New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

67468 questions, 297188 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in February, 2008, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (69), 2 (73), 3 (77), 4 (87), 5 (100), 6 (91), 7 (89), 8 (88), 9 (72), 10 (65),
11 (95), 12 (91), 13 (82), 14 (73), 15 (68), 16 (73), 17 (69), 18 (88), 19 (83), 20 (94),
21 (95), 22 (96), 23 (88), 24 (80), 25 (95), 26 (82), 27 (94), 28 (80), 29 (58),

Archived questions from: 15 February, 2008 (see latest questions)

(More questions from February, 2008)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He's invited me over but I'm a bit scared in case he's too pushy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - arrghh ok so I've been recently getting to know a guy at my school. He told me he liked me and got me roses for valentines. So far he's been nothing but sweet to me, we're really getting along. but I've heard things about him, he's very promiscuous and is known to have man... (108 words)

Any thoughts on the game he might be playing??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

- Hoping someone can help me here as I need it. I dated a guy for a bit last year. I must admit that it was one sided...more on my part. I would not sleep with him as fast as he wanted so he let me go...in a nice way but it was still a blow. Both of us are on a committee together ... (186 words)

I think life is too short to spend it with the wrong person...what do you think??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I am stuck in the middle of two guys, one of them i am going out with, and really loves me honestly i couldnt ask to be treated any better. the other is one of my bf's mates who i love more than my bf. I think that life is too short to spend it with the wrong person, what do ... (63 words)

How can I convince her I've seen the error of my ways and am ready to wait for her??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My fiance moved out last week. We have been engaged for 3 year and i asked her to set a date for the wedding several months ago.. i also began to talk about children.. i feel i have hen pecked her out of insecurity about marriage and kids when she is clearly not ready for ... (144 words)

Do you think I could win him over without annoying him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am friends with this guy that I really like. We hang out a lot and he seems to like me as a person. We went out a few times and I told him how I felt, how I wanted to be more than friends with him. He said that he only wants to be friends. Is it possible to win him over ... (83 words)

Is saying you still have feelings for the ex another way of saying that you just don't want to go out??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

15 February 2008 (M) - dear cupid, this question is for the ladies When a girl goes out with you but then after a week dumps you saying that she "still has feeling for her ex" is that their way of saying that they just dont wanna go out with you or do they really still like her ex? Also do you... (84 words)

He can't orgasm and I feel like it must be me...please help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Last year I went through a really really bad, stressful separation from my partner of almost 6 years. I vowed never to have a man in my life again, but once I got back on my feet, I thought it time to start dating again. I am 45 years old, with 2 teenage children from my... (168 words)

Follow Up for the Ladies - The B-cup Cleavage Question

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello again! Thanks everyone for your advice and putting up with my cleavage obsession. I've tried the push up bra but it still doesn't help - bras never bring my breasts close enough together. And smaller bras make the flab underneath my armpits bulge out. I was also ... (105 words)

He got upset by all the guys on my friends list..how can I convince him I did nothing wrong??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I've had facebook and Myspace for about 2 years now. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year. Just last night he looked at my facebook and got really upset because I had guys on my friends list. I don't even talk to 90% of the people I'm "friends" with on either of ... (72 words)

Sometimes I am laid in his bed naked and he is still masturbating to porn...what should I do??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for three years. We have sex almost everyday, sometimes more than once. I want to know why he is looking at porn everyday, sometimes more than once? I try my best to satisfy him. Am I the problem? I tried to talk to him about it and he got mad ... (105 words)

He's perfect for me except when it comes to the bedroom!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I really need some help here. But im to embariced to talk to any of my friends. well I got engaged 1 1/2 ago and we are getting married in 2 months. we started having sex about 4 months ago and then I thought it would get better as time went on, but it really hasn't. He ... (216 words)

Torn between two great guys...what can I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Where to start... My now husband and I have been together for a very long time, since I was 14... I'm 21 now... we have been married for almost 4 years now, and have two beautiful children that are my life. I don't really know what happened, but it's to the point now where my... (570 words)

Ladies, ever receive or fantisize about receiving oral after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ladies, does the thought of having your lover go down on you after intercourse turn you on? If you've experienced this, did you request it and how or did he just take the initiative on his own? Did he go down on you or did you have him lay back and straddle his face?... (56 words)

Could I be going through a mid life crisis already?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what's wrong with me lately. I'm starting to feel worthless, like I should be doing something more with my life. I'm in my early 30's, I am married and I have 2 kids (6 and 4) I have a full time job. My marriage is rocky right now because my husband has b... (261 words)

