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What to do on the first date

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4 February 2008 (M - Hello, got a quick question, theres a girl who im going to make a go with, we get on well, her 2 best mates are my 2 best mates girls, and we both like each other, so everything is set. Only thing is, im in a bit of a rut, i want to ask her out on valentines day because i have ... (115 words

Getting rid of excess skin.

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4 February 2008 (M - Dear cupid I am 17 years of age, 5"10 and would like to know is their any way of getting rid of excess skin or as others call it flabs without the use of surgery? This happen when i lost weight quickly and shows up when i sit down. please help me as i wanna look fit for ... (109 words

Is it my fault, did I scare him off with the letter.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, before my boyfriend split with me we had been quite distant for a few weeks, thinks it was because it was hanging over our heads that he was going away. I wrote him a letter saying that I felt distant from him because I didn't know where he saw our relationship going in the ... (371 words

Sex was never the greates, now his porn habits are growing, and our sex life is waning even more, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been goin out my bf for 2yrs, when we first got together we had a healthy but not very adventerous sex life.I also knew like every other guy that he looks at porn which didnt really bother me... until now cause ive been gettin less action than i used to an he seems to be ... (101 words

He's 20 years older and wants to leave his partner to set up home with me, should I?

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4 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been having an affair with a colleague for 8 months, I'm 40 and he's 60! but very outgoing and charismatic, very fit and good looking for his age. We do look like father and daughter though but i have grown to love him and i'm pretty certain he loves me, he's like a ... (220 words

I'm scared, whats going to happen when my 'cherry pops'?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok so im 16 years old and im still a virgin. Im going out with this guy that i have known forever, but have been dating for only about 3 weeks. I have had plenty of chances to have sex with him but i get scared and stop him from going all the way. We have done other things but ... (177 words

She broke up with her man--should I make my move?

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4 February 2008 (M - dear cupid y'day i posted a link about a girl i like. and today i have found out that the girl has broken up with her man, and i am wondering is it the right time to make a move on her or should i wait, because just like me she has been through a lot in her life...also i... (120 words

What is my intamacy problem.

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4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am 19 years old, I have a deep problem. From 2 years I lost my sexual desire. I also no more have any sexual fantacies.. I have a boy friend who is very close to me but still when he we are intimate with each other.. Still I dont be aroused.. Whats my problem.. PS I dont ... (68 words

Two accidents with two different guys, will I have to wait for the baby to be born before I know who the father is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I last saw my period on December 25 2007. On January 2nd, I slept with an old flame and the condom actually broke in our case. A couple of days later, I got back with my boyfriend and we slept together unprotected. I was due for my period on January 21st and on January 25th, I ... (84 words

We had sex and then we broke up! Can I really be put in jail because of this?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok, I was dating this girl for over a year, and we had sex a few months ago. Just recently (last night) we broke up, I do love and care about her, I just felt like the relationship was far too serious, and I did not want to be in anymore. After we broke up, she threatened to ... (129 words

Seven weeks pregnant-should I get an abortion?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi, i am really looking for some advice. I am 21 years old a single parent of 1 little girl aged 21 months, I have recently found out that i am 7 weeks pregnant i have only been with my partner for 3 months and i dont think the relationship is going to last. my head tells ... (130 words

How to make my face look a bit older?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am about 5'3 and my body has altegether almost finnished devolping (i have a period) but i still have a baby face !!! it looks silly when will my adult face come all my freinds have theres i feel like the odd one out the bunch. can anyone give me advice on how to make my ... (65 words

At times I do get insecure and find relationships difficult; he finds this explanation of my feelings a blackball against him, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been having a few arguments with my boyfriend of 8 months just lately. I have had a lot of bad relationships in the past and been treated badly. I try not to take it out on my boyfriend but if I have issues I tell him but he thinks im just nagging at him. I feel the ... (187 words

Why do boys my age act so... undignified? - Calling me nasty names, and swearing.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - well,I have a question why do boys my age are so unworthy? See a today this boy named idiot came up to me and said f*** you.i was like what?and he said uhmm i didnt stutter.and then i was like what the hell? and he said did you want me to repeat it?and i was like why the hel... (407 words

I suspect my bf is married. What can you suggest? Am I reading too much into this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I think my boyfriend my be married but I am not sure. We have been seeing each other since last fall and here is what I have observed: We see each other twice a month for a date night (always checked by schedules). We have lunch or drinks 2 or 3 times a week. We ALWAYS... (181 words

Squirting or urine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi i was wondering if anyone could help my bf was recently playing with me and i felt as though i needed the toilet and then all of a sudden i felt like a release and when i looked on the bed i realised i had squirted but it was like a yellow colour and it smelt like urine so i ... (75 words

