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Why does my husband treat his family this way?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I need some level headed opinions Please. My hubby and I have always had lots of disagreements and rows over our 20 year marriage. I always felt that I could do no right and if he disagreed with me over something it wasn’t talked about but massive rows where he would almost ... (835 words

Does he like me? what do I do?please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, I know there's so many questions about this but I really need help with my situation. I started to like this teacher at my school when i was 13, and now i'm 16 and leaving the school i've realised I do love him. Don't tell me it's a crush or infatuation or it's part of ... (191 words

Am I being manipulative by not putting up with his moods?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F - My b/f frequently lacks the ability to see things from another person's perspective. As a result, when he ignores my phone calls because he's working with a female co-worker who has been known to have a crush on him, I find things to do with my time rather than drive myself ... (316 words

My stepson lies about me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - My partner and I both have one child each from previous relationships, mine lives with us and his have visited at weekends and school holidays for 3 years. From the very start my stepson has told us stories about how nasty his stepfather is to him at home and I have always ... (311 words

He accuses me of flaunting myself...what can I do??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have a boyfriend. He loves me and i love him. Sometimes :O). Most of the time he is nice and easy to get along with, but, there are two things in our life that upset him deeply to the point where he shuts me out and doesn't speak to me for days on end...sometimes a week has ... (393 words

Is there any way I can deal with a yeast infection without medicine??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok well i think i might have yeast infection but i dont wont to tell my dad. What are some ways i can get rid of it without a doctors medicine??.... (31 words

I genuinely love this man and would like it to work out but I sometimes feel he thinks we have run out of chances.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hello Aunts/Uncles, My question has arisen from something that is a bit of a long story. My partner and I have been together for 5 years and I love him dearly. However we have had a lot of problems, mainly with him being moody and this results in arguments. Just recently ... (462 words

I told him we could just be friends...and now he is picking fights with me, why??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I have this male friend and feelings have stirred between us, but due to him having a girlfriend nothing has happened, although he has asked to meet up a few times but i have made excuses. He kept telling me that his relationship with his girlfriend isn't great, and that... (154 words

How can I move the conversation on with girls I don't know??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, to say abit about myself. I'm 18 years old and I have had a girlfriend before but this was 2.5 years ago. I am NOT shy and NOT afraid of rejection my ONLY problem is I NEVER know anything good to say other than "hi" then the conversation dies on my part. The issue below ha... (299 words

He doesn't look at me during sex...any ideas why??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend is very passionate during foreplay but when we have sex he stares off into the distance with his eye's open. I know men are visually stimulated but he isn't looking at me... he gets a kind of glossed over look like he's not there. Any idea as to why he would do ... (63 words

My dad's ex is blackmailing me into bringing my mates round for sex...what can I do??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - This is serious whether you want to believe it or not. I'm having sex with my dads exgirlfriend but now she is demanding for me to bring my friends round to fuck her or she'll tell my dad and it would really be bad for me and my dads relationship should i go ahead and get my m... (81 words

Is there any way to stop wet dreams??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 14 and i recently started getting "wet dreams" - it's quite annoying and how to stop it ? Also , sometimes i wake up after one, I clean the semen with a tissue and flush it down the toilet.. can someone get pregnant if they use the toilet straight after ? I know th... (92 words

After having intercourse, I get very dry

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - This is a rather private problem I've been having and I'm not sure what's causing it. After the first time I have sex in one night, my vaginal area becomes very dry. I'm not sure what is causing this problem. I'm emotionally ready for sex the second time, but my body doesn't ... (80 words

I feel a need to fix everything, but it doesn't seem to work

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Can some one help me? I am totally lost in life. I feel like I must fix the world. I am 25 married and have a career. I am currently separated from my spouse do to my job. I love my career, but again I am not sure if I should be at home with my husband ready to start a ... (194 words

Still in love with my ex. Should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - well theres this boy and i am in love with him, but hes my ex and is a ful time player. he's realy cute and nice, but every time we try im the only one trying. now we dont talk much, but every time i see him my heart explodes. i love him and want him to know. should i get over ... (69 words

Any weight loss tips?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 February 2008 (F - I am a teenager and would like too lose weight. Im a size 10 and would like to be atleast a size 8. Maybe I wont be because of my frame but I dont want excess fat. Love handles, Belly fat and leg fat. Im starting a diet tomorrow which ive done once before but stopped it because ... (134 words