Finsh him or stay with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - right... I have been going oout with this boy for nearly 3 weeks and I really like him.But his friend, (who is my friend also), told me that my boyfriend is going to dump me if this girl fancys him. I dont know what to do, finsh him or stay with him? ... (59 words)

Help from the Ladies - Why can't I get cleavage with a B-cup?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I can't get cleavage even though I'm a B-cup! Okay, my left breast is full B and my right breast is about an inch smaller, a small B. Is this why I can't wear a bra or low cut blouse and get cleavage? I also have a fairly wide shoulder span - I'm petite but my shoulde... (104 words)

I'm not turned on by him and during oral I don't really get aroused at all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me, but I'm not turned on by him and during oral I don't really get aroused at all. Help I don't want to insult him .... (36 words)

Is it okay to fantasise about men other than my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it okay to fantasize about other men other than my boyfriend or watch movies with actors that I find very attractive? I wouldn't do this if he was around, only when I'm alone and if the urge sometimes comes up and I don't watch movies that often, only if they come up on TV. ... (123 words)

What does he mean by not wanting to put a label on our relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing this guy for a little while now,I'm ready to move to the next level but he likes it the ways it is, and doesn't want to put a label on what we have going on now..How should I take that?? Are we a couple?? Or are we just friends that fool arownd?? I go and ... (80 words)

Is he maybe just really busy, or is he just blowing me off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - OK, here goes. I met this guy while I went home to my families. The last day I was there. He tells me that its so unfair that I had been there that long and had just met him. Really good looking and intelligent. It was immediate. I really liked him. So I go home and put him ... (200 words)

Is cheating and flirting enough for me to leave or am I unreasonable? What is unacceptable in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

15 February 2008 (F) - What is unacceptable in a relationship? My bf has done a lot of things that are unacceptable for me but I'm worried that I might be too strict and unreasonable, and maybe I'm asking for the impossible. Mid last year I found out from my friend that my bf asked her out fo... (479 words)

Dying inside tooo

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am so in love with this man. He has done everything that I have asked of him. But yesterday I found out that he (my fiance) slept with my godsister who frequents my house. They both say it happened a long time ago and it never happened again. My wedding is scheduled for ... (286 words)

How do you move on from somebody you never got to be with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - How do you move on from somebody you never got to be with? I have been in love with someone for a long time now. I don't want to love him anymore, I need to move on. I've been searching for advice but it's all for people who need to get over an exsisting relationship, I've nev... (151 words)

Is she Marriage Minded But Options Open?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I are discussing marriage and I am planning to pop the question, however, as we just took new jobs that keep us apart Monday-Friday. Question 1: Is this too much time apart for a couple? Question 2: She recently told a male co-worker about our phyical... (90 words)

Is our relationship ruined?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi sore your comment on a similar comment so figured you might be a good person to help me. I’ve been with my bf two and a half years now. Sometimes I would get jealous over other girls but I tried not to let it get to me. One day after we had been going out over a year I ... (502 words)

Is it normal to be attracted to girls as well as boys?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 97 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - I am 11 years old and so is my best friend, we are in the same year 7 class and I've known her for 2 years (but we weren't best friends until we were in the same class). The thing is, I'm worried that I like her too much. you know, people have accused me of being homosexual ... (194 words)

I slept with my sister's ex husband and I feel terrible about it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel in a terrible situation, I went out the other night and got quite drunk, I bumped into my sister's ex-husband, they have been divorced for about 7 years, we started to dance with each other, chatted about old times but it didn't stop there, we kissed and then he came ... (170 words)

What do readers think of a singleton going out with someone's who's got children already?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - A girl likes me, but she's got 2 children, 5 and 6. What do readers think of a singleton going out with someone's who's got children already?... (28 words)

Today I came across lots porn in his drawer - and not classy porn either, and it seems to really bother me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi - I have been with my boyfriend for about two years now and everything seems nice; although today I came across lots porn in his drawer - and not classy porn either, and it seems to really bother me. I know that it is seem as normal for men to have it and like it, and I kn... (141 words)

I have been wanting to be part of that group for ages, but I can't gather the courage to talk to them as the girl I like is there.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi, Okay, im in a bit of a mood with myself:P At High School (i'm 15), i've always been friends with "geeks" and i've never had any reall female attention and i'm seen as a "geek" also. There is a group of people i've been wanting to make friends with for ages, but i can neve... (123 words)

I just want my family back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Back in July I found out that my husband was having an affair. He broke it off with her in September. Somewhere in the end of November I found out that they were back together Then I found out that she had deliberately taken measures (without him knowing) to get pregnant. She ... (370 words)

