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How do I gain my boyfriend's trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (? age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now, and he says he doesnt trust me, I really love him but dont know if I cant gain someones trust? Can someone help on this, and tell me what to do?... (42 words

My live-in boyfriend seems to be leading his ex on! I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We met after he moved to my town, away from where he had a very good group of mates so i try to be very accepting that he needs ties with them and we visit whenever possible. We live together and have a good relation... (298 words


   

Does jumping from one relationship to the next work? My girlfriend of 19yrs did this to me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - My ex left me after 19 years together. I tried desperately to make efforts to sit down and discuss things. But she didnt want to know. Within three weeks she told me she had moved on and had found someone else.That really hurt because I turned up at her workplace hoping we ... (135 words

Can you be 12 weeks pregnant on not realize it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - can you be 11-12 weeks pregnant without actually realising? I have been feeling out of sorts lately, tiredness, being uncomfortable at night, very slight nausea etc. This past week when i put my hands in my jacket pockets n feel my belly it doesn't feel the same as normal, ... (106 words

I can't imagine my life without him.....but is my teacher really interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - i'm 21 years old and i guess i can say i've experienced love but nothing like this. The only problem is, he's my teacher. He's also 43 but age is has nothing to do with it. NO kids, no wife but a girlfriend. I've never met someone who is soo intelligent and kind. We always ... (106 words

   

New relationship involves a lot of DRAMA.....how do I work through this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 110 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Please help, this is the question.. Does she really want this?? This is the problem... me and my girlfriend have been dating around 10 months.... at first it was great! we had fun and were happy.... the "honeymoon period" is now well and truly over not that i want it to be! ... (179 words

It seems like she dumped me so she could be single and sleep around....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M - I sent my ex an email the other day telling her that I couldn't be friends with her anymore because it is too hard. She sent me a response this afternoon and I just don't really have a clear head as to what it all means... what do you guys think? Part of me is so ang... (814 words

Why do men not call after the first few dates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Why do men, after a few dates and telling you how nice you are, suddenly never call you again??... (19 words

Is it okay to be "boy crazy" at my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - Is it ok to be a little boy crazy ? like loving one boy . Liking two... and thinking 2 more are very cute . Is it wrong to flirt with all of them ??? tell me what you think ( thanks in advance ) *~VG~*... (58 words

He said he was interested but he's not acting like it! So, should I confront him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 35 year old single mom. I met this man at a local restaurant and became instantly interested. He is 26 years old. I had a mutual friend get his number for me and I sent him a text message and asked if he was married. We began to speak,he called me. He is Mexican and has ... (277 words

Forbidden love is hell! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Im 16. And, i met somebody on holiday to egypt. I am a male, and i fell in love with him. I know he feels the same way. As he told me before i left. But. the only time i get to see him is on msn. Will my feelings ever change? because it kills me to not see him. As... (85 words

I am a single mom and would like to attract more male attention! Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am 39 year old woman with two children. I'm not in a relationship at the moment, and haven't been for six years. I don't go out much as I can't afford it. I haven't got a lot of confidence in myself and become very nervous around men who I am attracted to. I would rate myself ... (100 words

I'm ready to settle down but he isn't.....will our long-term goals tear us apart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Need advice My bf is 32, i'm 27 and we've been together for almost a year. We are great together, we make each other laugh, spend a lot of time together, met each other's families and friends and basically all the ingredients of a good relationship. The problem is, we have dif... (412 words

He wants to just be "friends" even though he flirts with me....any tips on changing his mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - There's a guy that goes to college with me. he's 25 and i'm about to be 19. we get on really well, and have this flirty manner towards each other. i asked him out back in january not knowing he'd just broke up with his 5 year long gf. he told me we should just be friends ... (167 words

Why do I keep choosing "mommy's boys" ?! How can I pick stronger guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - im 28 and i have trouble keeping a boyfriend as ive had 3 long term relationships its not me but the chaps i choose are weak mummys boys where am i going wrong they all says im not the problem i need some help here... (45 words

I kissed my married boss!! Am I awful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Oh my god!! ive just got back from the pub and i feel so so so bad. ive never felt guilt like this before. im quite drunk, god il tell you what happened please help/ i love my boy friend so so so so much so much he's amazung to me and he makes me so happyy but i just... (160 words

Is it cheating to masterbate over pictures of your wife's sisters?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - Is it cheating because I masturbate over pictures of my wife's two sisters?... (13 words

