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Confused about sex and sexuality. Help please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - basically Im with a guy attracted to him, hot body, LOVE HIM makes me feel good, emotioanl connection, physical as well but never orgasmed with him, i watched a girl strip and O'd by masturbation...wats up with that? but then I experimented with a guy stripping and O'd too by ... (544 words

What does a G-SPOT orgasm feel like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im a little confused about some stuff.. I lost it to my boyfriend who i really love about two months ago.. and from those times... when we've had sex.. he cums but i havent had an orgasm yet.. im nto surprised since this is my first time having sex but .. he wants to make ... (236 words

Don't know what to do about my husband - we sleep in different rooms and he isn't attracted to me anymore.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi, This is the first time I have written to one of these sites so here it goes. I am a 37 year old mother of 2 young children and I am at a loss. My husband of 6 years in July(known him for 9)lost his job a month ago and hasn't found another one or even really tried to find ... (165 words

So confused! My Husband 'doesn't know what he wants anymore' and now I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a 34 year old Women and have been married for 7 years together for 8. We have 3 Beautiful. My husband has just recently told me that he does not know what he wants right now. That he is very confussed and that he still loves me and loves our family. But wants more freedom. ... (147 words

How do I move on with my life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - How do you forget about someone and get on with your life?? I was having an affair with a married man for 4 months and it has now ended as we've both decided to make it work with our current partners (he has 3 children). We have both told our partners about the affair and they ... (165 words

I have a crush on him but my parents are SO embarassing, how do I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm 12 and i have a crush on someone. But, my parents are embarassing so i can't ask him out and i don't know if he likes me. HELP ME!!!!... (30 words

We're both going through rough times but I really want to help him, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend to pieces, and i now he loves me too, when were together all we seem to do is talk, he's never once tried to take advantage of me, and knows i'm not ready for sex+that. He's like a completely different person when were together to what he's like around ... (221 words

How can I overcome my nervousness when I talk to girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'm 19 year old guy, i have real trouble asking girls out or even making a move and talking to them. I'm not insecure about my looks, i'm kinda nervous about akward silences or something, how can i get over it?... (41 words

This older man goes hot and cold on me! Now he's interested!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am 22 and know this man who is 10 years older than me. We got to know each other through work. He was friendly toward me so I became fond of him. We got on well outside work too until last Christmas when he started going out with a woman. They have now split and the guy seems ... (107 words

He deleted me after he found out I was his next door neighbor! Do I just leave him alone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid, i really like my next door neighbour and i have done for nearly a year now, last sunday i spoke to him for the first time on msn but he didnt know it was me and we were speaking for 4 hours and we swapped numbers then when he found out that i lived next door to him ... (118 words

How do I turn down a guy I've been having an affair with? I don't want to hurt his feelings.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I had an affair with this guy and have managed to get over him. I haven't told him about this and he's still expecting some intimacy. How do I turn him down without hurting his feelings?... (37 words

How am I supposed to have sex with someone who could be paralyzed from the waist down?!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - okayy. my boyfriend went to the doctor like 2 days ago. They said a disk in his back was out of place and if he plays any sports or messes up his back in anyway he will become paralyzed (sp?)from the waist down. when he told me that i tryed to persuade him not to play football ... (262 words

What size penis does it take to satisfy a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - what size of penis can satisfy a Girl.? Mine is 4.5 Inches on full erection...... (15 words

I'm living with a married man and I'm pregnant! He may be sleeping with his wife.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - i need advise well frist let me tell you a little about the situation, i met this man at frist i really didnt know how old he was, im 20 and hes 35, he is now my boyfriend we have know eachother for about 4 months now and well i dont even remember when we got tog... (1294 words

How long does it take an ex to come back to you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (M - Hi, Have you ever been dumped and then your Ex can back? If so, how many weeks\months did they come back? Did you use any tactics or behave in a certain way for this to happen, such as No contact etc Any experiences appreciated thx... (50 words

