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Broke up with my boyfriend recently, how long should I wait to start a new relationship? (worrying about my reputation)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated, even after I took him back the first time. In total, the relationship lasted 6 weeks, so it was barely serious. I've met a new guy though, that I think I can have a stable and healthy relationship with...how long should ... (69 words

We've not been dating long, should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - A friend of mine introduced me to this girl on MSN, we talked for 2 days she gave me her cellphone, we talked over the phone and everything seems great. She likes serious relationships the same as me. We went on a date to the movies then we ate dinner and everything was ... (161 words

Having an affair with my engaged to be married manager. His excuse is he'd lose his friends and family if he broke up. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am a 20 year old girl and in a really messed up situation at the moment. I recently started a new job and on a work night out I got really drunk and ended up kissing my manager. He is engaged to be married and he told me it was just a bit of fun which I was totally cool with ... (233 words

Falling in love with my friend - help!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a real dilema i been really good friends with this guy for about 4 years now(i'm female).But over the last 5 - 6 months we've flirted a lot and also slept together twice. The problem is that he has a girlfriend and his ex girlfriend was 1 of my friends we dont speak ... (250 words

She doesn't see anything wrong with posting trashy pics of herself on line. Am I being out of order?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm going to try to be as fair on this question as possible. I'm not going to leave anything out, even things that I did. My girlfriend and I have been together for years. Toward the beginning of the relationship, she posted a picture on one of her profiles that was unclass... (345 words

Any advice on how I can get back into 'life' properly again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

6 February 2008 (F - I am pretty sure that this is not such an uncommon problem and hopefully the answers to this question might help others. I was in a relationship for thirteen years and then one day my live in boyfriend just packed his things and went back to his hometown. That was two and a ... (202 words

We broke up last week and I like his friend. Do I stay in contact with his friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - So here is my problem, I have been dating my bf for almost 3 (bad) years. I am not happy with him and haven't been for a while, well my bf started telling me about his best friend who lived in ohio(bfs hometown) I ended up talking my bf into planning a trip from las vegas (my ... (139 words

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

This question has 150 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept with him I kicked him out,and a... (275 words

What shall I do about the four guys I like??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey,I like these 4 guy at my skool. (G,A,D,and S) D-Doesn't likelike me but ALWAYS flirts with me. G-Knows I like him but didn't say anything about.Me and him talk EVERYDAY at skool and we laugh and joke around with each other. A-Does't know I like him.He always flirts wi... (221 words

He never says he loves me first anymore...how do I bring it up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Recently, my boyfriend and I had a chat that almost resulted in a break-up. The next day, he called me and told me he couldn't live without me... but that our relationship needed work. We're working out how to see each other more (we're in a long distance relation... (89 words

Do I take the man up on his offer to ease the tension between me and my man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years. we have a 5 month old child together a he has custody of my other daughter. He has issues with intimacy and it has taken a toll on my emotions and the way i act towards him sometimes. I have never been with anyone like ... (136 words

What can I do to find out if a child is mine when the mother is unresponsive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - What right's do i have regarding my ex girlfriend's child whom i'm sure i'm the father to. Honestly she wasn't my girlfriend, we'd both come out of seroius relationships and just wanted a bit of fun so it ended when she became all serious and talked about us moving in together. ... (346 words

Is she just being friendly or could she want something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok so i've known this girl for about a year now, an i went out with her sister for a little while but it was never serious an jus didn work but we're still best mates! So anyway we've always got on really well, an always talk on bebo/facebook. But recently we've started ... (189 words

Did I say something wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - advice needed please!!!! im not to familar with the dating scene as i have recently come out of a long term abusive relationship so i am not to familiar with how to date. theres a guy that when i drive past him (not very often) always looks at me, and a few weeks ago i went ... (267 words

Why can't I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My ex partner and I were together for 7 years then split up a year ago. He got a girlfriend straight away, almost too quick if you get my drift. He cheated on me twice in the relationship. I am still in love with him and he keeps phoning and texting and says he still fancies ... (84 words

