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writes: dear cupidi will try and rephrase this as much as possible, basically my question is how can a tall person have intimate sex with a short person, and lets say the Mr X height is 5"10 and Mrs X is 5"1wont that suffocate the girls face when on top of her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008):
It is not impossible and Im 5'1 and my bf's have been all 5'10 plus in height in the past. So, when you kiss her, spread your legs apart like forming an A...so you can lower your height and look casual doing it..or lean against something like a wall or car for example. I try to help him usually if we kiss I reach up sometimes to meet him half way on my toes even. Just know though for the shorter us kissing straight up to you is painful on your neck and throat and please support the mid back arching because I feel like mine would break in half if his hand wasn't there.
As long as you are in shape not overweight dont worry about killing her with your weight on top of her. Focus your weight while on top of her with your weight in your hips falling on her, not her upper body.
I honestly think its cute I mean you can start kissing her, pick up one leg and carry her kissing her, swaying back and forth even kissing her. You can be more playful I feel and cute if thats the type of intimacy you like. I love a guy that likes to pick me up and carry me around. Much like dads carry and play with theirs kids there is something attractive about it and caring to me I guess.
Obviously standing, shower and missionary position are rather tricky. But not impossible however I have never tried it- I hear a box or stairs would be good to stand on and try with this though. Spoon sex is best remedy for short/tall couples I feel. Also prop your head up on pillows if you have missionary sex so your face is closer in height to hers because your upper body is longer then hers. It's easier when you are on top-because you can curve your upper body to meet her lips better. 69 position is a little hard to achieve I feel at the same time all the same however if you try on your sides instead of on top..much easier!! because now you can curve your bodies a bit to make up distance.
It is possible though, dont worry. Men in the past were always gentle with me but held back greatly being afraid they would hurt me but they wouldn't. And it took a lot of the full effect away from us being close. I mean if you get an ouch just brush it off- its really trial and error with this combo and depends on what you prefer and must have too to be turned on and satisfied.
Good luck!
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (7 February 2008):
I'm rather on the fat side and my sex life hasn't been that bad.It's all about exploring ways in which you can find maximum satisfaction for both partners.If you can find positions comfortable for you then you'll b ok.Believe me the differences in height and body size rarely matter.
Take care.
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reader, welshbrunette  +, writes (5 February 2008):
 you will be absolutely fine, believe me.......speaking from experience as a vertically challenged female myself!relax and enjoy...... :)
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (5 February 2008):
 I'm 6 foot 2 and my girl is 5 foot 3, you'll be fine mate =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionand what if Mr is sort of fat, will that have any complications as well
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (5 February 2008):
I have a sister who is 5' 2" tall and her husband is 6' 8" which as you can see is an 18 inch difference in height. It has not stopped them having 4 kids though and they get on fine.Just be considerate and inventive and it will always remain interesting for you both.
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reader, chlez83 +, writes (5 February 2008):
It's called the art of love making.It's not like he lies on the girl like she's a mattress.He has to position himself so that they can both be comfortable but allow for penetration as well.That calls for experimentation of various positions.In short unless the guy's really just up to suffocate you,don't worry about that.I've slept with women taller than me and they've neva winded me while on top.
Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
I have a friend who is 6"4 and his partner is 5"7 and they have managed perfectly. When we are lying dow sweetheart we mould so dont worry everything will be fine TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): In sex its not like we lie flat on top of each other, that would make the act impossible. I can assure you sex can take place regardless of height. I am 5ft 3" and my ex used to be 6ft 3" - we managed perfectly fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): with no probs at all - my partner is 6"3 and I'm only 5"3 and no it doesn't suffocate me what so ever!!You just find a way thats comfortable for you both!!
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