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writes:I don't know what to do anymore. My girlfriend has had moodswings since we started going out but lately it's just been out of control and on top of that she calls me like every two seconds and don't get me wrong I like talking to her but not when there's absolutely nothing to say. Does anybody know what to do about the mood swings or the clingyness?I've talked to her about all this and she says everything is fine so the only conclusion I've come up with is that there's something she's not telling me.Any help wouuld be greatly appreciated, I DON'T want to break up with her, I love her too much to ever hurt her but I just don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Lily Moll +, writes (5 February 2008):
It sounds like she would benefit from talking with a professional. She's probably turning to you now because she loves you and trusts you more than anyone, but if she's depressed or has some other emotional issues, there's only so much you can do for her, and it will be painful for you both if she doesn't get the help she needs.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 February 2008):
 See her GP and get her diagnosed.She could be depressed.
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reader, Namatjira  +, writes (5 February 2008):
If she is around the same age as you then all this could simply be the emotional mix up that is puberty. It is likely that there is nothing being hidden or concealed from you. Just be kind and understanding but do not be a door mat. Don't get drawn into a row because when people argue they usually say things they later regret and which cannot ever be taken back.
Relax.
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