Mixed signals from this guy, should I ask?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm always wondering whether he likes me or not. I'm not exactly infatuated with him, but he is not a bad catch and sometimes when I think about him my heart beats a little faster. He's funny, smart, decent-looking. We talk and he asks questions about what I like etc,... (269 words

Does my husband have bipolar? Can an abuser ever change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I've been together for 6 years. We engaged and lived together for 2 1/2 years before we got married and now we married for a little over a year. During our time together, sometime, he was extremely sweet and then next minute, he acted like an "a.hole" (excuse... (1208 words

Was this sex? I'm a virgin and I'm not sure what to think of this or how to move past it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am a guy 24 yrs old and not had sex as yet.I had a aunty in relation whom I am open with. I share every problem with her .I went to a party a wedding in her relation. I was tense those days regarding my job and regarding my girlfriend. i told her that my girl friend is insis... (232 words

Am I too young to be bisexual?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Heya, im 12 years old. I just wanted to know... Am i too young to decide to be bi-sexual? Because i like watching lesbian porn and, i know it semi-normal at my age to feel like this but as i said, do you guys think im too young to decide to be bi? ... (76 words

I go to church, even though I gave head there, so I've changed! How do I let people know this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - People make fun of me because of my "sex life" but it's passst ;; and i've changed ! in my "lifetime" i've given head to 3 people i have had sex once, but it was in a church, i've gotten fingered 4 times.....and i know it sounds bad but recentley ive been going to church and i ... (88 words

Does anyone know how to make my skinny legs bigger? I need to gain weight!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hiya Everyone Just a quick question!! Does anyone no the best foods to eat to help me put on weight, i eat everything and anything all day long i have 3 meals a day and snack big time inbetween, but it doesnt go anywhere and i desperatly want to put on weight im a size ... (101 words

I see myself as a heartbroken, hopeless romantic! The thought of living without her kills me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'll cut to the chase. I'm planning to ask this girl out soon, but I have a strong feeling it's going to be no. I'm completely infatuated with her, but she's leaving soon, so thats why I'm asking. The real problem is this: I want to be rejected for some reason. I am b... (146 words

I think she likes him back and I get jealous! I'm planning on asking her out though.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - I work with a girl and I really like her. She's finishing work in a few weeks though I've worked with her for about 8 months. When we started to get to know one another, she was really friendly and chatty. I would compliment her and she would giggle, and it was really great! I ... (298 words

I feel guilty because of the way I feel about him so what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok, so i've fallen for my friends on off boyfriend...which for the sake of anonymity i'll just call 'N'. But i'll start for the beggining and explain the whole story from the start... I started working at a small supermarket in january last year. 'N' was/is my supervisor t... (459 words

Is he just shy or not interested? I catch him looking at me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Theres this guy i like and im not sure whether he likes me too, the problem is that apparently today he fancies my close friend and that she likes him back. He has known for months that she likes him and hasnt done anything about it, is he just shy or not interested? Also i ... (83 words

How can my sister go from extreme suicidal despair and psychosis to being chirpy and happy over an hour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering if someone can give me some ideas about what is wrong with my sister? She's 22 years old. When she was 17, she began suffering from depression, which led to anorexia. I personally believe that it was the acne medication Accutane that caused ... (1516 words

I feel my father doesn't enjoy his life, is only working all the time; he also misinterprets my remarks, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am a guy in my twenties. I have problems with my father. He doesnt enjoy his life. He is manager in some firm. Just goes to work, come home and sleeps.And this is his daily routine. Whereas my personality is totally different. I like to enjoy as much as I work.But this habit ... (142 words

After 3 years of relationship he told me I didn't mean anything to him and we haven't spoken since then! Will I ever get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - After a 3 year relationship my boyfriend just left me with no reasons saying it was for the best and that i didn't mean anything to him, it has been 7 months and i have never seen him or spoken to him I can't speak to his friends or family as our relationship was a secret due ... (82 words

What can I do to prepare myself for the abortion? I fear that it's going to be heartbreaking.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - this is gonna sound really stupid, but i've gotta go for a scan of my baby that i've recently decided to have terminated due to a change of circumstances with the baby's father. it is the eight week scan and i've been looking on the internet at pictures so i kind of know what... (94 words

He slept with another girl whilst with me and HE accuses me of cheating from time to time! Now I doubt how good I am in bed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay I have this boy and to be honest I love him more than anithing...how I feel about the guy is indescribable... He loves me too and were engaged But...we've been on and off fer 5 years. We broke up fer a reason that wasn't totally good enough but we stayed friend... (191 words

We're expecting our first child and he's texting his ex to ask for naked picture "for fun" !

