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I'm 14 and me and my sister have been fighting NON STOP!

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 14 and me and my sister have been fighting NON STOP! I know it's because we are spending too much time together but I can't really get out of the house because when I'm fighting with her I'm usually taking it out on my friends (who over react BIG time!). I just can't seem ... (115 words

I used to love clubs , now I'm dating a muslim and have changed, but will I regret this?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i think i have a problem but i dont really no. me and my boyfreind have been together for almost a year and a half, i want to be with him for the rest of my life, he has changed my life so much for the better. heres the problem, before i met him i went out drinking etc eve... (242 words

Can I expect my man to do 50% of the household work?

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Can I expect my man to do 50% of the household work? or should I just be happy with the fact that "he is trying". He has been "trying" for 2 years now and he still needs help to keep clean.... (41 words

Why do orgasms make me cry?

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11 February 2008 (F - This is gonna sound weird and I hope I can put it into the right words but basically every time I have an orgasm, I cry afterwards. It's so weird. Please don't think my boyfriend is doing something I don't like or I feel bad or guilty because I don't. It's not like I feel ... (194 words

Do I go or should I stay...?

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi im writing to get some advice coz really don't know wat to do... I'm in a relationship for 2 years and still not sure whether he is the one... We've had great time but it hasn't started as I'd like it to start... We've met in a club and he didn't treat me seriously at the ... (503 words

My mother still thinks I am young enough to have a child, I'm 47 and don't want one, how do I get her off my back?

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11 February 2008 (F age - I just posted a question and i forgot to include this: My Mother does not accept the fact that i never had children and that at my age I most likely won't have children. She had my youngest brother at the age of 51 and she is constantly telling me that it is not too late. I ... (166 words

Is my partner getting bored of sex with just one woman?

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Sometimes my b/f just can't get an erection and I worry that over time, this problem will become much worse. He is on high b/p pills but in the 3 yrs. we've been together it's never caused a problem for him sexually. But we've been together now for 3 years and I worry he's ... (350 words

He's going through a divorce, but he finds me intriguing, what does that mean?

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11 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - This is a question I haven't found addressed on the site before, so here I go seeking further knowledge, and the members of this board have never let me down! A man I met recently is someone I find incredibly attractive, but he's going through a divorce, and I tell myself that ... (158 words

A simple question, why are guys afraid of commitment?

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11 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - why do guys get close and then run a mile?? im soooo confused?? guys help me out here for gods sake.!! thanks.... (23 words

Could I go to prison for having sex with my girlfriend? She's 15.

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11 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I have got a 15 year old girlfriend and I'm 16. I love her to bits and me and her both want to take our relationship to sexual intercourse but I have heard about being put in prison? Is this true? If so how likely is it? I have neices, will I be able to see them if I get in ... (64 words

My boyfriend is perfect, how can I stop worrying about our relationship?

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - How do I stop obsessing about my current relationship? I am involved with an absolutely wonderful guy and I know part of the problem is ME! I sometimes feel like he's way out of my league. He's incredibly smart, funny, interesting and comes from a diverse background. I have ... (249 words

What does my dream mean - 'my wife having sex with friends'

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11 February 2008 (M age - Hi If there is anyone who knows about dreams what does this mean. About several times a month I dream about my wife flirting and then having sex with some of our friend's husbands, who I know are attracted to her. She hasn't done anything in that way and we have a good s... (99 words

I've got a gut feeling my fiancee is cheating on me, how can I find out?

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am engaged to be married and I have the strongest feeling ever that he is cheating on me. We have this strong connection but lately it's been fading away. He is spending most of his time with his friends and he is just distant. Lately this feeling has been sneeking up on me ... (103 words

After 5 years together my boyfriend is losing interest, what can I do?