I slept with my boyfriend's best mate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Please help me, I slept with my boyfriend's best mate at a party at his house, I love my boyfriend very much but I think I'm in love with his best mate and I think about him a lot but I love my boyfriend to bits as well. My friends have told me I should finish with my ... (225 words)

Do I continue to live with my mum or move in with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi I have been around for my mother in a lot of ways for many years, almost looking after her so to speak, her marriage has recently broken down and she has become more and more dependent on me, I still live at home but have a long term and steady boyfriend and am currentl... (171 words)

Dying Inside...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

Confused and upset by behaviour of my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

- Long one: My partner left his home on the other side of the world two years ago to be with me. We were first loves when we were little and it was only by chance that we met up again, which was the catalyst to his marriage finally ending - although it had been bad for a long ... (778 words)

My boyfriend ALMOST kissed he best friend's wife, what is that???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - OK Guys... I have dilemma again. Last night my live in boyfriend took me out to a Dinner and Dance restaurant on Valentines Day. We invited my Mom and her boyfriend, and his best friend and his wife. (They all have known each other for years.) When we were being seated at ... (225 words)

He said he doesn't want to rush in to a relationship, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone I'm a bit confused. I've meet this guy through a friend and I've been told he likes me. I heard him say it for himself, when my mate had him on speker phone. Anyway, I've only meet him twice and last nite meet up with him again and we got along good. But, he said he ... (166 words)

Wrong time to be in Love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - im inlove to a politician that is 17 years old older than me and he has his own legal family, we have sex for how many times but im not that sure of what will i do if his wife know our relationship. ... (43 words)

He was abusive to me, is he the same way with his new girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I hope someone can help. I was involved with a man for almost three years. He told me at the end of our relationship that he fell out of love with me a long time ago. I never thought I was good enough for him(I have since come to understand I was wrong) and I was often walking ... (382 words)

Is this man worthy of me? Should I stay with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been married now for a year and things have gone from bad to worse. Its started with me crying on my wedding day when he stood by and watched as his aunt shouted at me. We havent had a honeymoon and there is always an excuse not to go on holiday unless its with his ... (189 words)

Can you suffer depression and postnatal depression at the same time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my daughter has suffered depression for 2 yrs now ,since then she has given birth to a son and has signs of postnatal deppression. my question is can you suffer both at the same time . ... (38 words)

Are all women bisexual?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - just wondering... are all women bisexual?... (6 words)

She cheated on me twice with her ex. Do I forgive her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - i am going thru the exact same thing as i write this....i have been with this girl for the last 3 months, she was coming off a relationship of 2 years, her ex betrayed her a number of times. The first month of our relationship, she two timed me with her ex, despite her telling ... (494 words)

Should I let him express interest first or call him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - The man i am dating this year and i saw him last week told me that we will see each other during this week. However he didn't call me yesterday and i didn't call him either because i don't want to express my true feelings for him if he doesn't express real interest first. ... (75 words)

My ex may have a new guy, and I fear they slept together yesterday. How can I stop torturing myself??

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Since I found out my ex has met somebody new, I just can't get her out of my head... AGAIN!! We hadn't spoken for a long time, but about a week ago, we got back into the habit of talking to eachother again. We had done this before, but last time I found out she had been dat... (487 words)

He won't marry me! Could he be cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my fiance for 6 years and i am desperate to get married and have children. he has been married before and keeps making excuses that he wants to wait to make sure about a second marriage. he says he does want to marry me but just not yet. i think he may be in ... (222 words)

Dating a married man for 3 years and he treats me like a queen. But I'm starting to worry. What should I do?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating a married man for 3 years. I ignored him for a year because of that reson but he pursed and treated me like a queen. He says he's leaving date after date but their's always an excuse. He's been w her since he was 12 has 2 kids and doesn't want to hurt them. ... (130 words)

My husband loves his job more than his family and it's making me depressed. What are my options?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

15 February 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I feel really depressed in my marriage. I think my husband likes his job more than anything. He does not care about me ,or his children. He is a robot. How can I convince him,or stay with him like that? He is getting totally burned out, I don't know what to do, I think he is ... (84 words)

Planning first time sex. Does it hurt? If so, for how long?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - My friend and I have recently been talking about sex, A LOT. I am a virgin and he isnt. A few weeks ago, he asked me if I wanted to have sex, but I said no, because I wasnt ready. Now I am ready, and I have told him this. He is about 100 miles away at the moment, but the next ... (118 words)

Can you help me understand her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey, I'm at uni and have become friends with a girl, who is really hard to understand and comprehend how her feelings are. She's virtually turned down guys before but that is because she knew they liked her but she didn't do anything about it so they kind've gave up. She jus... (198 words)

