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How long can someone last without food?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

23 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - heyx I am 15 years old, and just out of curiosity, how long would you say i can last without any food? And dnt tel me about how its bad for me, i already know that. Im just curious how long a girl like me, about 5 ft 3 weighing in about 9 and a half stone rite nw can last. ... (65 words

Does anyone out there agree with staying a virgin until they are married?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

23 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - heyx I was just curious, is there anyone out there that agrees with me when i say i want to stay a virgin til im married? Does anyone think thats good? Im 15, and believe that you shouldnt have sex untill you have had your wedding. do you think this is pathetic? Is anyone e... (65 words

How does someone get to a size zero????

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - heyx i was just wondering how u can get to size zero, and dont tell me that its bad for you, i already know. And looking so skinny isnt even attractive. I just want to know for my bestmate, she is really skinny now and she tells me that she is a size zero now. I want to know ... (95 words

I've got a problem being open about being gay. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi i have a problem. i'm a masculine guy and i have always known that i liked guys but would always aviod actually meeting any as i enjoyed the thought of being with a man but knew if it actually came to the real thing i would run for the hills, so i just always fought my... (240 words

I've fallen for him, but I am 12 and he is turning 18! Help!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have fallen head over heels for this boy and 89% of the time i think about him. the only thing is i am 12 and he turns 18 this month. i need help!!... (34 words

Should I trust him? Does he just want a visa?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I have know this guy for many years. He said he loved me before and we met again after three years,recently in the states. We started dating a year ago. He wants us to get married so that he can remain in the states. He isnt a citizen by the way. I questioned if he... (136 words

My parents want me to emigrate and my boyfriend wants me to marry him. Which do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am 21 and have a bf who wants to marry me but my parents wants me to migrate far from him.Who will i choose my parents or marry him an dont go anywhere.We r so i love. ... (39 words

How can I bring him closer to me and make him change his mind about relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello.I am 25 years old and I am a university student and recently I broke up from a 4 and a half years of relationship and am about in 2 days to move out from my boyfriend's house. Around October I fell in love with one of my classmates. We were friends and I we were helpin... (325 words

How to know if a guy likes you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - k guys need help how do you know if a guy likes you or not here's he's characteristics i dont know if it will help but LOL im desperate -he's nice, cheerful,don't get mad easily, always have a warm smile in his face, sociable, popular, cute, athletic, funny, he plays drums, g... (117 words

I'm 16 and I'm pregnant by a 13 yr old. Can I be charged with rape?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - (i live in New York) If I am a 16 year old girl and I got pregnant by a 13 year old while I was drunk and I wanted to keep the baby could I be charged with rape? Also, if his family wanted me to keep the baby and live in their house with them and the baby and my parents are ... (113 words

He cheated on me and I can't get rid of the anger I feel towards him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi my boyfriend cheated on me and i know he is sincerley sory and i want to forgive, though i try i just can't seem to get rid of this anger i feel towards him, even though i know he is sorry and has told me he regrets it cant explain why he did it and all that, and i do ... (93 words

Why is he doing this? I would love to think he's in love with me...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Dear All, I am a 25 yr old girl and I have a unique problem. There is a celebrity i was crazy about [like most of u are about celebs] and was quite active on his fan sites [esp de ones he frequented passively]. Now, before i joined the forum, the guy never ever was active... (432 words

How do I rebuild my trust in him, it is ruining our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 yrs has lied to me many times over our rship but never actually cheated on me. he has carried on friendships with females behind my back and lied about who he is hanging out with. he maintains that it was never because he had feelings for the other girls, just ... (214 words

Why? Why does he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Sorry it's a bit long but I want to provide as much info as possible. So there's this guy i go to college with. He's 25, I'm 18. There's something about him that just makes me insane! He's really flirty towards me (even though he is not like that with other girls, at least ... (192 words

Which things do married women who go to bachelorette parties consider cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age - Which things do married women who go to bachelorette parties consider cheating? lap dances, touching the mans penis, giving blowjobs etc. My wife has never been to a bachelorette party and does not want to go to any, but i would like to know the answers to these questions if a ... (55 words

Should I have told her I masturbate to her picture?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I go to school at occhs in troy, tennessee i am 16 years old i like the girl who already has a boyfriend i told her everything about me i told her this secret about me masterbating to her picture she said it was flattering after i told her i gave her gifts to her on valentines ... (163 words