His family is trying to tear us apart and he won't stick up for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My in-laws have hated me from the begining of our relationship but my husband said that he was a grown man and no one could tell him what to do... eight months into the relationship he had to leave the country to work so he told me he wanted me to live with his family until he ... (188 words

Is it right to date my step sister by blood?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - is it legal to date my step sister by blood... (10 words

My partner still flirts online, can I salvage our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for nearly a year, I have been cheated on in the past and my now partner keeps really hurting me by flirting online and with most women he meets. I really blew my stack at the weekend, as I logged on to my email, and clicked a link to a blog site a... (286 words

How can I get over my jealousy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Just wondering... So me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and we already know that we are going to get married. But before we were together he had been with a lot of girls, too many to count off hand....and everytime I hear stories about what he did with... (192 words

Should I date other guys before I decide to marry my 1st boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I just need some advice. Is it crazy to marry youre first boyfriend? I am so in love with my boyfriend of one year. I never wanted to get married or have kids, and now that I see how powerful love is, i can't wait to have kids. I honestly think he is the one. Buuut, he is my ... (77 words

Does he fancy me because I look like his sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, so.. i found out this guy called (A) fancies me a while back and i was a bit suprised but it never really bothered me and i still get people coming up to me today saying i think (A) has a thing for you. I don't really find him attractive so wouldn't think of us being a ... (109 words

Do I say something to her about her fling or simply let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - hey people just wanted to know what to do...i've been with my gf for about a year now we do hava good relationship..but there's a few things that bother me and im worried it may effect our relationship..we gave our vrginity to each other.. I keep getting the this gut feeling... (178 words

Porn is somewhat ruining our relationship, as he enjoys watching it whereas I think it's a sin! How to convince him?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I have a boyfriend who likes to watch girl on girl porn, but unlike him I hate it, it's wrong and version of porn and I know it's a sin. How do I help him understand how I feel about it and why it's so wrong because he seems to think it's perfectly fine and there's nothing ... (72 words

My foreskin hurts sometimes when pulled back during sex, need I worry? Also, any information about gaining long-lasting erections naturally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - hey people, I just wanted to ask a few questions regarding sex. First of all, when having sex does the foreskin get pulled back so that u cn see more ove the flesh on the penis? mine gets pulled back n it really hurts sumtimes when having sex! Also what are the most natural... (92 words

What am I thinkin by liking my teacher's accidentally touching me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My teacher act really weird around me. We have had bad times in the past where we were once really close and then after been told we were too close she got told to back away from me. So we never talked after that as i was accused of stalkin :S when she told me to come and visi... (296 words

How can I fall out of love with my best friend, to go back to the friendship we had before we started dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - i fell in love with my best friend, wed know each other for 6 months she was new and we got really close really fast. i finally asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes. we went out for a month and a half. all we did we talk about how we never talked like we use to or ... (313 words

Am I over reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My fiancee lives 4 hrs away and has not talked to me or chatted with me for over a week. I haven't seen him for a month. He didn't even call me on the weekend or during weeknights. Usually we chat online, but his sister is in town for the next 2 weeks so he spends time with ... (250 words

Did I do wrong by taking my boyfriend's best mate out to get something for his house?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello, Did i do wrong by taking my new boyfriends (now ex bf) best mate out to get something for his house? hes male and i think hes was trying to get between us for suggesting i took him to this place,as he told my bf what i was doing its really bugging me as weve now split ... (145 words

How do I keep my ex crush at safe distance from my current relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 13 and i've got a boyfriend but there this other boy who i used to like but i have forgotten him and i found out he likes me now and he keeps pestering me even though i told him i am with some one and even have kissed my boyfriend in front of him to make it clear yet he ... (83 words

I am finding it very difficult to get over the break up. Can anyone see a way forward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend of nine months finished the relationship 4 months ago but I am finding it very difficult to get over this. I still find myself crying a lot and unable to sleep at night. At the beginning of the break-up we did communicate by text but thimgs became nasty on both... (193 words

