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*njoimx
writes:Theres a girl who I am totally attracted to. We just met a few days ago but we seem to have so many things in common: our hobbies, books, movies, lifestyles etc.Last night after we saw a concert I asked her if we could kiss...we did for awhile it was awesome....she seemed to love it and I loved it.The thing is, the whole night she was talking about her old roomy who was a bit creepy and professed his love for her out of nowhere. Now i am hesitant to ask her out because i dont want to freak her out with another guy drama if she doesnt really like me. I cant tell if the makeout session was supposed to be no strings attached or what. I really like her and would love to date her.We didnt talk today (day after concert) but I will probably call her tomorrow to see if she wants to hang out. Should I bust out the question and ask her out or take it slow and see if we vibe better...and wait to ask her out untill later? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 Women eh!!!
what can you do!
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reader, enjoimx +, writes (8 April 2008):
enjoimx is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the help.
I asked her out and for whatever reason, I think it backfired. She said she would answer later that evening, and when she called me back that night, she avoided the subject and said she couldnt hang out that night because of previous plans.
I am just going to assume shes not interested in me, despite the smile on her face during the makeout session, and all the things we have in common, and the fact that she was telling me a bunch about herself and her life.
I am really starting to question my own sanity...not sure if i am attractive to females...starting to get a bit desperate which i am sure they notice...but what the hell?
DAMN
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (7 April 2008):
Damn it man, show some cajones! Ask her out!
What more do you need from a girl to convince you to ask her out. Good grief!
She told you about the creepy guy because she feels she can confide in you not because she fears you may be one. Honestly, where is your head dude?
Ask her out!
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