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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

Every time I see him, I end up with a painful vaginal opening that lasts for weeks.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age - I'm in my late 40s and going through menopause. I have a boyfriend who I only see once in a while, outside of a long term monogomous relationship. Every time I see him, I end up with a painful vaginal opening that lasts for weeks. He's not massively huge or anything! I have ... (139 words

I think I might have sexual aversion...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I might have sexual aversion, I think it is called and has anyone got any advice. I have panic attacks when he tries to have sex. It's been like this for a while now. Since he cheated on me. How long will my man put up with this before he might want to cheat again, maybe. ... (105 words

I don't feel like doing things for my fiancee and she's pregnant, am I unhappy? What should I do?

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12 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - I don't feel like doing things for my fiancee and she's pregnant, am I unhappy? What should I do?... (20 words

How can my wife and I bond closer the way we did before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I need a little help:( I am a 28 year old man who has been married for 6 years. I have a wife and a 5 year old son who I love with all my heart. My problem is, since my wife gave birth to our son she has had problems with her temper and anger. She becomes very cruel and v... (285 words

What are the effects of having an implant on an unborn child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am going to the hospital tomorrow to have an implant inserted, however, I have been being really paranoid about being pregnant. My problem is.. I've not had unprotected sex and my boyfriend has never ejaculated anywhere near me without protection.. but i'm almost positive... (192 words

It's all such a mess, I was told my husband cheated on me and threw him out, now I've found out he didn't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for almost 7 1/2 years now... we've been married for almost 4. We have two sons, one 5 1/2, and the other is 1 1/2. He was my high school sweetheart, and we've been through so much. He was in the Marine Corps, and is such a great person. About ... (591 words

I'm sick of men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Why do they always have to lead you on then break your heart? Please answer me that. I totally changed who I am for this guy. The way we met was weird but we've been seeing each other since August. Now he's been seeing some lassie(who is a total ugly dog) behind my back whi... (131 words

I feel like I have made a fool of myself...and there is an age gap too...what should I do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im 16 i have been talkin to this guy online; i added him on facebook. Anyway, his profile said 20 but i thought i'd add him anyway. Somehow theres been an error in my account and its been displaying me as 19. We got talking and really clicked. I found out he is 23 in a few mo... (159 words

Over 10 times a cheater...now I feel I can live without him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend has cheated over ten times in our home and outside our house. Its always sex and talking on the phone; he says he loves me everyone says its true you can tell he loves you more then anything but nobody can explain or undersand why he does this to me. He was neve... (147 words

Is he worth waiting for? I don't want to be a girl he just uses...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I went out with this boy but it only lasted for 2 weeks; towards the end of the relationship i started to get strong feelings for him and now they still remain. We have kissed and one drunken night done more stuff, i regret this but im not sure if he likes me or is... (140 words

Any advice on how I can get this contraceptive implant removed??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My mum forced me to have a contraceptive implant, and i now am desperate to have a baby with the love of my life. I want it removed, how do i go about this, i dont want to be judged since i recently had an abortion(against my wishes). I really regret going through with it ... (68 words

Is there anything I can do to try and make this work again??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've recently started seeing someone for two weeks. It felt like we relly clicked and had alot in common. We spent alot of time together and opened up about our past to each other, including our past relationships. I found out he is a very insecure person, who has had all 7 ex... (263 words

He cut me down to size...but I want him back...will he come back??

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12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - At first he asked for space, then he wrote me this after I wrote and told him that I was not handling the break-up well after he had kept blaming me for everything going wrong and wripped me down to shreds. I told him that no one had ever cut me down to the size like that and ... (348 words

Is it too early for a new man, when I still love my ex? Is this just sexual temptation since I didn't enjoy the sex with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with him Last WEEK and I already had sex with somebody else! I still love my ex and want to be with him, i just hate the fighting all the time, The lies , the drama, is it too early for a new man? This new guy wants to be with me and e have had sex 3 times already ... (85 words

I want a baby after I was forced into an abortion by my family. Will I feel this emptiness forever?

