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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I dump the trouble women while keeping one or two lookers on the side for sex and still stay with me girlfriend?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My love-life has been pretty hectic lately and I need some advice. I've been in a relationship with this truly wonderful, sweet girl for the past seven years. We get along great, do all sorts of fun things together and really care about each other. Unfortunately, she's not very ... (351 words)

What do I do about husbands sexy texts to a work collegue?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been happily married for 16 years with no cheating thet i know of. My husbadns phone beeped the other day and i lokked at it ( i know bad move!). Was message from a friend of ours all good. I looked in his out box and saw a message sent to a women that does deliveri... (135 words)

She finished with me saying she has too many emotional issues from her last relationship which was abusive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Should i wait for my girlfriend. She finished with me saying she has too many emotional issues from her last relationship which was abusive.I begged her to give us a second chance and she agreed but needs more space and time. I love her so much but I am finding it so hard as ... (115 words)

I'm worried my husband-to-be finds out my hymen has been broken, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i broke my hyman whilst dancing. i know this because i found out when i saw blood and felt pain too. im getting married soon n im very worried.will my husband be able to find out. i mean will he able to 'feel' that i dont have hyman.....please advice me. im orginally from a ... (74 words)

I'm worried that I didn't get pregnant with unprotected sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how come ive bin having unprotected sex and i havent fell pregnant. i havent bin tryin but it still worries me a bit that i havent... (26 words)

Is there a way for me to forget the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - help My current girlfriend has loved me for years. At the beginning she had almost no self esteem and asked me to a fireworks evening with her and a bi female. I turned her down and she went heartbroken with this female. The girl told her she liked her and although at firs... (216 words)

Is it ok to date your friends ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have a friend she went out with this guy somtime this year but it's been over for a while ok. Now I think I'm starting to like him a bit .... I want to know if it's ok to like your friends ex and if I do tell her about it how do I tell her .I don't think either oen still... (90 words)

Where can my friend get support to help her move away from her abuse problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I nees to find some where for my friend to move to. She is being abused and is need of going out of state because she has six children and has to find some place to call their own.... (39 words)

My girlfriend of 20 months just decided that she wanted a "break" in order to enjoy being "single" again ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 20 months just decided that she wanted a "break" in order to enjoy being "single" again and wants to try dating other people (thought she doesn't have anyone in mind). She also says it'll be healthy for us because she felt like we've been doing too much ... (91 words)

I just can't find my girl. I've never even had a first kiss and I just get so depressed every time I think about it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm new here and was just looking for some advice. I've just turned 28 and am seriously worried because I've never had a girl friend. I just feel like everyone around me is able to move on with their lives but I just seem to be stuck at the same old point. I have a lot ... (166 words)

I miss my wife. I just do not know what to do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has told me that she wants to separate and get a divorce. This came after many years of emotional abuse from my bipolar disorder. This is now no longer a problem due to accepting Jesus back into my heart and medication. During our last fight, I spilled a secret of ... (491 words)

Get back together with him and risk going through all that stress or try to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had this boyfriend for a year. On and Off and went through all this bullshit. We're in love. Even though we're young. We always went back to each other no matter what. The last time we broke up, Christmas even 2007, i wouldnt get back together with him after that. And ... (137 words)

I've just found out that my girlfriend was an adult movie star, and it makes me feel sick!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've just found out that my girlfriend was an adult movie star, and it makes me feel sick that other people have watched her having sex. She is a great girl who all my family love, and my mom has made it clear that she would be happy for her to join the family, but if this got ... (199 words)

What if my husband doesn't give me time ,so I again bump into someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys .wud like to keep it as short as possible.i am 19 yrs dating this guy(28yrs)for 1 yr now. I love him and he has been loyal to me but we never had satisfied relationship.we both live in two differnt cities and last we met was 3 months ago.so its always over phone.al... (338 words)

How to I get in contact with modelling agents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well can someone tell me how to i get in contact with modelling agents or just something to do with glamour world...... (22 words)

