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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How long is a "break" supposed to last? It's been 3 months!

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been on a break for aboout 3 months now. We still chill. And we still kiss. We don't talk on the phone so much. I love him sooo much. He says that he's not sure if he's in love with me. But he gets mad every time a guy tries to kick it to me. We ... (91 words)

We found each other again online but I'm still a virgin and she's not! Will she ever be totally mine?

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19 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - To start off, i am an 20yr old male living in canada. Currently in a serious relationship with a childhood friend, whom i have known when we were going to kindergarten. We got separated when my parents have gotten job offers in another country, thus we moved. It's been abou... (245 words)

Between a rock and a hard place!

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19 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Three people (all made up names) A.) me, James B.)cCurrent girl friend, Maddie C.)Ex-girl for like 7 times and maybe soon to be, Claire Preface: I am currently seeing a girl by the name of Maddie, I have an Ex-girlfriend named Claire and me and her have had a lot of go... (355 words)

Why are guys so obsessed with breasts?

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19 April 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Why are guys so obsessed with breasts? It's unfair! I see so much naked boobs online, and the obsession with whose cleavage is hotter, this and that, and I feel inadequate! In a normal day I feel that my breasts look pretty, but then all this madness online and on TV appears ... (369 words)

I feel like his looking at porn is hurting our relationship, should I tell him?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and everything is great except for one thing. He looks at porn a lot, almost every day. I knew for months before I confronted him, because he never cleared his history so I saw the large amounts he viewed. When I confronte... (273 words)

At first he "felt sorry for me" but now he wants me! What should I do?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy since working with him during the week, and at first, when I was kinda having problems settling in etc, he took an interest in me cos he 'felt sorry' for me. I found him v supportive and felt great. Downside, I am 22, he's 33. This thing between us lasted ... (98 words)

I'm getting a pain in my jugular, what is it?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, any advice would be great! I keep getting pain in my jugular (weird I know!!), it's not all the time but just occassionaly I will get a really bad pain that lasts for about 5 mins or more and I can feel a kind of pressure. I'm having quite a lot of stress with AS l... (100 words)

Am I in danger of contracting a STI?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i was having sex with my man and we didnt have protection on and he started to bleed we think he caught some thing but i am scared that with us not using protection i can get a infection of some kind and i just wanted to no could it be possible that i will catch some thing off ... (66 words)

She won't respond to me so should I try again or just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

19 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently got to know this girl who works near my place of work and we have spent a lot of time talking to each other up till midnight most days and during work time we constantly sent text messages to each other she new I wanted to be more than friends. On more than one ... (201 words)

I can't stop thinking about her but she seems distant. Do you think I should ask her out?

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19 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. i;m madly in love with a girl that i work with. she likes me as a freind, but even then she sometimes seems distant or if she can't be bothered to talk to me. this is especially true when i leave work and say goodbye to her. she talks to another man there a lot more tha... (113 words)

Does taking a break ever work or does it mean it's really over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My name is Aimee, and I am 20 years old. My boyfriend decided about 2 weeks ago that he wanted to break up. He took all of his stuff and went back to his parents. We had lived together for about a year. And we have been on and off during that time. I was ofcourse devistated, ... (232 words)

I love my boyfriend but people say he's a hamster, so is he worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - heyahh i love my boy friend so much but i get picked on and bullyed so bad that i have started self harming is it worth going out with my boyfriend? we went to the library today and 4 girls frm skwl came in and started having a go sayin i go with a hamster just becai... (100 words)

Has his childhood abuse affected his current behaviour?

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19 April 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My BF was abused when he was a child. His father used to hit him, yell at his mom, yell at him, until he abandoned them... He never told me any of this until we had been together for like a year and 4 months. And the one time we talked about it, he cried. It was the first time ... (391 words)

I think I'm a lesbian! Should I contact this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone!, Ummm well this is kinda hard to say because im not sure if im right. I think I'm a lesbian. I have a boyfriend and I love him and stuff but sometimes when I see girls I feel physically attracted to them and yesterday I think I met the girl of my dreams when I w... (164 words)