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12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - in november i found out i was pregnant, i told my bf and he was sooooo happy, he was ready to be a man, look after me and the baby, this is something we had talked about for a long time, just felt we were too young. but then i became pregnant and we knew exactly what we were ... (401 words

Worried that I'm going to become obsessed by this new girl. Is this a mid-life crisis?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - I'm 37 and I have just 'noticed' a much younger girl. During my life I have really fallen hard for two women. Once was when I was 18 - which was unrequited, and the second time was a couple of years ago when I was abroad for a week on business (this didn't have time to ... (175 words

How to make sperm thicker naturally by food?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - HI Guys, Does any one really know exactly, which/what food can make the men sperm thicker? I heard egg white can. What else??? I want to know what is the natural way to make it thicker then artificial medicines. Thanks. ... (48 words

Texting a married teacher.. he wants sex but keeps saying no to emotional involvement! Help Me please!

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12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been seeing my teacher for the past month! ( dont all say its bad he could loose his job etc because he doesnt actually teach me and i am 18) So the problem is he is married! Over the past month we have been emailin and texting quite alot! All week he is fine then for ... (169 words

My ex won't leave us alone and now I feel bad and can't snog my bf.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months nearly and my ex wont leave me alone even though it was 3 years ago i last went with him. He made me feel really bad, tonight my boyfriend tried to snog me but i can't, what can i do, i am nervous?... (54 words

Will she like the gift even though she dislikes Valentine's Day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi. last week i bought my girlfriend a valentines teddy bear and the other day she said to me that she doesn't like valentines day. I really want to give her the gift but i'm not sure how she will react when i give it to her. Personally i think she would like the gift even ... (76 words

I'm not ready to be engaged or married... but I suspect my bf will propose soon. Afraid of hurting him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I havn't been with my bf for very long now, but I love him and he's great. The thing is he tends to be more serious about the relationship that me...Don't get me wrong I am committed and everything, but I'm not planning my enitre future with him just yet.. Anyhow his fri... (116 words

Is the blame entirely on the child for problems of bad behaviour? Where is the parents' responsibility in this issue?

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12 February 2008 (F age - How much parents are responsible for their children's actions? Are parents causing so,if their children turns to drugs? What can parents tell to themselves,if the can't change their kids' life? Is the blame on the child for such problems? If parents are proud for their children ... (99 words

She wants to work through our problems but I am wondering if a clean break is best.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age - I've been with my girl for 5yrs during which we have had ups and downs. I was getting divorced and it was bitter. I loved her a lot but during all the stress (mostly from my side) the love has eroded. Is this because its a long term relationship or some other reason? A... (477 words

Have I ever had an orgasm?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is gonna sound weird but im not sure if ever had an orgasm... does this lack of certainty mean that ive actually never had it...?It feels great when we make love and sometimes I feel like thats almost it and im sooo close but there is sth missing...Is it possible that ive ... (120 words

I'm single, but how can I be happy again?

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12 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi. I've been single for almost 6 months now after coming out of a three year relationship. My first relationship no less. In those 6 months I've tried to do things that I would normally enjoy, but I just don't enjoy them the same as I once did. Life hasn't changed much, only I ... (123 words

Am I just being jealous or do I have something to worry about??

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12 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for 4 years and we have been having problems for the last 3 of them. He has never really been a sensitive man and told me that he didnt know how to be that sensitive man I am looking for. But I know that he is capable of it because that is what ... (690 words

Is a week after a break-up too short a time to see a new guy??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend/baby's dad have been together for 3 years but all we do is fight so I told him we should try being friends because we really do fight too much and i can't take it...Is it wrong to go out with a new guy a week after..? Is it too soon? I really like the new guy!... (59 words

What do people think of this age gap??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - ... Hi. I am a forty (40) year old male and I am seeing a 52 year old woman for companionship. I am a partially sighted male and she has cp. "Cerabal Palsy".... We met for a meeting on Friday. What I would like to know is, what do you think of the age gap between a 40 y... (76 words

I can't shake the feeling of wanting to split up with him...should I stay or should I go??