I need to go to my doctor with a good excuse for not seeing him when I first found out I had this embarassing problem!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I realised i had genital warts about 8 months ago. They were tiny, but after massive research, i knew what they were. I was obviously devestated. Over the 8 months they have gotten much bigger. I'm ver embarrassed. I haven't had sex in this long and i don't intend to until ... (85 words)

It still hurts when I think of how little my ex gave me emotionally. how do I get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello =] I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years over a month ago. The relationship was pretty much a chore and I always knew he didnt love me as much as I did with him. I always used to spend my money on him but rarely got anythng back. It was a take, take, take rel... (197 words)

I don't think I love him anymore, I care about him though and don't want to hurt him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have been together since a young age. I don't feel the same about him, i don't think i love him anymore, i care about him though and don't want to hurt him. He cheated on me after a year of being together and I was so against ... (106 words)

I love my fiancee, but also think about her friend a lot. Is this just because of our talk of a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been engaged to my long term girlfriend for a few months now. Recently we discussed having a threesome with another girl. We both agreed to ask one of her long term friends (they have known each other since around the age of 3). We havn't had this threesome yet, but i'm ... (91 words)

I want whoever you are to help me ask her out ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey am starting to like this girl and i was just flirting with her to get my mate jealous cause he fancys her am 16 a\nd shes 14 is that too big a age difference? we only talk on the internet because I've left school and i dont have her number but we get along realy well the... (172 words)

He borke up with me but now he wants me back-what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am confused. i had this boyfriend and then he broke up with me (a while ago). i still liked him for a while and then all of a sudden my friend came to me and told me he was regretting breaking up with me. then i got a note from him saying he was sorry and he would respect my ... (123 words)

He saw me misbehave when I was drunk and is now avoiding me! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy I really like that I work with.. He has a bit of a reputation as a slut and for some stupid reason I've slept with him.. Twice. For me, this has just made me like him even more and I don't really know what to do anymore. He's made it clear he doesn't think of me ... (160 words)

Sleeping with a married man and jealous of his wife and baby..what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im sleeping with a maried man and i thibnk i might be falling in love with him. Im jealous of his wife and i cant handle that he has just had a baby with her. what should i do?... (39 words)

I can't say NO to her. I want to make her happy even if I am not. How do we untangle this mess?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - In the past ten years I can only think of only two time that I have been happy. The first time was when I enlisted in the Marine Corps. I served in Iraq from the start until June 2003(being a senior unit and having been stateside for one month out of 13 we were one of the first ... (974 words)

Am I a sex fling or the real thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am confused. I met this guy about two months ago online we exchanged pics and decided to meet up in a bar. After talking for about 7 hours about trying to find the right person suddenly it all happened we started snogging and then ended up back at mine and had the most ama... (481 words)

How not to seem so clingy/desperate/obsessive while still trying to keep his interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I'm usually the one to give advice to my friends but alas I'm not good at actually following my own advice, so here it goes: I met a guy at a convention [he was with his friend who knows my best friend]. We hit it off and were having a really nice conversatio... (631 words)

Do these symptoms mean I might be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i could be pregnant: I feel bloated nearly all the time, Im more stressy, I have lower stomach pain and feel like something is moving in there, I have headaches, I feel tired more, And im also constipated I also dont get a period because im on the contraceptive ... (95 words)

I have cheated on my husband...and let down my best friend...by sleeping with guy she likes...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I will try to make this short, however it is not easy story is quite difficult to descibe in short sentences:) All started when I have first time cheated on my with my colleague. It almost came out, but somewhow I managed to glaze it out and we worked together to forg... (786 words)

Came on too strong with her and regret it, but wish to be friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I came on wayyyy too strong with this girl and really regret it now as she did like me but I scared her off we got on really well too......Anyway I recently asked her to go out to lunch to catch up but no reply. Admittidly I still really like her and want something e... (116 words)

He's starting to get on my nerves now...should I stick with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Im really frustrated in my head at the moment and im really hoping you can help. I have been with my bf for a little while, but recently he has been really frustrating me. everything he does gets on my nerves and he makes racist or stupid remarks which really wind me up.... (223 words)

Please someone help. Because I'm out of ideas on how to get her to do the sex stuff I want!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Big time marriage problems I'm sort of in a bind. I'm 27 now, and shes 26. I married a nice girl after dating for about 15 months. Before that she had no sexual experience at all. We have been married a year and nothing has improved. We have sex, but certain things I l... (399 words)

