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How long does it take for your period to become regular?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey I started my period well over a year ago now and it took a while to get regular (over 6 months). It has been regular for the past couple of months except now I have missed my period and I don't understand why? Is it ussual for a body to take this long to regulate and me... (87 words

I need to get over my jealousy because it's having such a serious impact on my life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - Help I need to get over my jealousy because it's having such a serious impact on my life. I mainly get jealous of my close friends (the closer they are, the more jealous I feel) and my jealousy makes me want to sabotage the good things they have in their lives. Which I ... (144 words

Am I a horrible person for thinking I can have my cake and eat it too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's a lovely guy who cares about me deeply but who doesn't want sex with me. We're affectionate but there's no sexual chemistry there at all. In the early stages of the relationship, I was always the one to initiate it and even then, ... (368 words

Settling for comfortable...or learning to live with scared of commitment???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - First of all, I have to say that it's the first time I've ever used an advice site like this. It is kind of weird for me, but I am getting used to it. ha Anyway, I have always had a close relationship with one of my closest guy friends. We have always shared information or g... (365 words

Why do I seem to scare men away? Is there a hidden rule somewhere that I don't know about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - This thing keeps happening to me. I meet someone they flirt, they look for excuses to see me again, we end up having the longest phone conversation and they laugh and giggle and you'd think they like me and then they don't call back or they don't answer if I call them (I call ... (187 words

My girlfriend is a stripper

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - OK well this really isnt a normal scenario although having a girlfriend who is a stripper isnt normal to begin with. Anyways it makes it harder for me since i am in the military. Before i start we are both in our early 20's. I come back from being away for a 6 month deployme... (640 words

Shave vs. not shaving

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age - I wanted my wife to shave her private area, but she says it is because I want her to look like the porn stars. I would do the same. Anybody have an opinion on this?... (35 words

I try to reassure him but nothing seems to stop him doubting me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am a wife of 3 months,to a wonderful husband. Only thing that gets me is that he's always accusing me of cheating,when it has NEVER happen. I do my best to assure him that the only other person besides him is God. In past relationships,he's been cheated on and done wrongly.... (109 words

Ok to date older women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Im 20 and i have a 2 year old but when she was born i started getting into older women (peoples moms) i've been dating and sleeping with them. Women in there thirties and fourties they're all hot and beautiful i dont know why i find older women attractive but does anyone think ... (56 words

It takes along time for blow jobs to get me off..any advice??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age - I have a hard time getting off with blow jobs unless watching porn at the same time, low testosterone I think. I like to get my wife off even though it is harder for me. I have to have a lot of foreplay and outside stimulus to make it happen. She seems to get tired of waiting ... (72 words

Now he wants a relationship I'm not so sure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Recently a man I know split up with his wife as she had been cheating on him for 6 months. He found out about it in the summer and she told him that her and the man she was seeing had feelings for eachother but neither were prepared to leave their children. The other man was ... (393 words

What is going on with my friends, they don't seem to want me around.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok i just don't know whats going on. For some reason ever since 2 weeks ago my friends have been extremely off with me and i don't know why. Some days they make it seem like they don't want me there and others its like they are all in on something. I did hear something though... (346 words

How can I masturbate properly??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - When it comes to masturbating, everyone says you should just experiment and see what you like. And I can find SOME things that I like, but I just don't seem to enjoy it that much. I'd love to be able to masturbate (I know it sounds strange) properly. Any females out there fa... (61 words

Should I follow my heart or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - hello all, Theres this really nice lad at college and we get on so well, we flirt a bit and kiss and cuddle only as friends. He says he wants more than just friendship from us, i like him loads and don't want to loose him in any way but, i have a boyfriend and i know he has a... (112 words

Should I take what she said in a bad way??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have a some pictures on my myspace and my friend said you look really nice and pretty on them she also said "you look so different", should i take that in a good way or a bad way?... (39 words

What is my friend doing wrong??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My friend wants to know what she is doing wrong. She likes older boys (1-5 years older) and most of them like her too. The problem is they always let her down and she doesn't know what she is doing wrong. They say they don't have a problem with the age difference so it must be ... (62 words