Afraid he'd never talk to me again if I take the first step, how to rise above the others for him to notice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - there's this boy who goes to my orchestra group, and he talks to me and my friends quite a bit. i really like him and want him to notice me above the others. He's a year older than me. how do i know if he likes me back, or if he likes one of my friends better? I can't go on ... (104 words

I feel immense sympathy for him thinking he will be alone forever if he doesn't have me, so I can't walk away!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - for 3 yrs i have lived with a man who constantly lies to me about his internet activities, i know he uses it as a way to meet to meet people because i have found this out on numerous occasions. he avoids our sex life as a way to punish me and openly tells me this, if i dont do ... (374 words

I like my brothers best friend, but am afraid to tell him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - so i like my brother's best friend ,but he doesnt know ive liked him for awhile.i could see it working out with us.i just am scared to let him know because what if he doenst like me in that way? i dont know what to do.... (46 words

I am bi and have fallen for my best mate

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Im bi and i've fallen in love with my best friend. He knows i fancy him but im pretty sure he dosent know im in love with him. I cant just go on pretending and im thinking of making a move. What do i do?... (45 words

I cant commit to anything or anyone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I cant ccommit to anything or anyone, even when i try to stick to something like a new diet or doing work paperwork i put it off and find somerhing else to do. My ex boyfriend spilt with me because i wouldn't say i loved him, but i did for ages even before we started going ... (86 words

Why cant I find Mr. Right?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - What is wrong with me? I am soo desperate and ready to meet someone and date them etc However, any guys that I meet or seem to want to go out with me, I have no interest in whatsoever. There are a few guys that text me a lot, wanna see me etc but I cannot seem to see them in ... (145 words

My gay lover goes back and forth between me and his girlfriend. He says he is choosing her. Should I try to get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hi, I have been in a relationship with a guy who is 9 years younger than I am. As far as I know, I have been gay since my teen days, although I had one serious "relationship" with a friend in the past, who eventually moved on and got married. I met this guy 4 years back and as ... (1276 words

Why has he never contacted me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Why would a guy tell you that he'll contact you as soon as he's free / has some time, then he never contacts you again - Is it just a polite way of cutting you off or does he intend to come back to you at some stage or you are his 'back up'. I know it may seem obvious but he's ... (129 words

I am attracted to a woman at work. Does she feel the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am a woman and I have developed a very close relationship with a woman I work with. We have become best friends and I have intimate thoughts of her. We are both married. She kisses me on the lips quite a bit. When we are out drinking and dancing she comments on my butt and ... (120 words

I am trying to not be so shy and join in more. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi erm well ive always been quite quiet and never really been able to get on with big groups of people. I don't mean as in i don't like them i mean like i can't join in when theres for than 3 or 4 of them. I've really tried to change these past 6 months and i have done abit but ... (196 words

I'm starting to have intimate thoughts about a work colleague but I'm married. How can I tell if she's feeling the same way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have developed a very close relationship with a woman I work with. We have become best friends and I have intimate thoughts of her. We are both married. She kisses me on the lips quite a bit. When we are out drinking and dancing and she comments on my butt and rubs it a lot... (99 words

I cheated - what shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I cheated on my boyfiend at the New Year he doesn't know but I was wondering what I should do, he doesn't suspect anything. Shall I just keep it to myself or tell him what happened? Please help this is so important.... (47 words

More MMF fun - some advice needed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Didn't think it would come to this and I probably know the answer but need to be told it from outside observers. Anyway, I'm in my thirties, and I'm pretty sure that I've fallen in love for the first time (I've been in relationships before, but not like this). crazy feeling - ... (1539 words

How can I get back together with him without my parents getting mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, I have broken up with my BF over silly arguments two times this week. They have been more than breakups just stupid fights... but I'm a drama queen so I blow everything out of proportion (this is embarrasing to admit =/). So both times I broke up with him and made a huge ... (218 words

Could it be he's feeling too much pressure from everyone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I wrote in before about a guy I liked who I thought liked me too. I still think he likes me, and he and I have had some talks about how he treats me when he is drunk and he made huge efforts to change when I told him and I was really proud of him. I still just can't fi... (277 words

