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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Does anyone know what could be wrong with my kitten?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I am in need of some advice....phew well my kitten, Jack is about 3 months old and he is normal happy bright kitten but every time he eats his food his stomach swells, I may be 14 but I have a guess that it might be an intestinal problem or bowel discomfort. I'm really worried ... (119 words)

We were flirting and he was touching my leg...now we are going out...is this a date??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I went on a business meeting and met a guy as part of business and just had a casual meeting over a few drinks. Through out the meeting, he was flirting, touching my leg, laughing etc, and then 4 days after the meeting he left a message on my phone. It said "Would love to ... (82 words)

Any suggestions for a good contraceptive pill??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to visit my boyfriend next weekend and I want stop my period for this month I'm not taking any contraceptive may I have the name of a contraceptive pill?... (31 words)

Why do I find it hard to leave a relationship where there is no love??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do I find it hard to leave a relationship where there is no love, intimacy and no respect? I believed I was more in this relationship than what he will admit to. I work with him and live with him, I dont have anything of my own. I believed we would stay together along ... (74 words)

Am I right to be wary of this new relationship or am I just being over cautious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been dating this guy for a couple of months. I just wanted to know if my thoughts on the relationship are normal... I am really, really into him. When I am with him, I can't get enough of him. But I am also wary. Sometimes the littlest obstacle we come up against ... (106 words)

Are black men different in bed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I would like some honest answer. my wife and i have a great sex life that involves having sex with others at swinger parties. resently we have watched a few home made pornos from the net that have had large black fellow in. these have realy turned her on. and she would li... (81 words)

My boyfriend is never interested in sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 6months but he never seems that interested in sex. he says he's gone past that stage (hes only 30) and says it doesnt make people happy. i feel rejected in a way, that maybe i dont look good enough for him maybe? i dont know how to deal ... (60 words)

I am Muslim and having an online relationship, am I wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i met this boy when i went for hajj. our families became friends and then we stayed in touch. we live in different cities but text/chat on msn/email each other everyday. we admitted that we loved each other last week. my question is are we as muslims doing something wrong? is ... (78 words)

We've said "hi"... Where do we go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. Bit of a stupid question I suppose but I met this girl on facebook on an application called "Are you interested?". I sent her the auto message which basically says "I saw you on are you interested and just wanted to say hi." To sound less boring, underneath that I wrote ... (106 words)

My ex cheated and then begged for me back, I seem to always go for the wrong guy...!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 ish weeks ago, I had gone to visit him (we live about 3 hours apart) and he didn't even turn up. Then I find out that he was sleeping with his ex at the time. He really hurt me and I have been finding it stupidly hard to get over him, he'... (687 words)

Is he a sexual predator? How do I get help for my wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been together for 19 years, married 16. She just felt comfortable enough to share with me her "past experiences". She felt she needed to get this off her chest as she felt like a "whore" and useless even though to me she had always portrayed the opposite to ... (299 words)

My husband has lost interest in sex, I have tried every sexy seduction method, what do I do next?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all, I'll get straight into the problem..i'm married for 7years now and i've got three beautiful children and my problem is my husband...he doesn't wants sex anymore i tried everything wearing the sexiest clothes offering massages, scented bathes...etc..but he always c... (383 words)

I can't trust him now, he's hurting me, how do I make him see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Ive bin with my boyfriend nearly eight months. We are.. Or used to be very close to each other. I love him so much but just can't trust him. 1 Month ago, i was sitting at home when i got a voice-mail. He was putting me down to hes work mates.. Talking about me doing something ... (383 words)

I'm here for everyone else but I'm not taking the time for me, I'm so tired, how do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm so so so tired. Everyone seems to want a piece of me at the moment and theres only so much of me to go around! - My mother needs me (1 parent family, thinking of leaving long term partner) - One of my closest friends is leaning heavily on me, she is anorexic, and has ... (278 words)

He left me stranded at 3am. Should I forgive him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been dating a guy for ten months. Over the weekend we got into a fight. Frankly, I don't know what he was mad about. We had been drinking quite a bit. He started screaming in my face and left me at the sports bar without a ride home (3AM). Of course the ne... (129 words)

I am straight but only blowjobs turn me on, people think I am gay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - some freinds think im gay bcoz only blowjobs turn me on. im straight though but i dont know why only bj`s work 4 me.... (24 words)

