New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login67468 questions, 297189 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
   
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
To browse questions by day in April, 2008, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (105), 2 (101), 3 (101), 4 (89), 5 (84), 6 (103), 7 (130), 8 (98), 9 (124), 10 (85),
11 (113), 12 (92), 13 (90), 14 (115), 15 (99), 16 (101), 17 (104), 18 (100), 19 (101), 20 (97),
21 (90), 22 (107), 23 (89), 24 (90), 25 (99), 26 (84), 27 (110), 28 (106), 29 (122), 30 (99),

Archived questions from: 2 April, 2008 (see latest questions)

(More questions from April, 2008)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

What do you do when your not sure what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - Mine and my boyfriend's one month anniversary is on April 5. We still have not had any sexual contact and I am very happy about that even though he is not. I feel like I am on a rollar coaster with him. He wanted me to be happier and now I am, but when I'm happy he seems to ... (109 words

My unwanted boyfriend is literally in love with me....so how do I break it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 10-12 - ok...well i have a new boyfriend everything was good at first...but now hes not attractive or anything to me anymore and i want to end it, but i dont know..and i like somebody alot. i kind of love them and they make me laugh, there sweet and just feel right..and i just used my ... (80 words


   

Do you think you can fall in love that fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - I'm 15 and I have a awsome boyfriend he's all I could ever ask for . My friend has an awsome bf too. I swear to the good lord above that I fell in love with him in a week or two and My friend says she feels the same about her guy .... All of our friends are always telling us ... (133 words

I discovered an e-mail my husband sent to a prostitute. He's agreed to a date in a hotel!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been married for 10 years. My husband has been loving and respectful. He has been working in the Middle east for the last 6 months, and I have seen him about once a month. But about a month ago, on the last visit home, something about his behaviour seemed 'off'. For the ... (168 words

I think I'm ugly and I'm afraid of sex, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - Ok, so I think im ugly and, I don't think any girl would like me. I'm afraid of sex and losing my virginity, but I want to because I feel I should as a guy. What should I do? ... (42 words

   

Do all men stay bitter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Do men ever get over their past relationships ?..I am in my early forties. Divorced and have 3 kids. Was married for 14 yrs. My marriage was awful, I got out and moved on. Have been divorced now for 4 yrs. Why does it seem like men in my age group still harbor ill will for ... (146 words

I'm going out of my mind, my girlfriend just disappeared!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - I am going crazy..recently my girlfriend just dissapeared to get with a close friend of hers and idk wut 2 do! I think about her all the time and it hurts me to know that shes with sumone else and all that I thought we had was just nothin we were together for about 9 months..I ... (72 words

How do I get my equality and power back in this marriage, and how do I deal with his threats of divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Im in need of major advice: My hubby and I just got married last fall, and already he's been threatening with divorce. Begging of this year we have moved to the US due to his work and thus I am a housewife since I am unable to work since my visa limits me. So my duties ... (523 words

We haven't had sex but I'd like some advice on blowjobs!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - Well I have been dating this guy for about 6 months we have not had sex yet and I want to give him a blowjob but I dont know how to do it!! So will you please giv me sum advice on how to do it PLEASE!... (47 words

Star signs, help this capricorn guy figure out his compatible signs!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 95 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hi I am a capricorn guy what are chance are if I went with aries female or sagittaris female will it be sucessfull or not? thanks.... (33 words

Am I just kidding myself that we're good together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my bf for 3 years, I love him more then anything, but some times he really does talk down to me and I feel really low from this. If I spoke the same way to him, he seems to still be able to turn things around, and I still end up feeling low. Apart from this we ... (111 words

He is married and said to be a player, we've been intimate already and I feel... addicted to him! How to stop the affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - I am 17 years old and have a male friend who is 35, i really like him but we can't be together because i am not yet 18 and plus we live in a very small town of about a 750 pop. and there would be problems, he is known to be a player, he is married/separated, and has 4 kids. I ... (112 words

