can I deny the DNA test, given that I'm a teenager pregnant with my cousin's baby??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - I'm 17 years old. Me and my cousin have been dating for a while, it feels weird to be attracted to my cousin but i really do have lots of feelings for him. Anyway i'm about 5 months pregnant with his child. My parents already know about my pregnancy but i told them a whole ... (115 words) 

I aspired to find someone with the same level of professionalism and potential so should I go with the flow of the courtship and choose this man who is a seller?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 30-35 - OK so I met this guy two days ago when he sold me my new mobile phone. He is 35 I'm 33 we are both single and from the same religion. We hit it off quickly and spent like a half hour talking about our personal lives. He seemed very interested and I'm interested also. He invi... (379 words) 

I continued to be intimate with my roommate after he cheated on me. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 26-29 - hello, i was in a strange relationship, started with my roommate, we ended up having sex and creating a relationship, i knew he was going to stay for a few months . also we talked about having other people, i made him promise me to let me know if he was going or been in an ... (127 words) 

I still feel insecure that he would be looking at women who are so much more endowed, how do I get past these feelings of inadequacy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 30-35 - I'm upset because I looked at my bf's history and found that he had looked at youtube clips of women. They weren't nude but were huge busted women wearing bikinis and lingerie. He feels very bad about upsetting me and feels bad that it's such a big deal to me - though it w... (386 words) 

Strange Sensation. What is causing it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 18-21 - Hello. I have a bit of an embarrassing problem. Throughout today, every 30 minutes or so (sometimes less than that) I have felt this strange sensation in my anus. It feels a bit like it is vibrating very lightly, and I have no idea what is causing it! I have been sat down fo... (106 words) 

Bi-sexual and homophobic... simultaneously?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  - what is the name for someone who is bi-sexual but is also homophobic ?? . I know someone who is bi but despises gay people. Strange any answers?... (28 words) 

I love him but I really miss sex. He refuses to discuss the sex issue with me and apologizes for not being more amorous. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 41-50 - I live with my boyfriend and have been in a committed realtionship with him for 7 years. I do not doubt at all that he loves me and would do anything for me...almost anything except have sex with me. He has every excuse known to man, and some are valid (stress). I am a 42 year ... (201 words) 

A guy asked me out, but I don't want to date him. How can I reject him without upseting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - this guy has asked me out. i told him that i would think about it, but i dont want to go out with him. i just want to be friends, thats it. but i feel if i dont say yes hes going to be upset and cry i cant handle that from him. i like him as a friend. and i am friends with ... (82 words) 

My parents don't like her parents and therefore disapprove of my relationship with her. What do I do? Please my parents and lose my love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 30-35 - My name is Amit, Ive been dating a girl called Kajal - its been 4 years. Our parents knew of the relationship and we have subsequently started a business together and have plans buying a property, but we are not married. The relationship has come of age after 4 years an... (417 words) 

I love my boyfriend, but I am attracted to someone else. Do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together 3.5 years, but it has been rocky for the last year. He is constantly too busy to spend time with me, and when we get together he is usually too tired to do anything. I get so frustrated and lonely, and question whether we have much in ... (262 words) 

I am dating one guy, but like another who has kind of been with a friend of mine. How do I manage this mess without hurting anyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 36-40 - In 16 and this boy who i kind of like, says he likes me too, but im seeing someone already. I dont know what to do? I am kinda having mixed feelings about the boy who im currently with anyway. Also one of my good friends has met up with the boy who said he likes me before. ... (158 words) 

How do I know if its right or wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 26-29 - How do I know a relationship is right or wrong? I've been with the same girl for 10 years, never felt the urge to cheat or stray, and still don't. However, I would be lying if I said things have been smooth. Sometimes things are rough, in that there is friction and the... (120 words) 

I want to give a secret admirer Valentines card to a girl at school

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 13-15 - hi, i need some help about valentines. I really like this girl in my class and want to get her a valentines card. The thing is that i feel a little embarrassed and if she found out it was from me i'd completely die! But isnt expressing love what valentines day is all about???... (54 words) 

