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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

Little Dilemma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey Dearcupid. I really like this girl who I have know for a long time, but since today I have found out my brother has started to take a liking to her as well. I really want to ask her for a date but I don't think she'll take it the right way since I have been her friend ... (121 words

Why do I find sex so painful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi I'm 23 and I find it very, very painful to have sex. Is there something wrong with me??????? Please help if you can, thanx... (25 words

Why did she log off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi, I have a really good friend. We always speak to each other and sit next to each other in classes. Just today she wont speak to me at all. I have no idea why but its worrying me. On instant messaging I asked her if I had upset her in some way and she just logged off.:( think ... (90 words

I don't think I'm bi but I fantasise about girls and I have a boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I find myself thinking about girls alot. im straight, i have a boyfriend of a year and a half now, nad i love him with all of my heart. but i also think that im attracted to girls. i think about doing things with girls all of the time and i have also talked to my boyfriend ... (107 words

Am I paranoid here or should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - First off, let me say that I'm being treated for anxiety, depression and slight bipolar. I have no self esteem at all, very distrustful and extremely paranoid. My problem is, I finally found someone who makes me happy and feel better about myself. It's a long distance relatio... (338 words

Married and in love with a married man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have fallen in love with a man from work. we are both married and he has 3 children. we have known each other for 4 years and always been attracted to each other. at the christmas party we spent the night dancing together and from then on have been emailing, then speaking ... (146 words

Any ideas of where and how we can meet in person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi, my best friend's cousin is my boyfriend. I have never met him though. She introduced us over msn and he said he really likes me. I really want to meet him and he really wants to meet me too. He gave me part of this chain that he wears everyday as a bracelet for valentines ... (112 words

More period problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - the last time that I had my period was on the 10th of January and after 2 weeks from that day i had sex with my boyfriend however we used protection. and i am not sure why i haven't started my period yet i worried plz help ... (47 words

Do I really love him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend we have a little boy together we have been together for 3 years but i am not sure if i should go . i did live i cumbria before and i wont to go back but he does not i am o sad where i am i feel like we just live together as friend and the relationship is ... (117 words

I've turned to food for comfort and now I am addicted to it...what can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ive been feeling down for a number of reasons over the past few weeks. And have found food a huge comfort so much so that i now fear i am addicted to it!! I am eating to the point where it hurts all the time from the moment i wake till when i go to sleep at night. Please he... (84 words

Am I the bad guy here or am I the victim??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - My girl and i had a fight about her x-boyfriend. He calls too much, i think he uses the excuse of haveing a child with her. He would call 2 four times a day. She is six months pregnant with our baby. She is always on the internet facebook; almost everynight she sleeps on th... (375 words

I am in so much confusion thinking my husband maybe bi or gay.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been married for 10 years and recently learned that my husband has been viewing porn on the internet, what makes matters worse is it mostly involves other men not women. He told me it's normal for this to happen when I confronted him about it but I don't think it is. I... (161 words

My foreskin is tight and it is making me nervous...any advice??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I read apparently only 20% of male men in Britain can retract their foreskins. I'm 14 and cannot. Now I'm not looking for sex at my age, but I'm nervous for sex in the future. I can take it back SLIGHTLY but anymore and it hurts. Any advice? *N.B - I'm 14 so don't say to me "T... (93 words

10 months on and I am thinking about contacting him...what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I’ve been finding it difficult to move on from someone. From 2005/06 I started uni and met a bloke. From the start he said he didn’t want a commitment and I didn’t either as I was settling in at uni. We dated and he started messing me about. We were on/off each other. S... (361 words

Am I falling for my friends tricks in thinking he is gay??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Bit of a complex question, so sorry if it's quite long. One of my best friends is a guy who admitted to fancying me a while back. I told him I loved him but only as a friend and we moved on - or at least I thought we did. We're still good friends and I've felt as though I... (466 words