Does she mean it when she says she will give us another go when she is ready? How can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi,i need some advice,me and my girlfriend have been split up for nearly 3 months and we have kept in touch mainly through txt,we split because i got abit too clingy and controlling and i think we got too serious and she wasnt ready for it,i met her last nite though and i spoke ... (159 words)

I want to get him out of my life - but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help I'm trying to get over my ex! I have relapsed 2 times now I'm trying to not go 2 weeks without talking to him then end up seeing him again.I know he's no good for me I just feel alone and need some company and see him. I would think I could handle it but I can't! I ... (94 words)

Does a second attempt at a relationship can really work in the end?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age - Hi. I met a man a year ago on a dating site over the net. Four inconsistent months later, he informed me of his being in a three-year relationship where "she never once introduced him to her children" thereby him feeling "shunned" deluding himself, feeling he was nothing more ... (183 words)

How do I choose which vibrator to buy?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the best first time vibrator. I am 17 and thinking of buying one to help me get my first orgasm. I have an Ann Summers shop near me so I would prefer to buy one from there. What is the best first time one and how is it best to pick one? Please help me!... (60 words)

10 years and the love has faded. Should we give up or carry on the relationship without intimacy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in my relationship for 10 years, we get on great and he is my best friend but after 10 years neither of us is sure if we want to get married (which people keep asking us). Also, we very rarely kiss (properly) or have sex, it has never been a big part of our ... (93 words)

Why am I afraid of living with my boyfriend?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend asked me to move in with me today, and my reaction was to freak out! what should I do now and should i move in with him? we've been together 3 years, and he has been a good bf, supporting me in whatever i do. We've lived in a student house with other peopl... (242 words)

Sexual harrassment by work colleague outside the work place, what can be done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I work for a call centre and recently they have taken temp staff on, some of which are male. I amongst others have been allocating to help train 2. They have been there only 7 days and on the first Friday we all went to local bar after work at 4pm. There was a large gr... (261 words)

Hugging my friend, I realised my current relation may not be want I wish...

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've been with my boyfriend for just under a month now and things are good [although sometimes I do feel under pressure to do stuff which isn't quite as good] and today I was round a friends house. just an average thing gamings session as you do, and his friend call him M ... (108 words)

Any home treatment for Breast Enlargement (maybe a massage oil)?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Any home treatment for Breast Enlargement or any oil available for breast massage reagarding the same ... (18 words)

He's the cheese to my macaroni, I think I love him or am I just attached to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all i have a question that most people have problems with figuring out. i feel that im in love with my boyfriend but could it just be that i have an attachment to him i feel like the happiest when im with him. ive had many boyfriends and each one has treated me badly but ... (120 words)

Why do some men disrespect their voluntary promises, over again? How does a woman address this without coming across as hyper-sensitive??

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi this one is for the guys. This has been happening to me a lot lately and it's really starting to confuse and confound me. Here's my question -- why do men volunteer to do something specific and then not do it? Here is what I mean. One Friday I'm hanging out with this... (458 words)

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i have been seeing my boyfriend for about 6 months but i have always been quite shy about initiating sex and initiating kisses etc. i don't know why it makes me nervous, but it does. Recently my bf says he doesnt like having to initiate everything anymore, it makes him feel ... (202 words)

Should I be worried about the blood that came with defloration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i recently had sex for the 2nd time with a guy i'm seeing but after i found blood all over the place , it turns out i'd split !?! now i'd understand (but still be mortified) if it was at the bottom of my vagina or something but it was just a rip down one of my lips i dont ... (120 words)

I never thought real love is so easy to get over?! In matters of days?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Quick question- Can you be out of love in 3 days? Or was it most likely not love? I never thought real love would be so easy to get over. Thanks.... (31 words)

I would have sworn he was acting and looking at me like a man in love, not an ex boyfriend, was he only trying to let me down gently?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Split with b/f of a year a month ago.He claims he doesnt love me anymore and would like to be friends.Anyway we met up last week for the first time and I got very upset,he was so affectionate towards me,stroking my hair,wiping away my tears and stroking my face.When it was tiem ... (225 words)

Sometimes I wonder if he's been teased for liking me, as I'm not popular in college, so could it work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey ok ive never had a bf before but to be hoenst never really wanted one. But i seriously love this lad who i'm friends with now theres times which are most of the time i just long to be with him but i also think he may like me back(me and a friend are trying to find out) and ... (290 words)

I'm worried about her cheating on me again because she has had a record of cheating on everyone she goes out with...