How can I stay with my wife and win back her heart? Lately we've had a lot of stress from two bereavements, and we've grown apart.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hello. In the middle of complete shock - four days ago I found love messages on my wife's phone (no I wasn't snooping, but whatever..) We have been married 2 years, together 5, we knew we'd both met 'the one' and have always been devoted to each other. We have a house, horse ... (197 words

He can't ejaculate! Could it be his meds?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband is 29 years old, and for the last 4 mornings he has been waking up limp. Let me tell you in the 10 years we have been together this is a first. He has no problem getting it up, but he can not orgasm. We have tried the last 4 days for hours at a time and still ... (131 words

Is this a strange habit of my boyfriend's?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend masturbates whilst playing on his xbox360. several times i have walked in on hhim holding the controller in one hand and his penis in the other. he does it with many different games, from racing games to war games. i've tried to ignore it as it it isn't really ... (65 words

Is it normal for a guy to laugh during his orgasms?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

6 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - When me and my long term boyfriend have sex, when he cums, he laughs and is often forced to stop the stroking motion. He says it's not a bad thing at all, but doesn't seem to be able to explain it... or maybe he just doesn't want to. Why does he laugh? I think it's hot when he ... (67 words

He said I made him feel dirty because I wasn't ready for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - im finding it really hard to get over my first ever bf of only 6 weeks, i still really like him even tho ive not spoken to me since and what makes it harder is ive seen him but hes just never consederd talking to me, he was the one who finished with me saying he did not feel ... (116 words

Whats going on???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - I had a girlfriend for two years, i find out she seeing someone else. I dont scream shout or cause trouble. I back off, reduce contact but remain pleasant. I dont see her for five weeks when i do she breaks down crying saying shes messed it all up. I offer support kind words. ... (154 words

Is he valid in wanting to leave? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - We got married 4 years ago, out of what I thought was TRUE love. Between the two of us there are 3 children. One he took on as his when we engaged and the other 2 we share. Now it started rocky, because he is in the Navy and I quit a good job and moved away from my family to be ... (460 words

Should I live my life based on horoscopes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i want to go out with this boy who is realy funny and i think he likes me as a friend, but i dont know weather to ask him out because my horoscopes in a magazine say we shouldnt go out. what should i do???... (45 words

We were going to leave our spouses and start a life together but he's gone back to his wife!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been having an affair now for about 3 months and it all started at work. Him and i were instantly attracted to one another. I started to come up to work more often to see him and spend time with him. Well it all started one night when he invited me out to his house. I ... (351 words

I want to leave her but I don't want to ruin my childrens lives. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hi, I hate my girlfriend so much 90% of the time, we have 3 gorgeous children all aged under 4 and I would be heartbroken if I had to leave them, they are my entire world. I put up with my girlfriend because i have seen the hurt on other children when their parents split up. I ... (84 words

Age difference question.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok am 20 and he is my teacher he is 42 so what do you think this will end up ... (22 words

Is he cheating with our lodger (who is also his cousin)?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - my husbands cousin has moved in last week- she's always been clingy to us, but i'm thinking of other idea's she has. because they are staying up later on a night, he tells me he will be up to bed shortly and doesnt for hours! we have hardley had a sexual relationship since she ... (130 words

Do men prefer women confident in their looks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - I'm worried, because I know I'm not unattractive, but I complain sometimes about my hair, or my make up etc. I'm worried this puts my long term boyfriend off me, because I keep seeing people say on this site that men prefer women that are confident in their looks. Is this tru... (62 words

When I orgasm it smells like urine. Does anyone else have this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - when i have sex with my boyfriend i cum so much its embarasing! And it smells awful! Usually like urine! Does anyone else have this problem? Can i do anything about it?... (32 words

What's your opinion about porn?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

