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I'm pregnant and he doesn't believe that I am!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am pregnant and he doesn't believe me... What should I do...? He thinks that I've cheated on him and I havent. I don't know what to do. He was supposed to go to the doctors with me today and he never even called me. I called him a million times and he didn't answer my ... (98 words

How to get her back? If not, what is there to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Okay, here's the story, ever since first year in school I've known this girl she was cool and I thought she 2 nothing like love or anything but when we had to do scottish dancing in first year I chose her as my partner then we did'nt speak for a while because was embarrassed ... (450 words

Ex wife wants me back and she has new child

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Please help. I am a 30 year old male who at the age of 12 fell in love with a girl, also 12. At 15 we started dating and 13 years later we were married with 3 kids. The relationship had its moments and to be honest the arguments were mainly over sex...the lack of, or she was ... (836 words

How do I approach this situation for the best?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - God I'm in agony. Me and the major love of my life who I have been with for 6 years have had a major major bust up about a week ago (we've had lots of problems) and not spoken for a week (he stormed out of the house and said he was never coming back and called me a bitch as ... (312 words

Why do guys always ask me out after the first date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - What does it mean when a guy asks you to be his girlfriend after the first date? This has happened to me 4 times now and I wanted to know whether I actually impressed these guys that much for them to want me to be their girlfriend. Or if it was just a way to get me into bed... (61 words

Why would he tolerate the silly situation he is in now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (F - I need help and hope that the amazing agony aunts can help. I split with my boyfriend of thirteen years two and a half years ago. I have been dating but not really seriously. He returned to him hometown a long way away and promptly met someone else. Their relationship sounds s... (282 words

He never follows through and hangs out with me...should I write a note to get closure??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Basically I met a guy online about 6 months ago, we seemed to hit it off, met up a couple of times (just chatted but he seemed keen) and every week almost he texts to say we should go out to a movie or for a drink the following week. But then when the next week comes he always ... (326 words

How can I recover from this emotionally abusive marriage??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have recently split from my husband who was my partner for 12 years, married for the last three years. On our very first holiday together over 11 years ago, the first verbally abusive fight happened when he got very drunk and spent hours trashing the hotel room and verbally... (474 words

How can I make my bf more romantic??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and he has no idea about being romantic!! I don't know what to do i love him to death but he never does anything romantic. Now don't get me wrong he shows plenty of affection but he never surprises me with anything even if ... (126 words

How can I increase confidence in myself and tell her how I feel??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone, There is this girl. we've been close, went to a school dance together. That was Saturday. I'm pretty sure she likes me and I know I like her. I want to tell her how I feel but whenever i try there is always something in my way or I just lose confiden... (87 words

I can't get our family friend out of my mind. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Is it possible to be in love with 2 people? I'm in my early twenties, married with three kids and i love my husband more than anything but i also have strong feelings for our friend , he does allot of family things with us, e.g putting kids toys together Christmas eve , i cant ... (61 words

My husbands lies make no sense...what can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband has been denying his affairs, and he always lieing.I went into his shop one night with his keys because,something just isn't right with him.So I open the doors and cabins and I found his boxer that he worn to work whenever to work in a bag hidden behind his cleaning ... (155 words

What to buy him for Valentine's Day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - Ok i need help.........ive been dating this guy for about 3 weeks.......and valentines day is 2 morrow!!!! his name is travis............he has a band called blue tornado and i dont no what to get him for valentines day!!! he likes heavy metal music.....but i dont have money to ... (82 words

Should I give my teacher a valentines day card?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi i fancy my teacher, should i give him a valentines day card or would that just weird him out? help....... (24 words

I used to be on the depo- Provera but my boyfriend didnt like the side effects. Why am I now getting these symptoms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I used to be on Depo-Provera because my menstral cycle was all messed up I would have my perioud for 3 weeks then have a 5 day break then would be back on it again. Anyways my boyfriend didnt like the fact that I was on it because of all the side effects, so I did him the ... (88 words