Is he taking advantage of our friendship?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - My friend's name is Miguel and every time that he talks to me he is always asking for a favor...I mean he never calls just to say hi..For example yesterday he told me that I should go to his baseball game with Laly ( who is his crush)I was thinking to myself I am not a ... (98 words

When is the best time to meet a person you've only talked to via Internet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - hi we been chatting on net for six week now we not met yet i wonder whn is best time to ask each other phone number or arrange to meet up thx... (36 words

My girlfriend never wants sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - Hey there, Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 1 1/2 years. We have a pretty strong relationship but there is one problem. She never wants sex. She tells me that she just doesnt like it. Its as basic as that. I mean about 6 months ago we had it quite regularly and ... (113 words

I feel that as we are married, I owe it to him to at least try and revive our marriage! What are your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have been having an affair with a married man at work since last December. I love him more than I have ever loved anyone and cannot stop thinking about him. I told my husband last weekend as I cannot continue living a lie. My husband reacted desperate to keep me and aske... (182 words

Not sure, did his fingering break my hymen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Ok well my boyfriend was over at my house last night and he started to finger me. Well he got deeper and deeper and then after I would say like 5 minutes he pulled his fingers out and we both notice there was this light blood. Well at first I thought it might be my period cause ... (114 words

Any advice on how to seduce her (the wife of my best friend) at the earliest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am in love with wife of my best friend. She have two kids.I alwayes thinking about her.Ocasionally she touched me in normal maner.she hold my hand while she joking with me.Even she wanted to dance with me during valentine party in presence of her husband. I didn't like to ... (94 words

My BF wants me to have sex to his friends to make them jealous, I'm tempted to cede... should I do so?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - My bf wants me to have sex with his friends. he says I am so good he wants to make then jealous. I'm half tempted to do it because a few of then are really cute and I want to keep him happy. Most of them have seen me topless and almost naked at parties. My question is should ... (65 words

I love my sister with all my heart but lately she's been very nosy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - I'm a 13yr old girl. I've been going through depression for almost 2 years now. I've been really sad and feeling lonely. Ever since I was like 10 or 11, I've been a really sensitive and emotional person. My feelings get hurt really easily and my moods change really quic... (112 words

Do you accompany oral by manual stimulation?...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - How do you give somebody oral? i know you use your mouth but do you use your hand too??... (19 words

I'm friendly and nice but I don't make friends because people are all different than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi I've always felt like i dont fit in. I have a few close friends but although im really friendly and quite nice, ive never made many because they arent like me, if you get what i mean. Ive never had a boyfriend either and im not too bothered about that, if it means... (131 words

For some unknown reason he's stopped ignoring my calls and I'm nothing without him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - my bf hasnt contacted me for over 3 days. i really miss him, its not like him, he texts me like every minute of the day. im so worried about him, i cant go to his house as he lives like 2 hours away. hes ignoring my calls and text messages. i feel so stupid, asking for help ... (94 words

I'm terrified... I MUST be pregnant!!!???

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Please can someone help me, I need advice as soon as possible! I asked a question a while ago about the effectiveness of the pill and my chances of getting pregnant because I was really worried. Well, I've still got two weeks till I finish my pack and then I will see if my ... (380 words

Is it normal to have sex only once or twice a month?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Okay,another l-o-n-g story/question. I know that you will not always be on the same page (couples) but is it normal to have sex only 1-2 month, he has to initiate because he flinches when I touch him (says I always tickle him), so I'm shellshocked and the same in the entire ... (108 words

I want a bit more attention from him, how can I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - I don't know if this is just me being paranoid or whatever... but if you can help please do =) basically me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now.. but it almost feels like he's ashamed or something. I'm a school kid by the way and I get the occasional hug and ... (99 words

How can I make my GF climax without clit stimulation, just penetration?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Is there any way that i can make my girlfried come without clit stimulation and just penitration?... (17 words

How to tell him that I want to wait without him breaking up with me?...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - I'm dating a guy who's 8 years older than me and I'm 17. He kind of freaks me out a little, because everytime we talk on the phone or in person it always goes to getting in bed. I really don't feel comfortable doing that so soon, but i seem really pressured, and I don't know ... (92 words

