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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

I don't know what to do I don't have a man in my life and my job is shit.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I don't know what to do I don't have a man in my life and my job is shit. Everytime I try and change my life for the better- it ends up being the worst decisons Ive made i.e trying to get a new job or finding a new man. I don't know what to do anymore, my life seems to get ... (67 words

I can't get over my druggy ex boyfriend, NEED HELP ASAP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - woww reading wHAT othEr girls said really helped me a lot!...cuz i went through the Exact same thing... well its a long story And i very badly need some help!...my boyfriend is insanely addicted to weed so no wonder dat he'll choose weed over me even though he says dat he loves ... (328 words

I'm so messed up!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'm having a dilemma. After several months of a new relationship, while we both talked about long term and our goals of marriage and family, our sex life was decreasing. While my ladys is wonderful in so many areas (whcih is why im with her), theres so many which are not. ... (538 words

Should you date your best friend's ex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have a best friend. He has many ex girlfriends and I have three. I'm currently seeing some girl in a long distance relationship. My friend has an ex girlfriend I find flinchingly inviting. Would you ever go around with your best friend's ex girlfriend? Apparently - she felt ... (168 words

How do I move? Sex tips please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've had sex a fair amount before but it's always with the man on top, if ever i try to go on top i get nervous and stop because i don't know what to do, how to move etc.. How is it done? I always feel like I'm not very good at it in general!!... (55 words

When is the right time to ask where I'm standing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5858 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've met this lad four months ago, the first week it felt like we had known each other forever we have been with each other ever since, he used to disappear stop texting every now and then and even though i was dyin to txt him and ask whats up i tried to control myself. Now he ... (360 words

Why does she keep cheating and lying to me? I love her so much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Me and my g/f have been on and off for about 4 years we cant seem to be apart. We had some really rough times when we weren't together. She had two relationships with two guys at her work. Then about three months ago i told her how i felt about her, and i really couldn't be ... (318 words

In 2 month's my boyfriend will be released from being inside for 6 yrs. I need some advice please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - Please help. My boyfriend has been in prison for almost 6 years now and he will be coming home in June 08, problem is that I have this male best friend that recently our relationship has changed and we now are seeing each other intimately. Now my best friend is acting very ins... (78 words

He wanted me to finger myself, and kept begging me. Is he worth my time or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay so thank you guys for answering my other one, and I have made up my mind about sex. I'm going to wait till I'm older!!!! The problem is he doesn't want to wait, in fact he wanted me to finger myself, and kept begging me. Is he worth my time or not?... (54 words

What do we talk about and what's off limits for a first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - The lad i like has finaly asked me out on a date. But i'm scared thing's will get arkward at parts, as we've never been totally close, just distant friends. What kind of conversations do you have? And what's off limits for a first date? Advice? Please? x... (52 words

He keeps looking at me, does this mean he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok I'm a junior in HS and he's a senior. We have the same science class and had gym together. I think he likes me, but I have no clue Every day he stands in the hallway after class, and I pass by him every day on my way to my next class. I always catch him looking at him. ... (171 words

I'm tired of hurting, but I know i'd still love him even if we remain apart. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i after one year of dating got seperated due to circumstances, and we continued dating. It's been just 2 months and i broke up with him cuz he just wasn't the same and then he told me the next day that he kissed another girl and felt guilty that's why he was ... (126 words

I'm 13 he's 17, I want sex but he's still a virgin, how do I ask him when he's ready for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi i'm 13 but want to have sex. I know that sounds horrible but it's hard. The boy i'm going out with, and have been for a long time, is 17, and still a virgin. How do i ask him when he's ready for sex?... (45 words

How do you get over a HUGE crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - How do you get over a HUGE crush? I have 2 get over my crush cuz they just started highschool and would probably never see the person again. Please help me!!!!... (33 words

I'm 13 and going out with a 17 year old virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi, first off, I'm going out with a 17 year old boy and I think he's really wanting sex badly. What should I do? Would I get in trouble if we did anything?... (35 words

