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writes:i broke up with my bf 3 days ago he said he does not have time for me as he has a lot of studying to do. I did not insist on patching up things as I did not want to look like a desperate woman. How long will it take before he gets in touch with me again as during those 3 days since we broke up he has not called or texted me and neither have i. Also we had pictures and comments on each other's profile on facebook I have removed any link that there was between me and him on facebook. Now i want to know when will his male ego start hurting him and that he gets in touch with me?
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reader, greenmonkey00  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 Let's say you were in a relationship with a guy. One day he tells you that he doesn't want to be with you anymore and he doesn't want to be commited to you. He removes you from facebook without a word. He stops calling and texting. He wants you back and wants to talk to you, but he doesn't want to look "desperate."
WAKE UP. How in the Sam Hill do you expect him to know that you want to patch things up? You did the dumping. You cut him off. When is his male ego going to start hurting him? You pretty much initiated that when you cut him out of your life.
Congratulations on being single and disrespectful. I hope you do text him or call him so he can tell you how badly you hurt him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): That is an awesome flag. Lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): We can't tell you when he'll be in touch, hun. Each and every person is different. It seems to me that there is not a lot of mutual respect here, because you may have made a rash decision and perhaps are having some huge regrets?? It sounds like you lashed out at him, and are trying to teach him a lesson. That's a pretty dysfunctional way to conduct a love relationship, don't you think...playing this game? Why not give him a call and ask if you and he can discuss the dynamics of this relationship and see where he sits on this. If he doesn't want that, there is not much you can do but to move on. Good Luck.
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