My Mom said she would leave and didnt care if I was left alone. Does she still love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - I need advice. (I'm a 13yr old girl) so, Me and my mother usually get along but yesterday she kind of had a really bad mood swing. Worse one I have ever heard in my 13 years. She said she would leave our home and she wouldent care if i was alone. Do you think she still loves ... (59 words) 

Last time we went out we didnt talk, but I want to try again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 13-15 - Hi, Im 14 and i have fell in love with a girl whos 15 i dont majorly care about the age difference but the last time we went out we had a big distance and didnt talk and things but i want to try again any ideas? p.s: was going to ask her out on valentines :D... (60 words) 

I have fallen for my form tutor

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - I am in a horrible mess. iv already fallen for one teacher and now im falling for my form tutor. hes like 41 ands im 15. BIG diffrence. he is married with 3 kids. The thing i dont get thou is, he flirts with me and like always seems to touch me, like put his hand on my shoulder... (196 words) 

What to get him for Valentines Day...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - valentines day is around the corner and i have absolutely no idea what to get my boyfriend!! I'm not confident enough to do anything kinky, i really can't bring myself to do it and even if i could he'd probably not like it anyway. Then i thought, since he's in love with cho... (155 words) 

I didnt have sex with him, but that is what he is telling folks.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - I am 15 years old, and I havent had a boyfriend in a long time. Last Friday I stopped over at this lads house who I really like and he said he liked me, too. I am a virgin and we didnt have sex. Then the next day when I went home his friends said he had been saying he had ... (163 words) 

This boy at school has taken flirting too far. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - I'm a 13 year old girl. This boy in my class has been bugging/flirting with me ever since school started. I have barely even talked to him before and I think he took the meaning of flirting to the next level. One time I was talking to my friend by my locker and he rubs my ... (193 words) 

Why am I testing my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - Hi. I have an amazing boyfriend of 5 months, but I keep constantly testing him to see if he is really in love with me or not. I am about to graduate from college and I know that will put us in two different places, and I am terrified of breaking up because I am so in love with ... (80 words) 

Confused about whether we are friends or more than friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - Please help me because I dont know what to do. Well, I'm really good friends with this guy and we've kindof discussed that were a little bit more than just friends.... though I'm always the one to call him and he never calls me. what should I do? should I keep calling ... (84 words) 

My best friend has a girlfriend, but I love him, too

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - right i reli dnt no what to do.. i am in love.. right the story is i have known this boy all of my life and we have always clicked and got on really well, about 3 years ago, we both liked each other but always seemed to deny it for some reason, so because we were always denying ... (336 words) 

Met him on the net and there is a 14 year age differance. Should I meet him in real life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - Right i been talkin to this guy for a while now. We met over the internet n originally age wasnt mentioned i thought he was roughly in his 20's and he thought i was about 19. We both later found out eachothers real ages, he's 31 this year, im 17 this year. We get on pretty w... (188 words) 

I like 2 lads and I don't know what to do.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - well... i have recently got with this lad who is like really nice to me but one of his mates like me and i like him too. i have done for 4 years. i dont know who i like more, whats even worse is when i am with my friends my bf is like all over me in front of the other lad and ... (78 words) 

My boyfriend is a compulsive liar. Should I leave him now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - I have been dating a guy for almost 2 years. He was my first boyfriend. At the beginning of the relationship he was a mess ie.was a pot head, porn addict,continously talking about exes, didnt see me much and was really lazy. But at that time i didnt really want a too serious ... (458 words) 

What "nick" names do ladies like to be called?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - What do you ladz like to be called in a relashionship? e.g girls mostly get called babe... (17 words) 

Do they mean it when they say "I love you"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - I'm a 13 year old girl who need's people's opinions. I know that families are supposed to love you. I just feel like the don't. I hardely talk to my aunts, uncles, and cousins. But when they say they love you, Do you think they mean it? ... (47 words) 

