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Can I get pregnant if the guy touches himself and then me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - I have a problem, I meet this guy a while ago, I don't really know him that well but last night I saw him and things got a little frisky. So my question is can you get pregnant if the guy touches himself and then me? All I know is that he did the same thing today, he went to ... (81 words

Why is it so hard to commit. I know she is the one I love and want to spend the rest of my life with.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Well where to start, I have 8 colleagues in my office every one is married I am the single one. Every day I'm been told by them how lucky I am been single and to tell the truth, when I hear some of the crap in there lives it really lets me think twice. And this is where the ... (195 words


   

Let Down... do I have what it takes to pursue my dream career... people say I do not.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hey I know that this has nothing to do with dating or relationships but I decided to ask it here anyway cause I really need some advice. I am a 20 year old college student who is recovering from a year long bout of major depression. This depression has effected everythi... (433 words

Unsure...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him dearly. He stays in my house every night except for every other weekend when he stays in his own house while his two step children from a previous relationship visit. He has told me that he wants to spend t... (159 words

I'm positive shes 'the one' and I don't to what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 10-12 - Right, I'll get straight to the point, I've known this girl for a number of years and as time's gone on we've got closer and closer, I like her, she likes me, I know this because we've told eachother, one problem, she has a fella, we both have feelings for each other and we ... (176 words

   

Any ideas how I can forget about this or at least feel ok??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

16 February 2008 (F - I slept with a colleague from work a night but didn't properly had sex as I explained him I'd rather know him better for such and he said it was ok so we did sort of getting off a bit and so on. He told me to phone him to have sex if I felt like it but I explained I'm not ... (233 words

Any exercise ideas to get flat abs quick??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 13-15 - hi... I'm a 15yr old girl and am wondering on the best way to get flat abs quick, i know the basics. Just want some exercise ideas. please x... (32 words

Why do men stray into the arms of another??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - This question isn't actually about my relationship, but I do have a general curiosity about infidelity. It seems as though I am surrounded by hundreds of women, whose husbands/boyfriends have cheated. I'm not baiting anyone, I really have a geniune curiosity, and I would love ... (145 words

'Fat chance' of us getting engaged...should this upset me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend made a comment to his father over the phone and I'm not sure if I have the right to be upset about it or not. He doesn't see his dad much and was chatting to him on the phone earlier today. During the conversation my boyfriend happened to mention how long me and h... (140 words

Do I just go with my boyfriend and leave my dad a note?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi Yesterday, my mom and I got into a fight she was totally wasted and when she gets drinking she's a fighter. I was sleeping for about 15 mins then out of the blue she tries to strangle me in my sleep. I told my boyfriend about this and he told me I have to move on, forget a... (134 words

Do Girls Really Like it When A Boyfriend Writes Them a Poem?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 26-29 - I have a question for all you good natured girls? If I were to write a poem to a girl telling her that I wish she was mine; that, I would protect her; that, I would hold her in my arms when she is cold; that, I would wipe her tears away when she is sad...Do you think this is ... (112 words

Do I tell the affair partner's fiancee about his affair with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 22-25 - My ex-fiancee cheated on me with one of her male friends for several months. We broke up because she continued to keep in touch with him behind my back even when we were "fixing" the relationship. So this question is more a moral dilemma... The "other guy" was and still is... (138 words

He works part time and when he has time off he says he needs alone time. All he does is play video games!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together for six years we rarely see each other, he works part time and when he has time off he says he needs alone time. All he does is play video games! I don't know what to do. We talk for hours every day on the phone, it's just not the same as ... (63 words

Does he love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 22-25 - I feel that there is no flame with my fiancé and I and I want to know if he really love me. What can I do? ... (29 words

I want to rekindle a relationship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I am 28 year old female. I need a little advice about my situation. My ex boyfriend and best friend had a semi mutual break up on New years day, he instigated it. We both agreed that we were still in love but thought we both needed to work on ourselves a bit. Weeks wen... (197 words

Is there a chance I could get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 13-15 - Yesterday, my boyfriend was on top of me and he put his hand down his trousers and started wanking, he then had a little bit of cum on his hand and then a few minutes later he put his hand down my knickers and was going to finger me but didn't, he just put is hand there and ... (67 words