A story called Love.....am I lost for good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - I was 17, she was 15. We snuck away to a field near my moms house. Under the stars on an old sleeping bag Id had since Boy Scouts we Both made love for the first time. We fell asleep in that field that night and as you might figure, awoke to angry parents everywhere. We... (1357 words

I'm having casual sex with my gay best friend, is this okay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Got myself in to a bit of a pickle. I have a best friend - we'll call him Harry. He's gay and for years he has always sort of been my "gay best friend." We do everything together and everyone has always joked we're like a couple. We stay over at eachothers flats, go out to ... (328 words

About to get Married! Any marriage advice from married people?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello all...I'm just asking advice on marriage, we are getting married next week (after a 6 month romance). We just returned from 3 weeks in the tropics, spending 24/7 together, and we agree that we are just meant to be together. We are going to get on with this with as ... (139 words

My relationship is an emotional roller coaster...he keeps yelling at me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year. At first everything was great and he was so sweet and always there for me. Now he yells all the time and tells me what I'm suppose to do and I better do it. He dont want me to talk to anyone besides him. After he does ... (160 words

Is it common to lose your sex drive after being with your partner awhile?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - i have lost my sex drive, i love my partner very much but i cant get horny with her. we have been together for 2 years. is it common to loose your sex drive when with someone a while?? ... (41 words

Could I get pregnant from "pre-cum" or is it just the pill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I was recently starting birth control and stayed on it for about 2 1/2 weeks and then stopped because I couldn't take the side effects of the pill. Now, when I first started taking the pill, on the 4th day of taking the pill, I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend but he ... (195 words

Any advice regarding Hepatitis B? I was just diagnosed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - help!! i have been diagnosed of hypertitis B. is there a doctor here who can advice me on what to do? i mean what drugs to buy, what food to eat and what food to avoid. how dangreous is this desease. help cus i don't know to do.... (51 words

After we broke up she "learned a few new things"! Having a hard time getting over the "she waited for me like a saint"! What do you think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - I'm a 24yr old male who has been with a girl since the 5th grade from puppy love to high school sweethearts. This girl has always loved me ever since I can remember but I have always taken her for granted. Not because I don't care for her but because I wanted to try other girls ... (253 words

How do I deal with this pests obsession with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Ok, I'm going to try and keep this simple. There's a guy who works in the shop across from me, and he's more than a little obsessed with me. It really freaks me out so I just tend to run away! But now he's taken to coming to the club I go to every wednesday, and 2 weeks ago, I ... (228 words

I'm a virgin and about to get married..honeymoon tips wanted!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I'm twenty and still a VIRGIN ALL THE WAY. i have never even kissed a boy and about to get married in a few short months to a man who is also a virgin and has also never "bin there done that" I'm pretty sure the only sexual action we have both gotten was masturbation but we ... (121 words

Is the withdrawing method safe?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - me and my husband just had sex since last week but he never discharge inside he always dischare outside but i am confussed will i get pregnant......or not this time we never use proctection cause since long time we were using that so this time we decided to do it like that ... (61 words

Is my husband have still having a relationship with his old gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - how to find out that my husband is still have relation with his own old girlfriend. just today i find my husband private e-mail id and i tryed some of his passwords and luckly i got it right but when i opened his mail id i find that still he is sending mails to his old gf and ... (140 words

I'm being sexually harassed by an online stalker!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - Help! Please. I'm fourteen years old, and I'm being sexually harassed by someone over the internet. I've blocked the person from my contacts list and everything, but he always finds a way. He knows every single website I go on and sends me naked pictures of him. He's also asked ... (99 words

I'm scared she won't take me seriously unless I go to the extremes... any advice?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - I'm going to really cut a long story short. About a year ago I fell in love with this absoutley amazing woman, as everyone says when they fall in love, yet I couldn't tell her due to our situations. In July last year I commented that I was really suicidual to a friend, over her ... (289 words

She wants me to be more aggressive with my love-making!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - My wife says I love her , make love to her, too softly she wants me to be more aggressive. I need some examples and she says to me , figure it out . "I want to be taken not made love to". Help!... (44 words

How do I treat this meeting with ex school friend I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - I've been talking to this lad online(from school)for years now, we talk everynight and have alot in common. He went to my old school, so i know him pretty well. The other night he asked me if we wanted to meet up somewhere(just us two), but i'm nervous because were not actually ... (120 words

