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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I'm pregnant and he doesn't believe that I am!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am pregnant and he doesn't believe me... What should I do...? He thinks that I've cheated on him and I havent. I don't know what to do. He was supposed to go to the doctors with me today and he never even called me. I called him a million times and he didn't answer my ... (98 words)

How to get her back? If not, what is there to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Okay, here's the story, ever since first year in school I've known this girl she was cool and I thought she 2 nothing like love or anything but when we had to do scottish dancing in first year I chose her as my partner then we did'nt speak for a while because was embarrassed ... (450 words)

Ex wife wants me back and she has new child

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Please help. I am a 30 year old male who at the age of 12 fell in love with a girl, also 12. At 15 we started dating and 13 years later we were married with 3 kids. The relationship had its moments and to be honest the arguments were mainly over sex...the lack of, or she was ... (836 words)

How do I approach this situation for the best?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - God I'm in agony. Me and the major love of my life who I have been with for 6 years have had a major major bust up about a week ago (we've had lots of problems) and not spoken for a week (he stormed out of the house and said he was never coming back and called me a bitch as ... (312 words)

Why do guys always ask me out after the first date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - What does it mean when a guy asks you to be his girlfriend after the first date? This has happened to me 4 times now and I wanted to know whether I actually impressed these guys that much for them to want me to be their girlfriend. Or if it was just a way to get me into bed... (61 words)

Why would he tolerate the silly situation he is in now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

- I need help and hope that the amazing agony aunts can help. I split with my boyfriend of thirteen years two and a half years ago. I have been dating but not really seriously. He returned to him hometown a long way away and promptly met someone else. Their relationship sounds s... (282 words)

He never follows through and hangs out with me...should I write a note to get closure??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I met a guy online about 6 months ago, we seemed to hit it off, met up a couple of times (just chatted but he seemed keen) and every week almost he texts to say we should go out to a movie or for a drink the following week. But then when the next week comes he always ... (326 words)

How can I recover from this emotionally abusive marriage??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently split from my husband who was my partner for 12 years, married for the last three years. On our very first holiday together over 11 years ago, the first verbally abusive fight happened when he got very drunk and spent hours trashing the hotel room and verbally... (474 words)

How can I make my bf more romantic??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and he has no idea about being romantic!! I don't know what to do i love him to death but he never does anything romantic. Now don't get me wrong he shows plenty of affection but he never surprises me with anything even if ... (126 words)

How can I increase confidence in myself and tell her how I feel??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi everyone, There is this girl. we've been close, went to a school dance together. That was Saturday. I'm pretty sure she likes me and I know I like her. I want to tell her how I feel but whenever i try there is always something in my way or I just lose confiden... (87 words)

I can't get our family friend out of my mind. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Is it possible to be in love with 2 people? I'm in my early twenties, married with three kids and i love my husband more than anything but i also have strong feelings for our friend , he does allot of family things with us, e.g putting kids toys together Christmas eve , i cant ... (61 words)

My husbands lies make no sense...what can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband has been denying his affairs, and he always lieing.I went into his shop one night with his keys because,something just isn't right with him.So I open the doors and cabins and I found his boxer that he worn to work whenever to work in a bag hidden behind his cleaning ... (155 words)

What to buy him for Valentine's Day?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok i need help.........ive been dating this guy for about 3 weeks.......and valentines day is 2 morrow!!!! his name is travis............he has a band called blue tornado and i dont no what to get him for valentines day!!! he likes heavy metal music.....but i dont have money to ... (82 words)

Should I give my teacher a valentines day card?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi i fancy my teacher, should i give him a valentines day card or would that just weird him out? help....... (24 words)

I used to be on the depo- Provera but my boyfriend didnt like the side effects. Why am I now getting these symptoms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I used to be on Depo-Provera because my menstral cycle was all messed up I would have my perioud for 3 weeks then have a 5 day break then would be back on it again. Anyways my boyfriend didnt like the fact that I was on it because of all the side effects, so I did him the ... (88 words)

Do I still love him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid i dont know what to do i have been with my husband for nearly three years and we have a daughter together who is three mths.i also have another daughter who is five but her dad was someone else i used to be married too. The problem is my husband has never really got ... (144 words)

He dated my mum first. Is this so wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy that I have really strong feelings for has dated my mom in the past over a decade ago. They were intimate and had a sexual relationship. This is not an ideal situation and normally I'm not interested in this type of dating, I don't like to date people my family has ... (389 words)

