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writes:hi, i started checking my partners cellphone and read a few messages from his ex nothing too detailed so I never bothered too much,then more textes were coming and they met a few times , when I asked him he made up excuses but never seemed to bother or upset that I had found out, even when I phoned his ex he still wasn't bothered and she never even phoned him to say I called her, now he's been really lovey duffy and wanting my attention, is this the right behaviour or should he not be shouting at me for looking through his phone and accusing him, please advise me don't know what to think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): I've been with a guy who cheated on me, I found out through sneaky measures after a million things didn't add up - I'm not proud of snooping but doing so was the only thing that enabled me to find out for sure he was cheating and thus get out of a bad relationship. He attacked, I think the calmness is probably a good sign.
With all that said, I would never snoop again. If you feel like you need to that's already a sign that something is not right with the relationship
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reader, Arkiteck  +, writes (5 February 2008):
dude did nothing wrong, but if he's not goign to get mad at you for going through his stuff then i will. What the hell are you doing? If you don't trust him than tell him but don't go through his stuff.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 February 2008):
 He had nothing to hide and what he did was above board. Therefore , he is not angry with you for your intrusion of his privacy.Maybe , he find your jealousy a sign of your love for him and that was why he became more lovey dovey!
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (5 February 2008):
 Maybe if he was guilty, he would have lost it. I personally dont think that he is hiding anything. If he is, he is remarkably calm dont you think?
You know what they say about the first line of defence being to attack. Well he hasnt has he? So I reckon your pretty safe.
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (5 February 2008):
 He hasn't lost it because he hasn't got anything to hide. You seem disappointed.
Take care, Richard
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): Are you trying to make him angry then???
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