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years, we're expecting our first child! I have started to have some serious trust issues with him, it's driving me mad and it's all started with an ex of his i caught him texting her loads of time,this was near the start of ... (197 words

My instincts are refusing me to go out with him! What's wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - i dont understand my feelings, this boy likes me he asked me out online even though he goes the same school as me. I said yes. however he asked me to go to his house the next day i sd yes but on the mornin i canceled n told him didnt want to go out with him. However I am unsu... (152 words

I caught my husband with the nanny!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I caught my husband making out with the nanny. what should I do?... (15 words

How can you tell if he's looking at you? Where do you sit in relation to a girl if you like her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Right if your standing opposite or sitting opposite a guy you really like who could like you to(i'm not sure if he does) how can you tell if he's looking at you and making eye contact or just looking infront on him and you just so happen to be there? i can't tell when he makes ... (171 words

I don't have the will power to keep my weight down and stay in shape! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Over the past few years, I've lost quite a bit of weight but I'm STILL not happy with myself at all. I have a lateral thigh trainer that I often use, and i've started exchanging snack type food for fruit and just eating healthier I suppose. My problem is that I don't hav... (100 words

Should I tell my husband's mistress he's still seeing me? We are working on our relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age - Okay well here we go. My husband left me in October last year. At the time he told me he was unhappy because of certain things I was doing (which I either wasn't doing at all or he had exaggerated out of all proportion). I subsequently found out that he had been 'talking to... (506 words

I'm worried I can't conceive and that I may be infertile!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 20 and have longed for a child for around 3 years now.I have been off the pill since last July and have been having un protected sex. Nothings happend!... i always go for regular check ups at the clinic and ive always been clear.last time i went i said i had quite bad pain... (185 words

Question for the guys, is his 'cumming' three times so soon common or unusual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - Question for the guys. I have recently started dating a 39 year old guy. I was just a little amazed that he managed to "cum" 3 times in 2.5 hours. I didn't think men were capable of that?? Is that common or unusual for a 39 year old??... (49 words

We got back together but he seems distant. Am I overanalyzing and pushing him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok, I'll give you some back story before I ask for advice. My boyfriend and I were together for about a year, we lived together and things were fine. There was never any reason for either of us to have suspicions of cheating and to this day I don't think there was ever anything ... (275 words

I've been lying to my boyfriend about climaxing, any suggestions to help our sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been gong out with my bouyfriend for 3 years now. I love him to bits anf he is the same with me When we got together we were quite younge and we have grown up with each other however when it came to sex i never managed to have an orgasm. And it was realy upsetting ... (151 words

Should I meet him in person? I'm afraid of losing a friend and having my heart broken...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi i have this problem i have been spking to this guy for just over 2 years. we have exchanged photos and he has a webcam so we know who we are talking to. he has anxiety and depression issues and confides in me alot about his life. we talk every night on msn and he makes me... (233 words

How can I make sure he asks me out instead of her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey, i really need some help there's this guy i REALLY like and he just told me the other night that he likes me too, but the thing is there's this other girl he likes to, and i think she likes him aswell... he's probably going to ask one of us out really soon, how can i ... (71 words

It's eating away at me that we've ended it on such a bad note, any advice?