Do I still love him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - dear cupid i dont know what to do i have been with my husband for nearly three years and we have a daughter together who is three mths.i also have another daughter who is five but her dad was someone else i used to be married too. The problem is my husband has never really got ... (144 words

He dated my mum first. Is this so wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - The guy that I have really strong feelings for has dated my mom in the past over a decade ago. They were intimate and had a sexual relationship. This is not an ideal situation and normally I'm not interested in this type of dating, I don't like to date people my family has ... (389 words

How do I make our relationship last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - right now thing b/w me and my bf is going down the drain slowly... i dont know how (both of us) how to fix it, we promise each other we'll change, but for me im not. im going through what i use to do 3 years ago when i was 14: mentally cut myself,(i am not emo kind of ppl)... (139 words

My BF's comment made me realise I need to improve my self image and confidence, how can I do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - This is a silly concern. Today I was telling my BF I lost 2 pounds out of nowhere. He was happy for me. I've lost a lot of weight since we started dating. He's always been very attracted to me. We were talking about my weight and height... he noted he was only a few inche... (330 words

What does this phrase mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Question for the agony aunts. What does this phrase mean? "What goes on tour stays on tour". This is regarding my husband's trips away with a couple of friends.(some are day trips and some are overnight/two days away in another country) It is something my husband has said, but ... (52 words

How come I haven't settled down with anyone yet do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am an open mind attractive 34 y.o. woman. I am independent, work full time, have been in UK on my own for 10 years, inteligent, etc. but today i was struck with a question from someone i do care, he said: ' i really do not understand why you do not have a boyfriend, why you ... (793 words

Any tips on how to keep the spark in the bedroom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

13 February 2008 (F - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 4 months now and we are very much in love. I just want to know what are the best ways to keep the spark alive in the sex department? Any tips on how to keep it firey and hot in the bedroom? How to turn him on easily? xxx thanx... (61 words

Why is my abusive ex offering to pay for my car, when he denied to the police having damaged it. Is he playing mind games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - i split with my ex in december, he should be recieving my divorce petition this week. he was emotionally and sometimes physically abusive and also liked to damage my stuff. last time i saw him in december he damaged the body work on my car, for the first time ever i cont... (162 words

I want to redress the situation, but I can't physically take the pain she puts me through with her "I'm over you" attitude. Any point in persisting?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi there. My and my ex decided to mutually end our relationship 6 weeks ago. We would have been together 3 years tomorrow. We've had a strange relationship, sometimes it being long distance, and sometimes almost giving up our normal lives for each other. We'd tried breaking up ... (280 words

Going through depression, considering myself ugly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - help i am going through depression i am onyl 14 (15 in 2 months)i think i am the most ugliest girl in my year this is because i recently got told i was ugly by my best freind i think she is right too!!! and also i looked in the mirror i thought i looked nice but when i got the ... (175 words

Is it too early to ask him to recommit to being my boyfriend? What is keeping him from asking me to be his girlfriend again if he loves me "with all his heart"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I had been living with my boyfriend for about six- seven months. We loved eachother and we spent everyday together---things seemed perfect. We talked about getting married one day, spending the rest of our lives together, about buying a house. My boyfriend got offered ... (260 words

We want to move in together but cannot come to an agreement!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (F - I had a really horrible childhood, my mum and dad split when I was little and he has barely been in my life, when he did arrange to see me and my sisters he would always let us down, my mum then went through 2abusive relationships and got into a lot of debt. I have never di... (341 words

Is it wrong for me to go to church with my friend just because my husband doesn't like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband doesn't like my female friend. I have been friends with her for 14 years and I know her family well. Over the last year she had been really going down hill, drinking, drugs, promiscuity, irratic behavior, lieing, using people, not taking care of her kid, starving ... (409 words