My gf calls my best friend "hun," is that a form of flirting?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - hey just want to know what you guys think, i just got back, i was away from my gf for a year and 4 months; i was reading some of her msgs and that's when i seen msgs of her calling my friend hun, for example "hun dont worry about it" - would u say that it's a form of flirting, ... (82 words

Should I go on and graduate or drop out??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age 30-35 - Just wondering here, it's not a relationship question, but one I hope you can help me with anyways. I just found out I failed 3 of my courses for the 12th grade and will have to go back again next year in order to graduate. The big problem is I'm in the military, it's w... (209 words

He got back with his ex...but I feel I might love him...what do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - One day the guy i liked allot(who liked me to but didn't ask me out after we hooked up and he dumped his girlfriend) asked if he could have a party at my house since no one was going to be home, and i said ok. So i invited 3 of my friends so i would know more than one person a... (192 words

Why cant I cum when I masturbate??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi, I have been masturbating for a while and i get the really good feeling and i feel it about to cum and i start shaking and moaning but i can't cum. Why? I use a vibrator, my fingers, the removable shower head but i cant cum. Why? It's a little annoying because when i g... (106 words

I love my partner, but I need more sex and he cant keep up due to his age

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am 44 met this man 20 years older than me. He made me feel wanted and loved. He knows exactly what I want and I've never feel so good in my life. Two years on now I love him more everyday and want more sex with him. But he obviously cant keep the pace. I dont want to ... (75 words

How do I go out with this guy I like and not hurt my friend who likes him, too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - Im 13 and really like this boy at school, but one of my best mates does as well. Apparently he likes me as well but i dont know if this is true and i dont want to hurt my friend. Help me plz... (46 words

My one night stand ignored me for a while, but now has called. Should I call him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - About 4 months ago I had a bit of a one night stand with a "friend" - who we shall call James. I say friend very loosely though, we have only met eachother about 4 or 5 times through a mutual friend - who we shall call Darren. It was the most amazing one night stand ever - ... (297 words

He always puts his adult kids before me and does whatever they want

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age - how do you successfully date an older man that is so much into letting his family control him. his kids do not like me and he doesn't want to upset them so therefore we will never get married. i mean for goodness sakes .don't let them be sad. he always protects them against ... (227 words

Anyone know of any good websites to go to for fashion advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

7 February 2008 (F - I like to stay fashionable. Im 15 and from Manchester, UK. Does anyone know any websites which are up to date with fashion and give ideas of what to wear, what not to wear sort of thing? Thanks... (38 words

My ex is the man of my dreams. Should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is a really sticky situation; I was with the guy of my dreams (since 7th grade) for about 5 months and I ended up cheating on him with my ex-boyfriend of a year and a half. There was a LOT of drama which included a lot of his friends and whatnot. We kept talking on-and-off ... (325 words

I snogged a boy but now he is telling everyone I wasnt good. Well, he wasnt good either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im 13 and i snogged this boy some time ago and even though i hadn't ever done it before i could tell he wasn't very good but i didn't say anything, and becuase it was my first time i wasn't very good either and now he has started to spread it and i don't know what to do. please ... (61 words

15 years old and still wetting the bed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

7 February 2008 (F - Help me please. Im 15 and wet the bed. I usually dream about urinating then find myself doing it. I do it when i need the toilet and i usually go to the toilet in my dream and it seems weird in the dream and realistic. Because I really did it. Help me out?... (54 words

Should I tell his girlfriend he was cheating on her with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I dated my long-distance boyfriend for four months. His friend told me two days ago that he has had another girlfriend where he lives the whole time. I dumped him when I found out. I know who the girl is. Should I try to contact her and tell her? Nobody deserves to be cheated ... (71 words

Why is he watching porn so often?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I just found out my BF watches porn just about 3times a week. We have sex together about more than 5times a week and its always great. I think I am very good looking girl and I love sex .. I do whatever and I am not shy at all ... I found on his computer that he had watc... (152 words