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19 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey I'm going back out with my ex gf(she asked me bak out this time). we went out about...2 or 3 months ago. lasted about a month then we broke up. we are essentially best friends and from what I understand she broke up with me then because she was guilty from cheating on me ... (102 words)

How to let him know how I feel, should I be chatty, smiley and touchy-feely?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a man at work who i have feelings for and i am unsure wether his feelings are reciprocated! i want to give you the full story so you can make a judgement. when i first met this man i had a boyfriend but i felt as though he fancied me, dont ask me how, just call i... (682 words)

The day I found out about my parent's disease, my boyfriend was unsupportive. Since we generally have a rocky relation, would it be best to break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i could really do with some help or advice....i'll try and cut this long story short and get to the point. basically last week i found out that my mother is in the early stages of alzheimers disease. im absolutely devastated and cant come to terms with it all. to make things ... (284 words)

There are times I feel like doing something behind my husband's back and keeping my OWN secrets, as I am tired of HIS!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This is an update on a previous post on 20th March: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/affair-update---what-do-i-do.html Once again Tuatara thanks for the great advice. I have been keeping an eye on things the past few weeks. My husband and i are now getting on and although... (460 words)

What Lubricant should I use with my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am planning to get into anal play with my girlfriend. I know she wants to since she mentioned it to me. I purchased a very expensive lube made in germany, it is $26 for 80 ml plus shipping from overseas. It is called Bioglide Anal: 100% Biological lubricant made e... (133 words)

Does he like me or did my friend imagine it?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone.. i have a problem.. there is this guy who comes to my place everyday to help my father and play with my kid brother..he's been coming for 6 whole months and i never noticed him.. one day a friend of mine came to my place when he was also there and well..she ... (116 words)

Gay feelings but I am straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

19 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im a boy and im straight.Im addicted to mustarbating and i have developed that i lost interest in girl i always want to have sex with other boys.IS THIS NORMAL?... (30 words)

Are these bumps du to shaving or an STI?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have small bumbs on my vagina and they are SO itchy that its hard to sleep at night time. I havent had sex for 6 months so i dont think thats its an STI. Its so itchy and so hard to sleep and i dont know how to get rid of it. I shave so im not sure whether that would mean ... (78 words)

My boyfriend wants a break but I can't cope...

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been going out about a month, i know its not too long but the connection between us is so strong. we've both been hurt before especially him who just broke up with his exgf. Its lasted about 1 year n 10 months she cheated on him over 4 times and he k... (224 words)

Confused about my sexuality...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i apoligise now for this being a little long erm well i am a 12 year old girl and whenever no one is in the house i go on the pc and look at lesbian porn the i go in my bedroom and masturbate so much i actually SQURIT. it feels nice and i like it but is it wrong to be look... (156 words)

We are both virgins and I'll be very gentle, is this a good way to start?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

19 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi-me and my girlfriend will be having sex for the 1st time.I'll be very gentle going in.I've heard its best not to stroke too much at 1st but try and wriggle the penis around inside a bit so that my girfriends vagina gets used to it being in and this also helps give her early ... (62 words)

How do I deal with their teases that became annoying after a year?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, alot of guys i know think i look like 50 Cent, the rapper, and they always call me "CURTIS' because they think it's funny...and whenever me and one of the guys are alone, they say i don't really look like him..i just don't understand...i told them ALL to stop but they ... (91 words)

How frequent is pregnancy by using the withdrawal method?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Who has actually gotten pregnant while using the pull-out method? I don't mean if he accidentally didn't pull out in time, I mean who has gotten pregnant just from pre-cum? I had a c-section 5 weeks ago and I haven't been bleeding for a few weeks and I thought I started my ... (124 words)

I pardoned the fact he engaged in sexual talks with women online, but I feel insecure and jealous now, help!