Am I normal??? How can I overcome this shyness with women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 26-29 - I want to know if I'm a normal guy. I'm 26 years old and I don't date at all. Not because I don't want to date, I find woman very attractive, I'm just shy. I have gone on a total of 5 dates my whole life, and have never been on a second date. ... (54 words

He's going way too fast here!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 22-25 - He said to me thinking I was a bit drunk that he can see himself falling in love me with me after only meeting a few times! Should I get out now or get to know him better?... (39 words

I really want out of the relationship, but he's pretty attached and I'm concerned about hurting him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - I'm 19 and have been dating my 20-year-old boyfriend for almost a year. We've had some minor fights over the commitment my job requires of me, but that's about it. In December of last year I found myself with a (requited) attraction to a much older, married, co-worker. This ... (404 words

What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have a problem with my boyfriend, I feel that he is going too fast for me I am constantly stressed out. I want a relationship with him but my mum and dad won't let me, they don't want me to see him but I do, I want to be there for him. He has a lot of emotional problems but ... (130 words

The more I try to dislike him, the more I love him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - I used to work with this guy he's very cute, sweet, and will do anything for anyone. I liked him a lot (more than friends) and a lot of people I know, told me that he liked me too. But he talked (or dated) my younger cousin for about a week. It never went anywhere. A lot of ... (173 words

Not like the other dreams I've had about my teacher...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 16-17 - This is about a dream I've had. I've possibly had hundreds of dreams about my teacher for the past three years. I can't explain why I love him, I just do. I know that he's not anything I need, but somehow I keep falling for him over and over again. It gets frustrating, b... (275 words

Should I give it another try or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - I have been on and off with this guy I'm in love with for 5 years. We decided to go our own ways and he got with a girl but left her for me then got back with her. Now they have broken up due to their own problems and he is saying he wants me even though he knows how hard it ... (97 words

Should I tell my ex the baby is really his?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 16-17 - Last year i was meant to have an abortion after me and my boyfriend split up, but i never. I never told my ex i was pregnant either. I gave birth to a healthy baby boy called Levi on 24th January. I have seen my ex 1 or 2 times since we split up and he doesn't think th... (167 words

Is it true that men prefer women of lower IQ than them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 February 2008 (F - I read an article in Metro which said (although it was at Valentine's event for geeky Massachusetts Institute of Technology students) that men often prefer to have sex with a woman of lower IQ. Do you think that's really true, because I know someone whose man spends all his ... (90 words

How can I make this long distance romance work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 16-17 - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 23. We have a long distance realationship and its been so hard on me! i really love him and i really need him in my life! He loves me too he tells me he loves me that he would never leave me and that he has already decided that he wants to speand the ... (774 words

Should I cry out when I orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 22-25 - I've recently started to orgasm during intercourse and sometimes feel like calling out with the pleasure.I'm a bit shy though and wonder if the people in the bedroom next door might hear-especially when it's so quiet at night.My man says if Ifeel like making a vocal release ... (57 words

Have you ever told someone you loved them, but you didnt? why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - Here is a question i asked early this morning, i'm putting back on as i wasnt as many answers as i can. How many of you out there have told a girlfriend, boyfriend, fiance, wife, husband you loved them but really you didn't? Just curiosity, why do people do that?? sue ... (62 words

Any tips for getting over being messed over by a guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Has anybody got any tips for getting over being messed about by a guy. I keep thinking about him all the time. Sometimes I'm angry at what he did, sometimes I remember the chemistry we had and I'm hoping he will call me, other times I'm trying to figure out why he did w... (124 words

How do I get over feeling so insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F - Whenever I'm in a relationship I end up always feeling down, sad, insecure and worry about lots of little things and fear the worst- me and my bf breaking up. I hate feeling like this as it totaly consumes me. But the thing is I dont know why I feel like this.Some people tell ... (101 words

How do I get over this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (? age 18-21 - Hey , i known this girl for around 4 or so years, weve dated twice and its a bit complicted, we dated for a couple mopnths when we were younger but it was nothing serious, she would have liked it to have been although at the time i didnt quite know how to handle things and sort ... (433 words