It was only one little mistake!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm only 15 turning 16 and two months and I have a big problem. I did something so stupid I'll never be able to forgive myself every again. I met this 20 year old guy on a website and we really hit it off. We started "dating" the day we met. We talked on the phone and saw each ... (703 words

He feels hurt and I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey I was dating a guy all through out high school we broke up and he dated many other people. Now he is single and he found out I was in an intimate relationship with another guy. He became very upset and made me feel like i betrayed him. He began telling me that I was the ... (148 words

I'd really appreciate some advice on how I can improve my social life, and get an attractive girlfriend before it is too late.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi everybody. I'd be grateful for some advice on my problem. I am a 28 year old virgin. I have never had sex in my lifetime. I feel like I am getting old and that I am missing-out on things like girlfriends and sexual experience in general. I do'nt know why I have never be... (261 words

My boyfriend replaced me whilst I was away on business!...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - How do I win the heart and trust of my boyfriend back? We have been together 5 years, and get along great but our communication seems to lack, being the downfall. Recently I was away for business for 2 weeks. I left my boyfriend and thought our relationship was fine. I com... (391 words

I'm 15 and pregnant. Could I legally move in with my boyfriends family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 15 years old and I ranaway and I got pregnant while I ranaway. And neither of my parents like my 16 year old boyfriend. And his parents like me and would let me move in with them, but he lives two hours away from me. Do you think I could move in with my boyfriend legally ... (68 words

I fancy this girl but her friend just asked me out. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 26-29 - i fancy this girl i sit next to but her best friend just asked me out what should i do?... (20 words

Why is my doctor behaving strange around me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age - I've known a male doctor for 19 years. He used to treat one of my children and seemed to like my family-anyhow things changed suddenly. His behaviour changed, he seems to avoid talking to me-or any one on one interactions with me, I get the feeling that I make him nervous ... (138 words

How do you know a married man is sincerely in love and not pursuing an affair?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My question is how do you know if a married man has fallen for you and whether his love is honest and not just looking for an affair? with an age gap Good advice needed and alot of advice needed... (40 words

How can I deal with the loss of my bf and help his best friend give up drugs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My Boyfriend Died In A Car Accident Back In September And Im Finding It Really Hard To Cope.. I Love Him So Much, I Turned To Alcohol Iv Only Just Turned 16, I Took Comfort From My Boyfriends Best Friend.. Only I Think I Put More Preasure On Him Because He's Turned To Drugs. ... (191 words

I'm sick of people telling me what I do or do not like.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i dont understand. it happened again. last year, there was this boy older than me who liked me. i didnt like him one bit, i didnt even give him the time of day. he couldve been quite nice, i dont know. i avoided him like the plague. and i remember having this feeling in my gu... (274 words

What makes a man not even considering giving a second chance when there no significant conflict?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Any ideas what a man is thinking when you were together for 20 months but then he finishes it, but says he cares so much and doesn't want to hurt me. He's moving away, do men automatically think that's the end of the relationship? what makes a man not even consider giving a ... (105 words

Any advice on how to get over her once and for all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - This is the first time I’ve been dumped. I just can’t seem to get over her. It has been about a month. I’ve read a lot about how to deal with it, and none of it is working…a lot of it doesn’t even apply to me. I wrote a list about why “I won’t miss her” and the only there w... (412 words

How do I stop being so jealous and nosy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have a bit of a "jealousy" problem. and it's not with boys, it's with my sister. when ever my older sister has her friend over i get in such a bad mood and i figure it's because i'm jealous but how do i get over my jealousy..???? Plus she says i'm too nosy! so my questio... (77 words

Why do I play games with nice guys? Am I lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I am a bisexual female. I think I am totally turning lesbian. how do I tell my family. I liked a guy. I played mind games with him because he was honest with me.Why do I play games with certain guys.Probably because he is nice.Maybe it is because I am 100 % lesbian. Please ... (57 words

Dating a guy who is a father of a 1 month old. Should I break up with him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - im in 13 and in high school and im dating this guy hes 18,but he has a 1 month old baby.people tell me to break up with him....i dont know what to do... (33 words

I would not dare to go out with him because I'm afraid of a failure. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey i've never had a proper bf before, well not a serious one anyway i seriously like a lad. W ehave been friends for a while and part of me thinks he likes me to. The thing is though i'm not saying anything will happen but if he does feel the same i want to give it a ago(i'm ... (203 words

Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the phrase "right now" many times. Is ... (139 words

How to find the strength to end a six year affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Unfortunately I have been very foolish in that I have fallen deeply in love with an older married man. I know it is wrong and that I am wasting my time, but it now feels impossible to end as the feelings get stronger and the bond between us strengthens. I am an intelligent, ... (278 words

I like to fight for my opinions, but is this situation worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi..what i want to ask is..do u like the phrase "Be mean and keep them keen".beacuse theres these two guys who are like that ..and all my friends say they like me ..but the thing is they're really mean at times then realy nice..if they do like me they're not doing the right ... (94 words

Am I gay because of what I did?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Am I gay Over the last year I have been watching gay porn. At first it was just one or twice here and there. At this point it was just to see what was what. After watching a few time it started turning me on I enjoyed it more and more. At the time nomal porn was still t... (203 words

We work together and I don't understand him. How can I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - we both are working together for the last one month.iam attracted to him and it seems he is also.he use to stay always close to me and brushing me and touching me.gives me looks and few times i saw him staring me.iam shy type .when i flirt with others he seems to be sad but ... (87 words

My friends say he will let me down again. Was I wrong to give him a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I was in a long distance relationship with this guy we'll call him H. We met a week before he went to uni 5 hours away from where i live but carried on speaking on msn everynight- webcamming, video calling etc. He was due home for christmas in which we would spend my 16th ... (204 words

How do I get over him and move on to finding someone new without comparing them?

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23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me silently a few months ago.. We had a great relationship.. I'll never really know why he left me.. Maybe we were just not meant to be.. I've accepted the fact that he's gone but I still can't get over him.. I know he's a complete jerk for leaving me ... (209 words

Are my guy and I too alike to last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Does anyone have the same personality or humor as the g/f or b/fs? me and my new bf noticed yesterday that we are very alike and im worried that we wont last very long together,he was messing around saying that we wont but now its really bugging me, we both seem to be very sar... (86 words

I'm gay, how do I get the confidence to even start to show someone I like them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I have no confidence with my self. I had a girlfriend for years. Went i turned 16 i started to let my ture feelings show. I came out to my friends and sister also my girlfriend and now my dad and family. I am now 19 and have not had a relationship for two and a half years. I ... (134 words

This thing kinda creeped me out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I don't know if this prblem got posted already because i'm not sure if i actually posted it the first time. i'm having my half-term holidays now and on the last week of last term, i went to a history class. And we had the lesson as usual, there's this other teacher, much... (139 words

When would my conceive date have been?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My due date is February 25, 2008. When would that make my conceived date?... (14 words

Embarassing to date a fat person?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - is it embarassing to date a fat guy? what do you think when you see a fat couple? give me your own honest opinion pls.... (25 words

Have been sleeping with one of my father's favourite employees, if this continues should I tell my parents?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My parents own a company that I have worked at for the past 3 years. Through out my years there I have always been attracted to one of the men that work there. Recently we've hung out and have begun sleeping with each other. As it stands now things are just casual, neither of ... (91 words

He asked me over the phone if I wanted him. What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - What does he mean when he asked me if i wanted him? Thats what the guy im kinda seeing asked me over the phone yesterday i said yes i do,but im not sure what he ment, im new to the dating thing and never been asked that before ... (49 words

How can I make this work without scaring him off or making him forget about me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello! My boyfriend and I had been together for almost two and a half months now. Everything seemed fine, but then he confronted me and told me we had to break up. I didn't cope with it very good. I didn't realize what had happened, because I didn't want to, and I kept saying a... (703 words

How long to get my results back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I recently went to the doctor because it was hurting when I went to the toilet. The doctor gave me some antibiotics and I gave a urine sample. Does anyone know how long it takes to get my results back??? Also I have had a bit of back pain and stomach pain. ... (57 words

Why am I always dreaming of my ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi,Dear Cupid! I have a question, Why I always dream of my ex-boyfriend? It's been a 5 months since we broke up and slowly move on... I dream that when we're walking down the road he doesn't know me and never recognizes me and another dream the same like that he never knows ... (95 words

I think it's love that's keeping us together.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am totally in love with a boy I met at 14, we were together for a year and he taught me a lot of new things I had never experienced about love, we then broke up for another year as we made a descision, we obviously didn't realise it was going to be hard. But all of that year ... (371 words