6 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - Ok every time I write that i have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn i always get this answer that all guys do it and to expect it. I just want to see more peoples thoughts on it cause if its so harmless, why am I getting so hurt by it? Ill give my opinion about it ... (244 words

I found out she's bisexual.. It's freaking me out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

6 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - I'm not homophobic, and I have nothing against people that choose not to be straight, but my quite close friend has basically told me she's bisexual... Now I feel watched by her when I'm around her. I know it's ridiculous, and that if she was a guy, just because guys fancy gi... (109 words

He wants a lap dance! How should I do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

6 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - Sometimes, I joke about giving my boyfriend a lap dance. Saying I will makes him go erect, and he seems to love the thought. And if only I had the confidence and the looks, I would! He says I'm beautiful, and that everything I do turns him on, but I really just don't see it. I ... (157 words

If I'm not bulimica then what I'm I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - So for the past 2 years or so I have noticed that my ways of eating have changed. Everytime I eat about 5 mins. later i throw it up. I dont make myself do it or anything, it just happens. Ive told my mom about this before, but she says im fine, and that im prolly just over ... (156 words

She's cheated and she's deceitful. Where do I go from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age - My wife and I have been in a troubled marriage for the last 5 years because I caught her cheating sexually and emotionally. I have been trying to let go of her affairs, but she seems to not be bothered about what she's done to our marriage. Now her hours at work changed to the ... (268 words

I met him on line, do you think he is a pervert?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm a 13 year old girl and I need some opinions from people. I have msn and lately some one added me on their msn list. I clicked him/she and asked them and it was a boy. He said he gave me his email. He said he was 17 and I saw his display pic so I believed him. I told him I ... (126 words

Is giving sexual advice to minors considered "contributing to the delinquincy of a minor"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age - This question is for the adults only! I like this site....I've only recently in the last 2 months or so found out about this site. Here is my dilemma.....I currently feel very very uncomfortable giving advice to juveniles (I currently don't)when their question is of a... (115 words

My boyfriend of 4 yrs is now ignoring me. Has he lost interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a really bad problem. For no reason whatsoever, my boyfriend of nearly 4 years has decided to just ignore me. He's ignoring my texts and calls, when he says he will see me he backs out last minute. I know it isn't cheating, he just isnt that kind of guy, he just always ... (140 words

I like her, I want to ask her out, but I'm shy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - aRGHHHHH!!! I need help! I think I did something stupid. There's this girl I like, and I'm kind of shy. Whenever I see her, I look/smile and do the shy guy thing, and look away pretty instantly. She sometimes smiles back, but im totally unsure when it comes to girls and know... (244 words

I lied to her about my age, please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi guys, I'm 15 but I am very mature for my age, and I look the part. I have been talking to this girl, shes 17, but the problem is that I told her I was 18. She believes me, but it's come back to haunt me. I'm madly and utterly in love with this girl, she's amazing. She has ... (116 words

Am I too young to be in a serious relationship? (12)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - Am I too young to be in a serious relationship with my boyfriend (12 years old)???... (16 words

I feel unwanted and low because he tells me all the time what I should do to become a better person and reminds me of my bad points! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi everyone, i am 20 years old girl in a relationship with a boy of 26. We love each other very much but the problem is here is that I am not a good thinker or a good communicator. My boyfriend expects me to talk to him but how to do that when he has abused me mentally since ... (384 words

I don't know how to kiss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - There is a valentines disco on friday 8th at my school and my boyfriends best friend has dared him to kiss me (his friend is going out with my best friend) so he did the same and dared him to kiss my best friend as well. What do I do? - I don't know how to kiss!... (59 words

What interesting things have you guys given on Valentine's Day? What could I buy that is sweet and creative?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey Guys Valentines Day is coming up.. I am mobidly opposed to it but it is my boyfriend's first valentines day and he is excited about it and I was not really gonna do anything for V-day but I found out from a friend that he is taking me to Build-a-Bear and then to a spa to ... (184 words