Should I ask him how he feels, or will this corner him, and if he doesn't feel it yet, will he ever? We're both divorced.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi Ive been with my bf for 7 months now and things have been great. He lives a bit of a distance which makes dropping by not possible but get together weekends. These are blissful even tho we dont do much just enjoy each other's company. We do call each other every day and ... (219 words

What are these spots down there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 13yr old girl. I have spots down there. Like alot of them. They are swollen/red and sometimes they even bleed. I dont shave down there. What is it? ... (30 words

Has anyone else felt this way after breaking up with their ex? How do I move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi there, I broke up with my ex almost 6 months ago and I'm still madly in love with her. I'm majorly deppressed and on the edge of a nervous breakdown. My doctor has given me tablets to try and get me better but it's just not working. I have felt like there has been a major ... (93 words

Her Teenage son is driving me nuts!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - I need some helpful input. a little input, a few months back, my fiance and I explained to her two boys one is 15 the other will be 14 that if our bedroom door is shut, unless there is something major happening, this means not to bother us, mostly at night past 10 oclock. La... (309 words

Is she confused, scared or have commitment issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am writing this because I am currently at a point where I do not know what to do. My girlfriend and I broke up two weeks ago and I have given her the space she has needed however it is still hard to understand why she broke up. We have some communication now (phone, ... (418 words

My BF wakes up with an erection. What's up with that?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - My b/f sometimes wakes up with a huge erection but insists that he's "not in the mood" for sex and though it puts me in the mood, I really can't get him interested so we just end up cuddling and talking and eventually his erection goes away. But I get out of bed feeling ... (65 words

Do you think I'm being selfish here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Am I being selfish? I have a boyfriend who I've been with for 4 years and we have a son together. now the whole time that i was with him all he really spend on me was about 100-200 dollars. THE WHOLE TIME. he dont work or anything. when he had a job he lost it for d... (239 words

I want to trust him but I'm not sure if I can...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I'm sixteen almost seventeen and have a wonderful boyfriend. Problem is I can't trust him. We've been together about 5 times before within the last 3 years, and everytime we broke up it was him who stopped the relationship. Our longest time together was almost six months. ... (118 words

Why does he hide things from me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi my problem is my husband. He views porn sometimes (behind my back) i find out, usually by hotel receipts etc. I have said to him that i'm not bothered about him viewing porn (i would rather he was in a hotel room doing that, than out doing something else) but he still ... (271 words

How do I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - HI!! How do you end a marriage that never should have happened in the first place? Thats the problem that I have. When I first met him, we were just getting out of relationships. He always talked about what "J" did to him, and at the same time, told me he didnt want to hear ... (186 words

How do I forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Although I split up with my ex three years ago he doesn't leave me alone because it's not that he is nice to me or says he wants to be with me, he is evil, fat and I hate him and he gets in the way of me and my boyfriend by hangigng around us when he sees us and taking the ... (93 words

How can I give my boyfriend a blowjob without hurting him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend has phimosis which means he can't pull his foreskin back without it hurting him. I want to give him a blow job but am unsure how to do this because of the phimosis and I really don't want to hurt him. Any ideas on the best way to do this? ... (52 words

Is it too soon to meet cheating fiance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hello, I've been dating this guy for over a year. We've talked about getting married this summer and having children. Then, this happens... He recently cheated on me and I found out about it. Since then, our relationship has been strained to say the least. Initially an... (321 words

Things seem good but why does he say he can't handle it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - What does a bloke mean when he says he can not handle a relationship with not just me but anyone although things were so good?... (25 words

I feel I should do more with my life. Are my feelings normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi all, I am SO bored of going out to pubs/bars/clubs every weekend. I do other things like work out and see friends and stuff but I really do feel like I'm missing out a lot of things in life. Part of the reason, I suppose, is I'm at that horrible stage in my life when my mates... (348 words