Do I pursue her still or get out now before I get hurt??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Well, I've been seeing this girl for about 1 and a half months now. She's a great girl, we have a lot in common, get along great, there is a physical attraction, etc. Now, she just got out a a relationship of 2 years this past New Year's in which she really loved this guy... (200 words)

He has a child and doesn't want anymore...but what if I want children??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in an age gap relationship, I am 36 he is 56, we have been together for 7 years and we love each other to bits there is one sticking point that keeps cropping up in my head and this is the issue of children. He has an 8 year old child from the previous relation... (108 words)

The pain I felt then is just as strong now...what can I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my ex were together for just over 8 months. We broke up 3 months ago and she's been with someone else for 2 months. I can't get over her. The pain I felt then is just as strong as it is now. What should I do?... (48 words)

How do you show somebody you love them??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - How do you show somebody you love them??... (8 words)

He broke up but he will not explain why until he considers I am ready to know! Should I give him a b-day present?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - well this guy told me that he liked me during the Christmas holidays last year, we got to the same college , but we broke up after a week. i still dont know why he broke up with me, he wont say it because he said that hes going to tell me when im ready to know and when he ... (299 words)

I am over my abusive ex whereas the boy that liked me went on with his life. Maybe I do not deserve a proper relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Well I came out of an abusive relationship that lasted 3 years. I've known a boy since I was 12-13 and he's a year older but he is so lovely and such a nice person, and he is very nice looking but I don't know if he's interested. When I started goin out with the abusive ex t... (453 words)

I am falling in love with him, what can I do about this destructive woman, his landlord, claiming they are FWB?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

- Do you have any advice on getting rid of a FWB that a guy I am dating can't seem to get rid of....this has been going on for 4 years, and I think we are falling for each other, but she won't let go. I have been in a relationship with a younger man for several months, I have p... (462 words)

My husband is in love with his affair but determined to work on our marriage! How do I convince him thsi woman is not as perfect as appears to him?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - When I found out about my husband's affair 2 months ago we decided to go to relate and try to work out a better marriage for us both. And although it's been hard we have made progress and have learnt a lot about each other. we have been married 21 years. I went on this website ... (1262 words)

Would we both need to have a job??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Well I have a couple more questions. People are giving me many different answers and I was wondering. If I get a job to support my baby and my babys dad isnt old enough to get a job. Would I still be able to live with him or would he need to have a job too? But his parents ... (81 words)

He said we'd practice more next time so I don't think he enjoyed it as much? How to improve it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi. I am 18 and a virgin and have been going out with my boyfriend for two months. The other night we got pretty intimate and it got a little awkward and i'd just like some opinions from you what i should do. I gave him a handjob and while he came i don't think he really ... (161 words)

Ate rapidly, now I have stomachaches. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i recently went to the doctors because i had symptons of a urine infection. i had some stomach pains and back pains i told the doctor and she felt my stomach and she told me to give a urine sample to be analysed and gave me a course of antibotics. i recently eat my dinner ki... (92 words)

What do you do when you have a holiday booked with another partner when the ex whom you still love asks for reconciliation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - what would you do if an ex boyfriend you really loved split up with you, you had no contact with him for months and you made a go of things with someone else and you have got a holiday booked with them. then the ex texts and tells you they love you and they are sorry for ... (74 words)

I have an interview pending with a model agency, what are the right things to say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi I have been asked in for an interview with a couple model agencies and really need some help and advice (yes they are very legit agency and high profile so nothing seedy etc) I already know what to wear and how to dress on the day itself so that is not the problem. I also... (386 words)

I really want a baby (I'm 16) and to leave my parents' house where I'm not attended properly. Help?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 15 almost 16 in November, my boyfriend has just turned 16. I live in Syracute and he lives in Albany, we really love each other and we've been going out for 9months, I really want to have a baby with him and live with him, but my parents want nothing to do with him, and I ... (95 words)

I think I have fallen for my ex again after his visiting me. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay im 14 and about a month ago i split up with my boyfriend. And apart from the odd 'Hello' in the street i never thought bout him, but then last night he texted me saying hi and then we got talking then he came round to see me and i think i have fallen for him again. But i ... (85 words)

What can I do about this guy who goes from one extreme to the other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Right, so, there's this guy. I am totally, hopelessly, head over heels in love with him, and he used to feel the same way about me. I've never met him face to face, we used to go to the same school though, so we have a connection. I talked to him pretty solidly online for about ... (230 words)

