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It's all wearing me out emotionally...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband has a very fiery temper and when he gets angry he can be very rude and swear and shout and insult me, calling me 'thick' and a 'bitch' etc .. I have told him so many times that this hurts me and upsets me but the next time we argue it just happens again. He ... (575 words

How can I get my husband to Man up?!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Is there a site where professional women can talk about their lives with blue-collar husbands? I heard something about that on 20/20 or something, but I really didn’t catch more detailed info. When I got married in my early 20s I was a junior at a company working my behind o... (638 words

How do I get him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago for a stupid reason. We were together almost a year and a half and I love him more than anything and I know he loves me too. The problem is he says that I hurt him really bad and he just needs time to deal with it. Now he won't talk to ... (104 words

I have never met anyone like her and she is the one that I want to spend my life with.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I started work about september time and around christmas i started to like this girl who works there. I knew she was goin out with someone else but i talked 2 her friends and they said she doesnt know what she wants and she cant see what an idiot he is. So i told her i had ... (364 words

Am I just too tight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, I've had sex once before with someone I really loved, i lost my virginity to him, but i was nervous and kind of froze at the thought of it. He was big down there and it did hurt a bit. I'm starting to get a bit worried i'm too tight to have sex, as I've tried having i... (97 words

I don't want to date other girls...is it because I am not over my ex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - hey, My girlfriend broke up with me some time ago now (about 4 months) and it was extremely hard, we fell out even thought she said she wanted us to stay friends. We have recently started talking more and we are becoming friends again but i always try to reassure myself that... (117 words

I feel like my teacher is seducing me...what should I do??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello! I went up a year at school and acquired a new teacher, not being arrogant I'm traditional with true morals old fashioned yes, however this seamed/seems to attract such teacher unintentionally. She is single and a genuine nice (young) lady. Since meeting her the ... (343 words

Should I let him 'teach me' or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've hooked up with this guy quite a few times and am comfortable around him, since we were friends before we started hooking up. We've had sex and he's gone down on me before [both more than once]. And he's hinted that he'd like if I went down on him. I don't mind, except ... (106 words

Is it possible to settle down with one person or should you get more experience??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Is it possible to have been in one relationship with one person and just stay with that person? Or is it better to get'experienced' and then settle down? I am a lil confused, I have been with my gf for 1year and 2months, shes my first gf and im 21 which is a bit embarass... (177 words

Is it disloyal for my bf to hang out with his ex's family or should I be ok with it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Is it disloyal for my bf to go hang out and party with his ex wifes family where i am not welcome to go along? His ex is not in this picture. Or is ok for him to to maintain a relationship with these people? should i be ok with this?... (51 words

How can I tell him I don't like him anymore??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and boyfriend started seeing each other in year 7. It was really fun we were always talking and laughing where in yr 10 now and i feel like hes got bored of me he just want to kiss all the time and wont let me see my really good friends. I need to know how to tell him that... (88 words

Any ideas how I can help her stop doubting herself??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi, my girlfriend really wants to be a model, and i think she could do it, and oeveryone in my school tinks she does to, some people thought she already was. So we were goign to go to london and go to some agencies, but she keeps doubting herself, she seems to think shes not... (111 words

Has anybody ever been in an open relationship but been in love with their partner??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Im just wondering, is there anyone out there who has ever had an open relationship but were in love with your boyfriend at the same time? I've recently discovered a couple that i know, they are in love, together for 3yrs, but have an open relationship - ie they kiss/sleep with ... (69 words

I still don't trust him- should I leave?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. It's been rocky the whole time. I've had numerous problems with him and the internet.My first inkling something was wrong was when i found he had been searching for BBW's on my computer. I am hardly A BBW - I am more on the thin side ... (893 words

Should I fight to be with him or should I listen to my family and find someone else??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, The man that Im with is 20 years older than me and of the opposite race. He is the best thing Ive ever found. He sees that I have a shell around me because Ive been through a lot in my past. He wants me to talk to him, open up to him and let him inside and get to know me. ... (338 words

Is Heartbreak An Illness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - is heartbreak an illness because i have a lot of health probs at the moment and i think it could be to do with stress and heartbreak. i am in love with a teacher at my school (who i have NO chance with) and thinking that i will never be with him is breaking my heart.... (56 words

Is there anything else I can get to stop the pregnancy risk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Basically i had sex with my boyfriend a week ago, unprotected. And totally forgot to get the morning after pill. Is there anything else i can get to stop the pregnancy risk? ... (32 words

