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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it normal for me to be attracted to some pregnant women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for me to be attracted to pregnant women even if it isn't my kid? And it isn't becuase of the generic larger breast size that I'm attracted to them sometimes, and I don't know why I am, I just am. Is this normal??... (46 words)

How can I improve HIS half of the sex life when all he does is please ME? And what's with the diet pills!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

7 April 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Okay... first off, I would like to just say that I have never, EVER dated a man who put more time and effort into pleasing me as this one. We'll call him 'Jed'... Yea, I know. Anyway, Jed fingers, performs oral, rubs, caresses, kisses, licks... endlessly. He's quite the ... (405 words)

I don't trust him as much as I used to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm still with my boyfriend. Just a little problem, I don't trust him as much as I used to. I'm going away to see my sister for 3 days and I'm really going tuu miss him. I'm used to seeing him every day but since I've told him I'm going away for a bit I aint seen him for ... (106 words)

My semen is getting less, how do I increase the amount?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age - Hi I have been married for almost 27 years and always had a great sex life. I have found over the years that the amount of semen I produce is getting less, much to my wife's disappointment. Is this normal and is there anyway of increasing the volume?... (52 words)

We got on so well then she text me to say she wasn't ready to be in a relationship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello all, I have been using a singles website, and met someone in December on there, started by only chatting on im, then she asked for my mobile number so we then text each other, then home numbers. We met up for a couple of days, I stayed in a hotel, we got on so well. Got... (244 words)

Why does it take days for a guy to call or text message you back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

7 April 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Why does it take days for a guy to call or text message you back? Does this often signify that he has a girlfriend? Or just super busy...or uninterested. ... (29 words)

We differ in our attitude to fidelity. What can I do here?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 12 years old that only really know me as their dad. We have had some rough times in the past, partly because she suffers from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) and partly because I have been guilty of ... (324 words)

How do I get out of the mindset that somebody I can't be with is "the one" for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I get out of the mindset that somebody I can't be with is "the one" for me? I was dumped by this girl a year ago now, due to problems in our relationship we couldn't overcome. i.e. We went to different uni's, and so she let distance become a reason to break us up. So, ... (151 words)

How do I remind myself not to stare at other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age - How do I remind myself not to stare at other women? My wife refuses to go in public with me because she feels so disrespected. It is an unconscious behavior for me that I always do even when she reminds me not to.... (44 words)

What's a husband supposed to do?!! My wife is dressing very sexy- can I get her to practice more discretion?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age - My 38-year-old wife is beautiful woman, and is a devoted wife and mother. We've been very happily married for nine months, and our love life is great. This is our second marriages. My wife's first marriage was sexually unfulfilling and her ex was controlling over her ... (630 words)

How do I let him down gently without being too harsh?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to date this guy (james) who, at the time i thought was wonderful - he treated me with respect and cared for me. Then he cheated, so i dumped him. I'd liked this other guy (steve) for a while when i was with james, and so i made a move on him and now we're together. For ... (157 words)

I'm losing my best friends and I'm so jealous....how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, A little less than a month ago, my two best friends, Kathleen and Jason, moved away. Their new town is about an hour or so away from mine. Even though it's not that far away (it's only about sixty miles), it feels like it's on the other side of the world. Losi... (310 words)

My ex cheated but he really, really loves me! I'm so confused....can it work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex cheated on me in september, and the girl he was with told me in december. he denied it.. i finaly got it out of him when i had solid evidence. i stayed with him, but broke up with him in january until march.... we were not really broken up, we were still sleeping together ... (226 words)

My wife is losing interest in sex and I have to beg her for foreplay! Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of 17 years is slowly losing interest in sex. Foreplay now consists of a week or two of begging. When we have sex its great and she seems to enjoy it. It is just so darn infrequent. Please help! Cold Shower Man... (51 words)

I suspect my ex goes out with my friend to make me jealous! Do I tell my friend how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend ended our relationship this morning we agreed to stay friends but i dont want another friend whilst we were going out i knew he had an eye on one of my friends and have just seen them together holding hands and kissing, i dont want to loose friendship with... (98 words)

How long should I hold out for the love of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - things with my ex weren't good, even though we both really loved each other. after breaking up in october and taking several months apart (no contact except for a few weeks in december) he called and wanted to see if i'd be interested in trying again. i never really ... (336 words)

I don't like public affection, but my boyfriend does. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never been one to like doing anything in public. Things that might make me look out of place. (Which is odd, because I am such a metalhead, wearing black band shirts, chains, spikes etc. [and just because I said that doesn't mean you get to answer my question any ... (111 words)

I can't tell if he looks at me or I just happen to be in his visual field??!