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11 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - After 5 yrs together my boyfriend seems to have gone off me. I look the same and am the same person. We were so close once although we have had problems but now he says he no longer loves or fancies me but then at other times he shows me affection and initiates sex. He ... (131 words

If we argue my boyfriend will often call me by his ex wife's name, why is he doing this/

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11 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have a question about my boyfriend of 4 yrs. He is divorced (it was just in the final stages when I met him) and he is bitter about the fact that he had to split the proceeds from the sale of his house etc .. Anyhow, I have noticed that whenever we have an argument or ... (147 words

Can't tell my bloke I love him because of past hearbreak, help?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am in love with a guy. but i dont know how i am going to tell him because of my past relationships because they where really pain full especially my last relationships. it was very heart breaking... (38 words

Why does my teacher treat me so horrible?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Why does my teacher treat me so horribly Everything I do she picks up on and pulls me to shreds. Today she held the dinner queue for 5 minutes when there was only 4 of us left to go in because I was at the front she was going to let them in till she seen me. She stood o... (179 words

Why is my ex harassing/verbally abusing me?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have another question. I don't know why my ex keeps contacting me. He told me about a month ago that he didn't want to talk to me for a month or two. But several times I have gotten IMs from him. In the IMs he says horrible things to me. He says no one wants me for anything ... (284 words

Why don't my parents love each other like they should?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Help! My family life seems to be going down the drain. My parents have never showed any affection towards each other, not setting a good example for me or my little brother, both of us starting to date. They argue a lot, 16 years of it. My dad has a horrible temper and my mom, ... (108 words

Did I do something wrong here?

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I need a bit of advice. Two Saturdays ago I went to my local pub/restraunt where I had met my boyfreind (now ex), everything was going well in a way, but he kept on believing his mate over me, anyway cut a long story short, as I said, me and a mate went back ... (313 words

Does he like me or does he have a girl in every town??

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - So, how do you tell if a man likes you for more than just sex? When this guy i have had a short long distance relationship with(it was supposed to be a one night stand, or so i thought)and i met up last weekend, he had roses waiting for me. Granted i know that Valentines ... (207 words

Why does my boyfriend laugh when we snog? It is really annoying me.

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im 14 and Have a Boyfriend. Its Going Great but When we start to snog , He just bursts out Laughing. I really Dont know why because Im serious about it. It Starts off Great but As soon as the Tongues are in , He just laughs. Its really Starting to annoy me. We have been dating ... (103 words

Is there such a thing as a curse or bad karma?

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11 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - I wonder if there is any chance , that there is such a thing as curse or karma? I try to live this life ,with the best intentions, yet everything falls apart on me. I thought, you make your own luck. It really does not happen in my life. I was never asking for things I didn... (87 words

It's hard for me to give him time when I am dying inside.

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11 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - Confused..... My husband drops a bomb on me. He feels that we have "grown apart" and he's not sure how he feels but that it's "not me, it's him." We works 13 hour days, and wonders why he feels that we've grown apart. He seems to find time to hang out with his work buddy's... (183 words

How can a marriage survive without sex or affection??

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11 February 2008 (F age - My husband is struggling with impotence, with no medical causes,or known reasons. It suppose to be psychological,but we don't know how to go about that. He seem to feel very bad about this, but We just stuck,we have no other idea what could be wrong. There was lots of ... (257 words

She said she still loved me but wanted a break? What did I do wrong?

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11 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 years. About two weeks ago her mood changed drastically. She started being antagonistic and critical all the time. Last week she said she needed her space and time to think. She wants to figure out what was best for her. At ... (467 words

I recently became involved with a long term friend. What does he want from me?

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I recently became involved with a long time friend and who I have known for about 11 years. When we first met eachother we dated very casually (we were both about 16-17) so it was nothing serious. Over the years we have both been in long term relationships but always ... (248 words

How do I move on from someone that had an affair with me?