How can I move on from an affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I'm trying so hard to get through the heart ache I feel after my three year affair with a married man, I too started out married. I must say what is helping me get through this is to see that other girls have been through a situation that is simular to mine. I feel so nieve ... (751 words

His ex tries to sabotage his relationships. Is it worth salvaging?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks. We've been out once and really hit it off. the conversation is wonderful. His personality is great. This past weekend we were not able to go out because he was with his ex-wife who is still madly in love with him and tries ... (137 words

Is heartburn a sign of pregnancy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - is heartburn a sign of pregnancy... (6 words

Is it wrong or selfish to want a man to say nice things and want to make love to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age - I have recently met someone who I like. He has been on his own around 4 years (although he has dated quite alot) and I have been on my own around a year (I have had one or two dates). This man is very quiet and I am the one who does most the talking...and when I stop, h... (417 words

Would I go to jail in a few months when I'm 18 if my 14 yr old girlfriend is pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey hi! i need information because im kinda worried What would happen if my girlfriend gets pregnant but she is underage(14)? and im 17, plus she is from US, and im from México. She lives in USA, and i live in México. Would i go to jail in a few months when im 18? Or h... (85 words

Why do bald men in suits turn me on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay im 13 and i am really concerned as the only people i tend to fancy are around 35-50 years old and i dunno why but bald people wearing suits kinda turn me on! its soo embarrising as there is a certain teacher who fits this bill at school and he found out i fancy him and i ... (78 words

I experimented with myself and now I don't know how to feel. Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi. Last night I found myself experimenting with my body. I suddenly had all these urges which were probably brought on by the fact that I haven't had sex in nearly a year. At one point, I even tried finding and stimulating my g-spot...... And I'm sure most of you will know how ... (146 words

A question to all: Have you ever loved someone so much that you just couldn't let go of them despite many relationship problems between you both?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F - Has anyone else had such a deep connection with someone and felt so much in love on a soulmate level that even though you feel so much is wrong with the relationship and you feel they treat you so badly - not talking any abuse but so many things wrong but you cannot leave the ... (193 words

He had to go over and talk to his ex about a matter. Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've recently met this guy and he's just split with the mother of his 3 year old daughter, so I know his daughter is the most important thing but last nite after seeing he daughter, he come out with my mate and her guy, halfway through the nite she calls him, he ignores it then ... (163 words

HGH or Nutropin question!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - HGH or Nutropin question My friend's been using Nutropin, or HGH to lean out, and it worked great on her even though she was skinny to start with but while she did a 3 month poking session, now she's stopped because she has menstrual cycle irregularities and when ... (126 words

Why are some guys sooo obsessed with anal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Why are some guys sooo obsessed with anal? Some guys out there think it's great to fuck girls in the ass and some are really sick enough to have such things like magnam flashlights in girls asses on their porn files etc so what's the deal about this? and why do they li... (124 words

I caught him masturbating with the vacuum, today!!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a married mother of 3. My oldest is a boy, he is almost 14. I caught him masturbating with the vacuum, today!! I am dumbfounded. His dad is going to talk to him, tonight. How can we deal with this, explaining the disgust and immoral act... without making him feel like ... (80 words

Do I wait until my period is finished before starting the next set of pills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im on the pill and its slightly new to me, Im on a pill which allows me to have a 7 day break to have my period. I'm due to start taking my next set of pills tomorrow however my period is not finished. Do i wait until my period is finished before starting the next course o... (66 words

This old friend helped my wife through hard times in the past, but isn't flirty/sex talk out of line?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - My wife and I are recently married (1½ years). Since we were dating and a few times since our wedding she gets calls, text messages and e-mails often sexual and flirtatious in nature from an old friend. When she was single she says they talked a lot and he would always hit on ... (118 words

How long does it take for a babies heartbeat to develop inside the womb?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I just wanted to ask a question..... I wondered, I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and I'm thinking I might be pregnant. I just want to know how long it takes for a babies heart beat to develop inside the womb? ... (46 words

Have any of you liked your friends man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Have any of you liked a guy that your friends with for like afew months and not been able to stop thinking about him and when your with him always looking at him, but then when your on your own and you start to think what it would be like to be with this guy you start to wonder ... (90 words

I didnt have my contraceptive jab on the day I was suppose to. Could I have got pregnant since?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I didnt go for my contraceptive jab on the 11th Febuary. I only had one shot before this and that was on december 1st last year. I had unprotected sex on the 16th but it only lasted bowt 15 mins and he didnt come. is it unlikely that i am pregnant?... (57 words

No period since december and inconclusive test. Could I be pregnant?