How can I get over feeling so wierd when my dad reads things I wrote in my mother's memory?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i'm 14 and my mom died on November 19, and i, of course, miss her sooooo much. every and any one i talk to says it's a good thing to talk about her and i agree. but when i write something like a poem or how i feel about the situation on myspace blog or something i always feel ... (101 words

We argue because he buys a paper with 18 year old topless girls. Got opinions?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Need your opinion!! Just found out my boyfriend who is 34, reads the Sun newspaper daily. He says he doesn't buy it for the page 3 girls but has admitted to having a look and reading the sleazy Deadries casebook. I feel very upset by this as I find the Sun extremely degradin... (119 words

What is the average penis size for a 13 year old?

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4 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - What is the average penis size for a 13 year old boy? I am just curious...... (16 words

I've been childish, how can I make it up to him?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im in love with this guy who is also my best friends older cousin. I met him last year. The thing is my best fiend told me not to have nothing to do with him. The thing is i carried on seeing him and throughout the year on and off. Anyway he told me it was never going to h... (217 words

I'm in love with my brother-in-law, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have fallen in love with my brother in law. He was going through a divorce and my marriage has been on the rocks for 10 years. He ended up moving in with us and we became close,staying up late talking about our problems and just being there for each other. As time went on I ... (176 words

We've been married 1 year and his behavior is driving me crazy! What can I do?

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4 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband wants to me always follow his idea and could not say no.If I have different opion then he star to angry . During last year, we almost have sex becuase he had on interested. we had no community because he didnt want. we had no secial life because he enjoy lonely. ... (112 words

He ignores me when he's around his friends. Is this typical for guys?

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4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend seems to ignore me when we are around his friends. When we are around my friends he treats me exactly the way I want to be treated, but when we are around his friends, I feel so ignored. I get jealous when I see his friends showing their girlfriends atte... (252 words

I'm pregnant and they refuse to help me around the house....

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4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - my mum has recently started suffering from depression, and its getting me down too. I live with just my mum, dad and younger sister. all three work except me because im expecting a baby soon as im 20 weeks pregnant. My mum is taking some time off work due to her depression an... (240 words

I pampered him all weekend and now I'm being blocked!?!

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have had troubles so we decided to slow down, I used to live with him but I moved out because we both needed our space. Well on the weekend I went to go visit him, had the time of my life, but I gave him money, bought him groceries,bought him games,took him ... (119 words

Am I wrong to get frustrated because of her "system" when it comes to unprotected sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

4 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'm sorry for the long post, just bear with me: I have been dating a great girl for about 7 months now, we are both very much in love, and i honestly believe that she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. She comes from a small town and has had quite a h... (767 words

Is it bad to fake an orgasim?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - is it bad to fake an orgasim... even if doesnt know you are?... (13 words

I'm in love with my step-daughter!!! What do I do?

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4 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - ive fallen in love with my stepdaughter and dont know what to do... (13 words

If people only find love when their NOT LOOKING how does anyone ever find love?

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4 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Dear cupids. I just have to say I love this site its awesome. Just a love question (sigh is there any other kind. My question is that "if people only find love when their NOT LOOKING how does anyone ever find love????? surly one of the two people have to be looking for a date t... (63 words

I can't orgasm, is something wrong with me?

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4 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a 25 year old female, who has never experienced orgasm. Have had sex enough times, to feel 'unable' to orgasm. Have tried many different stimulations, and am relaxed. Currently taking Alesse birth control pill, and have been since 15. I do reach climax sometimes, but ... (62 words

How can I avoid being in the "just a friend" zone?

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4 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi guys, got a question for y'all... Theres a girl who i fancy, I did fancy her before but then she got a boyfriend and I ended up with someone else but that didnt last very long. She split up with her bf about 3 weeks ago because he was too clingy and he really annoyed h... (254 words

What did he mean in his text when he said I need someone on my own level?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi, this is a long one so sorry if it takes time. I recently found an old text on my old sim from my one and only boyfreind of about 4 weeks, we split December last year, (this is not all of the text he sent). I never really read it properly before, it said look Sara you're a ... (276 words

My girlfriend is complaining of pelvic pains after great sex; is it my fault?

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4 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - The other night my girlfriend and I had just about the perfect sexual encounter, and I'm sorry this is so long, but I just have to tell you about it, before I explain the problem. Also, I need to say that I am on enzyte, a sexual enhancer for ED, and it is working like a charm ... (637 words

Boyfriend addicted to World of Warcraft!!!