Attracted to my abusive ex, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a 3mth old baby with my ex-boyfriend. He left me when I was 7 mths pregnant. He just came back into our lives after his baby was born. perhaps out of guilt or something? We have had to go to court and the judge ruled he needs to have supervised visits because of his ... (111 words)

I thought he'd back off after rejecting my proposal but he continues to be flirty and teasing, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - So there's this guy i go to college with. He's 25, I'm 18. There's something about him that just makes me insane! He's really flirty towards me (even though he is not like that with other girls, at least when i'm around) and will tease me about random stuff or private jokes... (182 words)

Does he like me and still thinks we can work, or did I run my mouth and scare him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - This guy and I seemed to hit it off great. He called me often and we would hang out, but didn't know if he liked me more than a friend. The night before my birthday he gave me a ride back to my place and we waited in the car until it was technically my birthday and he kissed me ... (539 words)

I went abroad for my further studies, now I am having difficulties in trusting my gf, especially her good friend that is pursuing her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I have been in a serious relation for 4 years.During the 3rd year one common friend started coming very close to my gf.She started staying with him more than me on a few occassions, but eventually was with me 90% of the times.Still that made me very unsecure.May be because my ... (759 words)

Have a proposal from another girl but I am still not over my ex! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - we were in love for 3 years. we knew each other very well and our families too were well aware of the affair.. We got engaged in may 07 and 4 months before our marriage[supposed to take place in Nov07] she backed out from the marriage since she wanted to pursue her higher ... (123 words)

Why is he spending this time with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - hiya i really don't know whether i should say something a year ago my boyfriend (of 6 years) lost his sister she died very suddenly at the time the way he coped with the grief was to lean on his ex wife they supported each other. I couldn't do right for doing wrong at the time ... (172 words)

I'm unsure what the problem could be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known a male doctor for 19 years. He used to treat one of my children and seemed to like my family-anyhow things changed suddenly.Well the behavioural change wasn't that sudden- it changed after my husband suddenly died from mugging wounds-anyhow I later found out that ... (476 words)

Is there any thing I can do to stop my periods?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I don't know if anyone will have answer to this but... I hate having periods, i am 14 years old and i have had them since i was 11. I would say i am a fairly active teen, i horseride walk dogs everyday ect. But when i am on i can't ride or walk the dogs because i feel so u... (102 words)

I LOVE my teacher too much she's female and so am I.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hey everyone i love my teacher i go to a girls grammer school and this certain teacher is female and she is everything to me i hug her when she's upset, she does the same to me i love her so so so so much i really want some advice as i cant take it anymore i'm 14 and shes ... (155 words)

If he likes me then why wouldn't he go out with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I like a guy and i think he likes me. He always says how pretty i am and he's very flirty on msn. We don't talk at school but at my army cadets we do. He stands up for me and is quite sweet though sometimes a bit insensitive. Only thing is when i asked him whether he would go ... (123 words)

Can this relationship be salvaged?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If a FWB arrangement ends for whatever the reason (ie couldn't handle other people being involved) and the person got hateful and then apologized does the FWB ever have a chance in restarting? What makes the other person come back to the one that broke it off?... (47 words)

Is he still interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - this guy i met couple of weeks back at a night club start showing lot of interest by texting me lot and asks me out on a date, we have had two dates since then and he says that they both went well he tries to organize another date but it falls through he felt there is not lot ... (191 words)

What was he trying to tell me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i posted a question earlier about whether or not my bf is going to propose. he's been acting a little funny lately. to recap -he took family pics w/me and my 3 kids for easter at a studio (never does this) -told me my dress looked like a wedding dress and i looked reall... (246 words)

What is this liquid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - hi. i have had sex and in the process of my penis entering my partner with in 10 to 15 secounds of the begining of sex a gush of liquid had come out of her. im not sure if she had ejaculated because she seemed unawear of what was going on. the liquid was very runny and smelt li... (148 words)

Can you lose your virginity through masturbation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - what are difference between virgin pussy and un virgin pussy? and can a girl lose her virginity while masturbating (fingering only)?... (21 words)

I didn't turn him on

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello - I am not sure if i just need to sound off, or need some feedback...I think feedback to be honest. I recently met a man who is 43. I liked him alot and fancied him alot. I am mid 40, divorced and (about a year ago) out of a LTR. This man and I spent around 2 -3 ... (271 words)