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18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi wud like some advice please. not had a period since dec. did 2 tests last week, both neg, did another today. there was a pink line but it wasnt quite in the window. i feel bloated and am suffering fom heart burn. am i pregnant?... (46 words

Why am I the only person left thats not met, and stayed with someone special???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - I've just been rejected, and I'm trying to move on again. I've been rejected before -- in fact, my success rate is abysmal. It used to be because I was too shy to persue girls. I'm still shy now, of course, but I at least try. I've covered all the normal basis for what might be ... (212 words

I've got back with my husband and it meant moving to his country, But I'm not happy here. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, please advise me, i have recently gone back to my marriage, which ment me moving to the country where my husband is from, i am here because of my husband and to save our marriage, as i believed that if i had not come over to him our marriage would be finished as he was not ... (276 words

I can't stand him looking at other girls! What do I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age - I am married to a gorgeous guy much younger than me and we are basically very happy. I just need helpwith one thing...... he really stares at other women. I've talked to him about it and he reassures me how muchhe loves me and says he finds it very difficult not to do. I know ... (267 words

My wife has left and I'm so confused and scared, please help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - My wife has suddenly decided we are over. She ahs been contacted by an old boyfriend from Jr. High. We have had intimacy problems ever since becoming serious in our relationship. She has had an abusive past and was really dumped on by her first husband. I adopted her son 3 ... (113 words

I missed my chance, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, really hope you can help me. I knew this guy when i was in college (just as an acquaintance). He moved to another country for work. we got in touch online and hve chatted a lot of times. I really started to like him, but i thot i'd tell him when he came down, rather than... (426 words

I might have a second chance, how do I make it clear I won't break his heart again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - A couple of months ago, an ex-boyfriend from 10 years ago emailed me from out of the blue to say hi. He was the sweetest guy that I have ever dated, but I was very immature at that time. I may have broken his heart as I was his first girlfriend. So, after meeting up for coff... (195 words

Attempting anal for the first time... Should I use gloves?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Heya how you doing. I think the site is wonderful and i'm sure you can help me with my problem, ok here it goes, I'm 22 year old dmale and i want to try out my fantasy of anal sex with my gf, didn't think she would agree to it but she did and we are pleased that we have the ... (191 words

How do I handle his lies and suggestions he'll cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I have been with my partner a few years now. A while ago I found out he went away for a week with his ex (he told me he was visiting a relative but told his mates where he was really going). After confronting him, he reckoned it was innocent and tried to get ove... (98 words

I'm a virgin and he's quite big, will it hurt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi. I am a virgin. My boyfriend is a big guy. Will his penis be big too? What will sex for the first time feel like? I am scared I will do something wrong. Any advice? ... (38 words

How can I be sure he likes me too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi THere, I wonder if you can help. I quite like a man at work but I am not sure how to tell if he likes me back. I've just come out of a long marriage a few months ago and I am ready to start dating again but I am very rusty because I married at 19, had 4 children and my husb... (361 words

I'm so insecure about our relationship, but don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F - Dear Aunts I am so insecure with my boyfriend, we have been thru so much. Before we went out we had ups and downs he always tested how much i really liked him coz his inseucre himself and he used to go back to his ex we'll call her *kiara* and my bf *ben* well, ben used t... (450 words

Would it hurt if I told him he has a small one?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - would it hurt a mans pride to tell them they have a small penis? especially if they are already an insecure person.... (23 words

How do I show her that I am not someone who is all talk but am serious about my actions...? How do I gain her trust again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - I met a woman whom I felt was "perfect" for me in April 07. This being after being introduced, chatting casually and having a fantastic 6 hour date over dinner and drinks. However she had a boyfriend at the time and gradually became confused. This had led to serious ... (567 words

He takes offence when I don't swallow his cum.

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

18 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - I tried really hard to talk to my boyfriend about him cumming in my mouth, because he loves the thought, but whenever he has in the past, I've had to stop myself gagging. I don't think it's the taste, but kind of the gooey texture.. I just don't want him to, but he took so much ... (80 words

A split condom... 2 times in a row!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - One night, we were having sex when we noticed the condom had split. Two nights later, we were having sex again and the condom split. Why is this happening?! It's never happened before until now.... (35 words

It's like its okay for her to see someone but I can't.'