Should I have affair with the hot 21 year-old or stay faithfull to my wife who has recently gone off sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I will make this short and sweet.My wife and i have not had sexx in over three months and all we do is work come home eat and go to bed with some ammenities in between.We work at the same place but we don't see ach other till the end of the day. So i was asked by a co worker ... (148 words)

Is holding your pee a fetish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it a type of fetish to hold your pee? Since I was young I've found the act of holding my pee arousing. It is not just arousing to me but the sensation is so. . . I can't explain. Is this some type of weird fetish or is it just a weird trait in myself? ... (61 words)

I think my sister in law wants me and I want her to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My sister in law has become a lot more sentual around me as of late. in ten years never have we even dicussed sex, and yesterday my wife told me that she wanted me to go with her shopping. we went to go get her a new dildo.so my question is should i see what this is leading to ... (124 words)

Were the cold sores down to him and could he give me herpes??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, I had a relationship last year for 8 months, but i kept getting cold sores every couple of weeks around my mouth especially after lots of passionate kissing so i put it down to this and abit of beard burn! I have always been prone to getting a cold sore every year or so bu... (221 words)

I got drunk and cheated on my long distance partner

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've made a huge mistake. I'm in a long distance relationship, haven't seen my bf for a few months now though we talk on the phone quite a lot. Last night I got very drunk and had a one night stand with some guy I met in a club. I didn't actually like him anyway and I have ... (308 words)

Am I right in being uspet with my boyfriend or was he justified?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just wanted others' views on whether I am right in being upset over this... Last night my boyfriend was with his friends, and I was with mine. I've been having a hard time lately, trouble at home with family, trouble with my job, etc. I've kept it together until last... (331 words)

I'm a virgin, should I shave down below for my first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so im 13 and this will be my first time having sex me and my b/f are want to have sex and i just dont know if i should shave "down there" or not. and i dont want to be emberessed... (42 words)

I trust him, I just don't trust the actions of his female friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This'll sound like an overreaction from every angle, but my b/f has a lot of female friends. He is also close friends with his ex, which I find rather intimidating. His ex lives in the US (he and I are in UK), so I know I shouldn't be threatened... but I am! I trust him, b... (137 words)

He's a player and has hurt me before, do I stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, i really need help so basically this boy and i been on and off for the last couple of months. we NEVER went out but we have been hooking up. He is known as the biggest sweet talker/player. I already been hurt from him so many times but i decided to give it another ... (190 words)

I liken her alot more than she likes me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so basically i have been on and off with this girl. im taking her to junior prom . the thing is that i feel like i like her so much more then she likes me, and she treats me like shit. I want to be exclusive with her but she is hinting to me that she does not want too. i ... (172 words)

I was fingered but I didn't bleed...Will I bleed next time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - okay i got fingered by my bf but i didnt bleed if we do it again could there still be a chance that i bleed even though i didnt the 1st time????... (33 words)

How do you know the difference between a relationship and casual sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How many times should you sleep with someone before you know it is the real deal and not casual sex?... (20 words)

I deleted his porn and now he wants a divorce!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Our sex life is not normal, he watches porn (as he says rarely and not an addict). He has a huge porn collection of DVDs, webcam recordings, photos, downloaded porn. He went on a trip with his college friends and I found a receipt that he renewed webcam service for a year, an... (734 words)

Does age matter for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age - Last night I experienced the pleasure of deflowering a young lady aged 18.I felt 20 years younger!! We're mutually keen on having regular sexual intercourse from now on-particularly as neither of us has any ties. Does the age gap matter since our relationship is ... (52 words)

My boyfriend slept with my bestfriend, I can't forget it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend slept with my best friend, i cant forget and its causing problems in are relationship. I have also cheated to get even but now i feel just as bad. What can i do ?... (36 words)

He really likes me but I think we might be better as friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am so confused, theres this lad (call him J) he has told me on msn that he likes me a lot and thinks im gorgeous and everything and he asked me out on a date. we went to the cinemas and we had a really good time we didnt stop talking which was good because then it wasnt ... (209 words)