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12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years and have a 2 year old son but over the past few months have become very unhappy. I don't think i want to be with him anymore; i have told him how i feel and he says he loves me and doesnt want it to end but i cant seem to shake the ... (100 words

He wants me to prove myself by dancing for him....any pointers??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - This is for the females that like to fulfill their mans fantasy or wishes. Or for the Men out there that know what they want with a sexual dance. Has anyone ever danced for their boyfriend or husband before? If so, please help me because my boyfriend told me to prove myself t... (128 words

My mum doesn't love all her kids equally.

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12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My mum doesn't love all her kids equally. She loves her boys more than her girls. It's making me very angry, she treats them like they're the most important things in the world. I've heard her talking about me to my brother. They get to go on holidays and me, I get to go ... (129 words

Do I give up my dream degree to be there with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi guys, I have a huge problem and I need some help!! I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for over a year and it's been absolutely amazing. In 2007, I studied at boarding school in Melbourne and my boyfriend went to an international school in ... (287 words

Anyone know what this dream means?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm really confused. I like this guy and at one point I thought he liked me too, he always looked at me when he laughed at something and used to stare at me a lot. But recently he hardly speaks to me yet I keep thinking that he likes me because like today people keep saying ... (353 words

I need help with my marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age - My wife and I have had a lot of problems during the last 6 of our 21 year marriage. She cheated and was caught. To this day I have a hard time dealing with trusting her. My insecurities have been agrivated by her close friendships with a few men, and a year or two of total ... (289 words

Boyfriend problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm having problem with my boyfriend. Next year, we're planning to have a wedding but with his current financial status, he's worried that, the ceremony will be postponed. I totally understand and I'm also not in a hurry but, how am I supposed to approach him and tell him that ... (66 words

What are the best male sexual enhancers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - I was just wondering, I think I need some help, so I was wondering what are the best male sexual enhancers? Like ones for increasing stamina, sex drive, and better orgasms? and has anybody had success with these? ... (39 words

Why did he think I was hassling him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Before my guy called it off with me after a month,he come out with saying he did not want the hassle?what did he mean by this?? he had a bad relationship in the past in which it got a bit nasty with her hurting him but he still has to have contact because of the child, i told ... (81 words

She said she loves me, so why did she break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - i had a girlfriend, who had been seeing someone for about 5 months, and then when that ended, she started seeing me a few days later. me and her had been texting and talking a lot before we started seeing each other, and had grown very fond of each other. she came over y... (297 words

I can't move on from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I feel so ridiculous, embarrassed, confused. I just do not know what's best for me at the moment. My boyfriend of 1 1/2 years cheated on me a couple of times when we were together. He admitted it all to me around Christmas time before he had to leave for the military again. We ... (710 words

I don't want to date her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - hello... so here i'm stuck in a tricky situation. i go to a catacism class every week on a wednesday, and theres this girl who goes there. i dont really like her too much, and she asked me out, but i said 'i dont know' (worst thing to say ever). anyways, she has big issues, ... (173 words

I want him to take this to the next step--what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - At the moment, I really like this guy but I haven't a clue what to do about it. We flirt online and constantly text each other but I don't know how to take it a step further, as I want him to make the effort of asking me to hang out with him so that I know our feelings towards ... (74 words

I don't want to be a neurotic, possessive gf but...is he cheating on me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend (34 yrs old) and I have a long distance relationship. We felt we were not seeing each other enough, so I made the effort to book all my holiday off on days that my boyfriend is off work yet so that we could spend more time together but when I told him this it ... (679 words

Pretty sure he's cheating on me..so what does his e-mail he sent (see posting)...really mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I really could do with some advice please. To cut a long story short im pretty sure my partner of 10 has been cheating on me, he also lies about everything even when i have prof. I have caught him asking for sex on the internet and he has had numbers in his phone with were ... (581 words