How do I reassure myself and stop being paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Right I'm a 16 year old, average-looking female and although it might not seem much of a problem, I actually fear for my own safety! I get these guys (between 20 and 50 years old) staring at me, checking me out and whistling etc. I suppose I can take that as a compliment, and I ... (133 words

Usually somebody gives their medal to their girlfriend. Before I sign should I ask if one day she could be my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I like my friend, she has a boyfriend and she's one year older than me. The other day she asked for my first track and field medal. She also wants me to sign a contract as a joke to make sure I give it to her. Usually somebody gives their medal to their girlfriend. Before I ... (72 words

How do I tell him I'm not allowed to go out with a boy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - So I'm a 14 year old girl. Through out my whole life I've always been a very nice and shy girl. Since I'm in grade 8 now, I'm around more people, I'm even more shy. This boy in my class(13) likes me and he has asked me out a few times and I have said I don't know. I kind of got ... (150 words

If your a 14 year old girl, are you considered as a child?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - If your a 14 year old girl, are you considered as a child? P.s. I'm 14.... (16 words

I am stuck in a marriage and want to get out. Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age - I got married 5 years ago we lived together 2 years b4 that. Just before I got married, I re-met the love of my life who I have known since the 80's. I was confused and scared, so I got married (I shouldn't have) We started up a relationship again 4 weeks after I got marr... (223 words

What are the signs of early pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

26 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - Please, I'm really worried here. What are the signs in early pregnancy? And I mean early as in maybe a month, or just under a month. And also, when you are pregnant, do your periods stop suddenly? Or could you still have your next period? Thanks for taking the time to read, an... (63 words

Am I over reacting by feeling uneasy about my partners chatroom activities.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - Am I over reacting by feeling uneasy about my partners chatroom activities. I am never told, I have always found out by accident or phone numbers clumsily left out. This has been going on for almost two years. I am always told that these names are either her cousin or she has ... (174 words

How do I get him interested again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - my husband and i have been experiencing difficulties in our marriage he tells me a part of him has died and he's not happy anymore. he says that he feels i was never interested in him much and it is definately not true. I was just too busy taking care of mom stuff, ... (114 words

I don't want to be in a relationship so I use porn, but feel dirty about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - i don't want to go into another relationship for now. to do this, sometimes i watch porns and masterbate after that to calm down my lubido. but i feel so dirty after this most of the time. am i doing the right thing? please help me.... (47 words

Could I be pregnant even though I got my period?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i had unprotected sex on the 9th and 10th of febuary,but i had a period on the 12th which was lighter than my other periods and only lasted four days. i've had a pain lately in the lower part of my stomach and my mouth has baeen tasty funny but no other signs. could i be ... (62 words

She went back to her abusive ex. How do I get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - I met this girl on the internet. She is 28 divorced and has two boys. When i met her she said she came out of a abisive relationship that she was in for 4 yrs. I am 40 and have a son. I know i took some of the retionship for granted because she said she was in love with me and ... (238 words

How do you get your 'joy' back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - What can I do to get my joy back? I know everyone goes through life's struggles and I think I've handled them well up to this point. But lately I've become so overwhelmed with life that I feel like I'm losing myself. I used to be so cheerful and energetic. Now I'm just ... (241 words

Why does a man just cut contact with you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - why? what makes a man cut contact with you unexpectedly even after youve asked why they are ignoring you and yet still they ignore you. why? even when you havent done anything wrong. does it take a certain type of a man to not consider your feelings does it mean they dont ... (67 words

As long as she wasnt married yet, she was free game. Right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age - I was at my brothers house and met his wife's neice. She is 10 years younger than I am and was engaged to be married in 3 months. She has a daughter with her fiancee and they live together and have been together for about 7 years. The thing is, I think she is fantastic!! It ... (739 words

I have loved her from afar. How do I meet her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - Desperately need help! I’m Tim and I’ve just turned 26. I work in a corner shop. I don't get paid very much but heck I don't care. I didn't offer my services to get paid, I wanted to see her. I know her name now. Tina. Doesn’t it sound heavenly? I keep on saying it o... (517 words

How can I make our sex more entertaining??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of one year always makes love to me twice or thrice per week and says am good. The only problem is we've been using the same style and i would like to make him feel good like he always does to me. What do i do?... (48 words

Every time I watch our favourite TV shows memories of her keep buzzing through my head. How can I overcome this??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I could use some advice from anyone who has been in a fairly long-term relationship before. I came out of a long-term relationship just over 6 months ago and I've found it very hard to get over (I didn't want it to end). Since then I can't enjoy things that we used to do toget... (182 words