I'm anxious I'll be left on the shelf, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi all, My mind have been in quite a whirl nowadays. I know it's kinda like V-day blues, I can't help but feel that I am fast getting left on the shelves. My friends are getting attached easily, and although I have had 2 relationships before, it left a sour taste in my mout... (250 words

Our baby's about to be born, but should we be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

13 February 2008 (? - Urgent help needed – The clock is ticking for me… Please could someone take the time to help me? I am 22 year old female and have been in a relationship with a 20 year old male for the past 18 months. We have spent so much time together and were like best friends – it’s as thou... (877 words

My feelings died for him, will they come back?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi all, Please, I need some advice. I have been in a relationship for 12 years, and am now 28. It has been a mistake from the start, but I did love him. He has spent alot of time critisizing me, bad mouthing my family friends, my ways, and trying to make me something I'm just... (208 words

Should I go back home, or stay for the man I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - Do I go back to South Africa or do I stay with the man I love? I came to London with my two children one of which's father lives in London and we live with him. I was with him 14 years ago and we sadly parted. Now we are back in his life fourteen years later and he treats me b... (297 words

My ex doesn't want to be friends, but I do.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well, me and my ex split about 3 months ago now and he in another relationship(with a girl who lives half way around the world.) I've just started seeing someone also. Though we are taking it very slow, I can't help but compare it to my previous relationship with my ex. It is ... (113 words

Work mate said he wanted me, but he is married! HELP!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Dear Aunts... Well i have a little problem.. I have been seeing some one from work! We havent actually done anything and i dont know what he wants.. It started like this.. A couple of weeks ago i was out in town with a friend and we seen some people from work! ( the managers) ... (195 words

My ex is in love again after three weeks and it's killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello aunts! I broke up with my girlfriend about three weeks ago. I know it was a mistake and I wanted to fix it and be with her again but she said no. Now we are still living in a same flat because she has nowhere to go and I am not evil enough to throw her out. But that’s not ... (142 words

What did this guy I like mean, saying if he was drunk, he wouldn't be able to help himself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Last nite went to my local pub with a friend and her bf and his m8 who ive only met twice, anyway cut a long story short i really like this guy although his just split with his long term gf,ive been told by my mates bf that im his type of girl and that he does like me,anyway he ... (162 words

My ex is having Sex with somebody knew. It's upsetting me and is making me feel VERY jealous. Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm feeling jealous towards my ex. We've managed to be friends since we broke up nearly a year ago. Even though we are friends, I've never felt like I've truly gotten over her, even though we have both agreed that getting back together wouldn't be a good idea. She has recent... (279 words

I intended it to be a one night stand, but I'm really starting to like this guy. Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Help, I hooked up with a guy but now i really like him... okay so i answered a personal add in the casual encounters column with intentions to have a sexy hook up with no strings attached... Well after trading emails and pictures, phone numbers ect. We made plans to meet ... (383 words

Would it be wrong to wish my ex "Happy Birthday"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I was wondering what you would do in this situation: I went out with a guy during January this year. He was my first boyfriend (I'm 18). We were strangers, but we worked at the same place, and he was the one who asked me out. A couple of weeks ago he decided to break it off ... (205 words

Site News: We hit another milestone :-)

This question has 60 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

13 February 2008 (M - For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their problem. Andrew... (54 words

She did things with her ex, that I haven't experienced before. How can I handle this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi, i need help. about one or two months into my relationship with my girlfriend, she hinted at an event in her past that sounded like she was sexually assaulted. seeing as i care a lot about her, i have always been very cautious when it came to partaking in or even discussi... (468 words

Why do I feel uncomfortable.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - my g/f for a year wants to go to las vegas to spend the weekend with an old guy friend of hers and a group of friends of theres i have never met any of them. she has some history with him meaning she lived with him , and has slept with him. says it was only sex nothing more . ... (128 words

