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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

He wouldn't give us a second chance, he just said that getting back together for a bit won't change things... any views?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, my boyfriend and I broke up nearly four months back after being together nearly two years. He is moving away and ended it saying he wasn't happy anymore, didn't feel the same as he didn't see a future. Anyway since then we have remained friends, for new year he wrote I wish ... (123 words

Her lack of education bothers me, should it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi ladies and gents in the hood outta ther, happy new year. As 2007 came to an end I felt alittle bored with our relationship and was nolonger sure how long i was to conttinue with my girlfriend. 2008 came with a whole new adventure and i feel u might be able to help in this ... (145 words

Is it too much to ask for a phone call everyday in a long distance relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2490 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Is it too much to ask for a phone call everyday in a long distance relationship? This is my second long distance relationship where my other decides to not call or return calls for 4 days at a time, when we typically talk daily. I ended the first on over it, but here I am in ... (85 words

Having sex with my first cousin.

This question has 63 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey Last night me and my cousin got a bit drunk and we started making out, even tho we stopped a few times saying this isn't right.. but still we kept doing it. Today she told me that she wants to have sex with me and that she can't believe she finaly told me. I have n... (111 words

How can I approach girls to make them like me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - What is the best thing to say to a girl, when you walk up to them. i.e. hi, blah blah blah Also what is a great thing to talk about that makes girls laugh?... (41 words

I am confused about my long distance boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I need help!!! I'm madly in love with this boy. We live 200 miles away and have been together for a year and a half. and we broke up a couple of weeks ago. He doesn't want me to be going out and having fun like he doesn't want me going to my high school dances and going ... (221 words

I would love to know him but don't want to scare him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi..i need some guidance in my love life. I'm 28, having met this guy who is 27. I am very nuch attracted to him but not sure if he is too. I met him about 2 months ago, initiated first contact, to which he responded positively. I was invited to lunch with him n his cousin... (307 words

Homeless poor and pregant...should I try and make it alone??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am 21 and have been in a long term on off relationship with a 29 year old for 3 years. We have broken it off many times but always end up going back or sleeping together. Unfortunately the last time we slept together i fell pregnant. He told my parents before i could an... (137 words

Why did he ask me to sit on his face??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

3 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 15. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. We haven't had sex before, but we've done little things. The other night, he asked me to sit on his face! So that my front was near his mouth. I asked him why, and he assured me it would feel really nice... (101 words

Sometimes I find myself seeking a better match...what should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Is the selfish option, the right option? I have a loving husband who is ideal in many ways. Aquantances, work colleagues, friends and family all sing his praises as someone totally fabulous - and they say I am very lucky. To others though, we seem like a strange match. ... (437 words

Am I too tight for sex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 February 2008 (F - Hi Agony Aunts, I'm 16, female, and have been dating a guy who I really care about for 2 years. The problem I have has nothing to do with him, it's with me. He really wants to have sex, and I know I'm ready too, but I just can't make myself do it. Physically I mean. He and I h... (217 words

How hard is it for him to ask me out if he really likes me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, there is this guy that I really like and I think the feeling is mutual but he sometimes gives off mixed signal which makes me very confused consequently, i tend to stop flirting or seem not interested in him because i dont wanna look stupid. I not sure if he is playing ... (150 words

What shall I say next time my friend is critical of me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My best friend and I have just started to talk again...It seems like every time when we are by ourselves she is always critical of me...Like a couple of days ago we were eating lunch together and she tells me "why are you so scared of guys" " why don't you wear your hair down" ... (206 words

How can I change things and spice up our sex life??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey guys... i need a little bit of help... everytime my b/f and i have sex its the same thing.. missionary or reverse missionary. So my question is how can i change it up to somehow suprise him... make it more interesting for the both of us... hope u can help ty... (54 words

Could this be breast cancer??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, so i'm 16 and almost everytime i get out of the shower i notice theres this white stuff on one of my nipples and if you kind of squeeze at it some more comes out... could it be breast cancer im scared and dont know what to do... help please... (51 words