I want to give him something when I leave just to say thanks for everything he's done but I don't know how he'll react.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F - Hi, I leave school in May. I get on really well with a teacher and he calls me a mate. In the past I've given him a leaving present when I left in Year 11 and I gave him a birthday present once. I was going to give him a birthday present in December but he said he didn't w... (137 words

We are only friends, now I have a boyfriend he doesn't like it one bit!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hey everyone, I have read a couple of questions and answers about this subject but I would like to ask it anyway. I am currently studying at uni and am sharing a flat with someone who was my friend. The thing is I met my boyfriend about 5 weeks ago and my friend decided he did ... (230 words

We ended it but now she wants me back, do you think it will work out this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 13-15 - dear cupid, I've been having a few problems with my girlfriend. I've had been with her for 6 months but she told me she didn't love me anymore, and once we had ended it she jumped into a relationship with another lad who was her friend. Their relationship has ended now and ... (92 words

Ways to win my baby's father back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - My fiance has stopped contact with me coz he saw my ex at my home one day. We were planning to marry this year coz we have a 1 year old baby. Now he is hurt and has moved to another city to avoid us but he still loves me and our baby a lot but doesn't trust me anymore. Please ... (70 words

I split up with my ex but I can't be his friend, it hurts too much...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F - I split with my ex a while back, although I know deep down I still like him. He was awful to me and treated me like dirt hence the reason we split up. He used to call me slut among other things, ignore me, spit on me and when I got pregnant he begged me to have an abortion ... (326 words

How do I deal with my emotionally cheating BF?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Last October, i found out that my bf was talking on the internet with a girl who i disliked (because i think she liked him). He talked to her for about 2 weeks without telling me and when i found out, his excuse was that he didnt think he had to tell me. at the time when he was ... (636 words

Mother threatened to kick me out of the house if I continue dating my BF, as she hates his nationality, what now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I have a problem. my boyfriend is vietnamese and i am chinese and vietnamese. my parents are seperated and from then on, my mother hates vietnamese people. She found out about my boyfriend and shes threatening me to leave him or else she will kick me out of the house. what do i ... (64 words

We are both poor communicators, I'm afraid this could ruin our marriage, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - My new husband and I have both been married before and both situations were not pleasant. When we went to our pre-marriage counseling one of the biggest issues was "communication" and it still is an issue. Neither of us knows how to communicate! He and I both hold everything ... (176 words

Cut all ties with him or continue being friends? (he's married)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - i had sex with a friend who is married. I went to school with him and i know him so well,i have really fallen for him and he has 4 me. we vowed never to have sex again though. and we havent. it was a year ago. it has still been so difficult to be around him and although we dont ... (172 words

He never pleases me in bed when I ask to be pleased, should I surrender to his phantasy, a threesome, because I love him?....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend really wants a threesome with another girl, hes always said before me and him got together about how its his fantasy and i do want to give it to him because i love him and want to give him what he wants. But im too scared to, i worry that it might damage our ... (205 words

My BF has been visiting sex chat rooms... should I be alarmed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - Hi every one. Today i was on my boyfriend of two years computer. When i wen to type a website in the address box a list of previous websites came up. There was a single chat room one and one like face party but you meet people on there for sex. I burst in to tears when i saw ... (129 words

You can't be 100% happy and completely satisfied all the time, can you?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend 3 months. We are still in that 'honeymoon' period, and I really fancy him, physically and personality wise. But sometimes I have doubts. Is this normal? You can't ever be 100% happy and completely satisfied all the time can you?... (50 words

Do I make men behave this way or I just "pick" men like this, the aggresive and controlling type? Is this reason enough to leave them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I recently went on holiday with my boyfriend (3 year relationship) and it went badly - we argued and at one point he moved towards me in such a way I thought he was going to hit me. I threw a cushion at him and he shoved me backwards I fell on the floor bruising my back. Alth... (245 words