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I just need some advice on how to move on.i was in a long distance relationship for nearly 2 years,with a guy who lives with his gf.i didnt know in the begining and only found out a few months into the relationship.he always said hes only there becuz of his daughter but i ... (396 words

How do I let go of him when I love him?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Deep in the back of mind i realise that my relationship is coming to an end, we are both growing apart and going different directions in life, however everytime we break up one of us gets in touch and makes it up, its like we cant live without eachother. alot of the time i hate ... (141 words

I don't know if he is still interested in his ex? opinions please...

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Theres this guy I like - we're friends but have recently started spending more time together; chatting on msn, going for drinks etc. He had a gf for about a year but she moved away to a different city and when he mentioned her name one time when we were all out with friends, I ... (169 words

Help! Married to one, In love with the other!

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - i am 24, married twice, and widowed the first time with two kids. my new husband, i fear was a rebound for me and i was for him. Our sex life is a mess, hes only performed oral three times, and i know its not because of me. i started cheating on him right before christmas when ... (166 words

If he wanted to be mates then why hasn't he contacted me??

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Please help, It's driving me mad i still really like my ex b/f even though we split in December with him finishing it saying he did not feel the same about me as i did for him. IM NOT SURE IF IT WAS BECAUSE HE WAS MY FIRST EVER B/F OR WHAT but im finding it hard to get over... (120 words

I touch myself alot...would a guy be able to tell??

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Um, I'm just worried, I touch myself quite a lot and I know that's not really a bad thing, is it? But I just wondered, I'm a virgin but when I have sex for the first time will the guy be able to tell that I touched myself?... (49 words

Which one of us should make the first move after our row?

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11 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - What is the best thing to do after a bad argument with your long term boyfriend in terms of who makes the peace gestures. My bf walked out on me after a big argument which he started due to being in a bad mood. He said it was all over and he was not coming back and he was ... (464 words

Am I related to my boyfriend??????

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11 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - my boyfriends grandma was my moms half sister does that mean we are closely related?... (15 words

Is it right to date a friend's ex?

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - my best friend and her husband have been separated for about a month...she moved out and that leaves me and him living under the same roof. Recently me and him have been talkin a lot...and i'm up to the point where i'm atracted to him physically. She no longer cares for him, ... (56 words

How can I ask my mom's opinion on sexual health?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - about 3 weeks ago i went to the cinema with my friends and i needed the toilet really really bad, but because there were a few minuets left of the film i held it in and when i went to the toilet it hurt. ever since then somtimes (about once a day ) it hurts when i go to the ... (136 words

How can I avoid leaking before I come?

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11 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - i seem to get wet or precome when me and my wife have foreplay or begin sex. how can i avoid this?... (22 words

Why can't I seem to deal with her history?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

11 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hello everyone, i really need some help, i feel as though i'm losing my mind. My girl friend and i have been together for almost 3 years and i can't get over her sexual history.. She is 30 years old and we met on a one night stand. The following weeks after we met we were ... (229 words

Why doesn't he treat me like a princess any more?

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11 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - I've got a big problem, and it hurts me more all the time... Me and my boyfriend of 16months are madly in love, and have always been ever since we first met. But he's been having a bad few days recently, including today, and he's started being a bit nasty towards me. Today, I... (155 words

He seems to hate my daughter. What do I do?

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years. I have two daughters. One is ours and the other is mine from a previous boyfriend. I am starting to sense that he does not like her very much. We are always fighting about it. He calls her a brat. And sometimes he ... (371 words

Can I trust him not to be a cheater like his best mate?

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have being with my partner for 9 months. when we first got together we were so happy. he lost touch with his best friend and we had a great time. have being on holiday and generally enjoyed each others company. his best friend has now came back on the scene about 4 months a... (143 words

Is it sex or baseball???

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11 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - When people say, have you gone past 3rd base with them, what does that mean? What's 1st and 2nd base?! Is there a 4th?! Haha I'm really confused about it. Could anyone englighten me?... (34 words

We've broken up, but is it all over?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi guys, my ex and i been broken up for a month now, and im torn. the day he left me i felt it in my intution. that whole day i new something was wrong i just felt it throughout my entire body, but i dont feel the same about us being broken up. I mean i know we've broken up, ... (360 words

How can I help her decide what to do??