I don't know how to fully open my heart to this great guy I am with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - i was just wondering if anyone would have any advice,for me.i am living with a great guy now and we love each other,but i dont know how to fully open up my heart to him because i fully opend up my heart in the past ,i got really badly burned by a guy in the past whom i told him ... (83 words

What are the age ranges for kids in American high schools?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

7 February 2008 (F - Hi please can someone inform me at what ages do people who go to high school in the usa are. Like in secondary school its age 11-16?? something like that and 16+ Is high school? Help me out here im from the UK ... (43 words

I havent talked to my ex since October, so I don't know if I still care for him or not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - the thing is i really really need help. my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 and a half months ago after he hadnt talked to me for ages (it sounds really bad i know)and we live a long way apart but it was going really well. i just cant forget him since we had been going out ... (153 words

Do I not turn him on like I used to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok so I've been dating this boy for about 2 years now, we love having sex. He used to look at me,touch me,kiss me in the wierdest places (palm of my hand) but now he doesnt even look at me, he still loves having sex at me, but he doesnt look at me and his penis doesnt stay ... (78 words

Ginger hair questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age 26-29 - I have a few ginger hair problems. i hang around with two other ginger kids at school, and both of their eyebrows are blond, but mine are brown, and im in the process of growing my hair long, but i dont no weather to get blond highlights or not. because my eyebrows are bro... (131 words

My period is irregular. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok so you already know that every woman has a period every month....but sometimes mine skips a month, sometimes 3 at a time. I'm not pregnant, so I was wondering if it had to do with changing of eating habits or what?... (42 words

My girlfriend is lying about the places she goes and seems secretive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - Recently I found out that my girlfriend has been lying about the places she go to and when i ask she said she forgot to tell me, We have been in the relationship for four years, My question is whenever i ask for us to have a good time, she says she is not ready, she will take ... (93 words

I have a lot of vaginal pain when I have sex. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi my name is suga and i am 18, i've been with my boyfriend for a while. we been trying to have sex but the problem is i get lot of pain in my vagina when he enters me which i can not take that pain. what advice can you give me. plz help ... (54 words

How do I tell her I want to make love to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age - how do i tell her i want to make love to her...............i feel realy stupid about this because i'm 45 and should no what i'm doing.i no she considers me more then just a boy friend we are even going on a trip to newyork in a few weeks same room one bed you get the idea~ w... (120 words

I am cold all the time, even in the blazing sun. What is wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - i'm just wondering does anyone out there get really cold n i mean freezing cold. what ever the weather even blazing sun shine i'm cold. i'm never able to get a warm, i work in a kitchen and still cold. my boyfriend hates me touching him sometimes im so cold. does an... (73 words

I think I may have caught a sexually transmitted disease. What now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - i like having sex, but after i have it i feel really bad, i have it with my cosins and i am afaid i might have cought a dissease .what do i do? tell my my mum and get cheaked out or leave it and keep it too myself . by the way don't think im a whore because im only 11!!!!!... (67 words

I have fallen for my friend thinking she was free, but now she got back with her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Bit of a tricky question and not really sure if there is even an answer out there... I'm bisexual, but usually prefer guys. I'm picky about guys as it is, but super picky about girls, so when I meet a girl who ticks all the boxes, I seem to just want to talk to her loads and... (336 words

When I give my boyfriend head, my mouth aches

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - When I give my boyfriend head, my mouth always aches so I have to change to something else. Is that normal and if there any other way to do it so my mouth doesn't ache so I can do it all the way through without swapping things. xXx... (55 words

My husband has lost all interest in sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age - My husband is 59 I'm 51.He does not seem to want sex anymore ,I'm at my wits end. I'm not sure if it's me are a medical problem.I have ask him several times if he was attracted to me he said yes,just not in sex anymore. The strange thing is he never takes resposiblity for ... (133 words

Is there a chat room for women like us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 51-59 - I found out on the day I was to bury my 94 year old grandmother that my husband went on chat rooms masturbating near our girls bedroom. Chatting to women who would tell him about what they were wearing. My husband has worn my dresses or skirts. Of course with some type of ... (542 words