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you tell whether someone is looking at you or just looking that way and you happen to be in the direction they are looking ? If that makes sense. Like people say its eye contact but i can't seem to tell if they're just looking my way or looking at me and in my eyes! i ... (137 words)

I'm being blackmailed by the boys I had sex with...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my names nikki and i have a problem with some boys in my school. i'm well known for being a slut at my school which im not proud of but i had sex two weeks ago with three boys from my school and another girl. i was told at the start of the week that it was recorded and the ... (96 words)

I enjoy more being with my friend who is depressed than being with my current partner, should I move to a happier relation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for more than 5 years now. Our relationship has problems from time to time. Now we don't talk with each other a lot. I feel that our relationship is getting weaker and I am not happy with him 3 year ago, I met another person. Though he suffer... (146 words)

Masturbation problem...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - When I watch porn my penis gets hard and stays hard while I'm stroking it. But once I stop and let go of it, it stays hard for like 5 more seconds and then it starts to soften up. When I look at the porno stars their penises stay hard without touching them. What can i do?... (57 words)

Caught between two cultures - other than break up with my intolerant BF, is there anything I can do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm not quite sure what to do. My boyfriend (for want of a better word at this point) constantly bashes Muslims to the point where it's ridiculous. He justifies his hatred by saying that all monotheism is "bull" because he chooses to follow a kind of mishmash of witc... (516 words)

I need advice about skin care and how to remove blackheads.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, i recently bought this new Benefit foundation, and its brilliant, but after several hours i just look shiny and awful - i really need to feel that i look good because of this guy i like and he's got great skin, so i always feel kind of inadequate. Any advice on how i could ... (94 words)

Should I continue a relationship with a man I have no future with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in a 2 1/2 year relationship with a guy i love to bits we have a three month child together. During the pregnancy the relationship was pretty dire but he has really changed and become a great dad. During the pregnancy he told me that he would have to leave the country in a ... (233 words)

I've lost 2 stone so far but the amount of stretchmarks are incredible! Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is embarressing... I'm 18 years old, and I'm overweight (BMI's 29) but I've been loosing weight. I've lost 2 stone so far but the amount of stretchmarks are incredible, have them under my arms and armpits, boobs, my tummy is literally full of them and my upper thighs ... (111 words)

I work with a guy I really like, but now we can't even look at each other.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay where to start, i met this lad around college and we also work together, was great we got chatting on myspace then he gave me msn was all going well, there was a college party there and it was also my birthday, i had a rather huge amount to drink, and i came over to where ... (402 words)

I miss her so much and want her back, Can you give me some guidance please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex girlfriend broke up with me because she said she didn't love me. She said she wanted to be in love with me more than anything but can't. So it ended, i was devastated. Strangely so was she. I decided to date again and went on a date. She had a complete brake down. Fo... (248 words)

Do girls care about the size of a penis?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm just at the average size for the male penis. I was wondering, do girls care about size..i mean, they have to a little right? I'm 17 and only 5.5-6 I'm thinking that's small for my age.. is it? ... (46 words)

Will only one emergency contraceptive pill have the right effect, as I've lost the second one?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 I have a urgent question about the emergency contraceptive pill. 3 nights ago I had unprotected sex and I don't think the guy came/ ejaculated. Just to be safe the next morning approx. 8 hours later I bought an emergency contraceptive brand that came with two small... (162 words)

Any tips on getting rid of unwanted hairs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