I need my sexual partner to realise I'm in love and care about him, how can I show this to him? - He's very skeptical, having been hurt in the past.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok So this man in my life. We're not officially dating but we hang out alot and we are having sex quite a bit, basically friends with benefits. We've been doing this for about a year. which in my mind seems a little long to be doing the whole fuck buddies thing (we are also not ... (222 words

My ex is unhappily married and I'm in a dead end relation, what is our solution?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - i am 34yrs old,when i was 16yrs old i had a wonderful relationship with a lovely guy for about a year! 18yrs later i still think about him and every time i see him i want to run over to him and ask him can we carry on from where we left off. he's unhappily married and i am... (80 words

What can I do about the lady I met abroad and my step-mum's sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi Cupid, my question is just to know what to do on a issues like 1. when i travelled abroad,there was a lady we met over there but we didn't have any intractive at all,but now she in love with me.so what can i do,because i've someone i'm going out with already but not ... (96 words

How can we rekindle the romance under the pressure of financial stress??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - What should I do? First, I can't believe I'm writing about my situation. I've always felt I could deal with my marriage without outside help, although I've been to marriage/sex therapy 12 years ago. I've been married for 18 years now. Boy how time flies. I love my wife dea... (516 words

How can I keep my commitment shy bf??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

6 February 2008 (F - Does anyone know how to deal with a guy when he decides to back out of a realtionship? Why do they start to panic? We have been dating for over a year and we've had some great times, really great and I thought we were a great fit. We've also had some problems. We are both... (263 words

People don't seem to like me, just because I don't drink alcohol! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

6 February 2008 (F - I am 18 and don't drink alcohol (not even a little bit). People seem to not like me because I dont drink, well mostly guys anyway. When a guy learns that I dont drink, they either say something in a shocked voice like 'oh my god how can you survive?!' and then never speak to me ... (279 words

16, should I sleep with my date to the dance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - well im almost 16 years old and i already had sex with 2 guys, i feel like even though i have had sex multiple times im still not ready, they both had like small penises and even then it always hurt a little when it went in, and this weekend im going to this dance at my school ... (121 words

Advice on the perfect handjob please, tell me what I'm doing wrong!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I need some advice about how to give a better hand job. Now I have tried 3 times now to make him cum but I just can't get him to. I am pretty sure I have a right grip. Its pretty firm but not too firm. I always get this cramp in my arm and its so painful to continue. Any advice ... (66 words

I'm willing to wait for her. Should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hey there, let me start this off by saying. My "ex" and I dated for 7 years. With problems (family problem "mainly her parents"). This year is her first year in University. It's been pretty routine that she spend more time with her family, friends, and everything else first ... (462 words

My close friend has come out as gay, and now another close friend of mine is picking on him. How can I sort out our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - one of my closest friends just came out that he is gay. and another of my closest friends is now picking on him because of it. before he came out they were like brothers. but now they hate each other. how can i help stop the fighting between them. without hurting my friendship ... (58 words

My wife's ex is coming to town, he wants to meet up and go on a trip with her, she is o.k with this, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

6 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - My wife hsa been contacted by a person that she was deeply in love with. It has been 5 years. She was hurt. She has been contacted by email. He has professed his love and feelings. Sh ehas told him she is married, could do a friendship. She has told him that she did love ... (243 words

He's giving mixed signals. Does he want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been friends with this guy and i fell in love with him. We where hanging out all the time. When he meet my sister he was talking to her pretty much the whole night. But after words we hung out (just me and him) When he moved we stilled talked every night for like 10 to ... (167 words

Mixed feelings for a girl I used to date. What do you think?

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6 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'll try to keep a long story short here. Was with a girl for 2.5 years and didn't treat her how she deserved to be. Had lot's of good times but had some times where I treated her like **** because of her lies(sometimes for my better) and I had some anger issues. Well the time ... (266 words

I have a problem with my pubic hair. It physically hurts my partner! Help!