I'm hurt thinking my ex preferred my best mate...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - i'm a bit confused, i split with my ex 3 months ago now and found out recently she likes 1 of my best mates. Before we started dating she had been dating a different best mate for a week or two but changed her mind and asked me out. I found out whilst dating her that had anot... (135 words

He is addicted to the internet and I I feel like I can't get any attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F - hi, I am so depressed at the moment, heres the story. I know its a bit boring but bare with me.. I've been going out with my partner for 2.5 years and we have been living together for about 6 months now. We've alway been a fiery couple but deep down we love each other. 2 we... (295 words

She tries to bring me back in... but keeps me at arms length. Why is she doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M - My ex and I have been split up since November. When she broke up with me she said she didn't want to lose me completely. So we've been in limited contact via text messages pretty much ever since. There's been times when I've really missed her and have told her so by text... (406 words

He has a girlfriend who works at the same place. So why does he keep looking at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I see a bloke every week where he works. A couple of months ago, I noticed him looking at me.(staring). He does this every week and when he's talking to his work mate, he continues to stare at me. I think he likes me. I asked him a question regarding the items which they have a ... (175 words

I am so energetic when I'm doing sex-advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - I am so energetic when I'am doing sex. I am morethan 30 years old and Still I can't satisfied because of HIV(doing with condum) so who can share me????????. or what do you idvice me??????.... (35 words

What is lying?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Just a quick question for everyone, in your opinions does not saying anything (and letting the other person assume – whilst not telling them the truth but also not lying) constitute as lying?... (33 words

I cant stop thinking about a night of wild sex I had with a good friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - i cant stop thinking about a night of wild sex i had with a good friend. we still speak normally but now and again i have phone or text sex with him. I am crazy about him. but is it because of sex or is it love? i dont always think about him that way and he was ill a few mo... (116 words

Now his wife is gone is it ok for us to be together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - ive been seeing a man 4 just over a year and we have a strong emotional bond as we have come through a lot of problems. he is brilliant and funny and supportive and has been my best friend. I fell in love with him during last summer when we spent a lot of time together he is ... (242 words

I feel I have no self esteem because of the things shes said to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 112 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Im a 20year old woman and my girlfriend is 35. She os my first partner and weve been together for just over a year, everything was perfect at the beggining but now its all falling to peices. In the past we tallked about marriage and starting a family in the future, she could ... (216 words

Ejaculation medical query-help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - after i masturbate and cum (and get all cleaned up) 4 minutes later cum starts coming out of my penis again (its yellower and stickier) when i haven't even touched myself! is this normal?... (34 words

I masturbate but it doesn't feel as good as people say it does.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I masturbate but it doesn't feel as good as people say it does. what happens down there when you orgasm. i stimulate myself but it doesn't seem to work.... (29 words

I'm lucky in love but feeling bored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Im 45 just divorced then met this lovely man 63. I love being round him. He always makes me laugh. I feel really lucky to find love again right after my divorce. We've been together a year and all we do is shopping at supermarkets or watching telly at home most of the time. ... (98 words

Help-My boyfriend is a 16 year-old stoner!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - I have been crying these days because i have no idea what to do. My boyfriend is 16 and im 14 turning 15, we love eachother very much but the thing is lately he has been smoking weed actually he has smoked for about a month now and has got stoned about 3times everyday!... (377 words

Is my husband gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - My husband is 34 and we have been together for 4 years and we have a baby boy,for the past 2 years i have caught him on gay websites many times!and he allways say he hasnt been on them..I know he has. he is gay.... (45 words

I lost my virginity 17 days ago and I have bled ever since!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

2 April 2008 (? age 16-17 - i lost my virginity 17 days ago and i have bled ever since. i dont know why i am still bleedin. i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and im 15 hes 16 he isnt overly big or anything. does anyone know why its made m bleed like this. its not like a period =S its really ... (82 words