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19 April 2008 (F)

age - Just before my boyriend left to return to his home country, i found he was talking sexually to women on internet. He begged me to give him another chance, and i dont want to lose him over that...however, im insecure and jealous now and cant trust him. i get so annoyed with him, ... (89 words)

How can I learn how to orgasm? Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have read the other questions related to this on the website but I am still slightly confused. Does a woman have to learn how to orgasm? I am 17 and have never experienced an orgasm, and I'm worried there is something wrong. Other girls I speak to say they orgasm most... (257 words)

How can somebody be a part of your life, tell you they love you and won't hurt you, then do the contrary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - It's been 6 weeks and i still think she's gonna call in the back of my mind. I dont' know what to do i constantly think of her people said give it time I have given it time and it still hurts everywhere i go i think about her I go to the clubs and I see girls wearing nice ... (271 words)

It's hard to be friends because we weren't friends prior to dating, now he acts as if we never even had a relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been boyfriend trouble. me and my boyfriend of 4 months broke up. i am very hurt since this happened tuesday, I know that us being 14 and all you cant really say it was love but We honestly were in love. now its gone. He acts now as if nothing bothers him, like ... (163 words)

I feel down all the time...

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 13 and need some help. I get REALLY REALLY REALLY angry at times over the stupidest of things but it's getting to the stage when I'm putting my self in danger and end up thinking dark things. I'm hardly ever happy any more and when I am I need to put my self down so bas... (81 words)

Attempting anal in premiere - any tips to make the experience more enjoyable and less painful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

19 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old gay male and I am thinking about having anal sex for the first time with my best friend im a little nervous but excited at the same time does anybody have some tips or advice to help me make the experience more enjoyable or less painful or just some advice on ... (59 words)

I don't know how to tell my gf that I cheated on her too or if we should stay together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night, a girl i've liked for a while..we slept together and kissed and cuddled all night. I have a girlfriend and i dont know what to do... My girlfriend cheated on me before a couple of months ago and i forgave her.. i dont know how to tell her or should we stay to... (61 words)

I'm stuck having feelings for 2 very different guys with different feelings for both...Do I go for mental or physical attraction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm stuck having feelings for 2 very different guys with different feelings for both... I was with my ex boyfriend for a year, lived together, the relationship was more based around me being attracted to his personality than looks, and we have an amazing chemistry, we ju... (167 words)

Please help me help my sister!

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Heya. My sister, Steph (16) met a guy on the net last may, and she is obsessed with him and wants to meet him! Im really worried that he will turn out to be someone other than what he is saying he is! Please help me help my sister!!!!!!!!!!!!! From ~tasha xXx... (57 words)

Do I stay or do I go?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i met a lad who is afew months younger than me i am 18 and he is 17 wel he turns 18 this week we met in a pub i gave him my number and we arranged to meet up we met up and i really liked him we started goin out and then he finished with me the next day because i was ... (311 words)

Do you think I've hurt his feelings by backing off from the relationship?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently told the guy I've been dating for 2 months that I wanted to stop seeing him for the time being. We got really intimate(but no intercourse) on the last date. Frankly he wanted more but I was not ready so we only masturbated each other. Do you think I've hurt his ... (93 words)

How much is too much for a blowjob to be given in one night?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How much is too much for a blowjob to be given in one night? I gave the guy I was seeing 3 times in 1 night because I caved in to his demand. He was moaning and I was turned on although I don't really enjoy putting his penis in my mouth. But I was happy because I made him ... (66 words)

Do men enjoy getting oral sex more than normal intercourse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men enjoy getting oral sex more than normal intercourse? Personally I'd rather skip intercourse to worry less about getting pregnant. Any opinions?... (23 words)

Are these sexual thoughts wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 n ive recently started having serious sexual thoughts about a lad i know. ive never thought like this before n it shocked me a bit. he says he thinks about me in THAT way too - he texts me all the time saying things about sex n like 'imagine us together. with my hard **** ... (88 words)

When I have developed the slightest feeling for a person, I find myself being unable to talk to them... help!