How do I get the balance right so I don't scare her off??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - OK, I started seeing this girl who lives near me back in November. I am 34 and she is 26. Up until Christmas, things were great. We got on so well, we clicked and there was an obvious attraction for both of us. Things couldn't have been better and we were both very happy. T... (463 words

I don't want to break-up with her and then to start craving her again...and I know it would tear her world apart. What do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I started dating this girl about 4 years ago in June. Things were great for the first year or two, all loved up ect, ect, ect. She started hanging out with guys which she told me was just "old school mates"; so I had to trust her, and I tried. Eventually after 3 years (of what ... (570 words

I saw a flirty txt on his phone and now he won't let me see his phone bill...are guys just like that??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi, my fiance changed careers at the start of the year and has to train for 5 months. He doesnt come home at night until after 9 every night apart from Fri and Sat. When I approached the subject of setting a date for the wedding for a year and a half away he said he was unde... (260 words

Can anything be done to help my partner maintain an erection??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age - Can anything be done to help a man who is unable to maintain an erection long enough to have intercourse. My new partner is unable to complete sex because his erection doesnt last, is this a common problem and how do we sort it? It is very upsetting for him and he wants to ... (62 words

We rowed like we never have before after his ex called...was I so wrong in what I said??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Please help me. When I first met my boyfriend I'd known of him for 6 years, working together in a mental health hospital. I had originally asked him out over email before I left my job. Then after I'd been seeing him for 3 months, I found out that he had been living with a g... (928 words

It is definitely not over...so why don't I feel bad??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, my ex girlfriend and I had been together for 3 and a half years, and about a year ago we went through a "near breakup" because of the way we treated eachother. Since then it never quite felt the same, even though I did still want to be with her and her with me. So, a ... (257 words

He does not make me feel wanted, I feel we are strangers living together out of fear of being alone!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - my fience and i have been together for 5 years now he is always tired and doesn't want to have sex as much as i do. i am 20 and he is 23, we are too young for this to be happening. i try wearing sexy stuff, i keep myself clean, i always try to make him happy and satisfied. he... (360 words

My gf broke up with me to find out with certainty if she is gay. What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - hey I broke up with my gf 5 days ago this is really complicated lol anyways i've known her on and off since i was 13 and i always thought she was the one, we got together 2 years back and it was great all 2 years of it only ever had one or 2 arguments recently though we'd not ... (137 words

Which is usually the best pillar for a decision, ration or sentiments?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I made a big decision after fighting my head with my heart for some time. I chose to go with what my head was telling me after months of questioning what I should do. The actual day of my decision I had felt the strongest, that what I chose was the right choice. Now, that I ... (91 words

We both love each other, but is love enough? I'm worried about jobs.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I Have a long distance realtionship. We both love eacho ther. I'm crazy for him and i'm sure he does too. The only problem is that he has a better chances for the future for good jobs. For me i may just be working out in a supermarket again. One night i told him in person (face ... (149 words

Tips to compensate for smaller than usual size?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey i have a smaller than usually penis (4 in. irrect approx.) and wondering if anyone has a tip or two that would give me an edge in bed. I'm willing to try almost anything (not going to have "it" anytime soon but would enjoy some prior knowledge). Thanx for reading and i hope ... (57 words

How to get her more attracted to me, by specific gestures?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - yo, does anyone have an idea how i can get someone turned on/want me without something sexual, some kind of a gesture? I'm average built but a little heavy i'm willing to work on it any ideas? (specific exercises would help) ... (41 words

My boss is very flirty with me, but I don't want to risk losing my job or his, am I reading him right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Help,Iam falling for one of the male managers at my work. I dont know if he feels the same way but its possible. I dont want to ever do anything about it and risk either one of our jobs but its now getting to the point where I would give up my job any day to be with him. The ... (264 words

He is obsessed with my ex, I told him it's all in the past, now we aren't talking,what did I do wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age - i was seeing this gentleman who would always bring up my old boyfriend. He would not let it go. I finally got upset, said that I don't live in the past. I live right now. He said me if I told him I loved him. I could not understand why he kept asking me about him. Bringing him ... (113 words

My girl is very loose, but I like it that way, problem is I cant stay hard, help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