- This is kind of embarrassing, but, does anyone have any advice about what to do about small dark hairs at the corners of your mouth. As a female, it's not very attractive. I used to never have any, but now I do. Is electrolosis a good idea, or some kind of cream? They aren't ... (66 words)

I'm trying to lose weight, it's getting to me, I'm beginning to self-harm. Please help me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

7 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey Aunts and Uncles, I could really do with your help here! I've been trying for about 2 months now to lose weight. This is going to sound silly, but I feel like my abdomen (i think it is) sticks out too much, and everyone else seems to have such a flat stomach. Nothing else ... (182 words)

We broke up, but we can't seem to let go of eachother, what should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of almost two years broke up with me three weeks ago but we still talk on the phone almost everyday. Recently, we've admited to eachother that we still have strong feelings for eachother and that we miss eachother a lot. We haven't been able to date anyone new ... (135 words)

His children are controlling his life, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age - How do you get a man to stop allowing his grown kids to control his choice of potential mates? They just don't want him to date anyone and i think that this is unfair. Inheritence is one of the reasons probably and i do not think that that is the only reason. They are very... (99 words)

How do I stop myself from feeling embarrassed all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is a really stupid thing. But at school i'm really unconfident, i can barely answer any questions in class without getting well, embarrassed. I don't know why but i just always do, then i try hard not to get embarrassed and i just look worse. What can i do? x... (57 words)

He wants me to have sex with as many men as I can....in one night!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Im 17 and gay i met this guy and i really like him the only problem is he wants me to have sex with as many men as i can in 1 night and predictivly the rest of my life, as it turns him on. I really like him so i want to do this and imagine it will be ok, as how b... (91 words)

How can I make my breasts bigger without surgery?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there anyway to make your breasts bigger? Without surgery? x... (12 words)

How do you get a guy to tell you that he loves you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you get a guy to tell you that he loves you? During intercourse I have had a strong urge to tell him, but should I wait to hear it from him first?... (34 words)

How do I make a guy love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I make a guy love me?... (8 words)

I'm depressed and need to lose weight fast, Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Well...urmmm i'm being bullied about my weight and i eat healthy and excercise regulary but I'm still fat!!!:( I get really depressed about it and have self harmed over it:( Umm and all my friends are like the perfect size and I really want a boyfriend but i feel i am too ... (94 words)

I go to Explorer Scouts and I have a crush on a fellow Explorer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I go to Explorer Scouts and I have a crush on a fellow Explorer. She is really cool and pretty, and really likes me, but more as a friend (I think), though she always leans on etc, which is lovely. The problem is, she's a year older than me. I know it doesn't make ... (127 words)

Is there anything I could do to get boys to like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i can't get a boyfriend my problem is that no lads what so ever are interested in me and i'm feeling left out all of my friends have boyfriends and i have no one and always feel like the goosberry when we go out i think it's because i'm on the chubby side have a drooping eye ... (104 words)

Is he telling me he wants space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. We have been through a lot including abortion. 3 days ago I was ready to walk out because he's always flirting with this one girl and I have explained to him that it hurts me. I understand that it shows I have tro... (173 words)

My mum and dad are so protective, I don't know what to do to make them not like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum and dad are so protective, i dont know what to do to make them not like this? They say were only protective because we love you, but i dont want to be controlled all the time.. what can i do?... (42 words)

Does sex hurt first time?!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Most of my mates have had sex and they say it really hurts first time. I feel so left out when they talk about it because i havnt had it yet. Does sex hurt first time?!... (37 words)

Why do they treat me differently when we're all together.?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two amazing best friends that i love so much! However when all three of us are together they are quite nasty to me. I know that sometimes they are only joking but it still hurts seeing as i am so nice and kind to them. And then if im with them seperately they are so l... (87 words)

Should I give up football or not so I can do things I want to do with friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive got a slight problem. Im really into football, and am doing really well at it at the moment. But all my friends are into smoking drinking and things like that. I do it with them aswell but its effecting how well i play football. I dont know whether i should give up... (74 words)

My 16 year old daughter is dating someone 38!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - All Moms My 16 year old daughter is dating someone 38! I have told her and him both what I think of this situation. I realize that legally I can't do anything about it, as here you only have to be 14 to concent to sex and at 16 she could move out. But i will only tolerate... (106 words)