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy for about a month now. He has 2 kids, one is 2 and one is nearly 5. His ex, the mother of both children, recently found out he was dating me, after hacking into his e-mail account and reading a message from me. She then replied to the message asking t... (337 words

All I want is a settled life with him and I want him love me as before.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi Dear cupid, My problem is with my husband. I have married from 7 years he was fall in my love but I think he stopped to love me in the last two years although I keep my good looking but in fact I don't love him as before. All I hope is a settled life with him and I want... (80 words

She dumped me as she still has feelings for her ex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (M - dear cupid I am at the moment confused, I was going out with a girl for one week where she dumped me and said she still has feeling for her ex, tell my mates that she won't go back to me... girls do you think if I talk to her when college opens properly she might reconsider... (105 words

He seen us kissing whilst dancing and it's now torturing me as this guy knows my boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am in a loving relationship with a guy who I adore and have lived with for 2 years. On a night out about 4 weeks ago, I was dancing with a mutual friend of mine and my boyfriends. Another friend of ours has said he seen us kissing whilst dancing and it's now torturing me as ... (148 words

The condom has split twice in a row!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - I'm starting to not be able to trust condoms, as now, during sex, the condom has split twice in row. It's never happened before, but what seems to be happening is it's getting tighter and tighter around the top of his penis, and it splits. The first time he didn't notice, and ... (127 words

My husband has become very picky about things in the last few months, not just picky but very picky!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband has become very picky about things in the last few months. Not just picky, but VERY picky, refusing to do ANYTHING until it's perfect. I told him that although his goal of perfection was noble, that it's impossible to get it absolutely right. He is kind, gener... (232 words

The test came up negative but I still think I might be! Help please

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I took a test about 4 days ago but it said you have to take it like a day before to see if you pregnant. Well it came up neg. But i feel very sick in the morning or anytime i eat something. I have sharp pain in my uterus. I'm wondering if I should take another test after my ... (69 words

I am concerned that my boyfriend is wary of intimacy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am concerned that my boyfriend is wary of intimacy. He has been making loads of plans for us, but they always seem to feature our friends. We rarely seem to spend time just by ourselves, although we did for about the first time on Valentine’s Day on his suggestion and it ... (363 words

He wants a colostomy bag. He said it'd be his "man bag" and that it was trendy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 24, my husband's 28, and last week he said to me he wanted a colostomy bag. He said it'd be his "man bag" and that it was trendy. I took it with a pinch of salt. However, he always does make an effort to look good, and is always very nice to everyone as well. I find ... (113 words

Do you think I am finally pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex for a month now. And I'm supposed to start my period in 3 days and he went in me. Do you think I could finally get pregnant?... (36 words

The stripper at his batchelor party "scratched his chest"!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm getting married in nearly two weeks. Yet I'm torn between so many problems. First one is about my fiance. I love him to death and he's a great guy but something happened on his bachelor night. A couple of weeks ago I told my fiance's best man that I felt bad my fiance ... (307 words

I love to have sex with my wife, but lately, I have found that I have a "window of opportunity" to when it can be done.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I love to have sex with my wife, but lately, I have found that I have a "window of opportunity" to when it can be done. The only time she will be in the mood is between 7:00pm and 8:00pm after she has come home from work, had dinner, and doesn't have anything else to do. I... (115 words

How can you tell it was rape?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I was 14 when it happened, most people don't believe me, not even my friends. I snuck out of the house to go meet 2 of my girlfriends and two of their guy friends. I had 7 shots, not that many but I passed out in the next 5 mintues. I keep waking up diffrent places, I was on t... (197 words

Is it illegal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Is it illegal for an 18 year old male and a 15 year old female to be together even if they're not having sex or is it only illegal if they are having sex?... (34 words

I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age - i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, although hard. he has depleted my ... (93 words

I love my husband but I always have to fake orgasms...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi i'm 30 and been married for almost 6 yrs now. Since the first time i had sex i only had 2x orgasm with a partner. I can only get orgasm when i masturbate but not with my husband or with my past relationships. I always have to fake it everytime we have sex. I love my husband ... (84 words

I'm confused...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey, whats up everyone???? Anyways, I've been going out with this girl for the longest, cut a long story short I love her and she loves me... we broke up cause I cheated on her we didn't talk for 5 months she came back to me and well yeh I don't know if she's scared to get back... (113 words

Should I be patient or should I let him go? He's focussing on his career, and is finding it difficult to balance.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - In June I began a wonderful relationship with a man a few years younger than me. I knew at some point his work would take him to a different city. After 6 months spending nearly every spare moment together, we fell in love, and everything was perfect, then he had to move away ... (363 words