This question has 78 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi all, My boyfriend and I have had a pretty good relationship for the last two years, and we both lead independent seperate lives even though we live together (I mean, we each have our own friends/jobs/social lives). He has always been really into online gaming but recently... (285 words

How can I stop my boyfriend stealing?

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4 February 2008 (F age 22-25 - How can I stop my boyfriend stealing?... (7 words

Do you think it will just mean casual sex to him?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I slept with a guy a few nights ago, since then we are still in contact via text/calls, and whenever I think about him I find myself smiling. He calls me various pet names, which is confusing me, because I don't know what this is, or where I stand. He wants to see me aga... (134 words

I'm still quite young, I want to go traveling and see the world but my fiancee wants to settle down...

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4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello, I really do hope someone can help me, I love this man who recently proposed to me, however I am constantly thinking about my friend and I know that I shouldn't but I speak to him quite a lot, against the wishes of my Fiancee. I feel so guilty, at the moment, I am ... (220 words

Should I meet up with him again?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a problem I recently got out of a relationship with a guy I'd been seeing for a few months, we were always on and off, but somehow no matter who ended it and for what reason we seemed to slowly get back together, without even saying we were or why. I ended it with hi... (262 words

He's going on Holiday, but says we can have "Phone Sex". What IS Phone Sex?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My bf is going on holiday with his family soon and im gonna miss him like crazy. He said he doesnt really want to go but all his family are going and he doesnt want to course trouble (they get along really well). The other day he said that he will miss me so much but we can ... (80 words

Should I leave my fiancée? What do you think?

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4 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm very confused as to whether I should leave my fiancee´ or not. I Left college to be with her in hometown. I knew her for a year before I popped the question. She was great while we were in college. Her personality was great, we had fun together, and I ... (252 words

What is the difference?

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4 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - What is the difference of loving someone and being "in" love?... (12 words

Do men fantisize about ordinary people and is it normal?

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4 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am married with two young children and found porn and a 2 pictures of my husbands colleague on his PC. I am convinced that he masterbated to the porn as well as pictures of his work collegaue even though one was of her at a christmas party and one was a facebook picture, ... (70 words

How can I relax enough to make our 1st time great?

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4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi... I just wanted to ask everyone here bout wht should i keep in mind during first time sex. me n my bf have been away frm eachother since 3 yrs as he was out of country. as he is cming back, he is desparate n im shy n very tensed. so can anyone tell me wht all things t... (100 words

I watch gay porn, is this normal?

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4 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Is it normal to watch gay porn because i get more turned on by gay porn than straight porn am i gay... (22 words

He's become withdrawn. Could this be the end of our relationship?

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4 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I've been together with my partner for 2 years. When we started dating, there was a spark there and an ease in communicating. I enjoyed being around him and learning about him. However, our time together has never been perfect. We have always had trouble communicating wi... (279 words

If you get pregnant on the pill do you still have periods?

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4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - If you accidentally get pregnant while taking the Pill, is there a chance you will continue to have periods? Like if you don't know that you're pregnant and you continue taking the Pill, will it force you to have a period? Or will you still skip it? Thanks... (49 words

Will the age gap matter, or could it work for us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

4 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - hmmm well i feel i had no where else to go so my frustation is here wow where to start , im an older guy and have a much younger girlfriend ,we have been seeing each other for a little over a year, my problem is that im 20years older then her , i cant even tell you how it ... (354 words

She has a vibrator, and didnt tell me! Why?

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4 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Ladies, In your experience, why might a woman purchase a vibrator without telling her spouse?. And why wouldn't she want him to know she has one? ... (27 words

Me and my ex want to be together but she is afraid that I will hurt her again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

4 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi all! Here is my problem. I broke up with my girlfriend about two weeks ago. We were together for a year and three months. We were having problems for the last month and we were working hard to overcome them. Just when happiness started coming back to our relationship we had ... (212 words

Can I trust my boyfriend, or are my parents right about him?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi My bf and i have been through alot of trouble to be together and my parents are the ones giving us the trouble. I love him with all of my heart and would never cheat on him or do anything that would jeopardise our relationship. His birthday was in January and we spent the ... (319 words

Why am I so embarrassed to bring a boy home?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey i just turned 16 ive never dated before but all my friends have boyfriends and take them round their houses all the time i dont know why but i cant admit to either of my parents that i know boys or am interested in boys or anything like that at all, and i could never b... (116 words

How do you give a hand job to an uncircumsized penis?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - this is quite a personal question but i am really desperate to have it answered so i hope someone will be able to. when you give a guy who is uncircumsized a hand job, do you just do it over their foreskin or do you roll the foreskin back or what? cos i heard that foreskin is... (83 words