I'm nearly 16 will I ever get a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (? age 16-17 - i no this will sound silly. but im 15 and i do ave a fair amount of friends at school. theres about 15 of us that hang around on a break and lunch and i sit will different people in all my lessons. i always have someone to be with and have many many friends. but im turning 16 ... (308 words

My man is off with the Navy for 4 months, any other army/navy partners out there who can help this first-time home alone girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now - although its not a huge amount of time we are both completley in love. he has started trainig to join the merchant navy, for the past few months he has been living on campus of the college and we have saw each other pretty much ever ... (116 words

This is more to do with my bestfriend rather than my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (? age 16-17 - this is more to do with my bestfriend rather than my bofriend. i have been going out with my boyfriend now for 19 months. i adore him he means absolutly everything to me but ive actually known him for about 8 years. we met in primary school when i was in year 3 he was in year... (336 words

My partner is working night shifts and I hate it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - When he has woken up in the afternoon, i have to go to work. We have 2 small children and i dont have any energy, i tried taking the baby to a playgroup, so i could make some friends, but i always slept late and I had way too much housework to do. I cant form relationships ... (152 words

I'm fed ape monkeying around, what makes a real chimpion for women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 26-29 - 'Pretty women out walking with gorillas down my street' These are the word from a famous pop song. Can someone tell me what women want, i'm confused. I've done all the talking about feelings thing and seem to get blown out for guys that can barely grunt. Help please?... (49 words

How do we regain that lost friendship so that everything else can fall into place to regain that bond?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - How do we regain that lost friendship so that everything else can fall into place to regain that bond? We have been together for two years and three months, very young relationship but have been through a lot together. Living together, we shared everything, big and small an... (99 words

Help! Husband thinks his Persil-nal washing and cleaning gifts can brooming well clean up as romantic presents!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - This thing is really bothering me and I don't know how to deal with it. Dan (my darlin' hubby) often has a habit of buying me cleaning products on occasions such as Birthdays or Christmas' and it really doesn't make me feel very special considering that my girlfriends always b... (177 words

I don't mind him viewing porn online, but am I right in drawing the line at cybersex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my current husband for almost 6 years. I don't mind him watching porn, and I don't care if he masterbates, but cybersex, or even thinking about signing up, worries me. My friend found out her husband was doing it, and actually, she knew about it, and it was ok, ... (127 words

Five guys and I like them all, but which should I pick????

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

2 April 2008 (M - HELP!!!!!! i really need some help i have a real problem i like 5 guys all at the sane time i dont know which to choose cos i know it will be slutty and unfair to pick them all lol well the 1st guy is going out with my best friendso i know he's outta the picture, 2nd is a tw... (187 words

Husband has drink problem and other issues,we need advice on how to get through this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - My partner and I have been together for nearly 15 years now, it's been on and off for the last 5 years though. He has a drinking problem which he is beginning to recognise. He actually stayed off it for nearly 6 months. However he broke out 2 months ago and when he came home I ... (308 words

Please help me, I am getting down with the way husband is acting towards me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am getting very very down about the way my husband is towards me and whenever I say about it he gets annoyed with me. If I give some examples of his behaviour...I would be so grateful for anyones opinion as I feel like I don't know whether I imagine it or not - despite it ... (561 words

What can I do to save this relationship? Any advice can help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend are together for 3 years, living together for 2 years.Last months were nerve-racking, we are arguing and fighting almost every day.I think there are 2 problems here: 1)i feel that i'm giving him much more and care about him more than he does about me,i... (118 words

Bottom line is I don't trust him-should I walk away or stay?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - id really like some advice as i have come to my last option. i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2years. it has been very hard and emotional to stay together. in the begginning he told me he was single with no kids. after a few months he kept disappearing and disappeared ... (686 words

How do we know when we are tryin g to hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - How does one know when one is trying too hard? I met a girl ona dating website just under a year ago, we've been talking all this time, and I'm absolutely crazy about her. She's the first girl I've really cared about since I seperated from my ex wife about 3 years ago. ... (315 words

