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writes:My question is how do I know if I am pleasing the guy that I am giving a blow job or hand job to? doing And should I be too scared to even do it because I think that they won't like the way I am doing it? Also I need advice on how to give the perfect hand job and blow job. ~Shorty~
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reader, pixeydust +, writes (24 April 2008):
 Just watch his reaction to what you are doing. As for the BJ, my BF likes for me to go down as far as I can on him and then slide back up the shaft slowly. I also like to run my tongue around him while I am going back up. If you want to know more you can contact me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): Annalisa gave great advise!
Enthusiasm is a very important ingredient, that alone makes it more pleasurable and comfortable to begin with. The techniques Annalisa mentioned, plus it never hurts to ensure you're naked at the time, give your guy a few things to look at :P
Different guys like different things, start off slowly work your way up, wrap your hand around the shaft and feed it into your mouth in a half hand job half bj type action.
Ask him what feels good, the head is the most sensitive so pay attention to that.
You'll get a feel for what you're doing right by listening to his breathing/any noises he might make.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (5 February 2008):
 "how do I know if I am pleasing the guy that I am giving a blow job or hand job to? "
The fact you're happy to do it is pleasing enough.
Besides practice makes perfect!
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reader, welshbrunette +, writes (5 February 2008):
 firstly....hopefully this is with someone you care about. if so, you need to just relax and let the passion take over...the nmore relaxed you are, the better it will feel for you too. To be honest, if you are nervous and uptight about giving either a blow job or hand job it will reflect in your actions. These are meant to be something that you should both enjoy...just take your time. you will know just how much you are pleasuring your man by his reactions. don't be scared to ask him what he likes,fast/slow etc.... if you dont feel comfortable, maybe you're just not ready for such intimacies right now....let it build up to a natural, enjoyable result!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): firstly, chill..!dont not do it because u dont know what you're doing theres only one way of learning and thats by doing itdo it with someone you're totally comfy with and he'll show you how he likes itor watch him and put ur hand over hislearn togetherdon't just avoid the situation
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