Have one child and we don't want another but...could I be pregnant again??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am 20 years old and newly wed, We already have one son together he is 16months old and we are very happy. The thing is i am on the pill (Microgynon 30) as we both feel strongly that we dont want anymore children, I am extremely carefull. Its just i havent had my period yet (I ... (100 words

Is my emotionally abusive ex bf, finally getting over me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F - I broke up with my emotionally abusive ex fiance about 4 months ago, and since then i've had to change my number because he wouldn't leave me alone. anyway, i used to live with him, so my tax forms were sent to his house, and yesterday he sent them to me, and put a note inside ... (175 words

We have a date for the cinema! How should I behave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey guys! Right well i've been txtin a girl for a while! And decided to tell her i liked her last night and see how she felt about me! She said she liked me aswell and thanked me for bein straight with her. :) So we're goin to the cinema on friday! But i have never been on ... (173 words

How do you get rid of stress?

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12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I get stressed really easily. Can you please suggest ways to get rid of stress.... (18 words

He broke up with me and wants to be friends! But he asks me to talk dirty and web cam with him. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - *SIGHHH* Okay me and my boyfriend just broke up, he said I can move back in April.. but said that right now we're just friends what does this mean? He asks me to cam with him and talk dirty with him, but when I ask him he says no... What does this all mean!? ... (55 words

She's said that she's sorry for being a bad gf--do I break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Heya iv been dating my girlfriend now for quite a few months she is at the same college as me and on the same course so we do see each other four days a week. My problem is that she never comes out to see me out of college. I have told her about it and she says shes mad about ... (340 words

Pregnant and I think he's cheating on me..what are the signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - ok I believe that my boyfriend is cheating on me I jus have a gut feeling but I don't kno what to do cause I'm 5 months pregnant with his son I don't kno what to do what are some signs to look for should I leave or stay some one help me please??? ... (54 words

Question about anal sex and cleanliness...any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

12 February 2008 (F - Me and my boyfriend have anal sex alot. The other day though it went really messy and embarrassing. How do u clean the anal area so that it is clean. He is really good though and washes his penis after but i just want my anal area to be clean. Can anyone help or is this a... (63 words

Is it love or obsession?

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12 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - How does one deal with being insecure, not knowing whether your the only one. You women claim to suffer the most in relationships but this is not always the case. You too hurt men and encourage them to go and hurt other women on the end. Guess this is a vicious cycle that will ... (150 words

How do I move on from an ex who doesn't want me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - im currently getting over a hard break up and really want to move on but its so hard!my ex broke up with me about 2 months ago and it broke my heart, we had an amazing relationship but then started arguing about petty things and he could not handle it whilst being at ... (197 words

Hearbroken! I thought this relationship would last longer then it did! Did he not like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Help, ive never had a bf before then early November i meet a really nice guy it made me feel special having someone actually like me he was older then me by 10 years very popular and had 3 children which i exepted as i love kids although i never meet them i had seen pictures of ... (279 words

I married to help my family, but now I'm so unhappy! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been married for about a year and a half now.I was just 17 when i was married to my husband who were 30 years older than i am.We've met in a "Male Order Bride Agency"..i did that because of my familys financial problems and others. I wasn't his first choice, the manager ... (810 words

Did he dump me for not having sex or because of his mate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is for anyone but like guys to answer as well for there point of view, There was this guy i started seeing at the beginning of the yr,he made the first move and meet up for our first date everything was going well, i stayed round his house a few times but where i wasn't r... (254 words

My husband had a snip, but could I still get pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - can i get pregnant even though my husband had a snip, but didn't get it reversed?... (16 words

Why would a girl get upset when you tell her "Let's just be friends?" Isn't friendship part of a relationship or a road to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