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11 February 2008 (M age - My lady roomate/lover whom I really love, has gotten 2nd thoughts about her impending divorce from her abusive, lying husband. We have just (mutually,though she didn't want to) cut off contact from her for 2 or 3 weeks to let her remember why she called me in the 1st place. H... (125 words

Will he or won't he propose, and if so when??

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 15 months and we moved in together a few months ago. We've never really argued. He let slip that hed been thinking of proposing to me but said he deff wouldn't propose Valentines but maybe in the next few months. He won't talk about it... (87 words

What did my ex mean by these emails and photos??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

11 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - hey, Me and my ex gf broke up in October last year,the next time i heard from her was on the 1st of Jan. She sent me a email basically saying that she will always care about me and that i will always have a place in her heart..i replied to that email but i didnt say any feel... (117 words

How can I get him to go to the doctor?

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - ok so here goes my b/f has like a knot on his arm he says it has been there for as long as he could remember i have tried to get him to go to the doctor but he wont how can i get him to go or what could it be... (52 words

How to avoid a mess after sex?

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I have always used a condom for intercourse-but I now fancy feeling the rush of semen into my vagina.My boyfriend's not keen on the possible mess afterwards so is there a way of keeping as much in as possible?... (44 words

Is it possible to orgasm with out actually "cumming"?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hiya, ive wrote her a few times before and have always got amazing advie from everyone, so first off i wanted to say thank you. Secondly i was just wondering as its been bothering me for a little while, is it possible to orgasm with out actually "cumming"? I seem to have all ... (79 words

Positive pregnant test turned negative. What's going on?

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was having abdominal pain,nausea,scarving for foods,breast tenderness,hungry and i decided to visit a doctor.He suggestted that he makes a pregnancy test and it was positive.he repeated the test again it was positive.This happened on the 26th last month.i did a test in a ... (113 words

Confused about this guy...why are his friends saying I could do better??

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm so confused! I think he likes me but I'm not sure. At first my friends say go for it and now they are pushing me away from him! What should I do? Apologies if my question is too long or doesn't make sense at times; I'm really confused. I like this guy who I met through ... (273 words

Is this an example of me disregarding my bf again??

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11 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for almost 18 years - it's been pretty rocky at patches but we've always pulled through. My family and my boyfriend have never got on. My mother died a year ago and there have been all sorts of complications with the will - my stepfather treating... (206 words

Is it normal for my pubic hair to spread up to to my belly button??

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11 February 2008 (M age 26-29 - I'm going through puberty and my pubic hair is growing up by my belly button. i find this so embarrassing! I also have armpit leg and nipple hair and this is also so embarrassing. I try to avoid getting my shirt of at school and on holiday because it means people can see them. ... (59 words

Confused about my two online friends.

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have two friends that i met online,the other one is in Europe while the other one China,but the one in Europe has helped me alot. He later stoped calling me,it was the one that is in China that is calling me,and i have started loveing the one that is in China. I am confused ... (77 words

My husband left, I want him back, but he now has a girlfriend

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've had problems since b4 I met my husband, my nanna died when I was 13 and I never grieved properly and it still affects me today. I've had 2 children with him and bad postnatal depression with both and I don't think it went away. He left me a few weeks ago because I didnt ... (165 words

Does a cheater deserve a second chance?

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My husband had an affair with his best friend but he says it never got physical. He admits his fault and wants me back. Should I give him a chance?? How do I guarantee that it will not happen again??... (40 words

I feel like a "Homewrecker" should I tell his wife?

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Firstly I want everyone to know that this wasn't planned it just happened. I'm a uni student and to make some extra cash I began babysitting for a local couple. They're a great family but the father, who is 28, I was told was a bit of a player. At my birthday I invited th... (225 words

My friend's ex likes me, should I go for it?