Is this really love??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I feel like im inlove with this guy. I know im 15 and you probably think its just a crush but i really think i love him or do i? I'm so confused. *My heart pounds like crazy when im around him *I think about him non stop and when i hear from him it makes my day - like i am on... (103 words

Would I be better off alone even though we love each other??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I fear I love my man too much. Currently, I'm living about a 2-hour commute away from him, in my parents' house, because I'm student teaching, and the school I teach at is close to my parents' house. I always look forward to weekends, because that's when we get to see each oth... (277 words

Do gel bra's really work??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've got very small boobs for a 16 year old! I'm a 34A, if that! Which doesn't exactly fit my tall, slender figure. Anyway ders an event coming up later in the year and I have my doubts my breasts will suddenly grow before then so I'm hoping to try a gel bra since I'll be ... (116 words

I am crazy in love with him despite him treating me so bad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, like every other relationship we had our ups and down. Two weeks ago we broke; he never gave a real reason why. Desperate and confused I lied to him about being pregnant so he could talk to me. He did not s... (186 words

I want to be back with my ex but I am unsure if he is in a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up for about 7 months now, but are still like best friends, he has a girlfriend *his ex* (as far as I know.). He invited me over his house, and we had a small glass of alcohol, in which he said he almost kissed me. I want to get back together... (159 words

My husband has ED and hasn't taken steps to improve it... and it's killing me!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age - My husband and I have been married for 20 years and have 3 children. I know he loves me and doesn't want to hurt me, but he has ED and will not talk about it or try to resolve it. I got him t'to take Viagra and it helped for about a week and that was it. I am so depressed. ... (292 words

How do I move on from these two guys which are so important to me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5926 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey… I would love some advice on how to move on and get over someone. The thing is I’m in love with a guy, who’s fantastic amazing sweet sensitive etc etc. He knows I like him but has made it clear we are just good mates. At the same time I have become quite attached to an ol... (200 words

How can we maintain this relationship with him missing me so much??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am involved with a guy who is in the army. We have only spent a short time together but know we like each other very much and have done for around 1 year but the problem is he is finding it too difficult to maintain a relationship whilst he is away with the army. He says he ... (131 words

Does he just want somebody to talk too or to take it further??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 February 2008 (F - There is a guy at work who I have started to become friendly with due to a mutual acquaintance. Whilst talking on the phone last week he was feeling sorry for himself with a cold and as we talked he said to me that 'he needed the love of a good woman'. I didn't know what to ... (124 words

If a girl doesn't text back, does it mean she isn't interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

3 February 2008 (M - dear cupid i would like to know something, when you text a girl and she dnt text back, does it mean shes not interested?... (27 words

My little sister gives me self esteem issues, how can I handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys, I've found the culprit of my low self esteem but don't know how to handle it. My sister is a very very very immature 17 year old. Whenever she speaks to me it's to call me ugly or fat and even a dog. She always always calls me a fat ugly b****. I don't say anythi... (260 words

I have really low self esteem issues! What is wrong with me, and what can I do to feel better about myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am 14 and i have really low self esteem issues somtimes i cant even look in the mirror because i think i am really ugly or my hair is a mess. my freinds say i am pretty one said i am one of the most prettiest girls in the year. but i feel i am weird none of my freinds have ... (93 words

Will my ex-girlfriend come back to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Will my ex girlfriend come back to me? She told me that she was not in love with me and was over me. She started talking to this guy in her dorm. I love her and i did beg for her to come back. But i think that is why she told me she was not in love with me and was over me.... (117 words

I have to go away for a year. I think we'll just enjoy the time we have and see what happens, but is this unfair on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Heya! I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past 2 years and i love him very much. Lately though we've been having quite a few conversations about our relationship and I'm struggling to understand how he really feels. I'm leaving for a year away next year a... (158 words