Am I gay for breaking up with my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - my friends have been saying i'm gay because i broke up with this girl because she told me she loved me the second day we went out i am very sensitive and compassionate am i gay for breaking up with her? my friends said i should've told her i love her just to get sex.... (55 words)

Why am I feeling so low?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - at the moment i have been feeling so low. i have friends but i dont want to be near them and i feel really distant from everybody in general. i dont want to get close to anyone and the littlest things upset me. i am 14 years old and this has been going on for about 1/2 year... (124 words)

She is still not over her ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I met this girl about 5 months ago over the net we got on great from the moment we started talking, but when it came time for our actual meet she went all quiet and i didnt see her or speak with her for a couple of weeks, finally she came back and told me that she had only just ... (328 words)

I am in relationship with an older girl and feel pressurised to have sex. I also need to increase my confidence, how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - i am in a relationship with an older girl and i am a virgin but she isn't. i feel pressured but don't want to have sex out of embarrasment. because of lack of exsperience and how would i know if its big or small compared to others'?... (48 words)

We had to stop because of the pain. Any advice for our next try?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and My boyfriend decided to try and have sex last night. We started off with a bit of foreplay, he fingered me with 3 fingers so i thought i was ready. He inserted his penis but it hurt so much i had to stop him. I was in so much pain. It didnt hurt after, just as he was ... (91 words)

Sexual activity not finalised in intercourse, could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - The other day, me and my boyfriend did a bit of foreplay. He came and then for the first time he fingered me, his penis did not enter me, but it touched my vagina. Could i be pregnent? ... (40 words)

Is my bf suggesting marriage, do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i've been with my wonderful bf for 3 years now (just had our 3rd year anniversary on 2-14). he's 29, never been married, and no kids. i'm 28 (almost 29) with 3 girls ages 8,6,and 5. my bf loves my girls dearly and treats them as his own. we've had our ups and downs due to me ... (495 words)

I continued writing to him, yet he did not answer, what could he be thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all i posted yesterday but am telling you how it continued, because im so confused. ive been with my husband for 13 years we have children together. ive felt for years that things have been very one sided and that i wasnt respected so nearly a year ago i asked for a ... (352 words)

Could you give me advice on how to broach the subject to him without embarrassing him or making him feel worse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I started dating my 34-year old boyfriend (he's a friend of my brother's) when I was 15, and we've been seeing each other for about a year now. I've been really happy with him so far, and I feel like he's not only my boyfriend but a casual friend as well. l like to think I can ... (174 words)

Do guys really want platonic (best) friendships with women or have secret expectations?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Do guys really want platonic (best) friendships with women? I always thought it was great, that two people could be best friends no matter what gender/orientation, but recently on these relationship sites it seems straight guys who are best buds with straight girls are actual... (75 words)

I need touching my penis for an erection to occur, why is the visual aspect not enough for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - hi I am a 24 year old male. I have a problem in getting an erection by itself. I need the penis to be stroked for getting the erection. I have been masturbating for almost 10 years now. Is it that the penis has got used to stroking so much that now it needs it now. Somehow a... (117 words)

The father of my daughter sexually abused me, I'm so scared our child will be next. Could I obtain full custody or have him visit under legal surveillance, you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey I have a question regarding custody. I am 18 years old and I have a five month old daughter. I have recently filed for child support and sole legal and physical custody which I already have because we were never married but I want it to stay that way. Now last year he was ... (264 words)

I started to hate my husband and hate sex by that scary rushy way he has sex with me, shouting when I panick. Any solution?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im a married women since 4 months , me and my husband started our sexual relation on the first day of our marriage we didnt try to have sex before we got married althoug we have known each other about ten years before marriage but our religion prevent sex before marriage as we ... (552 words)

Did he really mean it or said it under duress?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend are living apart due to our jobs right now, for approximately 5 months - we have 3 left to go. We have made plans to travel together when our jobs are finished. Anyway, we were having a bit of a crisis - I was unsure that I could handle u... (309 words)

He barely has time for me and found excuse to never visit me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been with this same guy for a year now. And we've been through alot of arguments and brok up here and there. Now, it's like he barely has time for me. And he always wants to go out with his friends. We live so far apart, like about an hour or so. But the only time ... (110 words)

Torn between my nasty boyfriend and a sweet friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i need some serious help here guys... so ive been with this guy for almost 2 yrs now but he's controlling and he's not that nice to me... but he treats me good too so i don't know. but then i was talking to this other kid and he makes me happy but we're just friends... but i'm ... (147 words)