How do I convince my boyfriend to marry me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - we have been dating for 7 years ,he had told me for several times that we will get married ,but last summer when i told him that i cant wait any more lets get married,he said "i am not ready for marriage" ,i love him so much ,and i know that he does not have other girlfriend ... (109 words

He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

7 February 2008 (? age 30-35 - Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the wrong, called me a slag and told ... (352 words

Can I use a condom during a BJ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - can i use a condom when doing a blow job cause i cant imagine myself sucking his thing?i have never done it and am a 29 year old virgin... (29 words

I am having an affair. Part of me wants to stop, but part of me doesnt.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am having an affair and I am unable to end it. I have been married for 8 years now and I have a great hubby. But..6 months ago I met a guy who just blew my mind. At first it was just great conversation and flirting.. but I admit I knew where it was heading. So, pretty soon we ... (279 words

My children's grandmother wants to take custody of them from me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello, My name is Faith and im 21 years old. I have triplet 5 year old girls Their father died 11 months after their birth. 3 days ago his mother demanded that the children went to live with her as im struggling. Im not. I work a part time job and own a small 3 bedroom... (145 words

What is normal age to begin menstruating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - okay i gotta ask is it completely normal to be 12 and not yet have my period? ... (17 words

A girl with whom he had casual sex before we met recently gave birth to his baby, how can I dismiss my sadness to be able to accompany him in his joyous time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok...to start off, I don't think many people have gone through this but I really need help. here's the situation: Well, my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now. We are really in love (I know it may seem soon but it's real). Well, we got together ealier this year ... (217 words

I regret having treated my ex-colleague badly, how can I make it up to him now, after leaving our common workplace?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - hey guys, just wanted some advice on a problem i've been having. Well a few years back i worked with these two guys, they were both really cute, and more importantly, they both had great personalities. they both wanted to be with me, but i really couldn't choose between t... (213 words

Only had one sex partner in my life, I can't get past the idea of having a second sex partner! I need advice from the more "experienced" please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F - Im 22 and he's 32, we been seeing each another for awhile We have known each and other for 2yrs or so we use to work togather but i quit my job back in may so him and i started seeing one and other after that cuz he was a manager in a diff department where i use to work An... (220 words

I noticed a hard lump on my vagina about the size of half a pea. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

7 February 2008 (F - Ok, I didn't notice this until today, it's pretty gross... but I have like a hard lump on my vagina about the size of half a pea. On the outside. It doesn't hurt, it's just... there. I've tried googling this but every site tells me to stop having sex, but I'm still a virgin! ... (55 words

We used to be best friends until this boy (her ex) chose me over her. Now she won't stop flirting with him, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - I am going out with this boy (lets call him danny) and his ex, (she can be maddy) won't leave him alone. Me and her use to be best friends until danny dumped maddy for me - now she won't stop flirting with him. What do I do?... (48 words

Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I really like this guy but don't ... (69 words

Do you really get what you deserve in life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Do you really get what you deserve in life? Or there is no such a thing? Also do things really happens for a reason,or its just random?... (29 words

She recently forgot my birthday. How can I tell if she still loves me? Should I say I won't call until she asks me to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, My girlfriend and I are in a long distace relationship. Last year she missed me a lot and found it hard in college. This year she is happier in school and doesn't miss me as much. Recently she forgot my birthday. What does this mean? I know some people take is seriousl... (105 words

Met her in the internet, she said she'd be back in my life by the end of the year as she planned to move closer to where I live. Do I drown my suspicions and wait out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Ok so I met this girl a year ago on the internet, she lives across the country from me. We instantly hit it off and spent hours talking to each other. After a few months we met up and we were inseperable for the whole day. A month or two later our relationship bro... (234 words

I'd like to ask her out but the age difference makes me hesitate. How should I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age 51-59 - I'm 35 yrs old and I am intersted in an 18 yr old. We've talked a few times and I enjoy talking with her. I'd like to ask her out but the age differnce is making me think about it. How should I handle this?... (48 words