My marriage is breaking up, but I love her too much to leave! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I hope you can help, i recently got married only 7 months ago and two days ago we had an arguement over mobile phone texts which isnt alot a know but it has been a build up over a year or so of things and she has now walked out on our marriage saying that she does not want ... (248 words

In love with my ex-husband's old friend... how do I make him realize how much HE cares?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - My ex-husband's old friend moved in with us last year. We have become very close. My divorce was final at the end of last year and he stayed at my house after my ex-husband moved out. He was NOT the reason for my divorce as there were soooo many reasons. Anyway, we have ... (220 words

I want to be with my boyfriend thousands of miles away. But it is a big step. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am in a really difficult situation and don't know what to do next or how to handle it. I am 35 and have seen a guy for a year now but only friends know as my family relationships (parents and sister) have been very up and down and I have grown tired and hurt with their ... (397 words

Confused about a boy I met. Does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Recently i met this boy, it was totally random....he was in the local shop and we walked home together. we were bout to kiss outside my house wen my mum walks out typical. so we sed our byes but we never swapped numbers. a week later ive been thinking bout him loads i reme... (135 words

Should I leave her alone now she has a guy??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (M - Dear cupid, I am a 16 (going 17 in march) and recently have been wanting to ask this girl out, but never had the guts to do so. Now i find out that she has a man and feel a bit sad. is it normal for me to want this girl and should i tell her what i think of her and that i w... (105 words

Is it wrong to pursue a relationship with somebody 1-2 years younger??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

3 February 2008 (M - dear cupid, I would like to know is it wrong for a person to go out with someone who is 1-2 years younger than themselves. I recently saw this good looking girl, went over to her found out how old she is and that, she seems to be 1 year younger than me in age wise but 2 years... (115 words

I cheer this guy I like and this girl on but every time I do it creates a larger wound on my heart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - umm...i met this guy in first grade, we are in 6th grade now but he likes this girl, i cheer them on but everytime i do it creates a larger wound on my heart what should i do?... (38 words

Should I give him an ultimatum...either lose the drugs or me for good??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am really confused at the moment. I am 18 and my ex who I have been on and off with for about 3years is 17. I don't know what to do anymore.My heart tells me one thing and my head tells me another.He has been a drug dealer since he was 14 selling mostly cannabis... (363 words

He said the nicest things but hasn't called in over a week..is this a hint??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - Greetings everyone!! Well I've met what seems to be an incredible man 3 weeks ago and at first he seemed very into me. We went out to dinner twice and had a coffee the third time together. He said the nicest things to me, like "he'd never been intimidated by a woman before, ... (135 words

We fight every single day because he doesn't understand me...but our familes are excited about us getting engaged.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi everyone... Well... my problem is similar to many girls here. I've been goin out wih this guy since almost 7 yrs now. Both our families knows all bout it infact his parents talked to my parents and its all good. We mite get engaged very soon but the problem is that now i fe... (155 words

I feel like I just don't fit in and it is getting me down.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I don't feel like i fit in... i never used to be shy but i am, i just cant open up to anyone. I have friends but i feel that i am just included through one friend and whenever i go out i feel worse when i get home. I guess as all my friends are more pretty and more success... (127 words

What's with all these mixed signals from my ex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I really need some help with my ex-boyfriend and current boyfriend. My ex-boyfriend and I were going out for 9 months, we do love each other and we want a future together. But, the thing is, I dumped him recently because I was having a bit of a "Teenage breakdown" type thi... (203 words

My mum thinks I don't want her and dad together and I've now threatened to move out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Dear All Apologies in advance for the length of this post, the details are needed! Ok, I’m 14 and have always loved my family and put them first. I have few friends because I commit myself to them more than anyone else. I always male myself available for them and respect them... (1077 words

What is the best position for first time sex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are ready to start having full sex. What is the best position for first intercourse? I know my boyfriend will be gentle but i was thinking a pillow underneath to raise my buttocks and legs as far apart as possible might ease penetration.Also what does it ... (60 words