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I'm going to tell you my problem...I hope you can help me with this. I'm at college and recently I met this guy. He is 3 years older than me, he is a senior (i don't know if that's what you call someone whe is at the last year of university). He is reall... (267 words)

Can a fleshlight provide good sexual training?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

19 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I am 24, still a virgin. As I have moderately high sex drive and do not want to visit hookers or embark on one-night stands, I usually use sex toys (such as the Fleshlight) for masturbation purposes as I am kinda sick of using my hands, and they led to abrasion some... (204 words)

How to move on from someone you love and think about all the time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

19 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How does one move on from somebody they love, and still think about all the time? She moved away, so she broke it off after 3 years. I told her exactly how I feel about her, but she says that this is the end of us. She mentioned that "Maybe some day, but it's pretty unlikely". ... (80 words)

He cancels dates and doesn't call me, only to act so nice and flirty afterwards, why?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If a guy isn't interested in you anymore why does he keep coming back. There is this guy that clearly doesn't like me anymore but he still talks to me at work. He still kinda* flirts. But its obvious he doesn't want anything with me. Examples, he cancels dates; doesn't call... (99 words)

Feeling insecure about the little scarring on my face...

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a little scarring on my face and tend to have breakouts now and then. there is a boy who keeps staring at me everytime he sees me and i don't know why. is it because he likes me or does he think i'm ugly?... (46 words)

I am needing some companionship and I am not getting it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP Feeling Un-wanted and rejected MY hubby and I have been married for 4 years. Let me give you a little history lesson first. We have had a few rough patches in our marriage. About two years ago I was going to school to became a medical assistant and there were... (598 words)

How can you lie like that to someone you care about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. A few months back he told me he smoked one cigarette. At the time he came clean about it and swore he would never do it again. He said it was a one time thing just to see what it was like. He said he would never do ... (395 words)

I want to ask her out but I'm not sure how or when I should do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

19 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, prom is coming up and im going with a freind. there is this girl ive liked for quite a while, weve been freinds for years, recently she told me she likes me but still has feelings for a mutual freind of ours. i want to ask her out but im not sure how or when i should do ... (67 words)

What are the signs that he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive known this lad for just over a year now n i REALLY REALLY like him as a friend n recently felt much more for him! my feelings for him are really strong - im wondering if the feelings mutual? i mean, he texts me all the time, talks to me loads n iv seen him lookin @ me ... (148 words)

I'm married and recently had sex with another man. Will continuing this ruin my life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in an extremely happy and stable marriage. A few months ago, my husband out-of-the-blue suggested that since he had experienced many women before we started dating and that he was my one and only, that I should be able to now sleep with other guys. I've always been a flirt ... (195 words)

Am I blinded by love for an older man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi just need a bit of advice. Im almost 28 and im falling in love with a 43 year old man. Is a 15 year age gap really not and issue or am i just blinded by love? I have been in a fair few bad relationships over the years with guys my own age and I always feel like the mature o... (142 words)

Why can't I cum when my boyfriend fingers me?

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19 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Why don't I reach orgasm when my bf fingers me? It feels good at times but that feeling doesn't make me cum and my bf feels bad about it.... (30 words)

How can I ease my mind about my boyfriend going out of town? I feel so selfish!

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19 April 2008 (F) age 30-35 - My BF may be going away for a weekend (in like 2 more weeks) to some far away city, with his friends and classmates, for some school trip. They're going to be in these meetings with experts about psychology (he's in the Psychology program in his uni). Since we've been together, ... (230 words)

My boyfriend is getting tired of my weeping, how do I overcome this?

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19 April 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Ok, here's my problem: Ever since I was a little girl, I've been a "weeper". The thing is, I cry about a lot of things! When people argue with me, I cry. When people said mean stuff to me as a girl, I cried. My mom always told me I was too weak, because I cried about litt... (202 words)

How do I give her an orgasm without a vibrator?

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19 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi there,im in a long distance relationship with my and she occasionally talks about making love and related topics.we had sex once when we met last year,i didnt cum.neither did she and she says its very hard to make her cum.she said for me to use a vibrator on her then for us ... (104 words)

I worried about my internet boyfriend emailing other girls! What do I tell him?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 3 weeks and we met on the internet and in person only once.Recently he asked me to check his mail on the internet while he was away and I found a message from him to another girl and he was wanting her number so he could call her and ... (92 words)

Now that my boyfriend changed his password I don't even want to see him! Why?

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19 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Since my boyfriend change his cell phone password, it got me thinking that he is hidding something from me or he is cheating on me. That situation make me think act different when I'm with him, every time I see him or with him, it get me wonder. Now, I don't even wana see him, ... (122 words)

When you are FWB and agree to be faithful, what is considered cheating?