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23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Split with b/f of a year because he isn't in love with me,but wants me in his life as a friend as he can't imagine his life with me not in it.Anyway,we were trying the friends thing,but it wasn't working as I am still in love.As we were such goood friends,i didnt want to lose ... (215 words

Weight issues...I'm feeling a lack of confidence and need some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello Why is it when girls, like me finally think they look ok guys put us down. I had and am still recovering from an eating disorder, i didn't tell anyone as i felt ashamed. I did things to try and make myself feel better about myself, like having intercourse with... (213 words

Do female genitals grow with age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age - Hi The question may sound funny and i don'tknow the correct words to use. My wife and I have been married for over 20 years and always had a great sex life. we have been having oral sex in all that time. As the years have gone on my wife genital area has bigger lips. sh... (110 words

We have a lot in common and he's never ONCE treated me badly, unlike my ex'es. Why don't I love him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

23 April 2008 (F - I have this AMAZING friend. He has truly proved himself to me that he is amazing. I mean most guys wouldn't bother being 'friends' with me if they knew they had no chance with me, but this guy, he doesn't care, he just likes me for me and really appreciates our frinedship. He... (194 words

Once we came close to having sex, he backed off . Does he have a commitment phobia?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F - I am wondering if my ex bf had "commitment phobia". He broke up with me saying he wasn't ready for a relationship. Yet one of the first things he said to me when meeting me was "I really want to be in a relationship. I am so over random hooks ups, they aren't fulfilling and all ... (431 words

Was he repulsed? Or was he just trying to hide something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey okie so I have a male friend, we had a fling over two years ago (though we never had sex he wanted to go all the way but I kinda stopped things) Anyway we never dated he didn't go out with me because of my self-conciousness and paranoia, but after sometime we did make ... (327 words

I have broken my boyfriends heart by kissing another girl, how can we get over this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a Fetish model and i had a shoot with another girl.I had to kiss her during the shoot,my boyfriend was there and he was okay with that.For a long time he has wanted me to have a sexual encounter with a girl while he was there.I have considered it but never went through ... (310 words

I have the implant, recently I've been feeling sick and get a face rash...any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have the implant in my arm it is due to come out in june since last week my stomach has been feeling very sensitive and this week i have been being sick but more feeling sick and not actually being sick. When i am sick red rash comes out all over my face. does anyone know ... (62 words

He said to text him as he was interested in me but he's never replied. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - me and my family have our own static caravan in wales.. we go p really frequently.. every weekend when we can.. and during school holidays we are like always there. as we are there quite a lot me and my younger sister have become pretty good friends with the workers there. ... (209 words

I told my boyfriend at the end of our relationship I was molested as a child and he didnt care.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i of one year have been having many problems the last 3 months, he never said it was over, just "this isn't worth it anymore" and "you need to find another guy" but never officially that, we were through. we had another fight and i finally said "goodbye". and ... (216 words

My boyfriend told me to get over my insecurities because I have no real problems, was he right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - a big reason for my break up with my boyfriend of a year is due to my insecurities. I used to be a little overweight in highschool, i was always the funny girl, and never had a relationship. and university is when i really, i guess blossomed and, i guess, got hot. and have been ... (290 words

Older woman is suffocating me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I’m a guy of 22 and met a woman of 43 through work last year. We had lots in common and got on really well until she made a pass at me. I told her that I wanted friendship; that was all. She told me that she loved me and wanted to be with me but I said no. Then some months ... (180 words

It hurts when he does it from behind..is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is very strange for me asking this and have only just found this website but i really need help.last nite my guy took me from behind and it really hurt in which i asked him to pull out which he did but it made me feel a bit sick for a few seconds after, anyway, weve done ... (113 words

Are wet sheets normal when having sex or do I really have a problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi. i know this may sound really stupid but for the last few days when im been having sex the bed sheets are wet after or when we are still doing it. ive not mentiond it to my bf but im really worried as it looks like ive wet myself a little, ive mentiond it to a mate and they ... (114 words

My obsession with my looks is controlling my entire life and has done for over a year now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have some serious issues, which my parents say are in my head but I cant seem to get rid of them. I do not like the way I look anymore, it never use to bother me but for over a year now it really gets me down. Sometimes I think I look good, but mostly I think I look awful, ... (147 words

He wants to date other girls and to continue to date me as well. Is he really interested in me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - i dated a guy twice two weeks ago. when he called me for our third date, i reminded him that i was not comfortable dating a man who was dating other women at the same time, he didn't say anything at all at that time but later on the same day of our third date he cancelled it. ... (135 words