How can I support my boyfriend after his sad loss?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey I need some advice. My boyfriends grandfather (who he was not close to at all) died a few days ago. My uncle -- who was like a second father to me -- died recently and my bf was there for me and im so greatful to him. my bf knows i love him and he can come to me. He's bee... (195 words

Why! has she changed her mind again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

4 February 2008 (M age - i need some confirmation in something i'm confused about and need some feedback. recently i was involved with someone which i loved dearly. this was the second time we had been involved with each other. first time lasted 2 years and was about 10 yrs ago, and this time around ... (269 words

What are the symptoms of Diabetes?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - The other day a friend and I were talking and I said I was always tired and thirsty. She said I might have diabetes because her dad is the same and he has to go ever year for a test to check. Does any body know what the symptoms are?... (50 words

I'm 21 and she's 17... Is this okay?

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4 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - hi ppl i think im in love with a 17 yr old and im 21. do you reckon that its an ok thing or is it too much of a gap for anything to work. its been built on friendship and we've just got closer and closer. please help thanks... (53 words

I love my girfriend, but I'm very shy! How can I get past my shyness?

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4 February 2008 (M age 26-29 - hello i really love my girlfriend she wants 2 kiss and hug but im too shy does this mean im frigid??? if it does how can i get over it ?? because i realy want 2 its just i cant.... (43 words

No girlfriend and a strong desire for Sex is making feel ill! What is this?

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4 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - hi,i think i need an urgent help i have no gf in my life but i have a strong strong desire for sex, recently i donot feel healthy, when i contact my doctor he told me that i don't have as such a physiological health problem except the gastric secretion thing, if that is so does ... (63 words

27 and starting to secretly worry about dying alone! - in need of hope.

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4 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi guys just looking for a little hope I guess. What I want to know is if anyone believes in true love any more? I have been cheated on and messed around with more times than I care to remember. Despite all this I KNOW i am a good person and deserve better but i'm 27 and i'm ... (120 words

Do women only like muscular bodies? - I'm thin.

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4 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - hey there, i have a big problem which is affecting my overall life and here it is i would like to share with you hoping that i may get your kind advises; i am thin thin thin...and my being thin is affecting my confidence to approach women whom i need in my life very much. i ... (119 words

Why would he say he loved me and change his mind as soon as I said I love you back?

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4 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Guys I really need advice. I seperated from a long term relationship of (8 years) and started dating a new guy within 2 weeks. We were seeing each other all the time and he seemed so keen on me, telling me he loved me wanted to be my boyfriend that I was the most amazing person ... (226 words

Deluded dating vs real dating..friends with benefits...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - i met a guy over the internet for sex. it was first name basis, it was midnight, and it was fantastic. i only do one night stands once in a blue moon, and they are rarely so good. and afterwards, he really wanted me to stay the night. i know the rules, though, and didn't ... (367 words

I don't have any friends. Help!

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4 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I don't have any friends. I tend to tune out most people, and only make strong connections with a few people. It's hard for me to make chit-chat, I like to talk about real things, deep things, or clever things, but I'm also somewhat depressed. My problem is that it's b... (172 words

How do I let him know how I feel without invading his potential girlfriend?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi There, I have a really big dilemma. I have fallen bigtime for my best friends brother, who i've been close to for my whole life. I know my friend and her family would be okay with us going out (his mother especially!) and I know he has liked me at one stage,but I blew... (110 words

I'm clueless as to how to tell if someone is genuinely interested in you as a person or if they are just trying to use you.

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4 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - A few months ago I ended a long term relationship. So newly single, I've been meeting new people. There is this one person I am interested in but when I rationally look at his personality and lifestyle, I know that it would be really hard for a relationship or anything ... (202 words

I went off birth control pills (that apparently decreased my libido) and still no improvement. Is this permanent?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 18 years old. I had been on birth control about 9 months (during that time the place I went to discontinued a pill and put me on another) before I started to lose my libido. After a while, sex became so painful I couldn't do it at all, didn't want to, and after I switched ... (94 words

Why is anal so painful? Only once it surprisingly worked by using lubrication.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

4 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - Whenever we try doggy style, it really hurts. We've tried using lubrication, and one time it surprisingly worked, but all the other times we've tried I've felt ill with the pain. He knows this, so we don't do it, but I know he wants it. I'd love to please him in this area, so ... (266 words

Everyone! Could we share sex tips?