How can I tell if my teacher has a crush on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I won't go into details...but I think my teacher, who has a boyfriend (according to her), has a slight crush on me. Could anyone please list out tell tale signs of a teacher liking a pupil. I'm not trying to take this anywhere...I just wanna sleep better at nights lol... (51 words

I don't think its possible for me to have sex because I am so tight...what is wrong with me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I don't know what is wrong with me. I have never had sex but i don't think it is possible for me too anyway. I am so tight i can't even put in a tampon without it hurting too much to bare. I have tried fingering myself to see if it was possible and it worked like twice but any ... (94 words

I overheard my husband talking about feeling another womens breasts.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I overheard a conversation of my husband feeling on another woman's breast. When I confronted him about he lied? By the next day he told me the truth but still denied certain parts of the story, claiming he was embellishing for his friend. This incident happened according to ... (68 words

Can I have someone special in my life and go to University as well??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Tonight, my parents were asking if I'd heard from my ex girlfriend whom I have struggled to get over for the past 8 months. During the conversation, I tried to explain that it would be nice to have somebody "in the mean time", but no matter what I said, they seemed to think ... (223 words

What can I do about this...it's not just a crush.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really like my teacher and its not just a crush. It's been going on for a while now but im not sure what to think as he has said things to me that may indicate he likes me too. I'm 15 and he is 29; not good. Someone give some advice? please!! I need to know what to do.... (70 words

I want to propose to her but...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - hey, I need some advice from you guys. I think I am in love with this new girl at my work place. Initially when she came, I did not like her because I felt she was a braggish fellow but she proved me wrong, when surprisingly she engaged me in a conversation despite the fact ... (450 words

What are some activities/ways of making love that we can do that don't involve intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been going steady for a while now and we are very much in love. We love just spending time together. We enjoy doing many things together. We are both virgins and have talked about having sex. He says that there would be nothing better for him than to see ... (201 words

For his 18th birthday I would like to give him the gift of sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I found your site while looking on the net. My boyfriend and I are into each other and have been dating. I am 18 and he will soon turn 18. Both myself or my boyfriend has had sex. However, we both have said that we want to and want it to be special. We have talked about it ... (273 words

Am I worrying unnecessarily?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I recently went to the doctor because I think I have a bladder infection, I have been given some antibiotics and I had to give a urine sample. I fear there is something really worng with me because you get loads of stories in the paper in magazines etc about people's health ... (75 words

Why did he not get back to me about taking me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi guys!!!!!!!!! There is this guy at work who I know has had feelings for me in the past, the first time he had feelings for me I had a boyfriend so nothing ever came of it. The second time he had feelings for me I was totally oblivious until my co workers said he hangs ar... (367 words

How to make my ex girl want me back, but by playing hard to get!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Me and my ex girlfriend dated for about 6 months. We've been broken up for about 3 weeks, everything has been good for the past three weeks but what should I do to get her back? She is 21 and I'm 19! Is it worth getting back together? What should I do and say to make her want ... (60 words

My wife is overweight and I don't feel attracted to her anymore

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - I'm married for 13 years. My wife and I have an 8 year old child. I feel like I'm trapped because I no longer find my wife attractive. The main problem is her weight. She weighs more than I do (83kg). She's packed on the weight ever since the child was born. I just find her ... (347 words

I can't seem to get wet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am going to sleep with my boyfriend for the first time the only problem is I dont get wet! I know this sounds weird but I really don't, I have any reason not to I get turned on etc.. But I never get wet! I have slept with a few people and I just don't seem to! Any ideas on... (77 words

He cheated on me 3 times and I can't get over it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend cheated on me three times. Twice in the first month, and then the third time was in the third month. We've talked about it all and it's been 8 months, and I still feel bad. He's a lovely boyfriend and I know he hasn't done it since, but I can't leave the past. It ... (101 words

What are these spots on my nipples? Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi. My nipples are really pale and look almost as if there are small white spots under the skin which makes the nipples look almost white. Is this natrual? I've never noticed them before. Should I go see a doctor?... (44 words