How do I make our relationship last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - right now thing b/w me and my bf is going down the drain slowly... i dont know how (both of us) how to fix it, we promise each other we'll change, but for me im not. im going through what i use to do 3 years ago when i was 14: mentally cut myself,(i am not emo kind of ppl)... (139 words)

My BF's comment made me realise I need to improve my self image and confidence, how can I do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) age 18-21 - This is a silly concern. Today I was telling my BF I lost 2 pounds out of nowhere. He was happy for me. I've lost a lot of weight since we started dating. He's always been very attracted to me. We were talking about my weight and height... he noted he was only a few inche... (330 words)

What does this phrase mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Question for the agony aunts. What does this phrase mean? "What goes on tour stays on tour". This is regarding my husband's trips away with a couple of friends.(some are day trips and some are overnight/two days away in another country) It is something my husband has said, but ... (52 words)

How come I haven't settled down with anyone yet do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an open mind attractive 34 y.o. woman. I am independent, work full time, have been in UK on my own for 10 years, inteligent, etc. but today i was struck with a question from someone i do care, he said: ' i really do not understand why you do not have a boyfriend, why you ... (793 words)

Any tips on how to keep the spark in the bedroom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 36 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

- I have been seeing my boyfriend for 4 months now and we are very much in love. I just want to know what are the best ways to keep the spark alive in the sex department? Any tips on how to keep it firey and hot in the bedroom? How to turn him on easily? xxx thanx... (61 words)

Why is my abusive ex offering to pay for my car, when he denied to the police having damaged it. Is he playing mind games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i split with my ex in december, he should be recieving my divorce petition this week. he was emotionally and sometimes physically abusive and also liked to damage my stuff. last time i saw him in december he damaged the body work on my car, for the first time ever i cont... (162 words)

I want to redress the situation, but I can't physically take the pain she puts me through with her "I'm over you" attitude. Any point in persisting?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi there. My and my ex decided to mutually end our relationship 6 weeks ago. We would have been together 3 years tomorrow. We've had a strange relationship, sometimes it being long distance, and sometimes almost giving up our normal lives for each other. We'd tried breaking up ... (280 words)

Going through depression, considering myself ugly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - help i am going through depression i am onyl 14 (15 in 2 months)i think i am the most ugliest girl in my year this is because i recently got told i was ugly by my best freind i think she is right too!!! and also i looked in the mirror i thought i looked nice but when i got the ... (175 words)

Is it too early to ask him to recommit to being my boyfriend? What is keeping him from asking me to be his girlfriend again if he loves me "with all his heart"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I had been living with my boyfriend for about six- seven months. We loved eachother and we spent everyday together---things seemed perfect. We talked about getting married one day, spending the rest of our lives together, about buying a house. My boyfriend got offered ... (260 words)

We want to move in together but cannot come to an agreement!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - I had a really horrible childhood, my mum and dad split when I was little and he has barely been in my life, when he did arrange to see me and my sisters he would always let us down, my mum then went through 2abusive relationships and got into a lot of debt. I have never di... (341 words)

Is it wrong for me to go to church with my friend just because my husband doesn't like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My husband doesn't like my female friend. I have been friends with her for 14 years and I know her family well. Over the last year she had been really going down hill, drinking, drugs, promiscuity, irratic behavior, lieing, using people, not taking care of her kid, starving ... (409 words)

Should I ask him how he feels, or will this corner him, and if he doesn't feel it yet, will he ever? We're both divorced.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Ive been with my bf for 7 months now and things have been great. He lives a bit of a distance which makes dropping by not possible but get together weekends. These are blissful even tho we dont do much just enjoy each other's company. We do call each other every day and ... (219 words)

Why does he kiss with his eyes open???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - I'm with my boyfriend however the only thing I can't understand is when we're out and we kiss he kisses me with his eyes open. We are so close and love being with each other and I know he completly adores me but why does he kiss me with eyes open it feels like he doesn't ... (62 words)

What are these spots down there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm a 13yr old girl. I have spots down there. Like alot of them. They are swollen/red and sometimes they even bleed. I dont shave down there. What is it? ... (30 words)

Has anyone else felt this way after breaking up with their ex? How do I move on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi there, I broke up with my ex almost 6 months ago and I'm still madly in love with her. I'm majorly deppressed and on the edge of a nervous breakdown. My doctor has given me tablets to try and get me better but it's just not working. I have felt like there has been a major ... (93 words)