Is my body adjusting to the change? Should I go on the pill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I asked a question almost a couple weeks ago about being on time if i had sex with the condom intact with no tears or rips or falling out. I have been having period like symptoms of bloating, fatigue, cramps, and smelly discharge. I tested negative twice over the week... (100 words

I'm really scared my first time will hurt!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, well i'm 16 and me and my boyfriend are getting serious and we want to have sex. I'm really scared because it's my first time, and i'm just really freaking out because i'm scared it's going hurt really bad. So i've been telling him no everytime, but i really want to have ... (65 words

Health problem-does anyone know what may be wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

8 April 2008 (? age 30-35 - does anyone know what may be wrong with me. i darent tell my mum as she will take me to the doctors and i dont want a fuss made, id jus like to know if it is something major wrong.? well for about 3 weeks now i have not wanted to eat. i can, so i know theres nothing wrong ther... (167 words

My parents doesn't like my boyfriend sleeping in the same room with me when he comes over!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

8 April 2008 (F - My parents doesn't like my boyfriend sleeping in the same room with me when he comes over. I can see that as normal when you're 16, however, I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 27. My parents are the traditional ones that believes you should sleep on the same bed after you get married. ... (123 words

Does it really make sense for my boyfriend to move closer to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F - My boyfriend of 3 years wants me to move in with him. He lives 2 hours drive away. We both have our job in two different cities. He operates his own business and I am in a family business. We see each other every weekend. It's not too far of a drive but after 3 years, we really ... (222 words

Discolored cervical mucous (girls only)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm trying to figure out what's wrong with me! I started two or three days ago with light, light pink cervical mucous(at least Im pretty sure it was cm), which then turned light brown. I still have it. I'm due for my period any time now. I'm on the Pill, take it regularly ... (174 words

Is he trying to get a reaction out of me to see where we stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - ok do guys sometimes say things just to get a reaction from a girl? I am 26 and have been seeing this guy - also 26 - for 2 months. We started as friends 2 yrs ago. we have lots in common and understand trust and respect each other. We talk on the phone hours everyday. He has ... (218 words

I want by bf to sneak over but I don't want to get caught!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey look it's not a serious probaly or anything but i really want to see my bf but hes grounded and we were talking and all and he said he could come over but he would just have to be back at a certain time i really want to see him but i don't want to get caught any advice??... (60 words

I'm 12 but I have not started my period yet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi im 12 and tall for my age but i have not started my period. im worried about this because all my family say i should of started by now. is this normal?... (33 words

My boyfriend denies being Bullimic but I'm sure he is !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are 17. My boyfriend if over a year has been bothering me about his eating sice day one. He has always binged and then starved himself, then for the past 3 months he has started being sick after eating when he thinks nobody can hear him. For example the other ... (153 words

Is this the behaviour of a guy whom says he loves you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - i am or was engaged to a great guy whom i love with all my heart,but his behaviour towards me has worsened an im now afraid that i am once again a looser in love.is this the behaviour of a guy whom says he loves you,going from 7 days a week to 2 days sleeping with you,1 txt or ... (179 words

Should I cut my losses and let him go? Am I reading too much into it all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have some niggling doubts about my boyfriend that I have been going out with for 2 years. He is 5 years younger than me - I am 36. When I first met him he admitted he had been keeping a few girls on the possibles list until then. This was totally understandable but he used ... (842 words

My confidence and self esteem are at an all time low.... Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi I live in california. I am very physically unattractive (I am very stockily built and my hair is not the conventional smooth sweeping locks, I also do not have a very nice complexion and my face is unfortunately put together. I do not believe looks is everything but I... (287 words

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he's been abusive for 2 years.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - We started off happy, but then he became homeless so I was there for him, I slept outside with him some nights even in his car. I didn't want to leave him alone, we stayed at my parents a lot which is when they started disliking him. For 2 years now he has been violent ... (422 words

What should I do for myself and my children. What is wrong with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been married almost 3 years and been with my husband for a total of 7 1/2 years. we have two beautiful little girls and we have had our little fights but nothing major. Here in the past two months he has changed. He has started drinking more and snaps at me rather ... (316 words