When to admit to a guy that you love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - how do you know when to admit to a guy that you love him?... (14 words)

I'm fed up being left wondering where we stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey Guys, please help I really like this guy I have been dating! He wants to move slow.(Even though we have made love and it is unbelievable!) he doesn't talk much about what he likes, just that I will find out in time. He want to get to know me first. That is fine, but... (150 words)

I cant say no to being with the love of my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So me an my boyfriend of almost 6 months just broke up, an I dont know what to do honestly, he came over friday night and we hung out for a little while then he broke up with me, i was heart broken so we talked for like 2 hours then we got everything out in the opend an he ... (255 words)

I want my ex husband back, but he's with someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been divorced from my husband for just over a year. we were together for 16 years but only married for 6 years. We couldn't have children despite having IVF and there was a lot of tension between us. He treated me very well but was a little controlling and in the last 2 ... (478 words)

I just want my younger bf to grow up and be able to take care of himself.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 8 months have been having problems recently. He is younger then me by 2 years(18 and I'm 20), and he pretty much left his old life (friends and even family that he doesn't get along with) to be with me and start something new. The problem is due to his lose of a ... (261 words)

Potentially Gay boyfriend and relationship trouble!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i just need some advice on this issue (it's kind of long!): So I'm in college and my boyfriend of 3 years and I were involved in this performing arts activity that had us travel two hours away from school every weekend. We ended up staying at this guys house on the wee... (591 words)

He wants me to stay and let him prove that he will never hurt me again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost six years. He has been a really great partner and friend. However, he has cheated on me with around 7 women. All of whom he said he just had one time sex with. He has never told me or given me reason to suspect anything. I always ... (194 words)

I am in love with my boss, but I have to leave.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been sleeping with my boss for the past 12 months. He is divorced and I am almost divorced. I just can't seem to work in the same company with him. We get along great out of work, but at work things are very strained. I want to quit my job. Do you think this would be ... (94 words)

Has anyone got ideas on how I can make friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, I am 19 years old and I am in university. I have never had a true friend in all my life. whenever I try to talk to people casually, or continue conversation as part of a group the person or persons involved ignore me, or start talking to each other after an e... (286 words)

When will he get in touch with me again? I do not want to be the one who makes the first step.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i broke up with my bf 3 days ago he said he does not have time for me as he has a lot of studying to do. I did not insist on patching up things as I did not want to look like a desperate woman. How long will it take before he gets in touch with me again as during those 3 days ... (126 words)

If he and another girl are calling each other surely that is cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to know if ure b/f calls another girl and that girl calls him also, isn't that cheating. Why i'm saying that is cause he already did that to me they used to call each other with some other girl, but then he used to tell me that she's just a friend but later on i ... (164 words)

How do you tell an ex you are still in love with them ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you tell an ex you are still in love with them 8 months after the break-up, I'm still good friends with him, and I don't want to ruin that, plus I'm unsure if he's still with his current girlfriend..Please help, I'm not a very brave person :(... (49 words)

He swears his not having an affair.-Do I believe him or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi a few months ago my husband and I had a lot of problems. Anyway he decided to move out for a while to clear his head. But before he moved out a friend of mine suggested I look into his phone as it sounded like he might be having an affair. So I did. To my shock I found ... (283 words)

Chance of pregnancy if I didn't take the pills the exact time I was supposed to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm on birth control pills and take it everyday but not at the exact same time for couple of days, i had a very short sex with my bf with no condom,although he didn't have an orgasm but i'm just thinking if there's any risk of pregnancy cos i didn't take the pills the exact ... (65 words)

I really want to meet up with childhood friedn again but mum wont let me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive known this boy i like since i was about 4. But weve only jus recntly been talking well for the pst 7 or 8 months. I really want to meet up with him again, and we have arranged to so many times but my mum wont let me meet him, i dont understand why seeing as she knew him... (68 words)