Her Teenage son is driving me nuts!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some helpful input. a little input, a few months back, my fiance and I explained to her two boys one is 15 the other will be 14 that if our bedroom door is shut, unless there is something major happening, this means not to bother us, mostly at night past 10 oclock. La... (309 words)

Is she confused, scared or have commitment issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I am writing this because I am currently at a point where I do not know what to do. My girlfriend and I broke up two weeks ago and I have given her the space she has needed however it is still hard to understand why she broke up. We have some communication now (phone, ... (418 words)

My BF wakes up with an erection. What's up with that?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My b/f sometimes wakes up with a huge erection but insists that he's "not in the mood" for sex and though it puts me in the mood, I really can't get him interested so we just end up cuddling and talking and eventually his erection goes away. But I get out of bed feeling ... (65 words)

Do you think I'm being selfish here?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, Am I being selfish? I have a boyfriend who I've been with for 4 years and we have a son together. now the whole time that i was with him all he really spend on me was about 100-200 dollars. THE WHOLE TIME. he dont work or anything. when he had a job he lost it for d... (239 words)

I want to trust him but I'm not sure if I can...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi. I'm sixteen almost seventeen and have a wonderful boyfriend. Problem is I can't trust him. We've been together about 5 times before within the last 3 years, and everytime we broke up it was him who stopped the relationship. Our longest time together was almost six months. ... (118 words)

Why does he hide things from me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my problem is my husband. He views porn sometimes (behind my back) i find out, usually by hotel receipts etc. I have said to him that i'm not bothered about him viewing porn (i would rather he was in a hotel room doing that, than out doing something else) but he still ... (271 words)

How do I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - HI!! How do you end a marriage that never should have happened in the first place? Thats the problem that I have. When I first met him, we were just getting out of relationships. He always talked about what "J" did to him, and at the same time, told me he didnt want to hear ... (186 words)

How do I forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Although I split up with my ex three years ago he doesn't leave me alone because it's not that he is nice to me or says he wants to be with me, he is evil, fat and I hate him and he gets in the way of me and my boyfriend by hangigng around us when he sees us and taking the ... (93 words)

How can I give my boyfriend a blowjob without hurting him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend has phimosis which means he can't pull his foreskin back without it hurting him. I want to give him a blow job but am unsure how to do this because of the phimosis and I really don't want to hurt him. Any ideas on the best way to do this? ... (52 words)

Is it too soon to meet cheating fiance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've been dating this guy for over a year. We've talked about getting married this summer and having children. Then, this happens... He recently cheated on me and I found out about it. Since then, our relationship has been strained to say the least. Initially an... (321 words)

Things seem good but why does he say he can't handle it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) age 22-25 - What does a bloke mean when he says he can not handle a relationship with not just me but anyone although things were so good?... (25 words)

I feel I should do more with my life. Are my feelings normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi all, I am SO bored of going out to pubs/bars/clubs every weekend. I do other things like work out and see friends and stuff but I really do feel like I'm missing out a lot of things in life. Part of the reason, I suppose, is I'm at that horrible stage in my life when my mates... (348 words)

I'm anxious I'll be left on the shelf, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi all, My mind have been in quite a whirl nowadays. I know it's kinda like V-day blues, I can't help but feel that I am fast getting left on the shelves. My friends are getting attached easily, and although I have had 2 relationships before, it left a sour taste in my mout... (250 words)

Our baby's about to be born, but should we be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

13 February 2008 (?)

- Urgent help needed – The clock is ticking for me… Please could someone take the time to help me? I am 22 year old female and have been in a relationship with a 20 year old male for the past 18 months. We have spent so much time together and were like best friends – it’s as thou... (877 words)

My feelings died for him, will they come back?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) age 26-29 - Hi all, Please, I need some advice. I have been in a relationship for 12 years, and am now 28. It has been a mistake from the start, but I did love him. He has spent alot of time critisizing me, bad mouthing my family friends, my ways, and trying to make me something I'm just... (208 words)

When we are apart, he doesn't seem to miss me. What Gives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My bf is so loving and affectionate when we are together. I notice a weird pattern when we are apart. With each day, he seems more distant and quiet. He tells me he loves me, but he doesn't act like he misses me the way i miss him. Sometimes he is even nasty and cranky. ... (118 words)