I met him online, does he just see me as a sex fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

How can I get a visa for the USA?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello there can anyone help me?Well maybe my question is a out of this forum but i need some answers. I'm from a country that is out of Europe but i live in other coutry(in Eyrope). I want start a new life in a new country everything from the beginning.My studies,my frien... (108 words)

My boyfriend dumped me after telling me he could see us together for a long time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up last week! its been really hard because 5 days before he did it he told me that he could see us being together for ages and then his reason for breaking up was that his feelings had changed towards me! he ignored my texts and we havent spoke since ... (171 words)

My wife doesn't get any pleasure out of sex with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i was married one and a half year ago. Now i m having a baby boy of 4 months. But uptill now my wife has never achieved orgasm during intercourse and complains about having no pleasure during intercourse. She wants only foreplay and fingering which always leads to orgasm. She ... (91 words)

We break up and he suddenly texts me to marry him. I accept and now he is unexpectedly in Jamaica visiting his ex family?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - me and my fiance have been having a lot of pathetic arguments lately due to trust issues,i ended it 2 wks ago after 10 days of no contact he txt me and asked me to marry him which i said yes as i love him just as much as i thought he loved me.this morning he was taking his ... (157 words)

He's my best friend and I think I love him but he sees me as a sister, do I state my feelings to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiiyah! I've Been best friends with this guy for about 3 years now and i can honestly say that i love him to pieces but we've started to drift apart recently and i hate that! :( A while back before i was going with my last boyfriend i started to feel this weird feelings abou... (155 words)

He is eager to recreate the one night stand, is this normal interest? Surprised by the repeated invitations!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am confused. I met this guy about two months ago online we exchanged pics and decided to meet up in a bar. After talking for about 7 hours suddenly it all happened we started snogging and then ended up back at mine and had the most amazing sex ever. Well we didn't have pro... (229 words)

My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?

This question has 110 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the computer down and went to bed. ... (929 words)

I feel guilty that during the while he left me alone I had online sex chats, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - hi guys.wud like to keep it as short as possible.i am 19 yrs dating this guy(28yrs)for 1 yr now. I love him and he has been loyal to me but we never had satisfied relationship.we both live in two differnt cities and last we met was 3 months ago.so its always over phon... (318 words)

I am puzzled by my colleague's behaviour, since I mentioned to her I am dating another co-worker. How to respond to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

- Hi everyone. I have been single for about a year now and there is a guy at my workplace who I have noticed and who has noticed me.He asked me out last week. I mentioned it to a friend who I work with. She is single but is in a relationship Ever since I mentioned he has ask... (132 words)

I think I could trust him but it seems like he brought up the sex topic too soon, especially that he still lives with his ex! Your advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everybody! Thank you for taking to time to read my question. I met this guy about a month ago and he really likes me. I enjoy being around him and we have a lot in common. He enjoys being around me too. However yesterday he brought up the subject of how he is sexually a... (289 words)

This morning he told me it's over...but why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok.. so the story goes... im really good friends with this lad.. have been for quite a wile..he has tried kissin me a few times..each time ive sed no. however he tried last night wen i was really drunk, n i kissed him bak but then stopped. also last night he said he will ... (128 words)

I feel so guilty that I betrayed my girlfriend -how can I forgive myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i am a betrayer.i betrayed my girlfriend somewhat 2 weeks back. Actually, i had a girlfriend in india some 7 years back.i came back to my country(nepal) to continue my college.We couldnot maintain regular communication in middle but got 2-3 letters once in a year.Well, she alwa... (560 words)

How do I get over him beause he lives to far away ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello im 15 and well my parents have students from france and spain and italy and i just i got to no one from fraance really well and fell in love with him and it was my first time and it felt really strange but when he left i was really upset which isnt like me 2 cry ov... (140 words)

Any tips to get rid of bags under eyes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm just wondering does anybody have any tips to get rid of bags under your eyes? i'm only 13 and i've had them for ages, even though i get enough sleep! ... (37 words)

