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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I can't help cheating on any of my boyf's that I've had!! I was with my ex for 9 years and cheated on him so many times that I lost count!! And even now I'm with my current boyf 2 years and I've cheated on him twice!! None of the 2 of my boyf's have ever given me any reason to cheat. They couldn't be nicer to me. And both would go to the ends of the earth for me. Why do I do it tho??I hate myself each time I do it but it doesn't stop me!!! Its eating me up inside as I really love my boyf - I was on a girlie holiday in Oct and ended up sleeping with a guy and felt so guilty afterwards!!!
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reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (5 February 2008):
 I don't know, I only ever cheated once on a guy I was with for only 4 months. But I have been tempted lots of other times! So I know that it is possible NOT to cheat. You just need to work out your priorities and stop yourself from flirting with other guys. If you feel horny, run to your man. If he's too far, phone him up and have phone sex! You just have to discipline yourself and learn that there is more to life than the thrill of casual sex.
God bless you and teach you loyalty!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
Somewere deep down there lies an insecurity, A feeling of being wanted needed and loved and it matters not that your b/fs love you, you need to feel the first phase of this feeling to feel needed, Hunny you have to look really deep inside and find out the core of this problem, Your childhood did you ever feel negleted, Have you ever been abused in anyway by a man or other persons, Has any form of bulling taken place in your life. I would suggest you go and see a counsellor to get this settled once and for all as you are going to feel so bad, And the worse you feel the bigger the depression and you will just go round in circles, You want to stay with your b/f or you wouldnt be writing this you want help hunny, You have a great lack of self confidence for some reason and this is the outcome, go and see someone love and I hope this has helped a little and you feel better very soon TAKE CARE WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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