My mother-in-law hinted she wanted to sleep with me, I always had this phantasy so what should I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - Me and my wife have been married for two months. Well her mom and dad just got a divorce. My wife has always told her mom her sex stories. I brought my baby over to her moms house and she was hinting around that she wanted to sleep with me. She said she would never tell my ... (72 words

Insecure about the way I look.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, I'm very insecure looks-wise. Media images mostly make me insecure, and porn. I know it's very plastic though. However, I just see how guys drool over actresses and porn. It's just fantasy they say. But I just get so down every time I see these over sexualized girls... (580 words

I don't want to lose my boyfriend and should I tell him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - HELLLPPP!! so im in a relationship with this boy ive been seeig for 7 mnths now and a new boy who is older than i im 16 nerly 17 this new man should i say is 23 asks me if i like him and i cudnt lie i sed yes i do he sed good i like you wht do u wnt to do about it.. i d... (258 words

He's not writing back, what does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - so I had sex for the second time! and and this time it was with someone I REALLY care about! well once agian it ended badly! this kid is mormon, hes the shy type but not with me! hes very cute! hes kinda a dork! which is what I LOVE most about him! well anyways! it was ... (911 words

How do I deal with my lover's ex wife, she is making our life a misery

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello! Topic: I am the girlfriend of a man who is divorced and has a child. My boyfriend and I live together, he is divorced, and has a 4 year old son 43% of the week. She makes our life living Hell. She is RELENTLESS and will do Anything to get to us... anything. We are Alwa... (171 words

Scared to go out with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have this friend who i have liked for ages. I think he likes me too. but im too scared to go out wif him coz i dont know how kiss oy anything like that. Am i fridget? How can i fix this?... (45 words

How can I get over my wife's affair, we are seperated but have a little girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have been married for 2 and a half years. My wife left me 2 months before our second anivarsary. It was for various reasons and there was fault on both sides. I realize this now after several months of counselling. After 4 months we managed to work things out and she moved ... (275 words

Should I let it go or talk to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - My new-ish boyfriend is really flirty with other girls. He's always been like that but ever since we have been dating the green monster of jealousy has been getting the best of me. He's a really funny guy and he likes to joke around but its always a bit over the top, and with ... (99 words

Masterbating behind girlfriends back, bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

7 February 2008 (M age 41-50 - I masturbate, maybe two or three times a week, I try not to do it so much, because, honestly, it makes me feel really bad about myself, being, that I have a girlfriend. I feel like I'm the worst guy in the world, and it makes me really depressed. I try to stop it, but sometime... (118 words

I love my x...I want him to be the one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

7 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - Ok i am single and i am looking for the right guy. I think i found him but i am not sure yet. I am totally and completly in love with him but i dont think he loves me.. the sad thing is he is my x. I cannot give anyone else my heart cause it is still with him. I dont know wat ... (106 words

I worry that he thinks she's prettier than me.

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Love sex, but can't orgasm.

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7 February 2008 (F age - I Love Sex!!!! My question is: I am in my 50's, and am I looking for a man. When I have found one, we go out, usually have sex after the event. The problem: I can't seem to seem to organsim. We try all different positions and nothing works. In fact, when he slides i... (160 words

Why doesn't he want to call me as before?

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We live apart, but have been meeting up for 18 months now, I want to get more of a commitment but not risk losing him, how?

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Should I be more touchy feely with my new boyfriend, does it matter to guys?

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Buying a house with my girlfriend, how can I make sure she can't touch the downpayment which my parents donated?

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Am I being used or does he secretly like me?

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I haven't had Sex in a year and It's really getting me down

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Why the change of heart once I actually buy the ring?

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Too wet!!! Please help!!

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7 February 2008 (F age 30-35 - When I have sex with my boyfriend I get really wet. I'm serious.... really wet but I usually don't even cum!! I just get very wet. My boyfriend says not to worry but I think it bugs him. How can I not get so wet during sex??? ... (47 words

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