I don't want to lose my virginity yet-His persistance scared me so much I thought he was going to rape me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been dating my boyfriend for 7 months im a virgin and he is not. I have done stuff with him eg oral and jerked him off but not sex. He is getting bored. He says he wants to be inside me and cum inside me and stuff but i dont really want to. Anyway i was round his house ... (298 words)

He gave me everything, he said he would never finish with me and he has now, I'm heartbroken please help me x

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my fiance for 6 years and we have a 4 year old son together, we split up recently because he hit me, but i forgave him, i love him so much and he said he finished so he doesnt do it again, which i do understand, but if you love someone you try to work things ... (171 words)

Last night me and my boyfriend had an argument, it was over something silly-do I beg him not to leave me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night me and my boyfriend had an argument, it was over something silly but it went from something little to big. He said he felt trapped and im always on his case, ive said im sorry so many time and how i need him and truely love him, im beging him not to leave me, i ne... (117 words)

Will it be different to have sex with a white girl since my new girlfriend is coloured?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i've been going out with this girl for about 2months now and we'eve agreed to have sex together pretty soon. but will it be different to have sex with a white girl since my new girlfriend is coloured? is it any better having sex with a coloured girl?... (50 words)

Why does the fact that I have big boobs make guys assume they can treat me like a slut?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im 16 and am a 5"3 size 8-10, very curvy, G chested female. I have always hated my figure so thats nothing new, but recently I've felt particularly shite because everytime I go out to enjoy myself around people my own age, for instance at parties, I get told I look like... (257 words)

I want to get back in to dating, and was wondering where to go to meet guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really close to my male best friend and we usually od everything together. We're not a couple and we don't view eachother in that way but we are really close. We spends hours on the phone every night just talking about things. Anyways, lately, he's been seeing a girl and ... (152 words)

Should stay with her and forget about her past, even though alot of my friends know about her past and make fun of me for it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I am in a situation which i myself do not know what to do and need some help. I met this girl a couple months ago and we started dating and shes amazing, the thing is her past shes been with alot of guys and alot of them are messed up and i have no clue how they go... (288 words)

How do I make her see that I let her do all the decision making because mine always trouble her?

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27 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi ive been with my gf for 2 years and sometimes it's like she doesn't give a care in the world about me. She acts very annoyed when i let her decide on what to do and where we go. i do it because that way she is happy. she said something about not enjoying herself when... (207 words)

Found out my ex-girlfreind was a swinger and had an open marriage before me. Too much drama for me, what'd you do?

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27 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - First off my ex-wife and i both agreed that we would never bring any other person into our bedroom, no threesomes, foursomes, gangbangs or any other thing like that. We are both too jealous to do that I guess, but i know everybody on here has the their own views about living ... (1079 words)

Is there such a thing as soul mates/true love, and if so what sets it apart from other relationships?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm hoping that some of the older and wiser people on here can shed some light on this for me: My last boyfriend I loved to pieces, would have done anything for. For three years I would have walked to the moon and back for that man. I find it hard to imagine how I co... (473 words)

Is there any chance of us being together in spite of our families and school trying to break us up? We pertain to different races.

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - About 8 months ago a guy from school and I started getting close.( He is currently deputy head boy and black, I'm white) At first I took everything he said to me as a joke cos I couldn't see how one of the most popular guys at school could like me. And at the time I was in a ... (365 words)

What can I do for our 2 years anniversary?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - its coming up to me and my girlfriends 2 years together and i wanted to do something for her that shows her how much i love her because last year we just went to dinner and came home and she didnt seem too impressed. any ideas? ... (48 words)

I think he's asexual! How can I try and suss whether he might think of me in that way...?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I've fallen for my best friend. But he's the most A-sexual person in the world, he's never had a girlfriend and never even hints at anything along those lines. Not to anyone. The only time he's ever mentioned anything of the sort is once when he mentioned he could have ... (245 words)

Does a blood test determine if one has AIDS or other STD's? How fast the results? Is it worthwhile to investigate my situation?

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27 April 2008 (F)

- I was just wondering is a blood test done to see if you have AIDS? If you ask your doctor to do a test for it, and you happen to have some other STD'd will it turn up in the test results or will you have to actually ask for them to test for them as well? I'm not sure if I sh... (192 words)

Who do you think passed on the infection? I feel so alone, trapped, scared and stupid...