No reply from my affair since Valentine's, why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi all ive been with my husband for 13 years we have children.the past year has been real tough for us as i asked for a seperation because i felt we had drifted apart. within this time while going out with friends i met a younger man than me 6 years to be precise. he is single ... (199 words

Would he come back, is he just trying to hurt me, or have I really gone too far this time and lost him forever??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi I split up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago now, we were together 2 and a half years and we have a 1 year old boy, who's gourgeous by the way lol !!! Since xmas I'll admit I did distance myself from him, I went out with my mates a lot, started working nights so didn't see ... (453 words

Having a very high sex drive, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - i'm very hyper active in sex . i always want to make love and try many sexual positions . am i a normal man? ... (24 words

I do not intend to go back, but was I a good judge of this relationship or have cut it hastily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I need to know when is the right time to walk away from a relationship. Could it be my decisions are hasty. Today I ended things with my boyfriend of 9 months. We are so happy and fine when we are not fighting but we are very bad fighters, which has made me very hurt to decide ... (574 words

I'm finding it hard to adjust to being single. I miss relationships! How can I relax a little?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hiiii Bit of a problem. I've been single for like a year and 2 months. Problem is that after all that time, I'm still not truly used to being single. I miss having a relationship very much, and everything that goes with it! EVERYTHING! (You no what that involves). I'm t... (114 words

I do love my husband but he revealed to me after marriage he is against having children, time is running however so what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been married for 3 years and have reached a stage in life where my biological clock is ticking. i feel the need to have babies but my husband doesn't agree. when we were dating he never mentioned that he didn't want children..but now he is absolutely against the idea. what ... (74 words

Can you answer my questions on sex please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Ok I am a 20 year old virgin in college which is tough. But I think my time may be coming. I have A LOT of questions (sorry, and thanks to anyone who reads it all) help on any would be appreciated. Anyways I hear all this about women having a hard time having orgasms, and that ... (226 words

Do you have any tips to try to get rid of my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - (Sorry, this is a repost after getting an account.) So, I've been looking for some help from various places, and this situation I'm in is quite the rough one. To start this off, it's an online relationship, we talk on the phone, but there's no real physical presence right ... (405 words

What does your girl do that just drives you wild? How can I make him crave me as much as I long for him?

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23 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now, and as to be expected the original chemistry is dying out. There has been a lot of strain on our relationship but we still keep on holding on. I love him alot but feel that my reactions to hurt that he has caused me ... (159 words

If my parents disapprove of my pregnancy but his parents don't, could I move in with my also teenage boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - If I am 15 years old and I live two hours away from my 16 year old boyfriend, and I am pregnant can I move in with him? And if my parents don't approve of this baby, and his parents do? ... (41 words

I feel so betrayed and so belittled because I thought we were good friends.

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23 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am hurt so badly and i want some advice. i sort of had acrush with this girl i like so much at my place of work. we like each other so much (or so i think). she has been nice to me in so many ways and vice-versa. i began to have feelings for her but did not want to rush so i ... (518 words

Do you think I was too far out of line by calling her, since I was sincerely worried?

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23 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - So, I've been looking for some help from various places, and this situation I'm in is quite the rough one. To start this off, it's an online relationship, we talk on the phone, but there's no real physical presence right now. Now, we were friends for a while, but, I had ... (389 words

It feels wrong to kiss the guy I'm dating, as I'm in love with somebody else, whose mother dislikes me though. What to do?

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23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey there everybody. I got a bit of a problem. I dont know what to do about one guy I like and one guy I love. Okay,I like this one guy he's:a year younger than me,sweet,nice,likes to be a pimp sometimes,can get any girl at the snap of the finger,and is my boyfriend. But th... (290 words

I'm a shy girl, any ideas of things to do on a date?

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23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i like this guy and i think he likes me but i dont wanna keep my hopes up but all of my friends says it's obvious he likes me anyways what if he asks me out what should i do, i've never been asked out before never kissed ,never held hands, i don't know what to do cause usua... (69 words

He says he wants me close yet goes out with other girls - while I don't seem to have the strength to leave!

