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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He is abusive, I want him to leave, he won't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a verbal and sometimes physical abusive relationship and I want out. I don't know what to do we are not married but we have a little girl together and he says if I make him leave he will take her and I won't see her. I don't have the money to make it myself. I want to ... (108 words)

Do people who were abused lash out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

10 February 2008 (F) - I am so thankful that I finally got out of an abusive relationship I was in. He was emotionally abusive, for example he would get very angry if i didn't smoke or drink or sleep with him, he never respected me, and there's really so much more. And I know that my ex fiance ... (887 words)

He cheats and cheats and cheats. What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i been wid my partner from last 5 years. Several times he has cheated on me, but i love him more than anything . is this just stupid love? evrytime he gets caught he promises me neva again. this has been ongoing. i have considered leaving him for gud. it s v hard. feels li... (76 words)

He doesn't want the drama queen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years and i am completely in love with him.He tells me that he loves me too, but i dont believe it. He has always been in control of us. Before we got into a relationship he told me that he doesnt beleive in them, but over ... (301 words)

Are my friends lying to me that he said I am ugly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this boy, but I heard he said I was ugly, although I have been told I am one of the prettiest girls in the year. Are my freinds lying to me??? His past girlfreinds are average looking and so is this girl from his training. So why have I been branded ugly? Are my ... (74 words)

What shall I do if it gets to the point where he wants sex??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been dating this guy for about 5 months now and here it comes.. hes 18.. im 14 . yes i know thats a big age gap but i really love him .. Everything has been great so far but lately we have been talking about sex alot (i have a extremely perverted mind ). Lately he has star... (143 words)

It makes me so jealous when my bf talks about celebraties being fit...what shall I do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend talks about models and celebrities being buff and good looking and it makes me sooooo jealous. I try laughing it off or talking bout celebrites being buff myself but that makes it worse!! I really dont like it. What shall i do?... (45 words)

Is there any way to get pregant without having sex??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Is there anyway that you can get pregnant without having sex? I've heard you can get pregnant if you were suppose to be a twin cause there egg some how got inside of you is this true please help i really want to know........ (44 words)

What was going through his mind? I feel completely rejected and bitter.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would a guy tell you he " can't do the relationship thing at the moment " yet he carries on seeing you cos he apparently likes you sooo much, develops a bit of an obssession with you though technically you can only be 'friends'. Then, suddenly starts losing contact more and ... (236 words)

Can smoking make your breasts smaller??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had come back from holiday like a month ago and i had lost a lot of weight, this made my breasts a lot smaller too. For over a month i have also started smoking and this has made my breasts even more smaller. I hardly have a cleavage now. Does smoking make you breasts ... (72 words)

My ex won't visit "our" pub knowing I could be there as well, I feel guilty about this self-imposed restriction, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex said we should stay mates when he split with me but ive not heard from him since im new to the dating stuff,and i over heard a mate of his saying that my ex wont come to the pub anymore because im there,i want to carrie on going to the pub but feel really guilty that he ... (119 words)

How can I get rid of his ex permanently from our lives??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I joined this site last year complaining about my partners ex, she's still being a bitch, slagging me off at regular intervals and now she's taken to sending mail to my address for my partner. We've been together for 13 months now and still she gets away with it. The only bon... (86 words)

Wondering whether my friend likes another friend better than me if they keep calling each other, should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey my friend just told me a couple of days ago that they talk on the fone almost everyday. he never calls me. i felt really upset and now im wondering whether he likes my friend better than me if they keep calling each other. they make arrangements about us all going out ... (72 words)

We now live about 900 miles apart and I have never felt the same for anyone else, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 25 and I've been in love with a girl since I was 18. We met in college and were together twice for about 2 years each time. We've stayed close over the years by talking on the phone frequently. I should mention we now live about 900 miles apart. Anyway, we visited with eac... (168 words)

Shall I carry on seeing him and break my parent's hearts or break his??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I would be so grateful to anyone who reads this, i appreciate I am one of many letters on this forum, but your advice would not just help me but anyone else in my situation. Thank you in advance for taking your time to read this........................ I feel I am ab... (977 words)

Would it be ok to send flowers and choclates??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

10 February 2008 (?) age 51-59 - Valentines is coming i'm in the middle of a divorce but the other women that i was with won't let me see her; she figures if she stays away i,ll get back with my wife it,s not gonna happen. I know this women has true feelings for me. I don,t want to push her away but do y... (99 words)

How can I comfort him when he talks about his troubled past??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me first of all apologize for this being long... So me and this one guy like each other and have gotten to be best friends. I have fallen in love with him. We have talked about dating, but he says once he gets everything that he is going through sorted out (this will pro... (593 words)

Everything is perfect, so why can't I come??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - we have a good sex life. he worships my body and makes me feel so sexy, i literally feel like the most desirable women on the planet. however having a real orgasm is just a very rare occurance. hes big n strong n can go on and on, is ther something wrong with me? why can't i ... (58 words)

Do I forfeit university to stay with him???