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27 April 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I now have an STD. I feel soooo unlucky. Since my ex left me for the other women i tried to move on from him. I met someone at a bbq and 6 months later we slept together. The condom came off inside me (I dont think it fit him correctly). He also performed oral on me and looking ... (492 words)

My boyfriend stopped caring... what is left to do?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My Boyfriend Has Stopped Caring. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months we were happy to start with, got engaged and everythin, now everythings changed. he wants more time alone and when i decide to go out on the town with my mATEs he hates it and says that's the reaso... (148 words)

Is my reaction due to inexperience or is there something wrong with me?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and with my first boyfriend. I had never done anything when we started going out 4 months ago, never even kissed a guy, but he has had tons of experience. We haven't had sex but we have done a lot of other things (fingering, oral sex...) but I have never been able to ... (94 words)

I moved two hours away from him and it scares me when I don't hear from him for days!?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating since just after christmas and I'm completely crazy about him. My family moved recently though and we're not that far apart but it's still two hours and he's my only social life. I'm really busy with my own school and all but the past few ... (119 words)

Should I become a meaner person... or louder and outspoken just to be loved??

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So i am the sweetest person anyone can meet..evryone who i have ever encountered tells me that i am nice and i am really kindhearted. I am willing to be devoted to someone, care about them and be faithful...so i dnt understand why guys wont make me their gurlfriend..ive never ... (185 words)

Any advice on how to man up and ask her out? She seems out of my league.

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27 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm a 15 year old guy, a bit tall, a bit overweight, brown hair, hazel eyes. And, I haven't had a girlfriend. Yeah, it's not a big deal, yeah I've still got a long ways to go, but god is it annoying when I hear some punk go "Hey, how'd your date go? Oh wait, you didn't... (112 words)

Do we need to talk it out or could it be something bigger?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My guy and I have been together for 5 years. We've had our share of problems, including running a business together that ended up going under and him doing something stupid out of drunken anger which almost put him in jail. Both of these things happened at the same time and ... (595 words)

What is the exact meaning of this quote?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this quote,it reminds me of my best friend and I.. but will somone tell me what the meaning of it is? The friendship between a man and a woman which does not lead to marriage or desire for marriage may be a life long experience of the greatest value to themselves and ... (130 words)

I'm pregnant with his baby and didn't know he was married! I really need some help!

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have fallen in love and had a 1 yr affair with a married 53 yr. old man that has been married for 18 years and has 2 kids (17 and 13yrs). I didn't know he was married until 6mo into the relationship. He claims that he is madly in love with me and cannot stop thinking about ... (293 words)

I am succesful and enjoy the company of men but can't find any that don't want to take advantage of me!

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a twenty seven year old female, i consider myself good looking and slim. i am college educated and i have my own business but....i never have had a boyfriend....EVER!! i enjoy the company of men dont get me wrong but i just can't find a guy who doesn't want to take ... (62 words)

My wife may be interested in sex with another man. We have talked about guidelines but suggestions are requested.

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27 April 2008 (?) age 51-59 - my wife like to watch porn movies as a part of our foreplay. Recently she has developed a likeing to a particular series called PLEASE BANG MY WIFE! I know she gets turned on very much while watching this . I would do anything she wanted and we are devoted to our marriage. But ... (94 words)

Does he really want me out his life?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 18 ( and a Senior in High School) I met this cool guy ( 17, and a Junior) we became fast friends .. . he called my everyday and hanging out led us 2 hook up 3 times. When I graduated he called me for a month straight , but I never answered . The problem is I was ... (566 words)

Is it wrong to be attracted to adults??

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello! is it wrong to be attracted to adults?? i am 15 and i always say i love all these adults and people say it is weird but i dont really care. like i say im gonna marry them and stuff. am i messed up/?? oh and it's not like they say they love me too.. i just am attracted ... (63 words)

Getting Married... but it doesn't feel equal, Is it right?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a halfs years. This past December he asked me to marry him. It wasn't that romantic kinda one every girl deserves... just more like well... we should. You want to. Were happy sometimes but not most of the time. He ... (149 words)

She's addicted to gay porn and it's getting out of control!