Why do I keep cheating on my boyfriends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 30-35 - I can't help cheating on any of my boyf's that I've had!! I was with my ex for 9 years and cheated on him so many times that I lost count!! And even now I'm with my current boyf 2 years and I've cheated on him twice!! None of the 2 of my boyf's have ever given me any rea... (139 words) 

Redhair and pale skin, Why do we get picked on?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - Me and brother (twin) both get picked on because of our red hair and pale skin. It's been like this for a couple years. But no matter what we do, people still ask us dumb questions about why we are so pale all the time. Why is that?... (48 words) 

How can I help my boyfriend with his Mood Swings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - I need help. My boyfriend and I have been dating almost a year now and he says he loves me; this is not the problem. The problem is his mood swings, one minute he'll be absolutly fine and the next he goes incredably quiet and refuses to talk about it, passing it off as him bein... (179 words) 

Valentine gift, what should I get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 26-29 - What should i get my boyfriend for valentines day because we have almost been going out 6 months?... (18 words) 

I am attracted to my BF's best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - So here is my problem, I have been dating my bf for almost 3 (bad) years. I am not happy with him and haven't been for a while, well my bf started telling me about his best friend who lived in ohio(bfs hometown) I ended up talking my bf into planning a trip from las vegas (my ... (126 words) 

Girlfriend wants to break up, but still loves me ? wtf ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 26-29 - Hiya, Was just wondering if you could offer any advice on my situation ? Im 28 and my girlfriend (now ex) is 26. Weve been together for just over 6 months now. I live about 70 miles away and only get to see her on the weekends. She is at school as a full time student an... (588 words) 

How do I handle an Old Man being after me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - My Friend's Grandad Likes Me I Found Out Because He Text Me Telling Me . I Dont No What To Do ?? I've Avoided Him Ever Since He Stopped Me On The Road Too. Please Help Me ... (37 words) 

I am a 13yr old girl, I want to run away from home

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - I'm a 13 year old girl. I feel like running away because this has been going on so long. I feel like I have no friends anymore and everyone in my grade probably hates me. And I feel like my family doesen't love me. What do i do?... (48 words) 

The girl who is getting away...Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 22-25 - Hey guys, I have just said bye to a girl that was everything i could of wanted! She came over 5 months ago to study and has now gone home to holland! She has a boyfriend over there. We only recently really started to become the real thing the last 2 weeks she was o... (168 words) 

I am Married, but fantasize about my Sister in Law

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 30-35 - I need help! I cant stop thinking about my sister in law. She is constantly on my mind morning noon and night. I don't understand I am very happily married and love my wife to bits, however all I can think about is what I would do to my 'S.I.L' if we were alone together. I ... (123 words) 

He cheated on me, we broke up, should I take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  - I broke up with my ex last December when I found out that he has a 1-month relationship w/ this other girl behind my back. During Oct-Dec our relationship was rocky, and then I found out he's been cheating on me for a month. They ended their affair a week after I found out. ... (496 words) 

I am developed for my age, I get teased, how should I react?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - umm.. Might need help from agony moms. Well I'm still 12 but my breast are huge and everyone's teasing me about them, and I can't take it anymore what should I do?... (32 words) 

Should I change my email address, to keep him away from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  - Should I change my email just to be safe? I recently had to change my cell phone number because my ex wouldn't leave me alone after I asked him to so many times. Anyway, we were engaged, and when we had one of our engagement parties we decided to invite one of his ... (335 words) 

Does my boyfriend want to cheat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years had a dream that he kissed a girl and felt her up. In the middle of it he stopped and told the girl that he had a girlfriend that he loved and walked away. 2 nights before that dream he dreamt that I gave oral sex to some random guy. What does this mea... (69 words) 

My best friend is moving away, how can I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - Well here I am with more growing up issues.... Well you see, my bestfriend and I have been together since 1st grade but now she's moving to italy and I'm totally gonna miss her what should I do?... (39 words) 

He likes his space, and it scares me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend on and off for two years but officially for six months now. I keep getting really panicky when I don't hear from him for a couple of days not even a hi! Am I right to be worrying or am I just being obsessive? I know he likes his space I'm just... (73 words) 