Major crush going on here. How do I handle it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 16-17 - Ok can you please help e! this is like a load of little questions in one so i'm sorry if its confusing. I have never had a proper bf befoe and never been bothered about one until i met this lad. We are friends and see each other most days at school/college and are in the same ... (305 words

My partner has more issues and concerns over my parent's money, than I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi there. I've noticed there are some good aunts and uncles on this site who can throw light onto baffling behaviour! So I've come to you with a question if I may? My partner constantly criticises my parents (to me) on a daily basis for not buying a property (they have ... (517 words

Do you think he is into me or not really, anymore?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 22-25 - I was practice teaching at this school for 2 months but left to teach somewhere else. I found a DVD I borrowed from one of the others teachers a month later and contacted him to tell him I had it and if he wanted it back. I've always had a little crush on this teacher, I ... (506 words

My ex wants to get a court order demanding DNA tests..can he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I'm at a total loss. My 2nd baby is due any day now and my ex is adament the baby is his even though I know it definitely isn't his (he was out of the country at the time the baby was concieved). He's making my life extremely difficult saying he is going to ... (107 words

I have a small penis,,how can I satisfy a female?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 18-21 - Hi im a guy in my late teens and im really embarrassed ive got a very small penis just on 2 inches fully erect ive never had a girlfriend im to embarrassed what can i do can i even satisfy a girl?... (47 words

My first possible boyfriend. What does all this stuff mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hi(this is long so sorry) i meet this guy last month through a mate and thought he was very cute,anyway he had a g/f and thought nothing else of it,then last week he split with her,my mate who is good mates with said he liked me but nothing would happen as i would not like ... (249 words

I gave him the green light to touch me, but he didnt. Whats wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a month. He's very affectionate and likes to hold me, cuddle me and caress me. We've not slept together yet but I've slept in his bed with him and the other night we were both really turned on. I had to almost give him permission ... (117 words

Is she playing hard to get?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 26-29 - hello, i just need some advice. well theres a girl iv liked since last summer, i offen smile and look whenever i see her, she sometimes smiles bk, but iv never had the chance to say anything to her thro being shy or not knowing how to break into a conversion. well the other... (285 words

How does the morning after pill work? Should I trust it? How do you calculate your fertile period?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

16 February 2008 (? age 16-17 - On the night of Valentine's day, I noticed that the condom we were using had split. We stopped having sex, and changed the condom. The next day (yesterday) I went and took the morning after pill, but I'm not sure how it could ever stop me being pregnant. He told me he definite... (88 words

His friends tell me we are soul mates but... he is already committed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 22-25 - hi, please help. i have been in love with a man for 3 years - i know he used to have feelings for me years ago but i was in a long term relationship at the time. it is driving me insane... i think about him all the time and even his friends tell me we are soul mates. but ... (108 words

Can a lost love return once you've set them free? Is there really hope or is it better to stay single?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - My ex and father of my children says that he needs his time and wishes that one day we will return together later in life but there is too much water under the bridge (I agree), I love him and hate him at the same time but I miss him and want to eventually end up with him also. ... (112 words

He told me he liked me but asked somebody else out instead!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I thought a boy liked me, he even told me he did. We decided to get to know eachother better and see how it goes. He then asked some other girl out on valentiness day!! Now im bummed What happened? I still like him. What can i do? x... (52 words

After how many dates should you discuss your relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - If you go on a few dates with someone new, and see them alot during the week, talk on the phone, go over each other's houses etc - would you be bf/gf? I was wondering, what is the usual amount of time before you should start assuming you are a couple, and if you should just ... (140 words

I keep dwelling on the collapse of my relationship. I feel like nothing makes me happy anymore. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 18-21 - How can I stop dwelling on my past? I had a 2 year relationship which ended last summer. Since then, not a day has gone by where I don't dwell on the fact that my ex doesn't want to be with me anymore. It's been almost 8 months now, and I'm sick and tired of this obstacle be... (248 words