My boyfriend is too close to a guy who has a vendetta against me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently went away with a group of friends for the weekend, one of which has a particular vendetta against me as I refused to sleep with him a few years ago. My boyfriend has returned very cocky... not nasty, just full of himself an inconsiderate. He also didnt ... (66 words)

Everyone laughs at me because of breast size!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15. And i have like no breasts, everyone laughs at me because of it seeing as all my friends have like either B or C cups. What can i do?!! x... (34 words)

Any tips for virgins?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ill be honest!!!im a virgin..i havent had sex before..im turning 19 this year...say decide that i wana do it now...how do i start??what position do i start with??what if im not good at it....please help i need all the advice i can get...i dont want a short brief answer so ... (65 words)

I cant stand the thought of them being together.so please help me find a way for her to leave this guy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - uhm..well theres this girl in my life!!she means the world to me!i love her.she loves me from what it seems!!one little problem...she has a boyfriend..but we have talks about being together..we cant live without each other...i saw her this weekend and we kissed!!!our first ... (115 words)

Fiancee lied about past sex life, what to do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my fiance a little more than a year now. We were talking one day and our past sex life came up. I was a virgin until I met him. I've always strongy believed in sex after marriage, and I made a big mistake breaking it, but I'm at least glad I lost it to him, ... (283 words)

He's currently in an on/off casual relationship with a girl but should I go ahead and tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i know im young but i think im falling in love with my boy mate. i seem to think of him all the time, i miss him when im not around him n i just want to be with him all the time. i feel strange though because i didnt think i could fall for someone that im not seeing! hes ... (94 words)

How much time is time? How long should I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

7 April 2008 (?) - Hi aunts (and uncles) I just need to get opinions on what to do next - I am with my guy over 2 years and we split up nearly 4 weeks ago over something silly and stupid (even tho it was mostly my fault/idea to break up in the first place). But we met and talked things th... (282 words)

Should I apologise, even though I feel indignant about HIS behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for three years and we share a small flat together. On Saturday night he had his mate stay over. Despite my offerings to stay at my mums my boyfriend insisted that I stayed in with the two of them. After working all week, and suffering from epilepsy... (203 words)

What should I do and what are your opinions on his MSN "friend"?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey.. I have been going out with my partner for 2 years next month, and up to now, its been up and down (the relationship). We used to go out for car drives so we could relax together, go to the cinema, go out for something to eat, be adventurous, but now.. he says he... (733 words)

I'm in love with my boyfriend of 10months but I have a feeling that he is still seeing his baby's mother!

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm inlove with my boyfriend of 10months but i have a feeling that he is still seeing his baby's mother and that he is keeping things from me! he has not introduced me to his family or even his daughter and her mother but he keeps telling me that he love me and cares for me, we ... (136 words)

How can I get my sex life back?

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7 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married since October last year. We had been living together from January last year though. Up until we got married our sex life was good, but since we have been married we haven't had sex once. I just don't feel like it anymore. I know it is not my ... (179 words)

He felt like a father to me, but now he's left. What can I do?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - can someone please help me?? x okay im 12 yrs old nd i go to a school in milton keynes... i have a great relationship with my tutor...i tell him everything..nd i feel like i can really trust him..then i had a tutorial with him nd he told me nd my mum that he was leaving at... (386 words)

We both liked each other, now he's sleeping with someone else. What now?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A lad ive liked for a while now, n who said he liked me, has started having "casual sex" with a woman in her middle/late 20's. we werent in a relationship but we were almost there and now i feel like he strung me along a bit? now hes saying that we can still "do things ... (107 words)

Why does it feel as if my ex, is rubbing it in my face that she's happy now?

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7 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about 2 months ago, saying she felt like we'd grown apart and the relationship had run its course. We tried for two weeks before the final breakup to sort it out, having alot of fun but it only ever deep down felt like friends. So, ... (257 words)

How soon after conception will my breasts start hurting?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Just wanted to hear from the ladies who has been / are pregnant. How soon after conception did your breasts start hurting? I know it differs from woman to woman, and i have also been pregnant twice before. Thanks.... (48 words)

How can I trust him again? What can I do?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, Ive got myself into s suituation and now i cant see any light at the end of the tunnel. Ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 year and now im living with him. in the beginning of our relation i was happy until i read a message that he had kissed someo... (329 words)

Thinking of going to a club tonight - alone. Should I?