I'm a 20yr old male virgin, am I weird?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 18-21 - Hi, would this make people think i'm weird. i'm 20, about to turn 21, and basically i have had no experience with intimacy. Like i've never even kissed anyone intimately, let alone had sex. I've been kissed but thats when i was heaps younger, and it was always a surprise i ... (202 words) 

He says he loves me, but I wonder, in what way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - Hi cupid righ now im riding a big rollercoaster of feelings. im in love of my best friend we already had something twice. but still we kept as good friends. but i cant stand to watch him with someone else..and i think he takes me for granted..he says he loves me..but as a ... (61 words) 

I am fighting feelings for her, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - OK, so 1 of my best friends have really liked me for a long time now. When I'm around her, I sometimes get feelings for her too. When she told me thet she had a crush on me, I thought nothing of it, until last week when she said it had progressed in to more. Shes 9 yrs old... (123 words) 

I'm 17 & he's 43, is that legal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - im nearly 17 and he is 43 weve been together nearly a year at first i lied about my age but now he knows the truth he still loves me , but is what were doing legal?... (37 words) 

How can I get past his affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 51-59 - hello there my name is carla, 6 weeks ago i found out my husband has been having an affair for 8 months, he finished the affair because he felt so bad and dosnt know really how he got into it, i had an operation and had a great deal of pan and i have been really nasty and bad ... (444 words) 

She will not stop being friends with a male friend I dislike... is her love not as much as mine is for her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 22-25 - why is my gf acting this way. we've been dating for a year now...silly things wants her to stop the relationship. i love her to death and she's the only girl i want cannot imagine my life without her. it happened like 5 times she want to put an end to the relationship. the ... (382 words) 

Been snooping through my bf's cellphone and questioning his ex, he found out but never accused me of intrusiveness. I don't know what to think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 36-40 - hi, i started checking my partners cellphone and read a few messages from his ex nothing too detailed so I never bothered too much,then more textes were coming and they met a few times , when I asked him he made up excuses but never seemed to bother or upset that I had found ... (115 words) 

How do I know I am pleasing my partner by oral or manual stimulation?? Should I abstain from doing this for fear of failing?...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - My question is how do I know if I am pleasing the guy that I am giving a blow job or hand job to? doing And should I be too scared to even do it because I think that they won't like the way I am doing it? Also I need advice on how to give the perfect hand job and blow job. ... (73 words) 

My partner suggested choosing a thicker condom, as I produce a lot of semen. Good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 18-21 - I'm a fit young builder and produce a lot of semen when i orgasm inside my girlfriend.It's a great feeling and seems to last for ages.When i withdraw the end of the condom is bulging like a balloon and some semen is trickling just a bit further down.We always expel the ... (81 words) 

Concerned about my penis size and the effects of masturbation!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 26-29 - I am from Hyderabad , India aged 27 years unmarried guy. I have a problem. I am masturbating since 7 years ago on an average 4 times a week from the age of 21. now i feel my penis became narrow in the base and the penis size is drastically reduced,.the girth and length wer... (252 words) 

How can a tall person have intimacy with a short one, without major... inconveniences?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  - dear cupid i will try and rephrase this as much as possible, basically my question is how can a tall person have intimate sex with a short person, and lets say the Mr X height is 5"10 and Mrs X is 5"1 wont that suffocate the girls face when on top of her?... (57 words) 

I'm very unhappy in my marriage! Ever been in a similar situation and how did you finally decide to leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 36-40 - I am mid 30s have been married 12 years and have no children. Each day I put up with arguments with my husband. I feel put down, undermined and belittled. He seems to critique things that I do around the house and pulls me up if they are not how he likes them. I have read... (738 words) 

Can I forget about everything and get a good night sleep for a change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - I do hope I can get some good advice. Broke up four months ago with my boyfriend. We still talked and occasionally saw each other when he visited me (don't know why he bothered travelling all this way!). Well, last weekend I was in his city visiting friends (his flatmates, my ... (243 words) 