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4 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - I'm nervous about how I perform in the bedroom, and I'm sure a lot of other people are too, so could we all share sex tips? If everyone put just a small tip in, then think of how many people we could help out! So please, share your expertise in the bedroom!... (53 words

He wants a fancy wedding, but I'd prefer simpler and faster, yet he won't budge. What to do?

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4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Please help... My partner and I have been together 5 years, we have 2 kids, are happy for the most part. We did a Justice of the Peace 2 years ago just for legal reasons, and pretented like it wasen't real (no rings, kept maiden name ext). So that one day we could have a '... (120 words

My bf of 4 years lied to me about his age. How could I trust him again? Should I move on?

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4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I recently found out that my boyfriend who i have been with for 4 years just lied to me about how old he was. I started getting suspicious about his age only a few months ago when he refused to show me his drivers license, i knew something was up. But, what made me even mor... (242 words

How do I react to his work being prioritary without creating tension between us?

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4 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - Although i see more often now the man that i'm really interesting in, there are also some problems. He is usually very occupied with his work and i always feel that he doesn't ever give me the first priority. I try to understand and not be anxious but it's really very hard when ... (103 words

I need a release to move on and forget that I used to allow dogs to lick my intimate area, as I now realise the wrongness of it.

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4 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - When I was a young girl in grade school, a handful of times I allowed dogs to lick my private parts. My rationalization for this cannot be given, for I cannot explain today why I did it. I stopped doing it, but it deeply disturbs me that I allowed myself to participate in ... (222 words

What can I do to make my present situation work and stop thinking about my ex?

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4 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have been married to my loving wife for more than 6 months now and i do not know if i really love her. Before my wife came around i fell in love with a girl and she ended up cheating on me after 2 years of dating. i was so heartbroken and depressed that i didn't really care ... (218 words

Is this type of examination of any relevancy for... cheating wives?

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4 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - hello please help, this is not a clean question. And it might be a stupid one. Can you tell if your wife is cheating by looking at her used underwear. My wife tells me there is drainage that every woman has it. But I only seem to notice it when she works late or when I have ... (82 words

My husband is having Cyber sex

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4 February 2008 (F age - i have been married 28 years i recently discovered my husband was having internet sex with web cam. he said he was looking at chat line and was very excited by what women would show him he bought a camera because they expected something in return we have sex an average ... (69 words

How Can I kick the strip club habit?

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4 February 2008 (M age - I am trying to kick going to the strip club and be with my wife instead all of the time. I am hung up on sex all the time. I don't know what to do. The girl I was emailing has stopped now that she knows I was looking for a relationship. She just wanted money. My mind is messed ... (70 words

My first time wans't god. Did we do it right?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi im 16 years old ill be 17 shortly ive been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and recently losy my virginity with him it was his first time to! as we were doing it i relaxed a bit as ive read its beter if we are relaxed but im not too sure if it was all the way in i ... (132 words

I never expected him to miss all of us this much.

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4 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Well I didnt get the job I so wanted and I am now 'stuck' at my old job once again! UGH! I have no clue why as I wasnt told why I didnt get that job, just that they hired someone else and will see if that person works out or not.My ex and I have now approached one month in full ... (433 words

He makes himself look as the victim.

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4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been engaged for almost one year....it's been a lil bumpy breaking up making up...mainly over dumb things and this past sunday we had just made it past a breakup (we had broken up for 2 1/2 weeks) and we had talked and realized that this is what we want (to be together ... (465 words

How can I make mom support my decision in my long distance relationship

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4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, my name is Jennifer, and I'm 18 years old. For the past year, I've been in a relationship with someone who lives in another country. It's extremely difficult, but we take turns visiting one another and have been making it work. He lives in England, I live in America. I... (395 words

How far is to far? and what do I get him?

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4 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - How far is too far in a relationship, if your in highschool? And What Do I Get him For Valentines day?... (21 words

Nasty Ex - How do you get over an ex that won't let you go??

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4 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - How do you get over an ex that won't let you go?? I have been apart from my ex for just over a year, he dumped me on new years day 2007, we are in a really complicated place, he apparantly doesn't want a relationship, yet he sleeps around with people on the internet, the crazy ... (283 words

Does having a fractured pelvis affect my ability to have children in the future?

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4 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is mostly for doctors. I was 16 when I got into a car crash and suffered and fractured pelvis. Will this affect my ability to have children?... (28 words

She's so paranoid about her body!!!

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4 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - hello my girlfriend for 5 years has always been paranoid and unhappy with the way her body looks, even though everytime she says something about it i always reasure her that i love the way she looks and she doesnt need to do anything, but she wont let it go so i was wondering ... (74 words

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