He's too clingy!!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - It's like I'm being suffocated!!!! My boyfriend is so clingy!!! I don't know how to get him to give me some space!!!! I mean when I want to be with my friends he gets all mad!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!! Should I break up with him or should I ignore him???? What should I do??? ... (62 words

How to fix a Long distace relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

20 February 2008 (M - Hello, can anyone help? I am in a long distance relationship with a girl in New Zealand. I live in the UK. We are both 37 We have been together for one year and have met up 4 times. We text and phone all the time and the relationship is good despite the distance. Ho... (264 words

I'm scared of my ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - I split up with my boyfriend in December, we had been together 13 months and he is being a absolute idiot, he has taken pictures of my house and put them on bebo, he is almost 14, I'm almost 13. What should I do? I don't want to get back with him but he is causing a riot for ... (92 words

I'm almost 13 he is almost 16, is that legal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm almost 13 he is almost 16, is that legal? He isn't forcing me into having sex but he is tryng to make me do things that I'm scared about and when I say no to something he says I can never try something new, should I tell him I'm scared because of what happened 2 my sister w... (254 words

Why do I keep randomly thinking about my ex girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I've been apart from my ex girlfriend for a long time now. Nearly a year. But it still doesn't take much for my mind to wander back to her. I was driving today, and while I'm sat in the car with nobody to talk to, and only the radio to listen to my mind tends to trail off and ... (205 words

I've been sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend, thing is... he doesn't know I'm her mother!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I'm having a morale dilemma. I'm single mum of one (38) with a 20 year old daughter. I work with a really cute guy whose 25 and made a pass at me on a works night out. I felt flattered but turned him down as I am his boss. A few weeks on, my daughter tells me she has met... (208 words

Could shaving/waxing too much 'down there' harm you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - If you waxed or shaved your pubic hair too often, could it harm you or give you a rash or something? Also, how often is too often? Just, I saw someone post an answer to a question about how you shouldn't wax/shave too often.. I didn't realise you shouldnt.. Any opinions or ... (56 words

Too close to the ex for comfort...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I moved in with this girl 1 year now and she has changed a lot. First of all she has two kids both who has different biological dads. Now she is pregnant with a baby from me. Her secound child's dad does not pay support or take care of his child but yet my girl drives the ... (163 words

Was he wearing the trunks when with her... or not???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Heres the deal. I probably set myself up for this by being such a nice guy, but now I need advice on how to handle this situation. We're married for quite a few years now, and last spring, out of the blue, an ex-boyfriend of my wife's contacted her via e-mail. They wer... (568 words

Torn between my bf and my friend....is he saying it because he still likes me??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

20 February 2008 (F - Ok in desperate need of help. Ive been going out with A for about 1 month now. I met him through a friend we both share, B. B used to like me when we first met, but i only saw him as a frend, so i told him that and he said he was ok. He tried to set me up with his mate A, t... (506 words

What makes you mistresses of this world think you're so special?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

20 February 2008 (? age - I have been criticized on my backlashing women who sleep with married men,,,and that I dont attack the men....WRONG...the men are the scumbags in this whole ordeal... Now my question, if these men are scumbags, and these women say that the wife will take them back and they wil... (378 words

I haven't been much fun recently and last night my bf said I am not entertaining.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been going through a hard time lately, so I know that I have not been the most fun person to be around. But, last night my boyfriend basically told me that I am not entertaining. I cried as it really hurt my feelings. I am not a boring person. What should I do?... (59 words

Both of us have trust issues...what can we do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, i have this boyfriend whom I dated for about 7 months. And we have this big problem with trust. He's always skeptical about everything a but so am i. I always feels like he's cheating evrywhere he goes, even when he goes to work and I'm at school. I love him with all my h... (157 words

I feel like I have to compete for my bf with his friend...how should I handle this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a few months now and what bothers me is that he has a long time friend (female) that lives with him because of her family issues. Whenever i go over to his house i feel like i'm the 3rd wheel and me and him can't just hang out we all have... (137 words

Trapped in a loveless marruage and I want to end it...but I can't leave my kids.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - Dear Readers, I have been in a loveless marriage with my wife for the past 11 years. Please don’t judge me, but there has never been any sort of love between us and therefore I have always cheated on her which she is fully aware of but doesn’t seem to care anymore. We bot... (185 words

My girlfriend can be a real bitch sometimes!