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7 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, quik question. A club in town that I like to go to apparently does well (gets lots of people to come) on monday nights. I'm considering going, but none of my friends can make it. I guess I would be going out in the hope of finding a girl and connecting well with her. B... (112 words)

If my boyfriend pulls out, could I still become pregnant?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have unprotected sex everyday yet he pulls out. what are the chances of me falling pregnant? ive heard there high but yet for four months ...nothing. could something be wrong?... (34 words)

I cheated on him 3 times in 2 yrs. I broke his heart, but I want him back, please help.

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love him so much I cheated on my 2 year boyfriend 3 times. He loved me so much and i broke his heart and he eventually finished with me. I was scared of falling in love then loosing him as i had been there before with someone else and it hurt, so didn't want to be in that s... (153 words)

I want to ask her out, she thinks I'm 'army fit', but I get the feeling she'll say no.

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7 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I need help - so here's the story: I'm 14 and am madly in love with a girl that i'm friends with, i have already told her that i love her but i have not asked her out, all my friends have told me to ask her and that she would probably say yes. One of which i... (142 words)

I want to be able to touch or kiss him somewhere other than his penis to excite him.

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and everything is fantastic. When it comes to the bedroom department though i can't do anything to really turn him on other than his penis. Whereas when he touches me somewhere or kisses me somewhere I go crazy for him. I want... (124 words)

How can I find a man for my wife?

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7 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How can I get my wife to have a threesome with another man?... (13 words)

Should I give him a month to think things through?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - "I have been with a guy for 7 years who is not ready to get married yet, we are both approaching 30 and to make things worse we have been living in different cities for 3years now. Our relationship has survived the distance until recently when we started having fights. I told ... (231 words)

I'm afraid my mum will kick me out when she finds out that I'm pregnant!

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay guys i need your advice.... I'm 14 going on 15 and i am pregnant, i would really like to keep the baby but i am soo young, im not the type of person to give it up or have an abortion i think its so mean! my boyfriend says he will be with me every step of the way which is... (126 words)

My marriage limps along and I feel so lonely...please help!

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - would be pleased to hear from anyone else with similar experience or who could help.... When I got married in my early 20's my mother-in-law had already taken a dislike to me. It wasn't the classic 'not good enough' routine. It was fundamentally that I was not what she... (785 words)

Should I go to Australia and be with the man I love, or make a go of my marriage?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm really desperate for advice - sorry this is a long story. A couple of years ago I separated from my husband (of 12 years marriage - total 18 year relationship). Our relationship had deteriorated to such an extent that we had not had sex for several years, positive ... (968 words)

She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.

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7 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She moved away but there is still feel... (141 words)

How do I tell my best friend that I like her when she just started dating a new boyfriend?

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7 April 2008 (M) age 30-35 - I have a very close friend who for a long time had relationship problems, mainly she hasn't had a real relationship. She was into a guy for a very, very long time who showed no interest in her until recently he asked her out. She said yes even though she was finally starting to ... (586 words)

Why is he so distant with me? Is it because he's never had a girlfriend before?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a week ago through friends since I just got out a bad relationship. He's 20, I'm 23. He's never been in a relationship, no girlfriend at all. We have seen each other about 4 times in 7 days and 2 times he made plans, and he didn't show because he feel asleep. He... (118 words)

Should I have been more appreciative or is it right to expect a little more fairness within the household?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been living with my boyfriend and his best friend for about a year and recently the best friend has become increasingly selfish and obnoxius. For example, taking my work clothes out of the dryer without telling me and putting in his own and eating food and not replacing ... (133 words)

I have painful reactions after sex and sometime even during.

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7 April 2008 (F)

- ok where is my sex experts. ok, i have a problem. this happens ever so often i have painful reactions after sex and sometime even during. its hurts so bad i can't even walk sometimes. it hurt under my stomache in my vagina and i can even feel it in my rectal area. what could ... (77 words)

Am I with the right person or should we make a clean break?