He talks to other girls because "it feels good" and comes home drunk. I should be able to avoid the stress for the sake of my pregnancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together 1 year in Sept 07. I have two children from a previous marriage. My bf and I are now expecting our first baby together in July. We moved to this new house almost a year ago and he has become influenced by his new best friend. He spends a ridiculus ... (287 words

I like my friends best friend. Am I gay??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey I have a problem, im 15 and I like this gurl that is my friends bestfriend. Shes a girl and I have feelings for her, the thing is I am not attracted to girl I just feel as if I realate to her and I think shes really sweet. But I want to know what do to should I go for it, ... (76 words

Should I let him know of my feelings or just keep quiet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I met this guy a few weeks ago, we saw each for about a week and then just stopped. I have developed these feelings for him that I just can't get over. Should I let him know of my feelings or just keep quiet?... (44 words

When is the best time to take a pregnancy test?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - When should I do a pregnancy test after the first time of sex? I had unprotected sex for the first time which was on Valentine's day with my boyfriend a week after my period for the month of February.... (39 words

Am I bored with my boyfriend or this realtionship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

18 February 2008 (F age - My boyfriend and I met online and it is now one and half year were are together. I am now getting impatient cos we still haven't met each other though he always made plans but for some reason it alway postponed. Latest plan is he is coming this May'08. I am kind of bored with ... (166 words

I've never asked a girl out before, I really like her but how do I ask her out?

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18 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I real like this girl. I went to a talent show with her and she gave me her number. So I called her and we talked for hours. Then that night we talked for 2 and a half hours. Then the next day we told each other that we liked each other. What do I do now, do I ask her out. What ... (75 words

Turns out the girl I slept with is much older than me and married with kids!!! I had absolutely no idea!

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18 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Not sure what to do about my problem, so here we go... I was out on Saturday night, at a bar near where I live. I met a girl I liked, we had a few drinks, and we continued on to a club. More drinks, and we ended back at my friends flat, an intimate group... (366 words

How should I deal with my ex?

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18 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I recently broke up. I stopped talking to my gf 2 weeks ago. Recently, we started talking again, as she needed her stuff out of my apt. The other night she called me up to ask me to go out to a movie. 40 minutes before the movie started. I called her back 10 minutes,... (426 words

How can I have an orgasm without masturbating during sex?

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18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Every time I have sex with my boyfriend the only way I can have and orgasm is when he is in me and I am masturbating and then I feel a good sensation. How can I have an orgasm without masturbating during sex??!! Please answer asap!! thnxx... (49 words

My girlfriend doesn't talk to me...

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18 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend doesn't talk to me? I have tried everything to get her to talk to me. I text me but she just sends me one word replies back, I feel like she is uninterested. I know she cares about me. She cares about me so much she has told me this. But all I want is to talk. ... (120 words

I feel as if I'm addicted to stealing money from my parents...

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18 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I find myself stealing money from my parents now and again, like £20 at a time. I really want to stop, but I can't. I feel as if I'm addicted. HELP!... (40 words

Do men put on a condom for oral sex, and why?

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18 February 2008 (? age - Do men put on a condom for oral sex, and why?... (11 words

How can I be intimate with my boyfriend without this horrible ordeal coming back to haunt me?

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18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, this is kind of a strange problem as a lot of the main event I cannot recall. Basically, after nearly 5 months of being with my boyfriend, we decided it was time to have sex and I was in full agreement, feeling very strongly for him and feeling comfortable enou... (435 words

No sex for a year and a half and it's driving me CRAZY!!!!!

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18 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - HI! PLEASE, PLEASE HELP ME!! I'm 18 years old, and I haven't had sex in a year and a half!! I'm feeling unattractive, yet very horny! I could just yell into a pillow for hours with frustration. I really am starting to feel like I NEED sex, and I know that that isn't a goo... (168 words

Am I obsessed with my university lecturer?

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18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm worried that I may be obsessed with one of my lecturers at uni. He's incredibly interesting and despite the fact that he's extremely terrifying, he's so passionate and intelligent. I find myself looking him up in my free time and with desire to read his research papers, ... (140 words

How do I know if a guy is flirting? And how do I flirt back?

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18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i was wondering if anyone can tell me how i can tell if a guy is flirting with me or not as i'm new to the whole dating scene also what should i do if a guy flirts with me? should i flirt back and if so how do iflirt with him? if it's a guy that i like that's flirting with me, ... (79 words

Would me and my boyfriend be related if his Mom marries my cousin?

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18 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Would me and my boyfriend have any relation if his mom marries my second cousin?... (15 words

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