This question has 96 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I really love my girlfriend of the past year and a half and we have even talked of marriage. The problem is that whenever she gets a little bit frustrated and stressed about something (her job, waiting in a long line, etc...) she takes it out on me by becoming super snappy and ... (192 words

Is it safe to take antibiotics when your on your period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I recently went to the doctor becasue I may have a bladder infection and I was told to take a urine sample about half and hour later. I came on my period and I have to take antibiotics. Is it safe to take antibiotics when your on your period?... (51 words

I'm just shy... am I being stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I met up with the guy I'm kinda seeing last nite, his mate was also there. Anyway, I overheard him talking to his mate that I don't listen to him when he's talking to him which I always listen, I just forget what he says sometimes and I don't mean to, I'm just not good at ... (127 words

Any help? I'm trying to conceive but my periods aren't regular...

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20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My partner and I are trying to conceive. My periods aren't regular, going from 21 days up until 30 days. They usually last 5 - 7 days, with at least 3 of those days heavy bleeding. This month, (period starting 15th feb); 15th - light spotting 16th - bleeding for full day, ... (93 words

Take it slow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hi, I have really messed things up with my partner Sharon of 3.5 years. I moved out of her house at her request just before xmas 2007 because of my anger outbursts (not physical) and tantrums. She has never gone out of her way to annoy me, upset me or push the right buttons to ... (417 words

What's the best position for a G-spot orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - What's the best position for a G-spot orgasm? I only ever really come from clitoral stimulation, and not from intercourse, any hot tips?... (24 words

Does he WANT to see me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F - Ok so I feel like maybe my boyfriend doesn't want to see me. Please tell me your thoughts about what he said. I usually vist him during his work break a few times a week right and today I saw him and he said 'you can come visit me tomorrow if you want to, you don't have to'... (212 words

Is there any other way of stopping your period for a couple of weeks other than taking the contraceptive pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Is there any other way of stopping your period for a couple of weeks other than taking the contraceptive pill?... (20 words

Three times my age. Taboo or Not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I currently live with an woman who is three times my age, I am 19, she is 58. I rent a room from her while I go to a university nearby. I have lived there for a year and a half and we have been lovers since the summer of 2007. It's just too amazing. I have had a decent amount ... (153 words

I feel as if he has a wandering eye...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi I'm in a rather serious relationship with a guy, we have been together for 1 year 2 months. We also live together. Yesterday when I returned from work he told me that there were two "hot chicks" that came to our home to renew our contract. He just had to tell me how "hot" ... (127 words

Should I ask my childhood friends to my wedding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am due to be married in a few weeks. I have almost everthing prepared but 1 problem still keeps me awake at night, here's the background to my story so I can then ask the question: From age of about 12 I had these 'friends'.. There was about 8 of us in the group and I always ... (231 words

Any ideas what to get someone (who has everthing) for her 21st birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, any ideas what to get someone (who has everthing) for her 21st birthday... or i was thinking of something i could add into her party night, but I dunno what... alllllllllllllllllll opinions welcome x... (35 words

Should I risk my marriage for the girl at work??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'm a married man but there I'm tempted to cheat on my wife with a gorgeous brunette in my office. Shes cute, funny and has a gorgeous bum. The only problem she has a serious boyfriend and I'm married. She flirts with me and I flirt back, we have also suggested meetin... (152 words

I am so inexperienced...can anybody help me get my self-confidence back up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - help, I am 14 and extremely unexperienced. I have done nothing my whole life. A guy hasnt done anything to me and i havent done anything to a guy. Any advice on how i can get my self confidence back up since all my friends have at least done something and please no ... (82 words

Has anybody else's children heard them during intercourse??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - During intercourse the other night our son (6) heard me having an orgasm because he asked me next day what the noise was. I said it was a dream. Anybody else had a similar experience?... (35 words