She is sending me mixed signals, EH?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 10-12 - there is a girl that in my class and i like her. my friends and her say she doesn't like me. but she always stares at me in class treats me differently, plays mean and makes attmempts to touch me. she smiles around me and yet treats me playfully mean. what do you think?... (54 words)

Is she just using me for fun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi all. There's a girl I know who I've been strong friends with for a while. We fell out of touch for a couple of months after she quit uni, due to depression and work. But a few days ago we met up for some drinks, and by the end of the evening we were kissing in a corner ... (231 words)

Is he sending a message athat he is interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi All, I am a 16 year old and have just started full time work. I was wondering if a guy at work is sending the message that he is interested in me. I am interested in him and gave him my mobile number just in case we need to ask eachother any questions about th... (173 words)

I can't really tell if he likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

- So there is this guy at my school, who I only met once. My friend introduced us (just as friends)..she does it often. But with him, It was way different. She was not only introducing me, but a couple friends as well. When she said my name, He repeated it after her, he looked at ... (636 words)

My boyfriend put the condom on wrong! Am I Pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i had sex with my boyfriend a week ago last wednesday and i were due to come on my period wednesday just gone,, i used a condom but my bf put it on the wrong way at first then just turned it over,, could i get pregnant from that write bak asap plz xx... (58 words)

Disagreement about virginity with my boyfriend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

15 February 2008 (F) age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I seem to have a disagreement regarding virginity. Four years ago, when I was just a 15 year old, I gave a BJ to a friend of mine. He was always a friend, nothing but. Two years later, this friend introduced me to my now boyfriend, and we've been together fo... (344 words)

IIlike her, she likes me, but she has a man. what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 10-12 - rite ill get straight to the point, ive known this girl for a number of years and as times gone on weve got closer and closer, i like her, she likes me, i know this because weve told eachother, 1 problem she has a fella, we both have feelings for eachother and we believe we ... (177 words)

I'm married and in love with another man.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a 23 year old female and I have been married for 8 months. My husband and I have been together since I was 18 years old. I was head over heels in love with my husband up until about 7 months before we got married. I am a christian and my husband isn't. I met a great ... (330 words)

He said he loved me but now he won't talk???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 159 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - here it is.. i am in love with a guy and he said he loved me and i believe him. but now i can't seem to get him to talk to me now. i'm not sure if he is scared of the feelings or if he was just telling me that he loved me just to tell me that.. and i need help on this ... (73 words)

Water under the Bridge...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, we have been through just about every wrong path a relationship can take... But we still care for each other. My family tells me to let go and move on, his family is embracing our relationship and encouraging us to work it ... (147 words)

Do you think he's hiding something from me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Give me some feedback, my boyfriend always hides his phone, keeps in his pants and hardly lists any phone numbers, they are unlisted, just by digits, to top it off he turns his cell phone off when he charges it, the ringer is always silent, to me this seems suspicious. I have ... (99 words)

My main problem is that she refuses to give me a blow job and she won't let me finish in her mouth...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, for starters I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now, and I like to think I've been a good boyfriend. I do everything to make my relationship work, for example I clean the house every day after I get home from work and on my days off, where as my girlfriend ... (221 words)

Lately our conversations have been short and awkward. Does that mean she doesn't like me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Desperate as I am gonig to this site... I need assurance of sorts. This girl and I both like each other. We both have told each other and considered dating. We are really good friends and afraid to ruin that.... so we're holding off but she says she still likes me. A while b... (121 words)

Why has my boyfriend saved those videos?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We were both in realationships prior to us being together. I snooped and found a camcorder, with some videotapes. I find out he had been filming various types of females, while he was in his old car- zooming and filming ... (224 words)

Heartbroken and confused...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Hello. I'm finding it really hard to cope losing my girlfriend. She ended our relationship Tuesday because she was not happy but I really love her. If we were still together today it would of been 14 months and 2 weeks. I love her so much my heart hurts. My friends have told me ... (133 words)

Does he like me as just a friend or something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

15 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I like my flatmate at uni and he knows how I feel through a stupid mistake. However, yesterday on valentines day, my other two flatmates were going out with eachother and it was going to be just me and him alone. So he kept joking in front of everyone that me and him should go ... (241 words)

Valentine's stage fright?? Is he scared of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 February 2008 (?) age 16-17 - Weeeell as you know its valentine;s day!! and there was this one guy who I, including tons of ppl from my skool, thought was going to ask me to be his girlfriend. He talks and flirts with me soo much and people said it was so obvious. And even his friends said he might. But ... (186 words)