Is there any way I can stop getting so nervous??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age 26-29 - Whenever i try and do something i can do, like a trick, i do it perfectly infront of friends, but when im infront of the one i like.... =S disaster strikes, I get too nervous, and i freak out, is there any way to fix it? Or is it just a natural instinct?... (53 words

Concerned about my weight - an impediment to having sex with thin girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

3 February 2008 (M - dear cupid i would like to know do skinny girls have sex with fat people or is it just skiny with skiny? coz im fat and would like to ask this skiny girl out and if it lead to sex, would it be possible me to have sex with her? and would she laugh when she sees my stretch... (66 words

Any thoughts about my flirting with this older, married man at work? Can't stop thinking about him.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

3 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hey okay this is a complicated one, there's this guy at work and we are really close friends outside of work. We have a really good relationship both in and out of work and we tell each other a hell of alot of stuff. Basically he phones me for a chat sometimes before work an... (424 words

My best friend wants us to be roommates... but I'm in love with her. Should I accept?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hello.. Well, a couple of years ago i started a new job where I met this girl, a coworker. we were instantly good friends. a few months into our friendship, i confessed that i liked her, but was shot down. it was a bit awkward at first, but we quickly went back to being ... (184 words

We're supposed to be best friends, but he always stands me off for her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay my best friend keeps telling me he loves me more than anyone in the world, and he says i'm his best friend and everything, but he never calls me or asks me to go shopping with him or anything. but he always asks 'amy' [not real name] to go downtown with him and calling ... (173 words

The early pregnancy scan resulted in the impossibility to see the foetus. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I had an early scan on Wednesday when I would have been 8 weeks and 5 days pregnant and the Nurse couldn't find the baby, I don't know why but I am positive I must be having a 'silent' miscarriage. The Nurse told me that it's because my bladder wasn't full enough and it might ... (250 words

Can I really truly trust this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend is moving into a house and renting a room near where i live to be closer to me. problem is the house is a female friend's of his who he had a one night stand with before he met me. he says i've got nothing to worry about as it was a big mistake and they are just ... (168 words

Can Sperm go through material?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My Boyfriend and i were fooling around the other night ... We both had clothes on . He came but not on me , Can Sperm go through material ? What actually needs to happen for me to fall pregnant ? He said he had none on his hands so i should be fine but i'm very nervous abo... (74 words

Work is making me very stressed. What can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'm a 24yr old male, and under alot of stress with work. I've always had lots of hair and strong, and clear skin and as of last year i've noticed my hair taking strain and when i wash my hair i have some hair that stays on the comb, and occasional breakouts on my neck. i... (89 words

Is it normal for your period to come after Sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Is it normal if after sex, your period comes??? I was just wondering. Thank you very much.... (17 words

22, My mother is ruining my life! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have one more question for the day/night. Ok. My mother treats me like a 2 year old and I'm actually 22 and she baby-sits me and she won't let me do things like go out with my friends or anything. I have to come home at 10 or before she gets home from work!!!!!! It's driving ... (81 words

My best friend and I are in love, but he does the same things he does with me with another of his friends and I'm jealous! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my best friend are amazingly close, well we are pretty much in love, we are always hugging and holding hands and he has even told me he loves me, i know he means it, and i know i love him too, but the thing that makes me angry is that he has another friend who's a girl ... (143 words

Many dating guides suggest that you should talk to random girls to boost your confidance, EVEN if you don't like them. Do girls think this is *wrong* to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, Many dating guides say you should just talk to random girls to boost your confidence even if you don't like them. I was wondering do girls think this is *wrong* to do? Or is it possible that since it's unknowable if in advance if it's good or bad, then it's okay. Al... (104 words

I feel like I love him more than he loves me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is my third post about the same type of problem with the same person. My boyfriend and I are going on one year of living together and over a year and a half of dating. We from the get-go took our relationship very seriously. Before we even became official we talk... (420 words