Poll question: how far have you gone (14 year olds)

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey everyone Me and my bestie are both 14. She is really worried that she hasn't done anything (sexualy) before. I'm not talking about fully having sex but even a hook up. So i want to start a poll for all the 14 year olds out there. How far have you gone?... (63 words

Should he pay for this pregnancy termination?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I had a pregnancy termination last week as my partner and I agreed we are not ready to bring a child into the world. We have been together over a year. The contraceptive failure was my mistake (forgot to take the pill for a couple of days) and he says he was shocked as he ... (214 words

I have to see him every day at work which makes it harder and harder to resist him, but I don't want to ruin either of our relationships!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am in a really good relationship and things are going really well with my boyfriend but this married man in my office at work keeps flirting with me and sending me emails. I get on really well with him and have been spending my lunch time with him. I am really confused about ... (99 words

How do I show him that he isn't "sick" for dating me, despite of our considerable age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Alright, So I have been in and out of a relationship with this man who is 33 years older than me. I'm 21, 22 next month. I have a great time with him and he is one of my best friends. I'm very attracted to him and we have alot of things in common. All of my friends love him and ... (196 words

I am inviting even the persons I dislike as I wouldn't like to exclude them, but I fear they will ruin my party!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - It's my birthday next week! I'm excited, but i'm worried these girls are gonna ruin my party - I don't want to hurt my mum but the film we're gonno watch at the cinema looks crap (Underdog) has anyone heard of it, is it OK? This is my first party at my new shcool and I'm i... (115 words

I love my sister-in-law, what should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and I fatasize over my 24 year old sister-in-law. Shes married to my 28 year old brother. I want her so bad and I don't know what to do about it. I think she likes me, but I don't really know. help! What should I do?... (51 words

What to say to my boyfriend when he finds out about the stage kisses? (rather passionate)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

20 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - I'm very much in love with my boyfriend of ten months, he is the most amazing man I've ever met. However for the next two months or so I am taking part in a production of Romeo and Juliet, I have been cast as Juliet and this absolutely gorgeous boy has been cast as Romeo. ... (201 words

How do I explain to people at work that I was the "third wheel" without knowing it? I feel humiliated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am in my early 30s. I met this guy at work, everyone was trying to hook us up together because we came from the same country. He asked me out, and I went. we talked; we turned out to have a lot in common.. He then ignored me for a few days, and asked me out again. I went the ... (180 words

I feel embarassed to go to social occasions with my bf, fearing something bad may happen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - The man i am dating sometimes proposes me to go out to social occasions where we will meet a lot other people, some of them are friends. Although i am happy for that, i often feel very embarrased and think that bad things will happen to those social occasions. Maybe i am afraid ... (108 words

I really love him and don't want to loose him but don't want to be his lifetime girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 21, almost 22. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. We had been friends for 5 years before we started dating. I'm at the point in my life where I am ready to get married and have a family. I keep seeing my friends get married or engaged and it just depresses me to ... (147 words

Should I get together with my long distance boy although plans for a trip with him and friends fell through??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Met a boy a couple of weeks ago when our two mutual friends set us up (at his request, after seeing my profile online). At first I wasn't really interested in the whole set-up thing, but after meeting him and spending the weekend together (the 4 of us, very g-rated), I really ... (345 words

Can you fall pregant ten days after sex??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Is it possible to fall pregnant 10 days after having sex?... (11 words

Is there any exercises I can do to make my chest size smaller??

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20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone I am 16 years old I weigh 136 pounds and I am 5''2 my chest size is 36C I really feel uncomfortable about my chest size I think its too big for me..I'm always wearing sweaters to hide my chest..I just don't like my chest..I always wear 2 sport bras because I ... (76 words

Should I tell my friend she is only being nice to get back at me??

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20 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - So I had this friend in college who I met last semester who I became good friends with. Her true colors eventually came out and she turned out to be really insensitive and spineless and just a bitch so I started to avoid her, especially after she "forgot" my birthday. Anyway... (538 words

She says it wasn't cheating because they weren't formally back together. Is she right??

