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How can I find a man for my wife?

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Question - (7 April 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

How can I get my wife to have a threesome with another man?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

Threesomes wreck relationships. They are not simple lifestyle choices like decidig where to go on holiday and anyone who thinks this,even if the decision seems consensual at the time, is delusional. People do all sorts of things that jeopardise their relationships all the time and this is one of the biggest risk activities ever. There is some kind of wierd fashion about it at the moment, despite the research showing 8 out of 10 relationships don't survive afterwards. Yuck, the though makes me feel sick, I though having sex was to do with loving the person you are with, nourishment to the soul as well as the body. Imagine your wife leaving you, which she very well may if you believe the stats. Do you fell turned on by that? What wierdos we are all becoming, how selfish and crude.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (7 April 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhat? MAKE your wife have a threesome????? Dang Dude, you need to get a grip.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntAre we on the same wave length or something, Phiatiger, my sentiments exactly.

If your wife wants the threesome then surely she should pick the other guy, not you. Unless of course you're fearing she'll fall for this 3rd person.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

You cant make her do anything that she doesnt want to. By pressuring her you may ruin your marriage, however if it is something that your wife is interested in then I think you should let her choose the other guy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

It is not your right to live your porn fantasies through your wife. This is her life too. How did you get to be so detatched from reality? Have you been immersing yourself in porn so much that you have lost your grip on the true value of love? I don't think you love your wife, I think she is your convenience. You would lay down your life for her and you adore her? I don't think so. If you want to behave like this why did you get married. If my partner wanted to share me with another man I would be heartborken. She should leave you because you are shallow and so is your relationship. Relationships which incorporate other people in to the sexual side don't last much more than two years afterwards. This is good as she will be much better off without you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

wouldnt bother...its obviously your fantasy and not hers....do you also want to take the risk your wife prefered the other bloke...

If you love her you wont go ahead...show some respect...

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