Is you're opinion he's cheating or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I need to know what you think, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. Even though I've never caught him, I suspect he's cheating, I have checked his cell phone bills I never seem to find anything out of the ordinary. THe thing is, it's kinda hard. He works in ... (507 words

What to do about telling my mum

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 February 2008 (F - I am wondering if I should tell my mum about this new guy im dating. I am 18 years old and yes I know that since I am an adult I do not have to tell her, but it would be nice to be able to open up to her and have her blessing. And also my mum is pretty good at picking out bad ... (296 words

I finally got free.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

13 February 2008 (F - I finally broke up with my emotionally abusive ex. But why didn't I break up with him at the times where it was really ugly between us-like when he was being unreasonable and getting mad at me because I wouldn't smoke or get drunk (which I don't do either in the first place). ... (132 words

Obsessed or in love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've known a guy for about 9 years now, and I can't seem to get over the fact that I really do have feelings for him. He and I have been through a lot, he's even treated me like dirt. Not without reason, I will admit, I did do stupid things to deserve it, but he was always ... (156 words

Take a chance and ask her out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - There is this girl I know. She introduced herself to me online and at first I brushed off as nothing because there's weird people online. But as I got to know her through messaging and found out she goes to my school, we started talking in person and on the phone a lot. I ... (151 words

Does she have someone on the side???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 February 2008 (M - Okay I have been dating this chick for over 6 months now and I notice that her ex that she use to deal with calls her from time to time asking her wassup. Now my thing is this if you have a relationship with someone else and your ex partner calls, what is there to talk about or ... (233 words

Can depression make him cold towards his family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age - My husband has suffered from depression off and on for some years but over the last year it has got worse to the point where he wants to be alone all the time and says he is not sure he loves me any more and wants to get a flat on his own. Can depression make a spouse stop ... (128 words

I have an issue with her about losing weight

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age - I've been with my girl for 5yrs during which we have had ups and downs. I was getting divorced and it was bitter. I loved her a lot but during all the stress (mostly from my side) the love has eroded. Is this because its a long term relationship or some other reason? ... (453 words

Did I miss my chance with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Over a year ago, I split with my ex. It tore me up pretty bad, and left me really out of focus. Not long after I met Mike, he was fantastic, atractive and it seemed like well, too good to be true to be honest. I pushed him away I suppose and over time he moved on. We're ... (246 words

She gives me mixed signals, I'm confused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

13 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Looking for any advise here, I'm really confused. And sorry this is long, I like to ramble, and there is a long ish back story. I met a girl about 3 weeks ago when I was out with friends. There was an amazing attraction between us both straight away. I spent the whole night ... (636 words

Why is my old school friend chasing me on the net, he's married

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so this guy I've known since high school and fell in love with, but we only went on one date and slept in the same bed one night spooning, started AIMing me the other night. I haven't really talked to him in two years, and since then, he has gotten married. I still have ... (207 words

I want to send him a card for his Birthday, should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so I like this boy that I do theater with in my town. We're friends and don't go to the same school, but I really fancy him. I want to send him a card for his birthday, but I'm not sure if this is strange. Also, I want to instant message him but I'm not sure if he knows ... (74 words

He gets soft during sex, is he bored?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are only 16 we have been sexually active for about 6 months and we never had any problems....until now.It started when he was sick we were in the middle of sex and his penis slipped out, i went to put it back in and it was completely soft n he couldn't get ... (176 words

Was I out of order to tell my partner not to flirt with women on the internet?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Please can someone help me you see I don't know if I was in the wrong with my partner or not so heres the story... I've been with my partner coming up 7 years, we've got kids together and I would say we have a happy, caring and loving relationship until recently I found ou... (165 words

Valentines day gift!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

13 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year, and i have no clue what to get him for valentines day and its in 2 days. I know I waited untill the last minuet but i was tring to find a great gift, but my plan back fired today! I really need some advise. He l... (72 words

Now I'm ready for something real and I want it to be with one of these guys, should Ii bother waiting for either of them?

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