I am regretting how horrible I was with her...please help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hi All, I need help and opinions... My longterm girlfriend broke up with me over a month ago now, saying she didnt have affectionate feelings for me anymore. A year previous she had said the same, but we managed to work through it. She said we argued too much, and that I... (419 words

I'm sure she is cheating on me, what are the signs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - Dear cupid: I have this beautiful girl but lately she doesn't pay attention to me anymore. When i try to talk to her she starts arguements. Once she came to my house smelling all weird as if she had sex but she says that she doesn't and will never cheat on me.That she does... (112 words

Why do my parents know so much about my private business?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F - Ok this is a really weird problem and I'm gonna sound so paranoid but I really think my parents are spying on me. There have been more than a few instances where I've walked out of my bedroom and caught one of them listening at my door or "casually" hanging around outside i... (518 words

Ok I have made a huge mistake......but is it better I don't tell the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - ok i have a made a huge mistake..there is this real cute guy in college and everyone thinks that we look awsome together and i know that this guy too lets call him mark checks me out but hasnr spoken to me as yet..even i did not try talkin to him although when we meet in the ... (160 words

I need my lover but I don't want to disrupt our family with a divorce. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - i am married from last 20 yrs.my husband is 12 yr older than me . he is diabetic and so many health problems .he is not a good looking .not able to compete my feelings.imotional and physical.he is lazy.towards life.we have two kids they in there teen age . i fall in love... (125 words

I threw out my younger husband for cheating online, but I still love him what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi. I'm really in trouble. My new husband have just taken out a remortgage on my house so that he can set up in business and make a better life for us. I'm much older than him and this was a very big thing for me to do, but I trusted him as I would have if we were the same ... (625 words

He's doing the dirt behind my friends back what can I do that wont affect our 11-year friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have a best friend who has a boyfriend, Ok all of a sudden other females are trying to let my friend know that he's still talking to his ex girlfriend. Because 1 how did his ex girlfriend find out about them moving, that he has a new car, and that she knows partial of his new ... (262 words

I'm obsessed with my married boss, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I really like this boss of mine i have been obssessed over him for the past 3months but he never said anything n but always gave me this really admiring look n finally last saturday i finally asked him wat was goining on in his mind. Well it was quite bit but i left work didn... (161 words

The man I am in love with has just moved to America-How can I get through this???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - The man I am in love with has just moved to Amercia and I'm totally lost. We have spent the last 3months together - nearly everyday but at least talking/texting everyday and it has been a great time but now he has moved away (probably for good) and I don't know what to do ... (162 words

How can I make her love me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - how to make someone love you who does not have the same feelings with you. who tell you that she care a lot a lot as a friend but does not have other feelings. she also knows how much i love her.... (42 words

He wants to practice picking up women so that he can make a career out teaching other guys, I'm not happy with this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hello, I've been exclusively dating a nice guy for almost 8 months now. We've had good times together and he is always there for me when I need him. The thing is, before he met me, he was very promiscuous. (I don't have a lot of dating experience.) He's very into how men ... (296 words

My nan and his pop are first cousins! Would this affect any future children we may have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Please help. my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and have just found out that my nan and his pop are 1st cousins. we are devestated and wondering what problems there will be if we decide to stay together and have children??? ... (50 words

How much porn is too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I am 37 with two kids. My husband and I have know each other for 16 years and married for 8 years. Recently I've discovered he watches pornography every day via a free internet video. I wouldn't care if our sex life even existed but it doesn't. I don't know what is ... (89 words

Please read my beautiful fairytale like short story, and please help me if you can

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 26-29 - i am a 25 year old single, never been married before man. i am currently involved in a social/physical realtionship with a 38 year old married woman with 2 kids ( 8 and 15 ). we will have been together for nearly 3 years at the end of this year. her kids are huge fans of ... (1433 words

My boyfriend says I don't ask him enough questions, what am I supposed to ask him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - I need LOTS of answers !!! PLEASE !!! My boyfriend says I don't ask him enough questions... He's usually doing all the talking, I'm just sitting there listening mostly because I love hearing his voice, (but I would never tell him that)and I don't know what to say or any ... (95 words