My period is late... HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I know this is acting a bit rational, but I am getting worried now because I didn't start taking my pill 3 weeks in and I'm usually on my period by now I know I'm only a few hours late but what should I do help!!!!!! ... (47 words

I feel that my vagina hole is small. Only one finger fits up and if you try two it hurts!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I feel that my vagina hole is small. Only one finger fits up and if you try two it hurts! Also a dildo can't go up inside because it's so small. What's wrong ?... (35 words

If my boyfriend has female friends, why when he talks to them and I ask him what's up with them does he tell me it's none of my business?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age - If my boyfriend has female friends and I have male ones, why when he talks to them (either phone or email) if I ask what's up with them, how are they, that his conversations and who he talks to are none of my business?... (44 words

I stood her up as I froze from nerves, now she's spitting her dummy out of the pram!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (M - hi all I hope you can help me I was meant to be meeting up with a girl the other week and it didn't end up happening in the end because I froze, I wanted to talk to her but I couldn't if that makes sense? Anyways she didn't talk to me for a couple of days, she also said th... (116 words

What is a high maintenance woman?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age - What really describes a high maintenance woman? I have heard this a lot lately and was wondering, is it just about spending money? ... (23 words

Are women usually sensative about men messing with their breasts? Are there certain times that are better than others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age - Are women usually sensitive about men messing with their breasts? Are there certain times that are better than others? My wife always acts like she doesn't want them messed with but it seems like when she gets in the mood its ok but only for a short time until she gets off.... (52 words

Has anyone had any success with threesoms or group sex. Does the outcome always seem to be negative?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age - Has anyone recently been involved in threesome activity or group sex? Does the outcome always seem to be negative or do some of these situations work out ok with little or no consequences? I am contemplating investigating how to meet up with mutually conscenting couples in my ... (48 words

Why do we always come back to each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - After 22 years why do myself and my ex (first love) always come back to each other? We have both been married and have children (not with each other) and in between each relationship we have always found our way in to one anothers lives. Is it meant to be or just a security ... (74 words

What do dearcupid readers think about online dating?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - I get very nervous around girls, and thats why I prefer online dating; I was just wondering what the readers of this site think about online dating?... (27 words

Tell me how I get over my first love without avoiding them?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I've been insanley in love (well, more limerence) with this woman over a year now, but I haven't been able to tell her due to our current situations. But soon she's going to be leaving work to go and live over the other side of the world. I have a phone number and every... (169 words

My husband left before xmas, wont see me, but phones almost everyday. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - my husband left me before christmas,he stays in touch with family,but wont see me ,although he phones almost everyday.i would love to sort things out with him as i still love him,i dont know what to do should i tell him to leave me alone?is he just using me as a crutch til he ... (88 words

My lack of confidence is keeping me stuck in a rut. How can I live the life I want to live?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

8 April 2008 (M - I have a rather annoying habit of destroying practically anything good in my life because I question and analyse everything. For example, I rejected my last girlfriend because I had a hard time figuring out how I felt about her and came to the conclusion that if I was having ... (202 words

Dating, but his online dating profile is still active. When is the right time to ask how things are going with us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been seeing a guy I met online for about 2 months now, and need some advice on how to proceed. I was in a long term relationship before and am out of practice with all this dating stuff!! So we've been seeing each other for 2 months and get on well and enjoy each other... (166 words

Should I ask the girl I like out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok, to put a long story short I have known (and liked) a girl for ages. I think she knows I like her and i think she might be interested in me. I have known her for years, we used to be very close but then we stopped seeing each other and when i look back i think she liked ... (213 words

I reeeeeally like my english teacher and cant get him out my head! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - im 16 turnin 17 nd i reeally like my english teacher, honestly hez not very goodlooking but for sum weird reason i cannot get him out of my head nd i try rlly hard to impress him :P whic is pretty embarssn but w/ iv rlly nevr felt this way b4 abt any guy, since last year iv ... (249 words

Give me some tips on how I can leave a lasting impression on someone special! Cute and fun things...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - i need help..i want to know...what can i do thats cute and fun when im now visiting a special girl in my life...???what things to say??to do???its just that i dont want to say or do the wrong things...lets just say that i want to leave a GOOD impression that will actually last ... (125 words