What does ex want from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 132 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - My ex boyfriend and me have recently started talking again, we broke up in the early/middle of 2007. And everything kind of "blew up" and we weren't speaking all through summer, until the beginning of this school year. Lately he's been doing alot of favors for me, even though ... (175 words)

Even after my miscarriage, he is distant.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 132 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't get over the pain I feel over having a miscarriage. I am so sad, so disappointed. I had the miscarriage a day after I told a few more people. feel stupid about that. The baby belonged to me and my ex.. I thought there might be a chance between my ex and I but he showed ... (203 words)

Me or video games?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - how do i tell him that it bugs me when he ignores me for video games i dont know what to do its like hes happier when he is playing them even when im around what sould i say to him?... (41 words)

I am affectionate but he is not,. Neither are his children.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 18 months is not affectionate, except during sex, and even then it's not the type of affection that I need. We bought a house together, and I'm living full time with his two kids and my two kids, while he works in another city most of the week. I know he isn't ... (192 words)

Will her turning me down end our friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Hey, I am in love with one of my friends who I have liked since the 3rd grade. She has an idea I like her but I have a problem. My problem is if I tell her I like her and she likes me back than great. But if she doesnt like me and says no than our friendship will probably be... (74 words)

Is it him and me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) age 18-21 - I really like this guy and we are in good terms with each other mutually. We met last year and he stared at me and says I love you to me and all that. He would in the begininning brush my shoulder as he walked by. Then he would talk to me after seeing me with another guy. We ... (108 words)

My friends ex asks me for advice. What do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hey okay so heres the situation 2 of my best friends used to be dating and the girl thought she liked him agen but she recently realised she didnt and has moved on - but the guy told me he still likes her and he cant look at other girls because she likes her soo much. ... (91 words)

My bf wants sex now. I am unsure.

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24 February 2008 (F)

- Ive been with my bf for like one month now. We are both 18 years old. Ive had one serious relationship before him, which was with my ex bf who I slept with, it lasted 7 months. However i broke up with him because he became abusive. Anyway, last night my current bf asked me if I ... (379 words)

Turned me down because she thinks I'm gay.

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24 February 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - A girl turned me down because people call me gay at school but i am deffinately not and i really like her, what can i do ?? i dont care wat people think but its effecting me now as i can not get the girl i want because of it. it makes me really sad and is starting to knock my ... (102 words)

Grandma may have surgery, having trouble advising her

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24 February 2008 (F) - My grandma is 88 bless her and she has just discovered she has a very small type of cancer in her bowel, otherwise known as Dukes Grade A cancer early stages which the cure rate is over 90%. But... in order to get rid of this she will have to have an operation on her bowel to ... (213 words)

Relay my side of the story or ignore both of them

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24 February 2008 (F)

- Hoping some of the amazing agony aunts can help me out here. I dated a guy I really liked about a year ago. He ended it abruptly because a mutual person we both know talked unkindly about me..he related a bit of this to me. We were just establishing a friendship again when ... (244 words)

Meeting as friends to see what happens

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24 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'd really appreciate any advice you guys could give me. I'm 24 and my first real relationship ended last year in november. We'd been together 3 years but he felt he couldnt really give it his all anymore and I was feeling that I wasnt ready to fully commit to him...... (228 words)

He cares more about what his friends think than what he believes......

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24 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - grrr!!!!! im like in love with this one guy.........weve went out like 3 times!!! he broke up with me toady cuz one of his friends was gonna kick his ass.............and he cares more about what his friends think than what he believes himself..........what should i do? should i ... (52 words)

She's becoming more distant

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24 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My better half has been separated for a couple of years and is now at the point where the divorce will finally be settled (within the next few weeks). This has been taking a bit of a toll on our relationship and although I have been doing everything I can to be considerate and ... (187 words)

Normal weight loss or not?

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24 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - heyx i am 15, 5 ft 3 and last week i weighed in at 9 and a half stone. i lost 14 pounds since then, which means about 2 pounds a day. What does this mean? Am i normal? i have dieted all week, but only eat less and exersised abit more. I know the scales arnt wrong also, because ... (87 words)

Live with boyfriend to raise baby

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24 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I am a 15 year old girl from New York. And my boyfriend is a 13 year old boy from New York as well. He lives two hours away from me, where I used to live but my parents moved me, and I ranaway to see him. And I ended up getting pregnant by him. And my parents are really racist, ... (151 words)