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20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Is this considered cheating? My friend and his girlfriend were going through a tough time, and decided to take a break...the break literally lasted a day and they were back hugging and kissing and everything...then one late night, she looks at him and tells him "i love you so m... (164 words

I feel like he is pulling away and he does little to reassure me...any advice??

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20 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 27 and dating D for 7months now. He's 31. We got together within 2 weeks of knowing each other and so far it's ok, though we have some personality and habit clashes. Recently I feel as if he's pulling away, and I told him I feel that I am easily replacable and I do not... (164 words

We got through the rocky stuff but now I am bored and frustrated and all I want is to be happy with him again...but we don't know how.

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20 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am with a guy and we're both 21 right now. We got together around october and it was a little rocky at first because he was "afraid" to get back into a relationship because he didn't want to get hurt again. Neither one of us has broken up a relationship either so we're bo... (365 words

Could I be pregnant if I started my period early?

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20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i had unprotected sex this whole month and went in me most of the time. He did right before i started to and i was supposed to start in two more days but i started early plus it was brown and red. Could i be pregnant if i started my period early?... (55 words

I dream my girl cheated on me, am I being paranoid?

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20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - i recently had a dream of my girlfriend cheating on me. and in the past i have always been very reluctant to trust any girl that i have been with, including my current girlfriend. we have been together for nearly 16 months now, and no strong trust has really developed. today ... (234 words

Why does he want to end it....? Is he afraid of being hurt??

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20 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend and he loves me. He cried and told me he is jealous when i go out with my friend(male), now he want to end our relationship. Could you tell me why and is he afraid of being hurt?... (44 words

I have grown to have really deep feelings for my friend and think I actually love her...

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20 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My name is Blair, I'm a 16 year old girl. I went to boarding school my freshman year of high school in Colorado. It was my choice. I left because I felt isolated, lonely, and depresed at home. My family was going through some issues and I couldn't take it anymore so I left. O... (329 words

Does he fancy me back?

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20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi There is this boy at work who I really fancy! He always stares at me and then when Ii look in his direction he turns his head away! He also says nasty things like (name) shut up and erghhh comments but then sometimes smiles at me or winks at me! The thing is I'm shy and ... (82 words

We flirted, we messaged... but it's dull! How can I make this more interesting?

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20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello I've met a girl through a "meet me" application on the internet. I've started messaging her, but how can I make it more interesting? I don't want her to find me boring just because of how we're e-mailing. Basically, I "sent her a flirt" and she sent one back. Then I sen... (159 words

How can I tell my friends I can't help them out with their studies?

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20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I hope that the moderators still publish this, being that it's not a sexual love relationship. I am currently a Biological Sciences major at the University of Nebraska. Along with my biology courses, I must take chemistry. Chemistry at the university is very very diffic... (174 words

Should I tell my second cousin that I love him?

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20 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a small problem. I know this great guy, and I see him every summer because we live in different states. I began to have feelings for him 2 years ago but brushed it off as nothing. But then I saw a year later and I fell for him, hard. I can't stop thinking about him. He's ... (184 words

How can I tell when a woman is sexually aroused?

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20 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I have a question about arousal. How can I tell when a woman is sexually aroused? Is this something that you can tell when a woman is fully clothed or is this only noted when she is in the nude? At this point is she ready for intercourse or is foreplay necessary? What info... (85 words

I really fancy my ex girlfriend's mother...

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20 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am 18. My relationship with my girlfriend ended with her leaving me. She said that we could remain friends. This happened over a month ago. My ex-girlfriend and I have remained friends. She has a new boyfriend and she seems happy. I am happy for her. We still see each other ... (326 words

At what age does a woman reach her sexual prime?

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20 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have a question about a the sexual prime for woman. At what age does a woman reach her sexual prime? During this period of her life does she tend to want and or have sex more? During this time is sex more enjoyable for her? During this time is the sex more passionate? Than... (70 words

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