My love with my wife's sister!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 51-59 - I am married to my wife 9 yrs back, and have two kids. I love my wife verymuch. It was three years back when my wife was carrying my second kid, her sister stayed with us to help her. During this time, somehow we both liked eath other the way we think and the way we make jokes ... (375 words

My parents and family won't accept me being pregnant they would flip out, and bf blames me for not terminating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I have been together for 2years we had lots of problems in our relationship and he thought i was cheating on him with my ex but i wasn't, i would never do something like that to him I love him to much but he doesn't trust me one bit. I got pregnant for him... (348 words

Why do I feel the need to pressurize girls on the net?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - I don't want to say I'm not a good person, I am. My question is this: Why, when I talk to a girl (via the internet, because I feel too nervous face to face!), do I feel the need to pressurize them (not stop when they dont send me messages for a day or two) It's not that I... (110 words

Should I just move on with my life and let my husband realize what he has given up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband and i are going through some really hard times right now and we are trying to work through some things. But, i don't know what to believe and what not to believe. He says that he is trying to grow up and trying to get us our own house so we can all move in and be ... (307 words

I am about to lie to my family about where I am flying to

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I need to visit my boyfriend - I havent' seen him for months and love and miss him so much - but he lives in another country. I have hidden my relationship from other people because of our cultural differences and I am about to lie to my family about where I am flying to - ... (201 words

How can I go to a funeral with him being there too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (? age 30-35 - 2 years ago my cousin and his friend raped me, and i fear my g-pa is going to die soon, how can i go to a funeral with that monster being there too? I need help on this question................ (40 words

I need tips on how to get a special girl to orgasm through oral

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - i need tips on how to get a special girl to orgasm throuhg oral??and i also need some help with foreplay?how to do it...the right time...everything about foreplay and helpful tips about sex...please help..thanks in advance..mwah... (36 words

I was drunk and had unprotected sex, did he ejaculate....?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend went out to a night club and got hammered on saturday, thing is, he told me he wanted to go home and have sex and that's perfectly fine, it's a "normal" occurance. So we went back to mine very drunk and then we went to have sex. By this time the alcohol ... (168 words

Any suggestions for how I can keep myself occupied while my bf is away??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (? age 30-35 - Okay, I have this problem.....my bf is a doctor....therefore he is gone alot..........and I am an attention whore basically......what could i do to occupy my time while he is gone?... (30 words

It's been a year and I can't get over the fact that my boyfriend was so hung up about his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with his ex only a few days before he confessed to me and we got together. His ex got really depressed about it, and as a result, he treated her very well... A little too well in fact. Since both he and his ex belong to the same group of friends, they pu... (267 words

I can't cum, is there something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I can't cum when my boyfriend fingers me or licks me out. What is wrong? ... (15 words

I'm in love with a girl, but not sure how to tell her what I feel, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi there, i don't know, where should i start, this is the first, severe, and disturbing confusion in my life. The thing is there is this girl whom i started spending sometime with, i used to know her in a supermarket where she works, and recently we are getting closer and we'v... (394 words

Should I ask if we could get a double room or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

8 April 2008 (? age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles, I need your advice again please. It is not really a problem but a question as to how you would feel in this situation. OK so my boyfriend (18) and i (20) are planning to go on holiday this summer. I have no idea where as he said he will sort it. My questio... (146 words

I just can't help but want to ask her out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend broke up with me just over 2 months ago because she said the relationship was too hard, and them affectionate feelings wasnt there anymore, even though she still loved and cared for me. We didnt speak for 2 weeks when she contacted me, general chat, sa... (186 words

How can you encourage foreplay, without actually talking about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (? age 30-35 - How can you encourage foreplay, without actually talking about it?... (10 words

Is she flirting with me? I'm confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Im 13, and i think an older girl flirts with me. Shes 17, and she always give me compliments, and asked me to sit on her lap. I really like her, but it confuses me, what should i do?... (41 words