12 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - There is a girl I like who often flirts with me. She also seems nervous when I am around her. Sometimes when I'm a earshot away I think she tries to get me jealous by talking about other guys she knows to other people around...and she seems to look up at me for my reaction. ... (251 words

Why do I ejaculate after 20 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age - After 20 years of regular intercourse with my hubby i've recently started to ejaculate involuntarily.It's unpredictable-but tends to happen when i experience a particularly intense orgasm and have to cry out with the pleasure. My hubby laughs about it-but we're curious ... (59 words

Female ejaculation - possible for many if the correct area is stimulated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've got a pretty good sex life with my boyfriend, we have sex often and I always have multiple orgasms in these sessions, so I'm pretty happy... but I have a query! I know some females ejaculate when they orgasm, and I'm not sure whether the internet is just full of gimmicky... (116 words

Could my boyfriend be my brother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - are me and my boyfriend related? my dad and his dad have the same last name but ours are our moms last name and i would like to kno if we are related just because they have the same lastname? ... (43 words

He denied maintaining contact with his ex, yet they remained friends (although never met.) I've postponed the wedding already, what should I do for the best?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age - I have been dating someone for over four years now. We have had our ups and downs but for the most part we are very compatible and in love. My friends and family have lukewarm feeling about him because he often demonstrates some maturity issues. The biggest issue that we fa... (423 words

We are "happy" but he talks to new females, then sleeps with them! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend has cheated over ten times in our home and outside our house. It's always sex and talking on the phone he says he loves me everyone says it's true, you can tell he loves you more then anything but nobody can explain or undersand why he does this to me. He was never ... (145 words

Is my boyfriend Over-exposed to porn or bi-curious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - GUYS: NEED AN HONEST OPINION...Is this weird? Or the result of too much porn? No homophobes, please. I recently discovered alot of porn on my fiance's computer. We;ve been together 5 years and I love him with all my heart but the content freaked me out. 50% run of the mill ... (207 words

I asked if he wanted a threesome, now I'm worried he wants to have sex with other girls.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I asked my boyfriend if he'd like to have a threesome. He said it's one of his fantasies, but that he wouldn't try it, because I'd get too jealous and because he'd be too jealous if I asked for an MFM. I asked what would he do if I wasn't the jealous type and that I can guara... (115 words

He said he wanted to try again, but I've just found out he's been seeing other girls. What must I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been on a break for a month i have just come back to find out that he has been seeing two girls while i was way but the hole time i was on holiday he was telling me that he wanted to make another go of things. I had to find out this from a friend who had ... (86 words

Can you 'teach' family members how to masturbate if they asked you?

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12 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - is it ok for a 19 year old guy to show his 15 year old brother how to masturbate if he asks him to... (26 words

My sister had sex with him. Is it wrong of me to be interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend and am interested in an old flame. About 6 months ago he had sex with my sister. It was just a drunken night so is it okay for me to sleep with him also?? I have no bad feelings towards my sister or him for what they did. Im just curious if ... (76 words

I'm in love with a co-worker. How to go about it?

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12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - i m in love with my co-worker,the problem is i m married and he got kids,,please help!!!!... (17 words

How can I stop feeling jealous of his gorgeous ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm dealing with some stupid, irrational jealousy here... or envy, I don't know, I feel inferior compared to his ex even though I shouldn't! This guy says I'm his first love. He has endured several problems to be with me (actually he's jealous of my past, how ironic). He's my... (421 words

I feel out of place to ask him if he's still with her, but I really need to know. Please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up for about 7 months now, but are still good friends. He invited me over his house a week ago we had a little drink, and he admitted he was close to kissing me, I don't know if he's still with his current girlfriend so I left not wanting him to ... (245 words

Everytime I like a guy, I lose my appetite. Why does this happen?

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12 February 2008 (F - I have a weird problem. Everytime I'm interested in a guy I lose my apetite. I just dont feel hungry and if I try to eat I feel sick and like im about to choke on my food. I dont know why this is, does anyone know? I have always been skinny but when I have a bf/like a guy I ju... (195 words

I'm in love with my good friend, but I don't know if he feels the same.