Threesome gone wrong!!! He's always told me he could never be with another women, yet when given the chance he chooses her over me!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello, I have a major problem with sleeping all of a sudden due to something that my husband and I did in the past, about a year ago. My husband has always wanted a threesome with another girl, and being sexually open, I thought , what the heck, as long as I agree on the girl... (570 words

He watches porn to relieve tension and then falls asleep on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for over two years, we were engaged but he left me last november and then hit a rollercoaster of getting back together and breaking up. After a few months we both realised we loved eachother so we are giving it one last real chance. Once we got back ... (227 words

We divorced our spouses in order to be together, then my past became a problem! How to explain him my past so that he understands?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - ok everybody i need advice...i was married and met the man that i am with now. he was also married when we met. i was living an open marriage with my ex husband at the time and he had been cheating on his exwife from time to time. we met and my husband at the time knew i was ... (366 words

How does quitting drinking affect men's sex life? What kind of men would rather masturbate than have sex with the young, sexy wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am with a man who on my watch quit drinking. As he was trying to quit drinking (took him 3 attempts) he stopped having sex with me. From often and exciting sex life it went to nothing. After trying different things, we are still together and married. We are on a schedule now. ... (206 words

He may go studying abroad and Mom said that long distance doesn't work. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - My bf may go studying aborad for one or two months... We've never been apart and we've had issues... if he does leave, how will I feel secure that he'll be faithful? My mom said long distance relationships never work. We do great however, it's just now and then that we h... (100 words

I sang her a song, she started crying, and no one has seen her in days! Where'd she go!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Okay get ready for an odd question. I have been talking to thos girl for awhile. We were laying in my bed and i kissed her on her forehead. She smiled and said that i was an amazing guy. She then told me to sing to her...i sung i don't wanna miss a thing by aerosmith ... (108 words

This is my first break-up...Should I return everything, including cards and gifts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - i'm packing up the left over knick knacks my ex boyfriend left at my place after he moved out for him to pick up this week. we were together for about a year. i've included all his stuff, but also cards, gifts, and any reminders (photos) i have here of him. this is my first ... (140 words

Does he really like me, or someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Okay.. So I have a question bout a guy I like. I am really close to him and his family. I met him thru his aunt. Well whenever I hang around him and his family I always get mixed signals. Sometimes he sits on the other side of the room and seems to care less I'm there.. Other ... (295 words

How can I tell if a girl wants to be kissed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - I feel very nervous about kissing and I am unable to read signs that a girl would like to be kissed. What are some signs that a girl would like to be kissed? Im shy and afraid of rejection.... (39 words

Should I pay for sex to get over my sexual anxiety?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am 22 yrs old virgin guy.There is a thought that comes to my mind again and again. That is my penis touching a women'svagina and not inserting inside it. whats the difference between both.That makes makes me feel tense all the time. What should I do. Should I have to make sex ... (126 words

How do I break the ice about talking to my ex without appearing obsessive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - My gf broke things off two months ago. I still love her and I want her back. I want to talk to her, but the problem is it seems like there is this force field between us. Im not sure if she's desperately trying to avoid me or if im just being a coward. She told me a w... (117 words

Should I have let the 'sex' thing go? Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - So I've been with a guy for about 8 months now-since the end of August. Things were really good until one day in January, I called him on a Friday to see if we were going out like planned. He had told me he needed that weekend to think and then on that Monday we had a long talk ... (863 words

He suffers from depression, and I try to be there for him, but it's hard. Any advice?

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23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - HOW DO I DEAL? I dont know what to do. The man I love is severely depressed. I try to be there 4 him, I love him more than any other man but it's hard when he's mood swings pushes me away. I know at times he wants 2 be left alone but after 2 or 3 days I get scared and ... (89 words

We were one, and I've divided us! Help!

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23 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hello , july 14th last year i met the most amazing woman i've ever known. we live quite a distance away geographically but were closer at heart than siamese twins. i started the relationship off with a LIE! i had unfinished business with an ex that wouldn't leave me for over a ... (272 words

I don't know if he likes me...