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19 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, so I'm looking to see what you make of this... I'm with a girl, we arn't really going out, we're like friends with benefits, but we ended up agreeing to each other that we'd be faithful, and we both like each other, why we arn't going out I'm not too sure, probably b... (708 words)

Stuck in the middle so please HELP!!

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i think im in love with these two really great guys and i need help choosing between them i dont know who i love more one guys new and the other one broke my heart but says hes willing to change what can i do to choose between them ????... (51 words)

Is it wrong for him to tell me how long he's been married? What does this mean?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please give me your opinion! I have a friend who's married and to my knowledge he's happily married. He was telling me the other day he's being married for 3 years now, and he was kinda complaining that he travels a lot and this time he'll lose their wedding annivers... (153 words)

Was this a wet dream?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I had the strangest dream... Last night i dreamt i had sex with my idol. (Prince) and he had a very big dick i mean HUGE! And i gave him a hand job and blow job (not in that order) and i was playing with the foreskin and it came off and i had a great time plus we made love ... (107 words)

I am bi-curious...how do I approach my best friend about having sex?

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19 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So i think that I am bi Curiouse and i would love to have sex with my best friend but im not sure if he would be into it to give you some background on the situation about a year ago we got drunk and got naked and just masturbated together and compared cocks and we did this ... (123 words)

What can I do to get sex more than once a month?!

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and in the 4 years I only get sex once a month sometimes once every 3 to 4 months. What can I do to get some love.... (41 words)

Have I wasted 5 1/2 years with this guy?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 1/2 years and we've lived together for 90% of that time. He is 30 and I am 26. He has a full-time job and I have started my own business in the last year. I like change and he is the exact opposite. I have been having issues for ... (414 words)

Is he being polite or is our attraction mutual?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - But asks me how am I doing and stuff and keeps in touch (as friends I guess), so why do guys do this if they´re not interest. Is like he wants but at the same time he withdraws, so what up? I know he can be polite, but I don´t think someone can go on like that just to be polit... (83 words)

He agreed to talk....what does this say about our relationship?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - question, I'm a christian, I dated someone for 3 years. now he can't handle it. he leaves. but when i wanted to meet with him to talk, he agreed. what do you think about this relationship?... (38 words)

My boyfriend wants our relationship to be a "secret"! Why?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend told me that he wants our relationship secret because i am not style and because its not the right time yet, he said it is ok to show it and let other people know our relationship when he already retire in managing his own company....i dont know what he means but ... (57 words)

Best friends with a married man so will he ever leave his wife? Is it because of money?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 37 yo woman with 3 children who has been married for 18 years and my marriage was over for months before I met this married man who said his marrieage ended a year before that too. We became best friends and helped each other through our ending marriages for 7 months. ... (216 words)

Determined to move on, but I still always think of her!

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19 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Determined to move on from my ex, but I'm finding it hard. I keep telling myself that I will find somebody better, and I'm starting to believe that more than I used to. But anytime I so much as hear somebody with the same name as her, hear a place we visited together, or esp... (222 words)

Should we call it quits if he's not sure if we should move in together?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years i'm moving out in January and he still doesnt know if we're ready to live together? If he's still unsure after two years do you think we should call it quits?? Thanks!... (42 words)

Attracted to my little sister but I don't think it's wrong!

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19 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am attracted to my little sister and I don't think it is wrong. i always have an erection around her and we are home alone a lot. she is just too sexy to ignore. i want to have sex with her but i don't think she wants it with me. if i can't have sex, i want to at least see ... (77 words)

Am I a minority here?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Am i in the minority here? I get bored of men after a few months. We can email, meet up, text and i keep them at arms length, and then, i just get bored. Everything stops. No more emails, i send a couple of texts when i have nothing else to do, but thats it. I am begi... (186 words)

Why can't I stay pregnant?

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19 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all i need help ok ive been trying to get pregnant since september of last year and ive been pregnant but miscarried and i was devastated. now i think that i cant even get pregnant because of my past medical history i had cancer when i was 7 i had leukeniaand now im starting ... (80 words)