She is the love of my life, but her ex is in the way

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age - Last June, I bumped into a girl I once worked with. We never had a relationship at that time - in fact we were both married. A few weeks later, she contacted me saying she was single and miserable (recently broken up from a two-year relationship). In short, we got together,... (335 words

What can I do to get my wife to want me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

3 February 2008 (M - Okay, so I've been on here before, seeking help because my wife has (what I consider to be) a low sex drive. Some background...she's 25, I'm 32 and we haven't been married long at all, and we only met a few years ago, but we've never had a healthy sex life (again, this is ... (920 words

I got swollen "down there," why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi... since I was little one of the lips in my vigina has been dark( like elephant skin) and big (like stretch) only one side and yesterday my boyfriend was messing down there with the finger, after that I got swollen and it hurt ? What is it? Can u help me please?... (53 words

Competition for the same guy is making me angry!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am having an issue with this boy that I fancy. We are in theater together in town, and I really fancy him. We don't go to the same school. We are friends, so I asked him to a dance that was at my school and he said yes and it was a lot of fun. But, apparently another girl ... (190 words

Anything we need to do before going to our first swingers party?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age - Hi my wife and I are intrested in going to a swingers party to try other partners. She would like to try a younger guy again. We have discussed it at great length and feel it would be a great turn on for us both to watch each other with someone else that we don't know. We ... (149 words

Is this just a guy's way of telling me the agreement is off or that there is someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5928 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone! okay so I have what is a big dilemma for me... anyways... so this guy and I have been talking to for a few months now and we both have told each other that we had feelings for one another. He thought it would be best to wait to start dating until I was 18 (he is ... (217 words

I'm in love with a man who's 14 years older than me, and he's married.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm in love with a man who's 14 years older than me, and he's married. He seemed attracted but I cannot speak for him, so I will just speak for myself. I feel really sad about it, and everyone came hard down on me for it and stuff, telling me to back off and isolating me, ... (156 words

My boyfriend like an 8 year old.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - K so me and my boyfriend started out very well, going out and just chilling with friends. Then there is an 8 year old girl that has a huge crush on him. She would call him early in the morning, try to push me away when I give him a hug... So me and a friend talked to her and it ... (369 words

A question for mothers out there.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was wondering for mothers who have more than 1 child..did you get more stretch marks with the 2nd baby, or is all the damage pretty much done after the 1st? I have a 10 month old and I am due next month to have another baby. Also, does it hurt less (labor) the 2nd time? ... (56 words

Is it wrong for me to fancy women.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi. Is it wrong for me to fancy women? I oome from a catholic background and both my parents are against the idea of it. I enjoy sex with men, but I imagine that I'm with a woman.... (41 words

Found out I was the rebound girl. Has this happened to you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey aunts, Yesterday I found out that the guy I have been seeing over the past month (my first boyfriend) was using me as a rebound girl. He had apparently just come out of an intense relationship and only wanted to have fun with me. It came as quite a suprise to me be... (122 words

Should I talk to my teacher about what happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I reported my ex-teacher, who I had/have a crush on, for misconduct about a month ago, and now I want to talk to him, but I don't know if he will talk to me. We were really good friends up until that point, and we'd talk every three or four weeks. A year and a half ... (373 words

He sabotages my efforts, and the time I spend with my kids! Is he abusing me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (? - My boyfriend and I are having huge problems. I think he's abusing me.(not physically but emotionally)He's 50. And I am finding out he has some possession and control head problems. These issues seem to come out more whenever my family come around. We live together. I own the ... (435 words

She's married with kids! Am I nuts for wanting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - it may seem crazy at my age! and i'm not sure what it is but it hurts so much, i want so much to be with a woman i have know for so long now but she is married with 2 fabulous boys and i can't tell anyone but i want to tell the world, i could go on for ever however she makes me ... (69 words

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