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently posted a question about my boyfriend ignoring me for the last 2 weeks, well I actually found out why, I have recently been accepted to a really good university which is 4 hours away from our home. He really doesn't want me to go, and tells me if I go he will never ... (120 words)

Confused, how can a guy be so close and yet so distant?

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10 February 2008 (F)

- I have written before regarding my confusion on what appears to be a painful episode of unrequited love with a guy I seem to have developed a very close friendship with. It IS unrequited because he is in a long distance relationship he is loyal to BUT, can any guys in ... (372 words)

Long Term Relationship Ended Abruptly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age - For 20 years, I have carried on an on and off relationshp to a man I was engaged to in 1987. It didn't work out at the time but we always seem to come back together... Well, mostly for sex... which was very good, but then I would not hear from him, he would be dating other pe... (193 words)

Why does he treat me so badly?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been treating me really bad and I don't know how to tell him how he's been treating me because whenever I try to tell him he gets mad. He never wants to talk unless we're having sex. If we're not having sex and I try to talk to him then he gets mad and tells me ... (103 words)

What do I do here for the best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been acting a little bit off.. I moved out cuz there were conflicts, we lived with more people other then him and I, that's why there was conflicts, but now I live with my mother, and him and I talk online, and the only time he's really nice to me is ... (111 words)

How can I help him last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend about 5 months and recentely started having sex, one problem he doesn't last even 5 minutes, he said it never happened with his ex so he doesn't know what he is doing wrong. He's been trying to get with me since secondary school and says he thinks it ... (73 words)

How can I bring pads without her knowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I got my first period 2 months ago and still didn't tell my mom because she goes and tell everyone which I hate but I am going on vaction with my family next week and I am due for my period while we are gone. How do I bring pads witout her knowing?... (53 words)

Why do these things keep happening? Is someone trying to tell me to hold on to what I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I told my friend 2 1/2motnhs ago I had feelings for him. He told me it didn't feel the same way. the only reason i told him is cause i thought he did feel the same! coz of the way we became friends cause he asked me out and for my number. We became very good friends never re... (1086 words)

Puppy love but cheating in my dreams, what's it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a girlfriend who's 9, i'm 11 she seemed shy when we first met, what could that mean? Also i had a dream about cheating on her, could this mean anything either?... (33 words)

He says he likes it but he doesn't come. Is it me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (?) age 30-35 - This is getting me down... My bf says he loves recieving oral, but he just never cums... Why is this? Is it something I'm doing? Has he got a medical condition? What is it?!... (34 words)

Should photographers and models mix?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a photographer and recently got into fashion and nude art photography. I've had models who are very sexy and easy going. I'm wondering if it is right if I have sex with them and how I should figure out if they are into it without the risk of breaking our professional... (78 words)

How can a gay guy have a relationship with a lesbian??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a lesbian..but I fell in love with this guy but I found out hes gay and hates alot of girls.I heard he harreses them; makes fun of their boobs nd stuff in a mean way not in away like a guy likes that girl. Me and him have so much in commen but we're so oppisite. He knows i ... (171 words)

So mad at my backstabbing friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (?) - So i've posted a couple days ago about the issue of my ex and my friend. Basically what it boiled down to was that he'd been talking with her, me and him decided to get back together, she got really mad, i got labled as the 'bad guy', i told him that i could because i didn't ... (239 words)

Could my big breasts turn my bf off??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

10 February 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Whenever it comes to the bedroom, my boyfriend never touches my boobs like he used to. He used to lick them, and feel me up etc but now, they've grown and he just doesn't seem interested. Just because I have large breasts for my age, could this turn him off them?... (52 words)

My wife won't make love to me anymore and when we do she says it lasts too long.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

10 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Whenever i try to make love with my wife she says no. She say she is tried but she can go to the gym at 4:30 am and go to yogi class at 6:00pm the same day. I tell her once or twice during the week we can make love instead of her going to the gym. Then she says I am not supp... (174 words)

How do I convince my husband that his best friend is no angel??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband nearly had an affair with his best friend. We've been married for a year now.I believe this girl who is a divorcee very smartly and cunningly influence my husband. He used to confide in her and she took advantage of it. She played with his emotions and led him to r... (130 words)

Can't live with him or without him...which option is the lesser of two evils??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I've been browsing this site recently to see if I can get an answer to my problem. I'm in a relationship with someone I love I guess I would call him the love of my life so far. I've been with him a few years now but it is very up and down due to his moods. I've b... (290 words)

I can't let this man go now he has awoken so much in me...what can we do??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married 9 years and have 2 children. I fell out of love with my husband long ago. I met someone else 6 months ago and he awoke something in me i didnt know i had anymore. I haven't slept with my husband in 3 years. I have kissed and cuddled this man on a few occa... (149 words)

My best friend is driving me crazy by putting me down and hurting me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a bad traumatic relationship that just screwed me up and I've turned into someone that I no longer recognizes. I hit rock bottom and was in deep depression but now I am healing and trying to move on. The thing is while I was 'hiding' my best friend has turned into a c... (248 words)

Is it possible to move on from my ex and keep in contact??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

10 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. My girlfriend split up with me 6 months ago. She wants us to be friends now, but I've struggled to deal with that in the past and on every occasion until now I have cut contact with her. But she's back again. Last time I tried to talk to her, I told her that I still ha... (187 words)