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27 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with my girlfriend of five months. She's addicted to gay porn and it's getting out of control. She has always been very honest about her interest in porn. At first, this didn't bother me in the slightest as I watch a lot of porn myself. But now her habit seems ... (154 words)

I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend ?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid ... i really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and he said he likes me alot but he still likes his girlfriend. i told him i would wait but not too long and that i wouldnt ruin their relationship. he always say i love you when its just us but when shes around h... (78 words)

Commitment, personal issues, past-- how to not lose her

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27 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 months now, she recently has broken it off with me, but still gives me signs that she doesnt want to leave. we moved in together after 2 months, she stayed with me while she looked for a place and eventually we both agreed we e... (359 words)

Is it possible to have great sex without falling in love?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - is it possible to have greatsex without falling in love im seeing a divorsed 47 male im 40 single mum im enjoying the sex he dosnt want me to get attached doi continue with this arrangment.... (36 words)

How to I get the guy who is my almost boyfriend to kiss me?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - How to I get the guy who is my almost boyfriend to kiss me? He and I see each other on average once every two weeks, because we go to different schools, and he lives near my BFF and every time i go to her house, we head over to his on bike and spend the whole time together, ... (113 words)

I think I want to do it with him but I think it's becoming an issue!

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always wanted to wait until I got married to have sex, but I've been with my bf for 3 years (mostly long distance) and I don't think we're going to be getting married anytime soon. I think I want to do it with him, because we've done everything else and I think it's ... (80 words)

1 year without sex... Do I have a one night stand now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Approaching a year since I last had sex. I haven't really been tempted to have meaningless sex, or a one night stand or anything, because I'm told that sex is so much better with somebody you love. But after a year of celibacy, I'm really feeling open to all options. Just now, ... (114 words)

There might have been sum cum still on the tip of his penis,now we're afraid I might be pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - =( My Best guy friend and I are both 16 and last night we stayed over at a friends and got sooo drunk.You wouldnt even believe it!! so we started getting extremly physical,kissing,grinding,etc...and then we took all of our clothes off and wanted to have sex,he had a condom b... (186 words)

My wife is not at all interested in sex!

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27 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i got married 2 years ago since then i can count the number of times me and mt wife had sex. My wife is not at all interested in sex. She is a doctor too. One day she told she saw her relative having an affair and th next day that relative suicided as her affair is known to ... (92 words)

Is he just doing it wrong or am I just not equiped to feeling that down there?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, ive been sexually active for a year now and it has all been with my boyfriend. Im 18 and hes 19 and he has had alot more experience then me. But he hardly ever gives me oral sex. I give him oral sex every second day we arent havin sex becuse i enjoy it and enjoy the way he ... (133 words)

He has ne gf now so why is he still coming back to me?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help figuring out my situation. My bf of 6 years and I broke up last summer. He began dating someone else and I know they met before he broke up with me. We didn't see each other for a month, then it was every once in a while and now for the past 3 months we've been ... (138 words)

What do you women see in men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

27 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a thought that I as a young, single, male have had for ages. I've never been in a relationship before so forgive me if you find this ignorant. I am absolutely head over heels about the female, the way they behave, act, look etc. From my observations I'm absolutely i... (153 words)

What does my dream about my dead friend mean

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my friend killed himself, a few weeks ago, but last night i had a dream that he was telling me he was alive we were walking to my fathers house he explained that had to pretend he was dead because of things happening in his life, he was also being sick alot and told me it was ... (104 words)

In medicine school and only one month until exams-how many hours a day study should I do?

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27 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am in medicine school and i have less than one month for my exams..i wanted to know how many hours per day of study is required???i tend to get distracted by phone,or just log on facebook for hours.how do i keep myself foucussed..... (45 words)

Should choose to stay with the boring girlfriend I love, or go for the fun friend or the hot ultravixen?

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27 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and am currently in a bit of a pickle. I have a girlfriend who I love very much and we have been in a relationship for the past two years. A year ago, I slept with a close friend of hers. I am still seeing this friend and we have slept together many times. ... (196 words)