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I am attracted to my BF's best friend

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Question - (5 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *utiepebbles writes:

So here is my problem, I have been dating my bf for almost 3 (bad) years. I am not happy with him and haven't been for a while, well my bf started telling me about his best friend who lived in ohio(bfs hometown) I ended up talking my bf into planning a trip from las vegas (my hometown) )to visit his family (wink) I knew we would be staying at his bestfriends house. So we went and I was right, his bestfriend and I have so much in common and I have feelings for him. my bf even said he thought his bestfriend was going to steal me from him. What should I do? Tell his best friend how I feel, or stay with my bf.

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A female reader, cutiepebbles United States +, writes (5 February 2008):

cutiepebbles is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I really appreciate the advice!!! should tell my boyfriend bestfriend that I have feelings for him...should I show up in ohio?

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A female reader, Cherriepie United States +, writes (5 February 2008):

Cherriepie agony auntSounds like its time to trade up baby! So do you have your bags packed so you can live in Ohio with your new guy.

If you're so unhappy with your boyfriend, maybe you should break up with him. This attraction with his friend is just an indication that you could be happier with another guy.

Would it be so bad to just break up and not think about this other guy? Can you stand going solo for a while? Maybe you should. You need some time to cool off.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (5 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntMay the best man win!When the shoe is worn and old, there is nothing you can do about them.To keep them or to throw them away?

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