Should I go back home, or stay for the man I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Do I go back to South Africa or do I stay with the man I love? I came to London with my two children one of which's father lives in London and we live with him. I was with him 14 years ago and we sadly parted. Now we are back in his life fourteen years later and he treats me b... (297 words)

My ex doesn't want to be friends, but I do.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Well, me and my ex split about 3 months ago now and he in another relationship(with a girl who lives half way around the world.) I've just started seeing someone also. Though we are taking it very slow, I can't help but compare it to my previous relationship with my ex. It is ... (113 words)

Work mate said he wanted me, but he is married! HELP!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Aunts... Well i have a little problem.. I have been seeing some one from work! We havent actually done anything and i dont know what he wants.. It started like this.. A couple of weeks ago i was out in town with a friend and we seen some people from work! ( the managers) ... (195 words)

My ex is in love again after three weeks and it's killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello aunts! I broke up with my girlfriend about three weeks ago. I know it was a mistake and I wanted to fix it and be with her again but she said no. Now we are still living in a same flat because she has nowhere to go and I am not evil enough to throw her out. But that’s not ... (142 words)

What did this guy I like mean, saying if he was drunk, he wouldn't be able to help himself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Last nite went to my local pub with a friend and her bf and his m8 who ive only met twice, anyway cut a long story short i really like this guy although his just split with his long term gf,ive been told by my mates bf that im his type of girl and that he does like me,anyway he ... (162 words)

My ex is having Sex with somebody knew. It's upsetting me and is making me feel VERY jealous. Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm feeling jealous towards my ex. We've managed to be friends since we broke up nearly a year ago. Even though we are friends, I've never felt like I've truly gotten over her, even though we have both agreed that getting back together wouldn't be a good idea. She has recent... (279 words)

I intended it to be a one night stand, but I'm really starting to like this guy. Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) age 18-21 - Help, I hooked up with a guy but now i really like him... okay so i answered a personal add in the casual encounters column with intentions to have a sexy hook up with no strings attached... Well after trading emails and pictures, phone numbers ect. We made plans to meet ... (383 words)

Would it be wrong to wish my ex "Happy Birthday"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I was wondering what you would do in this situation: I went out with a guy during January this year. He was my first boyfriend (I'm 18). We were strangers, but we worked at the same place, and he was the one who asked me out. A couple of weeks ago he decided to break it off ... (205 words)

Site News: We hit another milestone :-)

This question has 62 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

- For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their problem. Andrew... (54 words)

She's in the wrong. So why is she behaving this way towards me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend starts seeing someone else and i find out, im angry and tell her but then i move on, but keep the peace... Now she wont speak to me and tells me to leave her alone (which i had), she knows i love her but what does she want me to do and why is she behaving this way ... (69 words)

She did things with her ex, that I haven't experienced before. How can I handle this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - hi, i need help. about one or two months into my relationship with my girlfriend, she hinted at an event in her past that sounded like she was sexually assaulted. seeing as i care a lot about her, i have always been very cautious when it came to partaking in or even discussi... (468 words)

Why do I feel uncomfortable.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - my g/f for a year wants to go to las vegas to spend the weekend with an old guy friend of hers and a group of friends of theres i have never met any of them. she has some history with him meaning she lived with him , and has slept with him. says it was only sex nothing more . ... (128 words)

Is you're opinion he's cheating or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I need to know what you think, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. Even though I've never caught him, I suspect he's cheating, I have checked his cell phone bills I never seem to find anything out of the ordinary. THe thing is, it's kinda hard. He works in ... (507 words)

What to do about telling my mum

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

- I am wondering if I should tell my mum about this new guy im dating. I am 18 years old and yes I know that since I am an adult I do not have to tell her, but it would be nice to be able to open up to her and have her blessing. And also my mum is pretty good at picking out bad ... (296 words)

I finally got free.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - I finally broke up with my emotionally abusive ex. But why didn't I break up with him at the times where it was really ugly between us-like when he was being unreasonable and getting mad at me because I wouldn't smoke or get drunk (which I don't do either in the first place). ... (132 words)

Obsessed or in love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I've known a guy for about 9 years now, and I can't seem to get over the fact that I really do have feelings for him. He and I have been through a lot, he's even treated me like dirt. Not without reason, I will admit, I did do stupid things to deserve it, but he was always ... (156 words)