26 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - hello everyone, I have a unique problem I believe. Let me say first I love my girlfriend and want to spend the rest of my life with her. We have been going out for about 3 years now, and things are really serious, marriage is on the horizon. My previous girlfriend had ... (443 words

Should I call my ex boyfriend's current girlfriend and let her know that he has been playing both of us?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Wondering if i should call my cheating ex boyfriend's current girl and let her know that he has been playing both of us. I am the only one that knows about it. She is only 22 and he is turning 34 this year. So she is young and I would be lying if I didn't like the fact that it ... (319 words

Why do I have to suffer and love him so much, and how can I get over this overwhelming pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my ex. About an hour ago. Not the first time, but I think this is the last one. We had been having problems for a long time because he didn't trust me, he dislilked and judged me a lot about my past. He always made me feel guilty even though he was very... (387 words

Will I always be under his ex's shadow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunts, I've been dating a boy for about two months now. Even though we're just dating, I'm feeling worried. I only date guys whom I see myself being in a long term relationship with. In other words, I don't just date randomly for fun and to pass the time. I... (248 words

My boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Well my boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much? ... (32 words

Why did he act the way he did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really like this guy and we are in good terms with each other mutually. We met last year and have been good friends ever since. He says I love you to me and all that. He continually stares at me when I walk by his area. We never talked much to each other. He is a football ... (195 words

I don't want my brother's friend to ask me out but I do want him to know I'm interested in him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - There's this guy I'm really interested in being with, not right now cause I'm not ready. The thing is he's like my brother's best friend and I don't know if I'd be his type or not, but he's really hot and I could see it really going somewhere with us. Any advice on this one ... (80 words

I have just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years kissed a guy before we met and I don't know how to take this...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years kissed a guy before we met but I have just discovered that he is on a swingers site and his profile is very detailed about him wanting a threesome and he wants to be in the middle. It also said he's seeking both sexes. As I ... (93 words

Can't forget my Ex-girlfriend

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26 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I've been into a relationship and it was 5yrs ago and until now i'm still being hunted by my past. I was dumped by my ex-girlfriend for another guy which didn't even last for a year. we're together for almost 5years and i did nothing but to love her. my only mistakes was by ... (219 words

I'm sure he's cheating, isn't he?

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26 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Here is my question. To make a long story short, My boyfriend got a text from a woman that he is supposedly "friends" with, asking if she left a pair of black pants at his house. I calmly asked him how long he had something going on with her. He insisted that he had not has ... (277 words

HEEELLLLPPPPPP!!! 19 year old guy!

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26 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Heeeellllppppppp hi, I am a 19 year old guy. There is this girl I like, she is 16 nearly 17. Well, we met at work a few months ago but she had a boyfriend at the time. We never used to text much, but lately we have text each other loads. ummm... yeah, well, she broke up wit... (195 words

Should I call it quits or try to work it out?

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26 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I haven't talked to my boyfriend since Friday. He's mad at me but I don't know why. Everything was fine on Friday then all of a sudden he's mad. He always does this and it frustrates me so much and he never tells me why he's mad. He just goes on like nothing happened so I ... (91 words

For guys, if you slept with a girl while drunk, would it put you off? he's not answering my text!

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26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - This isn't actually a question as such but am needing some advice possibly from a male perspective. Theres a guy that lives in the flat below and we know each other pretty well, we've been flirting a lot reacently. Last Saturday night I saw him when I was out with my flatmates ... (217 words

Everyone keeps telling me that it's just jealousy but I think that it's more than that so please give me some advice, what should I do??

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26 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello all... I've been dating this guy for almost 2 years now and like all relationships we've had our ups and downs but right now my main issue is his 5 year old daughter, not her in general but how she acts towards me, I mean I love as if she were my own and I've never ... (300 words

I'm scared that although now she loves me when she starts meeting new people and seeing me less I'll drift away from her thoughts.

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26 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and we have been through a lot together. I love her so much but recently we have been arguing so much and it's affecting the way I feel about her. We discussed the arguing and both agreed that we should really make an effort to ... (145 words

Do you think he just wants me for sex?

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26 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl and I just have gotten my first boyfriend. He's 13, and he's also in my class. It seems from what I have seen, that he is a nice guy. I'm just scared he will just want me for sex and I might be pregnant at age 13. I'm scared. Do you think he just wants me ... (64 words

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