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23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi nice to meet you, I was looking for some help, because I have been one year and 2 month with somebody and he told me that he cares about me but he didn't know what he really feels for me so. It hurt me a lot because I have no friends I mean real friends, to talk about my ... (184 words

I'm not sure I should involve seriously in coming dates as I feel emotionally drained due to my past relationships.

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23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - i have dated men for years to realize that they aren't right for me. i see their flaws and see past them and i "deal with it"..in hopes that it may be forever. i am a Caucasian Italian female. i'm trying to figure out a pattern but then even when i go for the greatest guy tha... (866 words

I find myself attracted to him, I would never act on anything though, I love my partner too much but what the hell is going on???

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23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and am deeply happy. However I used to be really good friends with his friend, I had a really close friendship with this persn as i knew him before I got with my b/f. I knew he liked me more than a friend but I stressed... (228 words

How do I politely deny their invitation to go on a date?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 February 2008 (F - I regularly work in the evenings at my parent's family business. Of course, I get customers who are in their 20's, 30's, all ages. I'm 18, and some of the men have giving me their numbers,or myspace..or shown some sign of interest, such as asking "do you always work frid... (244 words

I am in a relationship and I am thinking about oral sex with him what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am in a relationship and I am thinking about oral sex with him what should I do?... (18 words

Friendship or love life?

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23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hiya!! lost soul here __ you see i really like this guy but cant confess i like him i've been by sorta his side since grade 6 he's been to my homeroom class grade 6,7,8 grade 6 is when i move from different country anyway im afraid to choose between friendship and my love life ... (278 words

Should I talk to him before he leaves on Sunday?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Alright so there's this guy (lol I know) I've known him since I was 4 years old literally. he is my neighbour. I look out my window and I can see his house. Last sunday my mom went to his house to ask for help with something and if he wanted to go tubing at camelback in ... (353 words

What are the benefits of marriage?

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23 February 2008 (M age - In the week when Paul McCartney and Heather Mills agree monetary settlement, the question of fairness and behaviour arises. What are the benefits of marriage, if any? Isn't it just an unfair contract where if one party breaks the terms, the other party is penalised. There is no ... (111 words

White stuff in sexual activities... help, is it normal?

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23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend over a year and he's only the 2nd person I've slept with. We have a great sex life but my self confidence drops as sometimes when he fingers me there is white stuff on his fingers. It doesn't smell and it's not cum, unless I cum without realising ... (130 words

I feel really insecure and sad, I really likehim but does he like me?

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23 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - I really like him but does he like me? If he asks me out what do I say yes or no? I think he is really cute and bright but others might say eeeewwwwwww you're going out with him and others will say you can't get a boyfriend ha ha! I say I don't want one but I lie. I know I s... (122 words

I don't know if he likes me, and I can't stop thinking about him. Help!

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How many more nights am I going to have to go home alone?

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23 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - How many more nights am I going to have to go home alone? I've been out tonight and have had a very fun evening. But every time I go out and have fun, I always end up alone in the end. Tonight I ran into a girl who used to fancy me. We even kissed a little, but she ended up... (137 words

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23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok I'm 28 years old with two children. I have been married for 5 years. Me and my husband started to have marital problems during my last pregnancy. I started to tell my physician things in my marriage. He started off by asking me personal questions about my marriage ... (243 words

I had a one night stand a week before I got married and the guilt is tearing me apart...

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23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am recently married but before I got married just a week before.... I am very upset to say that I had a one night stand... I was extremely drunk and do not even remember kissing this guy yet deep down inside knew that I was with this guy... there were a couple of friends ... (203 words

I've had a lot of sadness in my life recently and have a fear of lurking doom constantly. Will I ever feel normal again?

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23 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - 4 years ago I lost a baby girl at 5 and a half months, a couple of years later my mother died of cancer and a year later my daddy died suddenly after a 6 week illness. I had a beautiful son before my mother died. I've recently become homeless and had to move in with a sibling. ... (106 words

I want that whole boyfriend girlfriend thing but it feels that it's never going to happen for me.

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23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have not had a boyfriend yet, I am 16 and I went out with someone because I felt sorry for him, I had one bad experence with a guy that was older then me when I was 12 and I haven't gone out with anyone since. I want that whole boyfriend girlfriend thing but it feels that ... (139 words

If you have oral sex and finger sex are you still a virgin?

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23 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey I was wondering.... if you had oral sex and finger sex are you still a virgin? I was just wondering.... (21 words

Should I ask her out! help me

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