I feel there is no affection there anymore, or am I reading the wrong signs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - I need help, I can no longer tell what my feelings tell me. I have a GF she's beautiful and completely devoted to me but we have had a brake from before because things didn't go too well. Well anyway we go on msn and she would always say "HI BABE!!" or "HI sweetie!" but today ... (217 words

What do I do about my bf's touching and always asking when I am going to lose my virginity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5856 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Yeah i'm only 13 and my boyfriend really loves me and i love him we have been together for about a year and he always is asking me when will i lose my virginaty he also always plays with my boobs and i kinda wish he would stop but i also wish i could stop masterbaiting i... (81 words

How would I approach husband to ask if he is having an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I (Phil.)are appart for more than 3yrs.(residing in Ca.) and we have 3-yr.old son but he havn't seen our son since born. This past 2007, we had an argument that really botherd me much but we already resolvd that. Since then our communication becomes irrigula... (115 words

How do I tell him I want something more than sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, I'm confused about a guy. We've been friends for quite some time, and we slept together. It was a complete surprise to me since I never expected anything more than friendship from him. I told him early on that I wasn't ready for a relationship, and if possibl... (137 words

Since we became more than friends with benefits I feel bored of him, but I still love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I don't know what to do.... There is this man that I've been dating for only a few months, before this we where friends with benefits for almost a year and always wanted more than friends with benefits and now we're both together and i thought i'd be happy but it seems tha... (289 words

Triphasil and period advice needed..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi Just a few questions on triphasil. im on it for 4 month. My cycle is 28 days and i was just wondering; (1) If my last period was on the 11 March 2008, when should i expect my next period? (2) On which red pill should my period be expected? I also know that you are more ... (87 words

Do you think he will write to me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Uh! He's away right now, but before he left he said when he'll be back he was gonna definitely be in touch. We've been keeping in touch for a year and a half now. But with long distance friendship you never know. I like him very so much! That I want to still have him as my ... (93 words

I'm married but feel lonely and isolated by my husband and in-laws..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - I was married at age 21 and my husbands mother disliked me instantly as I was career minded, didn't want children straight away and didn't like shopping that much. Her opposite. Over the years she made it obvious she disliked me - giving me sour looks, turning her back on me ... (595 words

I don't understand how she could have such strong feelings for me before she left and do this to me now.!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

8 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - So I'm having alittle girl trouble. My ex-girlfriend and I had been together for almost 4 1/2 years before she broke up with me this past november. I was devastated and fought and tried to show her that I could change. She said she broke up with me because I took her for ... (676 words

Before I just try to love him now again do I believe him when he says he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

8 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi,to all the members of Dear Cupid!i do really need your advise here,This was the story goes,I meet this guy before our relationship is not good coz he meet many girls and even i am his gf,it hurts me coz he doens't contented with me,mybe he was just playing with me that time ... (214 words

How to still have him as friend when he rejected me?

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8 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I let him know my feelings 4 him, and he didn't feel the same, Now what can I do to have him as my friend? The guy I have feelings for kinda let me down easy very politely.But I don't want lose him , and would like to be his friend and back off. What can I do to let him know... (80 words

I'm kind of worried that I might be pregnant.?

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8 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - okay so me and this guy I'm talking to had sex. he didn't use a condom the first time, but he did the 2nd time. I'm kind of worried that I might be pregnant. i don't know what to do. help?... (42 words

I really want to have sex with him, but I wanna be dating him first

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8 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - okay so this guy that I have liked since like 5th grade came over this past weekend, and we made out a lot. it was amazing. he left bite marks, and idk. it was crazy. I think I really want to have sex with him, but I wanna be dating him first. I don't know what to do. geez, do ... (67 words

I don't know how to argue a point, advice?

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8 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - is my girlfriend crazy? i love to joke around. life just isnt worth living without laughter. however, I almost always end up in a fight whenever she tries to joke. According to her, I either take it too far, or I can't take a joke. I often always mess up somehow and she m... (106 words

Dating Dilema - does he like me or not?

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8 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, Im really confused about that way that a guy I like has been acting and would love to hear your thoughts and advice. Ive known him for a few years now, we live in the same area and we both work in music. Well after bumping into him a few times last sum... (977 words

I end up saying dumb things trying to flirt with my work mate-help!