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12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay recently I have came to the conclusion that I am falling for one of my good friends. I can't stop thinking about him, I worry what he thinks about me. But I am afraid that if I like him and he doesn't like me and finds out it can ruin our friendship. He talks to me alot ... (84 words

Do you think my boyfriend might be gay?

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12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - OK, Heres question #2: I realize that I should have stated these facts- From day 1 in our relationship I have had to beg for sex. Like I said before, he has performed oral on me 3 times, and I know that this is not because of me, I went to the doctor, and since I am being ... (205 words

I can't quit shaking when he's around

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12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Is it possible to have a very short relationship and connect on a level of intimacy that literally makes you shake (no, vibrate is more the correct word, i think), as soon as you are around that person? And I dont mean butterflies when you like someone. This is totally ... (145 words

Afraid what others will think if I get back with him

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12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boy friend broke up with me 4 days ago, but then called me. We had a long talk and he told me how much he missed me and how I was the only one for him. All my friends tell me to let go because I deserve a better guy, but I think I still like him. Yet I'm afraid what others ... (82 words

Weak for him

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12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i miss my ex.i see him everyday,everytime i see i burn inside.we'd never work out,i know i cant and i shouldnt go back to him,but im afraid ,everytime he decides he wants me back i always run back to him,always.if he were to come to me ,im afraid that i cant say no to him,hes ... (84 words

I don't want her to end up heartbroken like me

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12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a big problem...my ex nows has a nice and very sweet new girlfriend...and it just breaks my heart to see him treat he wrong...i mean he has tried to sleep with my while he has been with her..and he says he's in love with her..but still texts me all the time...and ... (112 words

Can only orgasm during masterbation

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12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am 25 and can only orgasm from masturbation. I enjoy sex with my boyfriend but it's frusturating and we change positions and try new things?! help....... (27 words

My friend has sex with an ex, she's getting married, what should I tell her to do?

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12 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - OK... I have a friend who is engaged to be married. She's been with her guy 2 years now and From what I can tell when we are all together they are crazy for one another. The other day I get a call and she was crying. She went to visit one of her ex's ( who they never had sex) ... (126 words

Long distance boyfriend cheating.

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12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Okay, so here's the deal: About a week ago I found out that my long-distance boyfriend of 4 months was cheating on me the whole time we were dating. He had another girlfriend where he lived who knew about me and said he "needed someone better". I later asked him if he thought ... (156 words

Shall I continue talking to this man?

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12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, i registered for online dating 3 days ago and messaged a selection of guys my own age,(26) and got no response, and got messages from some unsuitable people. i was just about to write it off when i received a message from a guy who it said wasn't even a match for me as he ... (607 words

She doesn't want me, but I'm not sure I could be happy with anyone else.

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12 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I pretty much still love my ex girlfriend. She's the only person that I know right now who I want to share my life with. We split up some months back because she had to move to university. She is adamant in moving on, and wants me to do the same. I told her how I felt some time ... (182 words

I can't walk away from my partner and yet I love this other man so much!

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12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a 5 year relationship which has dwindled to companionship and financial ties to my partner. I do love him, but I am afraid to leave and the upheaval it would bring. I met someone last year through work and fell madly in love with him and I do believe he felt the ... (172 words

He's my soul mate, but I can't go on like this, how can I end it?

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12 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - For the past three years I have been in love with a man whom i beleive is my soul mate, but he and I are not together. He drinks, cant get his life together and is usually depressed. HE and I are both artists and connect on many deep levels but when it comes to being together ... (134 words

Could you enlighten me a bit more about oral sex please?

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12 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, I know this is probably a weird question but I'm sure there are some people on here who would like to know. When a guy gives a girl oral sex how does he do it? Does he suck on her vagina or lick it or what? Do they even do anything to the vagina or is it the "pee ... (77 words

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