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My friend's ex boyfriend likes me. he and my friend broke up over a year ago. the thing is I am also attracted to him, but this will hurt my friend? So should I or shouldn't I pursue it?... (39 words

Am I going over the top being so opinionated with him?

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now. We always have fights and disagreements and we quarrel sometimes. I must admit we are both strong characters and when we get angry we both hit the roof. I am now feeling drained about the relationship. The more we spend ... (493 words

Should I or Shouldn't I???

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I recently met a great guy online. However he lives 1200 miles away. Anyhow, I was supposed to visit him few weeks ago and although he didn't know I had already booked a hotel. (he thought that I would stay with him cuz we do have mutual friends and we had been talking for ... (477 words

How to guess which women are okay with an age difference?

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11 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - The women I most often have chemistry with are usually in the 20-24 age range. Why? It might be that I'm basically young at heart. It might be that my values and culture are closer to Generation Y than Generation X. But at the end of the day, it doesn't matter - chemistry ... (260 words

My husband is too opinionated regarding my weight and my looks.

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been married for a while, no kids. My partner is a lovely man and would do anything for anybody but he can be very opinionated regarding my weight and my looks. I had an affair, both of us have partners but are unhappy. For the small while he made me feel beautiful. ... (102 words

I've heard that condoms aren't very good when you want pleasure so should we use one?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with a lad for about 2 years now and I'm ready to sleep with him. I'm 16 years old so I'm legal, and I'm on the pill. I've heard that condoms aren't very good when you want pleasure. Since I'm on the pill is it okay to not use a condom and not fall ... (76 words

I care so much about his feelings that I don't mention mine, thinking they'd turn him away. That is emotionally exhausting!

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11 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - The man i am dating has mentioned once that he doesn't want to get married. On the other hand i told him that i want to get married. After our disagreement before 2 months i haven't speak again clearly about this matter but he however mentions something during discussion. ... (134 words

Caught my son masturbating, should I buy him some condoms, sextoys and an informative book?

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11 February 2008 (M age 26-29 - just rececetly i caught my 13 year old son masturbating naked on top of his bed i saw his penis and pubes, this hasnt effected our relationship but i was wondering if i should buy him some condoms and other stuff like a masturbation and sex book or lube?? if you have any oth... (72 words

Is his invoked reason valid? How can I know?

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have this guy that says he likes me a lot, He lives about 400 miles away from me. He wants himself to be the only man in my life, and he says I'm his future wife. But he says the only reason that were not dating is because of our distance from each other. What is his deal? ... (73 words

I care too much for him but at the same time I want my family's approval, only that my parents disapprove of my bf! Please advise.

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Please, I really need some advice on this topic I am 21 years old and come from a pretty traditional Italian family. I live at home since I am finishing up my degree. Recently I started dating this guy from work and am crazy about him! He makes me so happy (he’s also my fi... (547 words

How much weight do you generally have to lose to lose one bra cup size?

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - How much weight do you generally have to lose to lose one bra cup size? And when you go down a pants size, like from size 10 to size 8 (U.S.), is that losing one pants size or two? Because there is no nine.... (50 words

Is my gay bf becoming confused about his sexuality? I discovered he is watching heterosexual porn, but won't confirm my suspicions!

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11 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hello, I'll get straight on to it. I'm a gay male in a long term relationship with another gay male. We have been together for 6.5 years, and though neither of us are "first timers" as far as long relationships go, I consider him to be my first real love. I trust him with all... (482 words

I have tried dating sites but they don't help, I want to settle down but I'm extremely shy and work all the time! any suggestions?

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11 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Ok, here is the thing i just turned 26 and im starting to get to the point where i want to settle down, find a nice woman to spend my life with that shouldnt be to hard right. The problem is i am extremely shy. so i don't talk to women. i dont know what to do, all my friends ... (92 words

Should I try to find another way to let my classmate know I like him? How?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hello, i'm 14 and have a crush problem. i really like this guy in my class. so one weekend when i was at a friends house i had her call him to see if he liked me "without me knowing". it turned out he never answered so she left some voice mails. the following monday the... (212 words

He sounded really funny on the phone when I called him, should I be worried?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a long time. Recently we went on a break but that only lasted a couple days and we're back together again but it seems like things have changed a little. Okay, a lot! I hung out a couple nights ago and I thought things went alright,... (274 words

He isn't open to suggestions.