I cheated on my wife before we were married and now I think she might find out.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 26-29 - I've been with my wife for 13 years and married for five. We now have a wonderful son that's almost a year old. I have only ever been with my wife, except for once, before we were married. I have regretted it since it happened and continuously demoralize myself for making such ... (169 words) 

How does the rhythm method work? I want to use it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

5 February 2008 (?)  age 16-17 - How on earth do you work out the rhythm method? Is this when you look at your period, and decide when it is safe to have sex? Could someone tell me how to do this? I'd really like to try and use it.... (43 words) 

How to talk about safe sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - Ok this question is aimed mostly at the men. I want to know what is the right way to approach a guy about being safe with sex. I like to wait a few months before getting into sex and my first bf and were virgins so there was not a whole lot of talk about sex history but with ... (147 words) 

I know he still loves me, so what are my chances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - My man broke up with me three weeks ago after dating for a year and a half. A month ago we were talking about getting married. Then it seemed like we started fighting over stupid things a lot. A lot!!!! So he is dating this other girl, who is honestly very manipulative. I ... (165 words) 

Will my virginity ruin our relation ship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 18-21 - Hey everybody, I'm 20 years old and I'm a virgin. I've had a few chances to lose it, mainly to tragic drunk girls or the trashy ones who offered back home. There's a girl I met and we hit it off really well. I started dating her and I think our relationship took off. I'm an... (320 words) 

Can you discover paternity without a DNA test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - I'm pregnant with two baby daddy. I slept with these guy in the same month. How can I find out which one is the daddy without DNA test.... (28 words) 

The spark is gone. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - My Boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now and have been living together for 4 years! I went to go and stay with him while i was still im matric! For a few weeks now I have been Having doubts about our relationship, I'm only 20 and he is 29 I feel that I'm too yong ... (130 words) 

Is the feeling mutual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - Me and this guy text each other a lot, like all day every day, and we have been physical once. We have very sexual conversation all the time. He's very shy and he doesn't make the first move ever, on anyone. I've known him for a few years, and I'm starting to develop ... (84 words) 

My boyfriend is abusive what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

5 February 2008 (?)  age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together for six years, we have two kids together.I love him ,but he is very mean and he has OCD.If the house is not clean he goes crazy he starts calling me name and yelling at me. I dont know what to do. I dont think that our kids should have to ... (84 words) 

I'm scared to have sex again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - Hey okay so me and my.boyfriend live in 2 different states and we have been doing this long distance for a while now and this past October he came to visit me and we finally made the big decision and both had sex for the first time. It was amazing. I didn't come the first time ... (107 words) 

Are my two best friends lesbian/bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - Okay, i apologize that this may be kinda long. Okay, so i have two best friends, lets call them...Paige and Mary (:/). My friend paige has a boyfriend which shes had for 3 or 4 monthes and is very "touchy" with. i dont think shes THAT into him anymore but is still just st... (266 words) 

Our relationship is going stale, he's perfect in every other way, now his friend is flirting with me, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - I've been in a relationship for nearly 3 years now. My boyfriend and I recently got back together after a 5 month long break. The problem is, I don't know if I'm really in love with him. He is dependable, sweet, and loves me. He treats me so well. He likes to pay for ... (222 words) 

Are we inhibiting ourselves from "getting over it"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - so my exboyfriend and i still have feelings for eachother. we broke up cuz of distance n the fact that our lives might be moving in different directions n shit. but so when we travel n visit eachother (its been about 6 months) we still have a really great physical relationship. ... (96 words) 

Do you dump a friendship because feelings have grown and are not reciprocated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  - Can you give me your view or better still your experience on keeping friends with someone you have developed very strong feelings for? I have know this man for 9 months and we have become very close friends. We are both in the middle of irreconcilable marriage break-u... (562 words) 

Clingyness and mood swings.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 13-15 - I don't know what to do anymore. My girlfriend has had moodswings since we started going out but lately it's just been out of control and on top of that she calls me like every two seconds and don't get me wrong I like talking to her but not when there's absolutely nothing to ... (139 words) 