I want my ex to be happy in his relationship but I also... want him back! Struggling with the emotions, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 16-17 - I have a serious problem with my ex boyfriend and his current girlfriend. My ex and I broke up about a year ago. We have still continued to talk but lately it's been A LOT more. His present girlfriend seems nice enough and I want him to be happy more than anything in the world, ... (150 words

He suggested that we continue together on the down low, after he decided to officially stay with the mother of his baby. I accepted but soon we drifted apart, now I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - i am 19 years old and im going through a situation where ive been with this guy off and on since my freshmen year of high school which was in 2002 and we finally stop going out september of 2007. well im still in love with him and wat not...he is my first love and i cant seem ... (390 words

In love with my half brother? We plan to disappear as I reach 18, and expect the general disagreeance - but would anyone understand?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 84 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 16-17 - i just met my half brother 2 years ago. we've always had this connection, and a lot of unspoken sexual tension. we have been real close for a long time, and i would do a few [illegal] things with him and if it got to bad to calm me down he would hold my hand. there was also ... (198 words

Should I tell my bf about my pregnancy and miscarriage during the time he was away? I did not want to upset him at the moment...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - Dear Aunts, my boyfriend left for America 4 months ago and now hes back, however while he was away i was taken into hospital and tests showed that i was pregnant and had miscarried, i hadn't known i was pregnant. I didn't tell him as i didn't want to upset him, but now it'... (69 words

Does he secretly have feelings for the ex - since he refuses to drop her as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 16-17 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. Before that, he was in a relationship for 10 months, and I was always his best friend. Toward the end of his past relationship, he was saying he loved me. When they broke up, we started going out. He started talking to his ex ... (246 words

How can I move on from a break up that was inevitable, but that I didn't want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - I can't stop crying... I HAD to break up with my boyfriend. He's just so judgemental of my past. He always kept going and going about how awful everything I did before was; that I had a mildly sexual fwb with a guy he knew, that I had a crush on a much older guy (like 6 year... (831 words

For the whole time I've known him, he can't ever hold a job and I have to deal with the rollercoaster of the emotionconsumer conditions. Now I'm pregnant and wondering, will things change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - I would like to know if anyone has any options for me. Basically I have been with my guy for 6 1/2 years. I am currently due to give birth to our first child any day. For the whole time i've known him, he can't ever hold a job and whenever life looks like it might be going ... (926 words

I have been so upset for so long due to my husband's irresponsible behavior, I am now having anxiety attacks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have been with my husband for a little over 10 years, married for 7 and a half and we have children. we fight all the time i can't get him to help me with anything in the house, no chores very little help with the kids and he hasn't had a job in 8 months and has not been able ... (141 words

Boys consider me ugly and I feel very low about it, whereas the school regulation does not allow make up or other forms of embellishment. What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 13-15 - i am really ugly, i am dark and my hair is sooo curly and frizzy... my face gets so oily and it looks really bad..we wear uniforms in school and not allowed make up although i do put eyeliner...and im not allowed to straighten or colour my hair or put proper make up..im ... (76 words

She still wants to go out with me but says it's too soon to accept a relationship, I feel bad about having been rejected though!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 18-21 - i met this girl from a friend, she is very pretty, and looks totally interested in me, we've met trough msn then phone, then we've gone onto 4 dates, i asked her on valentine's, we went out and i asked her to be my gf, she said it was too soon and she said she needs more time ... (101 words

Sibling problems, Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 16-17 - I don't know what to do about my brother. This isn't some weird incestuous relationship, I just mean that my brother hates me and I don't know where else to go. I'm 16 and he's 14. Here's the thing. We get along for certain periods of time, it all depends but rarely lasts ... (359 words

Will shy men like me EVER find true love ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hello! I am a 25 year old man living in Syracuse, New York. I am very shy but i socialize when i can. My problem is i feel like time is running out. Everywhere i go i see people with their special someone and i don't have anyone. These horrible feelings get worse every ... (562 words

I want to have sex and there's this specific guy in mind.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - Here's the thing I want to have sex and there's this specific guy in mind. I told him already and he's cool with it. He's a friend of mine and sexy as ever. But here's the things I don't want a relationship and he has a girlfriend. Is is right for me to loose my virginity to a ... (98 words