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23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - well, i know this guy at my school...he is very nice and i like him but i can't tell if he likes me back. I sometimes catch him staring at me and when i glance at him he just keeps looking at me but then finally i look away. also he sometimes tries to "trip" me or push me or ... (147 words

My boyfriend is so mad at me for accidentally shutting off my cellphone!

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23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - My BF...!!! He's mad because of something so stupid! Today I was in a hurry, and my mobile fell off my purse... it went off and I couldn't get it to work, so I just left 'cos I had classes. I didn't get the phone working until I returned home. When I turned it on, I saw I h... (181 words

He broke up with me because he says we are incompatible! What does this mean?

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23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - My ex-boyfriend and I met 4 years ago, it was immediate attraction but we lived in different countries. I moved in close to him, and so we dated a year and 2 months. There is no doubt about how much he loves me,we even talked about getting married at some point (in a year or ... (154 words

I don't want him to give up on me so how can I show him I'm not blowing him off?

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23 April 2008 (F - I'm going to prom with my friend's older brother. He's a sophomore at a comm. college nearby. She set us up and seems to want the best for both of us, if something more were to come out of the relationship. We went to the mall in a group to pick out the tuxes. It was fun and ... (222 words

Is my boyfriend having "multiple orgasms"?

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23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is able to ejaculate (usually a few squirts) then put his penis back inside me and continue to thrust until he ejaculates again. Sometimes he is able to do this a few times, usually until his penis becomes too sensitive. Is this considered a multiple orgasm? Is it ... (66 words

My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?

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23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely changed. We were highscho... (289 words

Why am I missing my ex so much? I was never in love but I can't forget him...

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23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was with my ex a year - we lived together for 6 months. He treated me very well, we got on very well, sometimes it almost seemed he could read my mind, he knew what I wanted before I did sometimes. He was in love with me, and, although I wasn;t madly in love with him, I... (228 words

There was a lack of passion though he could read my mind. Now, how can I get him off my mind?

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23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was with my ex a year - we lived together for 6 months. He treated me very well, we got on very well, sometimes it almost seemed he could read my mind, he knew what I wanted before I did sometimes. He was in love with me, and, although I wasn;t madly in love with him, I... (228 words

I have no idea what loving someone really means. Where do I even start if I never get asked out?

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23 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 19 and have trouble getting guys to want to go out w me. i don't know why. no guy ever asked me out. when i let myself fall head over heels over someone, and i take the initiative to make the first move, i am always, and i do mean ALWAYS, rejected. i have no idea of what... (264 words

My husband does not know what he wants....is this something I should stick around for?

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23 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a 34 year old and i have been Married to my husband for 7 years together for 8 years. Today my husband came to me and said that he does not know what he wants. If he wants to be with me. He thinks that he just wants to be on his own he is not sure. We have three beautiful ... (123 words

Am I pregnant or is my cycle changing?

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23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey guys here's the scenario: well i dont know if im pregnant..im scared to take a test cause each time has been a disappointment.. lets see i dont feel morning sickness but yet my boobs are tender all the time..im about 3wks late im hungry all the time and my boobs feel... (86 words

We can no longer be together since it's ILLEGAL!

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23 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - I love this guy but we can't be together because he is 18 and i am 15 going on 16.. we hvae been together 3 years and now we cant be together any longer because it is illegal. he said that maybe we should just wait till im 18 but im scared he will find someone new by then. What ... (71 words

One Night Stand: Is there a general consensus on when to cum?

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23 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Just a quick question, during unprotected sex, either in a relationship or a one night stand....what is the general consensus on where to cum? cheers for any answers... (28 words

My ex is now trying to get with my friend, but still flirting with me

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23 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I think I know what the right thing is to do But the right thing isn't always the easyist. Here it is: My ex dumped me about 3 weeks ago. He's try'n to get with one of my friends. The thing is...he is act'n like he used right before we started date'n. Like he ALWAYS hugs ... (307 words

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