I'm scared to show my long distance boyfriend my webcam.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - I'm scared to get on web cam for my long distance boyfriend. I'm 18 years old and I met my boyfriend off the internet, he lives pretty far away from me, we talk on the phone and we already plan on meeting really soon, sometime in the next month or two. I've talked to him about ... (179 words) 

AM I A FOOL?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 41-50 - I had an affair which has subsequently culminated in the end of my marriage. My lover attempted to leave his wife several times during our affair but never quite found the strength. He finished our relationship around the same time my marriage broke up. However he came back ... (171 words) 

Do I go out with him even although he has a girlfriend and says she mustn't know?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - hi, I'm 16 almost 17 and ive been with my boyfriend for 8 months but recently discovered one of the boys I know in my street as we are all very close because we live in like a culdesac sort of thing closed off. I noticed he looks at me when everybody isn't looking. He's 23 ... (180 words) 

What to give a guy for Valentine's Day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 26-29 - Hey Guys! I need some advice. I have been dateing my man for over 7 months now. I love him to pieces. Valentine's day is about to come and I have no idea what to give him! He is into the car industry. He loves raceing and fixing his Mazda RX .. he gets whatever he wants ... (235 words) 

The last thing I want is a lifetime boyfriend who is stringing me along...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - I'm worried that I am in a dead end relationship. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. Our relationship moved very fast at the beginning and we have been living together for over a year now. He is planning to buy a house in the spring and he has made ... (149 words) 

I don't want to lose my guy friends or my boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - my boyfriend of 7 months has told me nearly every day since Christmas that he loves me and I find it hard to say it back! I do love him, really I do but I just not so much get embaressed but I don't know what it is, I just find it hard, what do I do? HELP! Also I have loa... (181 words) 

Can anyone possibly help me with that "married man dilemma"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 36-40 - Can anyone possibly help me with that "married man dilemma"? First, I am very aware of the sentiments of most of the advisers here, so let me say right off the bat that I have always agreed on the point but I am in such deep distress right now that I am willing to risk angry ... (362 words) 

Why do guys ask for our numbers and then not call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - Why do guys ask for our numbers and then not call? I am alone in a new city and am definitly open to meeting people. I get approached all the time. Someone even pulled me over to talk to me and get my number when I was driving to work, totally unsolicited but then never ... (119 words) 

Is his controlling behaviour normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - my boyfriend is coming across as very controlling recently he trys to make sure how long I can stay out for and who my friends can be. I can't wear skirts and he is going on a boy's holiday and I can't go on a girl's one. I do not understand if this is normal behaviou... (121 words) 

Is he flirting with this other girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  - I might need your help with this situation. Hope there is someone who can help. My ex... who was at a meeting tonight and asked me if I was coming confused me. I still like him but am about to give up. He was flirting with another girl a bit in front of me. A few times we made ... (143 words) 

I think it's time I really had a boyfriend but I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - I am 14 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Everyone at school says that I should have one because I'm "pretty" and have a great personality once they get to know me but I really don't know. I am actually pretty shy around everyone until I get used to the people ... (146 words) 

How can I belive my boyfirend wasnt talking to "her"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

5 February 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - ok so first i have been dateing my b/f for 2 yrs this june, and well im having a problem right now so i hope you guys can help me bc i really dont want to lose him. So ok my problem is i havent talked to him all day and wen i get on myspace hes on so i tell him that iv tried ... (218 words) 

I slept with my friend who has a boyfriend and I feel crappy.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 22-25 - I slept with my friend who has a boyfriend. I'm so torn up. I feel very guilty, but at the same time I wanted it to happen. I like this girl a lot. But we live in opposite sides of the country (right now). She basically told me to pretend like nothing happened but I just ... (159 words) 

Help!!! What should I do???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 February 2008 (M)  age 18-21 - Me and this girl have been dating for 3 weeks and I really like her. We've made out but then her friend said I should make a move. What should I do? (She suggested I finger her while we are making out) help please... (51 words) 

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