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6 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I hope you can help me I'm stressing out. My pubic hair is so coarse and wirey. I've tried shaving, trimming with scissors etc.. but it always feels so hard and prickly. My partner says it hurts him when we have sex. Is there anything I can do (other than waxing it a... (104 words

I'm fed up with how my partner's treating me, and I'm scared for my daughter. Any advice?

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6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have been having sex with a man since i was 15 (same year i went to college). He is the only man i have been with though he has a lot of girlfirends and have sex with many people. Anyway, I am 23 years old now working as a nurse.I live with him and We have a 1 ... (277 words

Is this situation with an old school friend too good to be true?

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6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend in the Army and I haven't seen him for over 7 years. I've known him for 12 years and we went to school together growing up. I haven't seen him since I was in 5th grade. We started talking on the phone 2 months before he left for basic training and we decided ... (157 words

Why am I still in love with him?

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6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I fell in love back in high school. This guy is imprinted on my brain. I love him. It gives me chills to be in his presence. I try and get the message across that I love him. He talks to me and responds but he never initiates a relationship that is more than friendship. 2 ... (132 words

Should I confront him at school tomorrow?

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6 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I have been going out with this wonderful girl for a couple weeks now. We are in a pretty good relationship. But today after school an aquatance of mine was hanging around with My girl and I and she went to reach to move him away so she could move and he moved and she accident... (127 words

Should I do something or wait for him.

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6 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so I fancy this boy that I do theater with in town. We don't go to the same school, but we are friends. I asked him to my semi formal dance and we went together and had so much fun! We are always talking and flirting...but he also flirts with other girls. I would really ... (101 words

She left me for someone who abused her and got her pregnant, it's hard to shake of these feelings for her, what should I do?

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6 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I had been hurt by my ex and she went back to her ex and really hurt me. She promised me that she wouldnt hurt me again, and because of how i felt i wanted to beleive it and i did. But she went back to him. And on top of that he was and still is an abuser and a user. He ... (398 words

I'm worried that my bisexuality keeps ruining my relationships, someone please help!

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6 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am bisexual and have long struggled with my sexuality. I am so depressed by this all and despite what people say - bisexuals are not greedy. It isnt even so much a sexual thing to me but something deeper and more meaningful. The emotions and connections I have with a woman ... (369 words

She asked me if I found her friend attractive, I said yes, now she's mad, whats the go?

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6 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - My Girlfriend asked me if I was attracted to one of her friends, and I never want to lie to her so I told her the truth, that I thought her friend was attractive, but I don't want to be with her friend, I only want to be with my girlfriend and I love her very much. But now she ... (88 words

The ex is back again!! What does she want, and what should I do??

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6 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi Aunts/Uncles. Most of you by now know my situation: Met a girl over the internet, we fell in love, we met, we kept a long distance relationship of 240 miles going for 2 years, we went camping, I took her on Holiday about a year ago, she split up with me in June and I h... (424 words

He's all I can think about.

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6 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm bisexual and I have a friend who's the same age and sex as me who I have been sexually attracted to for several years. He was my roommate in high school for 1 year and I have never come out to him. I have fantasies about him and have been trying to get them out of my ... (119 words

I have fallen in love with my best friend, we are going out now, but I'm very inexperienced, how do we move on to home base?

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6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm in love with my best friend and it's soooo good. I'm not very sexually experienced though, and I want to take our relationship (we've been seeing eachother for a few months now)to the next level. This is something which i'm understandably nervous about. I am aware of the ... (82 words

How can I approach my gf on our anniversery even though we are on a break??

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6 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I am 19 years old, and I been with my girlfriend for almost four years now. We have our occasional "breaks" and all. We love each other very much, but right now we are having another break. Too much going on in my life right now and same goes for her. Its almost ... (79 words

Could my cousin be bi and have feelings for me??

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6 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm a 13 year old girl and I need people's advice. I think my 17-year old cousin is bi or someting or maybe she has feelings for me. Whenever I sign on msn she always clicks me and says hey or hi. What do you think?... (46 words

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