Take a chance and ask her out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - There is this girl I know. She introduced herself to me online and at first I brushed off as nothing because there's weird people online. But as I got to know her through messaging and found out she goes to my school, we started talking in person and on the phone a lot. I ... (151 words)

Does she have someone on the side???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

13 February 2008 (M) - Okay I have been dating this chick for over 6 months now and I notice that her ex that she use to deal with calls her from time to time asking her wassup. Now my thing is this if you have a relationship with someone else and your ex partner calls, what is there to talk about or ... (233 words)

Can depression make him cold towards his family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has suffered from depression off and on for some years but over the last year it has got worse to the point where he wants to be alone all the time and says he is not sure he loves me any more and wants to get a flat on his own. Can depression make a spouse stop ... (128 words)

I have an issue with her about losing weight

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been with my girl for 5yrs during which we have had ups and downs. I was getting divorced and it was bitter. I loved her a lot but during all the stress (mostly from my side) the love has eroded. Is this because its a long term relationship or some other reason? ... (453 words)

Did I miss my chance with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Over a year ago, I split with my ex. It tore me up pretty bad, and left me really out of focus. Not long after I met Mike, he was fantastic, atractive and it seemed like well, too good to be true to be honest. I pushed him away I suppose and over time he moved on. We're ... (246 words)

She gives me mixed signals, I'm confused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

13 February 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Looking for any advise here, I'm really confused. And sorry this is long, I like to ramble, and there is a long ish back story. I met a girl about 3 weeks ago when I was out with friends. There was an amazing attraction between us both straight away. I spent the whole night ... (636 words)

Why is my old school friend chasing me on the net, he's married

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay, so this guy I've known since high school and fell in love with, but we only went on one date and slept in the same bed one night spooning, started AIMing me the other night. I haven't really talked to him in two years, and since then, he has gotten married. I still have ... (207 words)

I want to send him a card for his Birthday, should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, so I like this boy that I do theater with in my town. We're friends and don't go to the same school, but I really fancy him. I want to send him a card for his birthday, but I'm not sure if this is strange. Also, I want to instant message him but I'm not sure if he knows ... (74 words)

He gets soft during sex, is he bored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I are only 16 we have been sexually active for about 6 months and we never had any problems....until now.It started when he was sick we were in the middle of sex and his penis slipped out, i went to put it back in and it was completely soft n he couldn't get ... (176 words)

Was I out of order to tell my partner not to flirt with women on the internet?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Please can someone help me you see I don't know if I was in the wrong with my partner or not so heres the story... I've been with my partner coming up 7 years, we've got kids together and I would say we have a happy, caring and loving relationship until recently I found ou... (165 words)

Valentines day gift!

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13 February 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year, and i have no clue what to get him for valentines day and its in 2 days. I know I waited untill the last minuet but i was tring to find a great gift, but my plan back fired today! I really need some advise. He l... (72 words)

Now I'm ready for something real and I want it to be with one of these guys, should Ii bother waiting for either of them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really discouraged with this love thing lately, there is one guy who we really have something going on the chemistry thing but he lives far away from me we talk occasionally but I really want to be with him on the other hand I really care about the first boyfriend I had but ... (112 words)

I don't wanna be in love!!! Pleasssse help!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 February 2008 (?) age 16-17 - There's this one guy that I like a lot but he's what people would consider a dork but he's really nice and hilarious. All my friends give me weird looks whenever they see him. You don't understand how many times I've tried to give up on him!!! I think he likes me back so every ... (156 words)

Why do I feel really sad???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

13 February 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Can somebody help me? I really don't know what's up with me. I feel so low and empty. I find myself wishing I could make everybody around me happy, to see them content - I know this is an impossible wish. Over the last 3 years my strong and bubbly personailty has broken d... (286 words)

What reasons can a mobile phone company cut off your mobile phone for?

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13 February 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What reasons can a mobile phone company cut off your mobile phone for? My boyfriend who didn’t contact me for 3 days said that his mobile got cut off, but I didn’t realise they could do that unless it was for something really serious. As far as I know he has a contract phone ... (149 words)

Does he miss ME or having girl company?

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13 February 2008 (F) - hey aunts Just wondering, how do you know if you're over your ex boyfriend? I mean, we were dating for 2 years and after 2 days of crying I stopped.. it was only when I really really thought about him which made me sad.. Then even though he said we couldn't be friends he k... (496 words)