My bf needs to treat me better and I am falling for somebody else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do i am in love with 2 people. I am going out with this lad for 3 weeks and is going really well. I have only known him for 2 months though but this other lad i have known for 4 years and i am really good friends with him but he ain't the boyfriend ty... (101 words)

How can I confront my friends about feeling second best??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have alot of mates but i keep on feeling left out. One of my freinds we go out we walk to school and we talk on a regular basis but there is no mention of me on her myspace but she mentions all of her other freinds witch i am hurt by. I like a boy who my freind knows who i ha... (135 words)

I don't want to have an affair but I don't want a life without passion...what should I do??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was 22 (1990) when I met my ex who at the time was 46. We dated for 2 1/2 years. We had so much fun together. We enjoyed each others' company. The sex was unbelievable. Everything about the relationship was passionate. He was really hung up on the age difference. He dec... (264 words)

My friend has been avoiding me for two months after I confessed my feelings.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I really don't know what to do anymore. My friend and I have been avoiding each other for almost two months now and I hate it espesically because there isn't even a good reason for it. Or maybe I don't even know why we started doing this. It all started this one night that me ... (407 words)

My heart is still broken....how can I move on and forget??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Yes I'm in a relationship now ,but when me and my ex broke up I cried so much. I loved him so much,but I had to break with him cause he was flirting a lot with one of my friends,but I don't think she knew that me and him were dating.We had so much in common. We broke up on th... (133 words)

Should I still sleep with her even though she didnt tell me she was a virgin and it freaked me out??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

10 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i just kinda slept with this girl, she was a virgin and never told me before hand.. It really freaked me out that she didn't tell me until we were about to start. I don't know if there is a reason for this or not. But has anyone ever experienced anything similar. I didn't b... (71 words)

Is our age difference too big?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice and my story might be a little long so please bear with me. I have fallen for a guy who is a regular customer at the store where I work. The problem is there is quite a big age difference between us. Iam almost 21 and he is 38. He used to come in the store ... (364 words)

Am I wrong for trying to make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, me and my husband have been together for 3 years and out of these 3 years, we have fought. for the first two years he admitted to missing his ex. Now they were together almost nine years, and had four kids, so there's a background. he said that she knew him better than ... (135 words)

I keep thinking he needs someone like his ex,not like me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey..it's really strange i love my boyfreind with all my heart yet i'm constantly having doubts about us due to the fact that he has hurt me in the past...all i cud think about is what he did( he started talkin to his ex while he was with me..and fooled around withme even thou ... (129 words)

Should I try to find him to see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - kay, so when I was in eight grade I fell in love with my l.a. teacher's son...I mean seriously fell in love...but It never really crossed my mind that he might like me back but now that I think back on it I realize that maybe he did likw me back and he knew I liked him and I ... (136 words)

Getting him to talk about our problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get my boyfriend to talk to me about the problems we've been having? My boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 years. In the past year he has gotten a new job that requires him to travel, he works in one place from any where to months to years. I have been ... (204 words)

Does bi curious make you gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

10 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - just wondering, is it normal to be bi-curious? and does being bi-curious make someone gay? thanks.... (22 words)

Help me please and quickly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

10 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Please help me and fast!!! I'm going to the movies with this girl I really like but I'm going to be the only guy there and she's coming with a bunch of her friends. What do I do?!!!!... (42 words)

He texted me and told me to leave him alone because he is physically and emotionally drained... what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a man online, and we clicked right away. We had our first date, and things went beautifully. On our second date, my family showed up, and needless to say it was awkward. The next day he called and cancelled our third date, stating his dad was really sick and stressed ... (90 words)

Stuck in the middle...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I have always had a close relationship with one of my closest guy friends. We have always shared information or given advice about our relationships and other things along those lines. We have been there for each other through thick and thin but lately, we have bot... (330 words)

Any ideas on how I can get to know him better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy ever since middle school and have just realized that I really like him as more than just a friend. He doesn't know how I feel and I'm not sure if he feels the same way. We haven't hung out for quite a while now as he is always working and I'm in ... (177 words)

I want to have a skinny sillouette, yet the dangers of Anorexia scare me! Please, any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

10 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need your help. Ive watched a tv programme about Anorexia and for some stupid reason i want to be skinny like them. I looked up all the dangers of Anorexia and now im really torn, i dont want to die and i do want to have kids but i want to look so good and skinny. I'm ... (67 words)

How do I tell him we shouldn't talk anymore without offending him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

10 February 2008 (F) - Hey Aunts, I just want to ask you a question - I'm having a little trouble with me and my boyfriend of 2 years. We broke up and he is so confusing, just always giving me mixed messages, I miss him so much. I've just realized it's time to move on, and I'm doing my best t... (123 words)

She will just laugh at me and think I'm a freak, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

10 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and a virgin. Everyone is doing it accept me but the thing is I have a small penis and it's wonky so I'm too scared to get with a girl cause when she wants sex she will just laugh at me and think I'm a freak. What should I do?... (53 words)