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid- I am a 25 year old woman with lets just a say a good sexual past. My Husband is older and doesn't quite have the statistics that I have. And he's very sensitive about the topic of Sex. I want sex to last longer and be a little more adventurous. We've talked abo... (134 words

I want my man to use a gigantic toy on me without offense. Will he?

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11 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I recently visited a toy store and found a gigantic toy penis I want inside me on those fantasy days, especially when I am with my man. But, I am concerned because it is so big, oddly big, that he might get offended instead of turned on by my reactions of him thrusting me with ... (69 words

Any ideas on this question? wanting something different with boyfriend.

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11 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am a grown woman and lately, my sexual appetite in ensatiable. I even am having fantasies which really get me off and I want to turn them into reality. However, I understand that wanting something and actually really doing something are on two totally different ends of the ... (187 words

Should I just hope for the best or move on

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My x boyfriend and i dated eachother for 4 years and we have a child together. When i broke up with him it was just to scare him into shape you knowhelp around the house work more and pay more attention to me. Well since than wehave been on and off. Now he has a girlfriend and ... (99 words

I don't know if she feels the same way

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11 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi, i think im in love with a girl but i'm not sure she feels the same way. i am currently talking to her on a regular basis, but i don't know what to do, please help... (37 words

How to make him more confident?

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11 February 2008 (F - my boyfriend seems really nervous in bed. hes not like other guys wanting sex all the time and he dosent really experiment. how to i make him more confident and relax without talking to him about it beacause i think that would embarasse him.... (44 words

How faithful are men really?

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - this is 1 for the guys can a lepord really change its spots ? my bf has cheated and sent flirty messages to toher girls and met up with girls behind my back will he change like he says he will do or will this carrie on ? from a mans point of view i think you guys could really ... (73 words

I don't want to break the friendship

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11 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - well here the problem , i really fancy and love this girl(A) to bits and we want to be with her, but my best friend who is also a girl(B) wer not attracted and anyway but really good mate hates the guts out of her(A). i really want to be with girl(A)but i dont want to break ... (65 words

He says I'm forcing him to marry me

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11 February 2008 (F age - He says that i am forcing him to marry me. These are the words of a very strong man.... (20 words

I made my bed now I have to sleep on it

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11 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend. We'd been having issues for almost a year. However, I love him with all my heart and didn't wanna leave him but he left me no choice. Actually, we've broken up a lot of times, and usually came back together after a day. To be honest, now I th... (489 words

Its so out of character for him

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11 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I was with my boyfriend for about a year and we were constantly breaking up for a few weeks, few days etc and getting back together all the time keeping contact with each other and not seeing anyone else. I have broken up with him alot of times and really meant it at the ... (418 words

I'm scared to ask her out.

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11 February 2008 (? age 26-29 - theres this girl in my school and im sure i love her but im too scared to ask her out and before i asked her out on a date but i had to cancell and now im convinced that ive blowen my chances with her... (45 words

I tried speaking to him but not getting anywhere

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11 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys, I've been with my husband for 5 years but only married for 5 months. We have a little boy together which I love more then life itself. Since we've been married I've been extremly unhappy. He smokes marijana everyday, sometime more then once a day which makes it hard ... (184 words

I'm falling in love with my best friends boyfriend.

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11 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Okay, Ive been best friends with my friend Chris for like 4 years. He got into a relationship with another guy (were both gay) and Im falling for my best friends boyfriend... what am i supposed to do? Im Gay, Chris is Gay, and Chris' boyfriend is Bi. I dont know what to do... ... (55 words

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