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female
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36-40,
*escorbin
writes:My man broke up with me three weeks ago after dating for a year and a half. A month ago we were talking about getting married. Then it seemed like we started fighting over stupid things a lot. A lot!!!! So he is dating this other girl, who is honestly very manipulative. I was the main cause for our breakup. I distanced myself, and I told him that I realize that I was pushing him away, probably the fear of committment, despite how much I love him. He is making reasons to see me. I kissed him goodbye for good and he kissed me back. He is acting very jealous yet yesterday complemented my hair. He is still in love like I think he is? Or am I crazy? He says it over, but still showing all the signs? What should I do to get him back? Please help me!!
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reader, Arcada  +, writes (5 February 2008):
I would say play it cool. I understand what your saying, I do that pushing away thing when I love someone, it's like im scared its gonna get taken away from so subconciously I try to ruin it. When you see him next maybe you could explain? I think your in with a chance, he seems to still have feelings.
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reader, rudkin1989 +, writes (5 February 2008):
tell him u still love him and how u really feel about him
and u are just sceard of been committed and the reason why u feel like this
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 February 2008):
 Are you positive you really want him back? Why were you afraid of commitment? I mean if you truly loved him you wouldn't have feared the commitment and pushed him away. I think maybe I would think long and hard about my reasons for wanting him back if I were you.
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