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8 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have been working at my new job for 5 months and just recently we have been what I would say is flirting.....but here's the thing I have a problem with having conversations with her.....I for some reason go blank and I end up saying dumb things that are really ... (60 words

How do I bring up birth control to my mom?

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8 April 2008 (? age 30-35 - I want to ask my mom about birthcontrol.... I don't know how and it's hard for me to talk to her about this subject. I'm 15 going on 16 and I'm in love with a 16 year old and we have been talking about sex lately and I really want to but I don't want to be stupid and do it ... (98 words

How do I get her back after I scared her away? I told her I loved her...

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8 April 2008 (M age - I met this girl almost 20 years ago during a vacation and we have kept in touch mostly by letters ever since. We have seen each other a few times over the years and call each other from time to time. Recently she called me and wanted to start up a relationship which we did. I ... (130 words

I'm being alienated by my two best friends- they just want to hang out with each other!

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8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Last year, my junior year of high school, i introduced two girls who were pretty good friends of mine but up til then, hadn't known each other. We became a trio for a while but they spent way more time talking and hanging out with each other than with me. This didn't bother me ... (174 words

I got pregnant by a guy who lives in a different country! So, should I tell him?

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8 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I slept witg someone and am pregnant, he lives in a different country and we are still in contact but should i tell him I'm pregnant?... (26 words

I'm only 14 and want to have sex because I can't masturbate!

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8 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I cant explain how i feel... I want to have sex but i am only 14 and i cant masterbate because it isnt satisfying what should i do? Plus i have very persistant urges that make me super horny. Im so confused!... (42 words

Did he truly get over me or was he just bragging to his buddies to look cooler?

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8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I right off the back really liked my ex, and he liked me even more. I of course never had good luck with relationships, always getting bored, or just stopped liking the guy. I told him this and he seemed a little scared, but we went to parties together anyway. This happened ... (457 words

Should I have anal sex if I'm a virgin? I'm scared...

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I'm starting to not care about relationships and stuff AT ALL. I don't even want one anymore.

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8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm starting to not care about relationships and stuff AT ALL. I don't even want one anymore. I'm in one right now but I'm so sick of it. I don't want to deal with it but I miss my ex.. what do you think I should do?... (47 words

I have this lovely boyfriend but I hate kissing!

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8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok, this is really retarded!! I have this lovely boyfriend but I hate kissing! even just a tiny lil' peck on the check and I woud be so uncomfortable with it! We've french kissed once, but after that I was like no way am I doing that again! That also was the first time for ... (89 words

How do I get over him and him with his new girlfriend (and the girlfriend being a part of my daughter's life)?

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8 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend and I had been dating for over 6 years, we had lived together for about 4 of them, and we had have a 2 and a half year old daughter. due to financial reasons we had to move apart (back in with our parents) and after a year and a half almost 2 years of living ... (355 words

I'm with a beautiful girl but lately I've been feeling ignored...

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8 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello guys I'm going to get straight to the point, I have this beautiful girl who always says that she loves me. But lately I feel ignored, we play online games all of a sudden she logs in to the game we mostly play and tell me that she's been playing the other game the whole ... (185 words

What is wrong with my friend's health???

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8 April 2008 (F - My friend (male) has kissed another person of the same sex and has developed blister like things in his mouth. I have looked up sympons of HIV and he has lots of these symptoms. The person my friend kissed has kissed someone else who has had sex with someone with chlamydia. He ... (77 words

How should I talk to my boyfriend about me getting stressed after a weekend having his daughter over?

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8 April 2008 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We are both in our mid 20s and are very serious about our relationship. Due to work, I live 2 hours away fom him. He just got a really nice house and is dying to live with me. He understands I work at a family business and it's hard ... (346 words

He recently old me he felt like we'd lost the spark and he no longer felt anything when he kissed me. What can I do??

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8 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year and even though it is just a high school relationship, I feel it is more than that. He is the first person to ever make me really happy; however he recently old me he felt like we'd lost the spark and he no longer felt ... (74 words

What should I do about my exhusband who is lonely and very depressed...

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