Sex before marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

2 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - Sex before marrige? ... (3 words

I had a check up a few months before and have not had sex since. PleaseHelp.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

2 April 2008 (? age 18-21 - He said I 'smelled' down there...but I had a check up a few months before and have not had sex since. I'm certain I don't have a yeast problem because I have no symptoms of one...I just have this discharge that 'runs in the family'. It's clearish or milky and has an odor, but ... (76 words

Why is my husband back and suddenly being overly nice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband left me for another woman after 24 years. When he left he acted arrogant and cocky. He rarely called or visited the children. If we needed anything he always said he did not have money and I was paying all the bills myself. Now he comes to visit and gives us mone... (89 words

How do you ask some one you like to be your boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 10-12 - I like this guy and I want to ask him to be my boyfriend but I don't know how to ask him. Any Suggestions?... (24 words

Is it cool to ask boyfriend to mom's co-worker's wedding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 10-12 - I want to ask my boyfriend to my mom's co-worker's wedding, how do I ask him without it sounding wierd?... (20 words

I need advice with my relationship with married guy and my developing jealousy of his family life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - i have been dating with a married man. I love him very much and he said he loved me very much too. we meet at least twice a week . either we went out for lunch on lunch break of one hour or one weekend evenings. at the beginning i thought we were just friends and i would not ... (219 words

We've had no sex since his test, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi Help- met a gorgeous man instant attraction for both, I am 10 years older than him, sex the first week every night, then he had to go for a test, then he said he had to heal from the test, and then no sex, sleeping together, hugging each other, having dinner, watching... (100 words

Her ex doesn't know about our relationship so how can I get her her to back off from my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Im 18 and my girlfriend is 40. I have some trust issues and im finding it hard to cope while my girlfriends ex keeps ringing and texting. Her ex does not know she is in a relationship because of the age gap, my girlfriend is too scared to say. But i really hate it when her ex ... (171 words

I've been through so much s*** in my life, I'm affraid to go to sleep!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (? age 16-17 - Hi aunts and uncles. This is nothing to do with relationships, but i really need some advice on what to do. Life is a lot better than it used to be, but i still dont think i can cope with it and i dont know whats bothering me anymore!! I've had A LOT to deal with in my... (1122 words

Help he is huge and I am scared!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am an average size girl, 5'7", and I have recently started dating a man that is wonderful. One problem ... I have never seen a penis that big b-4. I have no idea what to do. I felt bad because he could tell I was shocked. Does any one have some serious suggestions on how to ... (88 words

Does he want to marry me or not?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - The guy I've been involved with off and on for 5 years, we are now living together again, asked me to marry him Jan 1st. Then cause his credit is bad, has me get the jewelry card but he would make the payments, gets two rings, engagement and wedding band, then I have to ... (107 words

My room-mate has a long distance married friend. Please can you help me tell her this is just wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - He lives far from us, I know they keep in touch but I believe it's her, the one e-mailing him, so he replies as she shows me the emails. The truth they had nothing more than friendship. But this guy is moving to Italy for a month and my friend told me she wrote to him declarin... (138 words

After seeing my ex for the first time in months, I need advice as to whether I shoud get back with him, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Saw my ex this weekend for the first time since July (we broke up in october)..(he's living in another city until september; i had to go down there for work on monday and tuesday, so we hung out all day sunday and then monday night, too) We've been back in contact for abou... (686 words

Now, I think I want my ex back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am pretty sure that I will be leaving my live-in. We have been together off and on for five years. Me bending over backwards, finally giving in. We have never done 'couple activities', besides going out to eat 7 times in those years. However, I always tried to look at the ... (105 words

Please help me sort my boyfriend out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I have been dating this guy for almost three years. He is sweet and good hearted and I love being around him. However, in the beginning I was able to overlook problems that are now a huge concern for me. First, my boyfriend is very irresponsible with money. ... (268 words

Crush on a teacher gone way too far!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

2 April 2008 (F age