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7 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Am I with the right person? I've been dating my high school sweet heart since senior year for 2 years. I believe that this girl will be the best mother to any children she ever has and that is definitely one of her most attractive traits for me. After all, if I planned ... (469 words)

I want the baby and the boyfriend, but he has commitment issues!

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been having problems for sometime. I always feel like he's hiding me and maybe seeing other people. I always feel like he's lying to me about something. He definatley doesn't treat me right. He's told me he has fear of committment and he's trying to ... (338 words)

My girlfriend has a huge problem with me being friends with my ex! What do I do?

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7 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I had a 8 year relationship in which I was engaged and very close to a woman. That ended three years ago. Recently, I began dating another woman and it has become serious. I felt to resolve the feelings from my past that I would need to make friends or become friendly with my ... (372 words)

Should I bust out the question and ask her out or take it slow and see if we vibe better?

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7 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Theres a girl who I am totally attracted to. We just met a few days ago but we seem to have so many things in common: our hobbies, books, movies, lifestyles etc. Last night after we saw a concert I asked her if we could kiss...we did for awhile it was awesome....she s... (214 words)

Anything wrong with a 19 year old male dating 26 year old woman?

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7 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! I was wondering, is there anything technically wrong with a 19 year old male dating a 26 year old female.. with two twin kids? Maybe it's just a crush, but I believe I'm pretty into her. Obviously older men date younger girls, but is it frowned upon the other w... (74 words)

Was he just goofing around or is he genuinely interested?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - there is a man i work with and i don't know what to make of his behavior. i want to know if he is just goofing off, relieving some boredom making our day a little interesting, or if he is really interested. he has been looking down my shirt and i let him. the other day, he ... (163 words)

Does a period sixteen hours after having sex mean no chance she is pregnant?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If a girl gets her period sixteen hours after having sex without a condom does that mean she won't get pregnant????... (21 words)

I can't figure this man out?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age - I've been dating a man who has been separated for three years, but has not divorced his wife. He has very low self esteem and drinks daily. He constantly feels the need to frequent bars and seek attention from females but does not sleep with them. He deeply cares for me but has ... (129 words)

My mom hates my new baby girl!

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been having sex with both my husband and his best friend (his first cousin) for 11 years. we were to be a double date when we were 17 and Jackson's (my husbands cousin) date did not show up. so we went out as a trio and been that way ever since. we dated for 2 years ... (585 words)

Why won't he admit he is dating?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a professional relationship with a man I feel is interested in me. Recently I became aware of the fact that he is dating someone much younger than him. Because of the comfort in our relationship, I have blantantly asked him if he is dating, and he has denied it. Why ... (71 words)

Should I Confront The Man Who Betrayed Me and Stole My Sexuality For His Own Pleasure?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age - I am an evangelist in my local church. My husband and I have been sep for 10 yrs. He contracted HIV while were sep, so I know we won't be getting back together. Ran into a past love from about 30 yrs ago (this happened 4 yrs ago). We first dated and our relationship went ... (255 words)

I feel like I fell in love with somebody who never even liked me!

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Is there anything advice... I worked w/"Sam" and We became friends. Sam always said he wondered why our friendship grew as deep as it did (he was happy about this) and was very comfortable around me even if we were in the car in silence. We had a good friendship where... (915 words)

She asked me to the prom but hasn't spoken to me since?

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7 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl asked me to prom last week who does not go to my school. I haven't seen or talked to her in three months. I keep trying to get a hold of her to make plans, but she doesn't answer her phone or my text messages. I've talked to her friends to make sure she was still ... (128 words)

What is the best thing for me to do to cope financially with a baby?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old and I live with my boyfriend and his mother. I have recently found out I was pregnant. My boyfriends mom won't let us stay here if she finds out so we decided not to tell her until we move. I want to keep the baby but my boyfriend isn't really sure he is ready ... (103 words)

How should I get birth control pills without my parents knowing?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my mom is a cop, as is my dad. i want to get birth control pills but i dont want them to know at all. should i go to my aunt for help, or sneek to the doctors? ... (38 words)

Can you help with my personal sex problems please?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14. I'm straight, and i am a virgin. I like a 15 year old who is not a virgin. I like him a lot, but we haven't met in person yet. Well we have but a year ago. Now we just talk on the phone. I don't have any boobs, and i don't know if he will care. 1. Do you think he wil... (84 words)

I want him to come back, yet my heart tells me to leave him alone.