How do I ask out a girl on facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 26-29 - There's this girl that I met a couple days ago randomly, and I just found her profile on facebook. I felt like when we met, we both had some chemistry. Made each other feel a little more alive, or what not. Unfortunately, I got distracted and we stopped talking and she left. ... (185 words

Why do people do that ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - Here is a question. How many of you out there have told a girlfriend, boyfriend, fiance, wife, husband you loved them but really you didn't? Just curiosity, why do people do that?? sue x... (44 words

Is there a way to help relieve the heartbreak I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hello, So, here's my thing. I tend to fall in love, like deathly in love, with someone. And lately I've fallen in love with a very good friend of mine and just found out that she likes someone else. Now, this is the second time this has happened to me and when this happens ... (104 words

Is he just 'playing games' with my emotions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 22-25 - OK so he officially broke up with me. aAfter all the BS I have put up with. It all started with a stupid argument which he decided to make into a big deal blamed it all on me. He went out to the club that night and the next day all was fixed. Well 1 day before that fight I ... (487 words

Why is he like that ?!?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello Guys, I've posted and answered on this site recently and I've seen some really good answers so I'm back asking a question. I've wondered about this for long while now and I think I met an answer on this site. I've been with my boyfriend for a few years now and we... (373 words

How can you tell if someone in the service industry is into you

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 26-29 - How can you tell if someone in the service industry (waitress, operator/secretary, etc.) is into you or just doing their job happily? How can you tell in person or talking over the phone? What can you ask to determine if that person is into you, without being rude? Or is it ... (59 words

How do I approach her with this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 18-21 - my girlfriend and i have been going out for 6 months yesterday. we are very much in love with each other. about a month ago we were making out and i made my way into her pants and began to finger her. she really enjoyed it and when i asked later is she was ok with that, like ... (234 words

I don't think I'm being treated right. What to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - i dont know what to do my fella says he wants to always be with me can never see his life with out me...but hes changed so much ...yes when we first got together he was selfish and and didnt care bout what he said to people..well i hurt someone tuff they dont have to speak to ... (151 words

Her tears make me weak and guilty.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hello all! Ok here it goes... Well i need/want to break up with my GF of 4years. I dont hate her or anything, its just that im not ready to spend my life with 1 person yet and she was my first GF. I have been getting alot of feelings lately like how i want to date a... (201 words

He said he got bored during sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend had just gotten finished having sex. We were laying there together . He asked me " Do you ever get bored when we have sex " I said " No. why , do you ? " He said " A little bit. " Should I be affened by that? How can I make the experience less "borein... (71 words

I can't tell if my college guy friend likes me more then a friend or not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - I can't tell if my college guy friend likes me more then a friend or not. We have been friends for a while and have had sort of a flirty relationship, but he was dating another girl and nothing went out of bounds. Recently, he and his girlfriend broke up. Our relationship has ... (230 words

Falling in love with a much younger woman...what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

16 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hello all. I'm seeking advice on a very heart wrenching problem I'm trying to sort out. I'm a 36 year old man who works with a 23 year old woman. Both her and I are in exclusive dating relationships but not married. I think it's safe to say that we both love the people we ... (244 words

Is this man worth my time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

16 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - I am in a almost 2yr realationship. My partner has taken a 2wk trip with his ex since I have been with him. He shortly after that broke up with me to go back to her. After he tried that for awhile he came back to me, relizing that she was not what he wanted. When he came ... (113 words

What advice can you give me for the future?

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16 February 2008 (M age 18-21 - Hi. I went out on the town tonight and had barely any contact with a woman at all. I was lucky to even get involved in a conversation. I usually get lots of attention but tonight I have come home feeling disappointed. I know when you go out you shouldn't set yourself targets, ... (94 words

Please help me? Friendly or flirting?

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16 February 2008 (F age 16-17 - I work with this lad, and im not to sure if he likes me or that he wants a bit more? he always rings me when work call him in to c if i am, when im already in he says please say your in till 9 or so on, when we do the ova nighters he says he isnt doing them if im not and th... (143 words

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