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy told me to leave him alone because he was talking to someone else...now he's calling me back..i've been nice and i've been talking to him but my heart is telling me that i'm being used, and that he will do it all over again, so i told him to stop calling me. I igno... (103 words)

He says he loves me but he jokes about my weight. What can I do about it?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a problem, I've been with my boyfriend for about two months and because of my weight I was too shy to take it to the next level. But we had sex the other day he is very slim and he commented on my weight and hurt my feelings. We were having sex and he said "Jeez you ... (253 words)

I'm a virgin, so how comes being fingered doesn't hurt me?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've bin fingered once before and he used four fingers up to his knuckles bearing in mind his fingers are quite fat. It didn't hurt one bit and I didn't think it was particularly 'good' either. I'm a virgin and I don't see why it doesn't hurt me, yet everyone else I know say... (101 words)

I feel that masturbating is the reason my grades have dropped!

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7 April 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I do masturbate and I feel so sick about it. I'm only 13 but everyone in my family knows that I do it. I'm not sure what to do. I need help and also don't tell me about how it's so healthy, and it's natural, because I use a back massager to masturbate, and I never feel natural ... (93 words)

I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and regretful and we tried working... (125 words)

Was I too accommodating to his needs?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, I've been dating a guy since January. All we do is have sex. We've been out just a couple of times in 3 months. At first, he was head over heels for me. Anything I wanted, he was there. Now, all he wants to do is come over, have sex, sleep, then leave. Why did things c... (74 words)

Does a break count as part of a relationship?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months. Although, he wanted 'space' that; he felt not to be ready in a relationship and that he wanted his freedom back. We haven't been seeing new people but ourselves to be honest as we were clostest friends after the breaku... (119 words)

I find myself checking his email or phone to see if he's up to something.

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7 April 2008 (F)

- Ok..guys i have major issues..me and my b/f been dating for 4 years...and in the past he has done some stupid things that rocked our trust boat! But we both agreed to be totally honest with each other and things been ok.. but every now and then, well ok a little more than now... (126 words)

Am I wasting my time with this man?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Been seeing this guy for 6 weeks. He's still distant at times. Is intimate, but when we are together, he doesn't give into small talk. He states he has to get to know someone before opening up. Is this normal or am i wasting my time?... (47 words)

What is it with men when they reach their 40's ~ they only want to have sex with teenagers?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for many years and my problem started after my husband turned 40. Our sex life has gone down hill. He can no longer get hard for me. He said he likes young teens...What is it with men when they reach their 40's they only want to have sex with teenagers? Pl... (71 words)

I am completely head over heels for my neighbour, should I speak to him about my feelings?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am completely head over heels for my neighbour. We are the same age, and we get along quite well. He is a very charming person, and gets along with everyone it seems. We have been neighbors for about a year now, and talk over messenger and on occassion, we hang out and ... (152 words)

Is it natural or is my dream trying to tell me something?

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Weird thing happened to me. I was staying at my boyfriends house, we've been together for 6 months (had ours ups and downs, and loved being with him) but i ended up having a dream about my first love, saying that he missed me, it lead to kissing then to having sex but t... (350 words)

I have known him since high school...11 yrs now, should I tell him how I really feel or lose him to another??

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help... My best friend is a guy I have known since high school...11 years. We do everything together. I go to his family functions and he goes to mine. Years ago he told me that he never wanted to ruin our one of a kind friendship by trying to be more than friends, but ... (199 words)

Is it unrealistic to even consider that we may/could make our marriage work NOW??

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7 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I married in April of last year for the second time. My first marriage occurred when i was very young, wayyyy too young. It lasted less than a year and i view it as a mistake made due to my age and immaturity. This time, however, i really felt like i had found the "one." I da... (474 words)