Does she want me back or was it just sympathy sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 26-29 - i broke up with her about 20 days before.she said that she lost attraction to me.i found out that she was asking my friends about me and that she thinks that sometime we will be together again.she also asked my sister three times if there is a girl that i had sex with during ... (152 words

She says she loves me as a friend but I'm not convinced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - hey, i recently posted this problem on here, 'I have a problem with my ex-girlfriend. after she finished with me we decided to stay friends and i really wanted that because i didn't want to lose her. However i've been feeling like she doesn't want to now. she never ... (204 words

My friend put the phone down on me for trying to help her relationship with her guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 26-29 - A bf of my friend apparently keeps messing her around. She rang me last night, I asked her how he was, and she said he was okay when she sees him (apparently only Fridays for an hour or a night - he says he's always busy other times). I said to her last night that she's go... (107 words

How can I get him back when he wont even tell me why he dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - hey guys i'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16 i want to no how i can win my ex back okay so this may sound a little crazy...but.... Me and my ex had been going out 8months roughly and then he dumped me...the story to it was we were talking on msn and he was stoned and he goes to m... (423 words

I have no problem erecting but I can't "finish"-Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - I am 21 and when i have intercourse i cant get off. I dont know what is wrong with me but when i have sex i have no problem getting it hard and ready but once i start i just cant orgasum. The girls that I am with usually have to stop before i even get any chance of getting ... (134 words

Does child abuse make you question your sexuality in later life ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I think,reading between the lines and small things mentioned,that my boyfriend may have been abused in his past,possibly as a child.As a result of this he is unable to have sex and has called an end to the realtionship stating he is not in love with me.Does anyone know that as ... (93 words

My uncle is sex-pesting me, I don't want to say anything to my family, but what can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - Hi, While I was camping a couple of years ago I slept in another camper tent. There are three double beds. My Cousin in one my other cousin in another and next to one of the beds is another one that my aunty and uncle sleep. I slept next to my cousing in the bed next to my a... (180 words

How can I trace my father?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I was born in 1977 and my father never acknowledged me. I was adopted by who I call my real father when I was 2. My mother wont give anything away but iv had my gran tell me his name and where he was from at the time. I dont know what to do next. I've googled his n... (105 words

Why am I not able to like someone and have them like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F - Hey, Here's my (slightly confusing) situation: I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend, never even kissed a guy or anything. Until about half a year ago, I had *major* confidence and shyness issues, and also I never bothered about my appearance - so I'd just put it down to that.... (267 words

My step-daughter hates me..advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - my step daughter causes trouble she hates me what can i do any answers... (16 words

They don't like me because I'm different, how do I chill out and fit in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - i've always had a problem when it comes to making friends and fitting in, i'm not nasty or anything just quite shy. I admit i am abit different and when i started this year on my course i fit in really well but with people being there from school they know what i used to be ... (267 words

How do I know for sure if hes used me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - i feel used my partner only wanted a so called stable homelife for his kids but now hes got them hes changed... (22 words

What to do when he is the other woman???? He dresses like a woman... this is a passion-killer.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - WHAT TO DO WHEN HE’S THE OTHER WOMAN Last year I dated nearly 20 men. Thrice married and failed I wanted to do it right this time, after all, I'm 55. I met a verile, intelligent, talented man. He's 51, a bronc rider and professional country dancer. The latter we had mu... (405 words

I need to change myself or I will destroy this relationship for good!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi I know this question has been asked many times, but I still have to ask ... I dont know what to do with myself. I am pretty jealous and I really don't want to be, cause I have the feeling I will destroy the whole relationship if I dont stop this... For example. ... (278 words

Sex with ex and now I'm starting to have feelings for him again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - hi iam 22 i live in ohio well my ex boyfriend and i have been broke up for 3 months now and we had sex last night for the first time since we broke up iam was doing great and now iam starting 2 have feelings all over again for him i think what should i do please help me ... (61 words

I said I could forgive the cheating but he replied he can't trust himself any longer and feels confused. Will he want me back in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hi, I really don't know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months and we were completely in love. I know it sounds daft but we were happy together and he wanted to marry me, have kids with him etc. We've lived apart for the last year, which has been tough on bo... (413 words

I get the feeling I'll never settle into a strong relationship, friends have comforted me but the thoughts return...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - Right, this is going to seem a bit of a strange question (as was my last one (I was given some good help for that, thanks)) Anyway... I'm completely obsessed with music and like something in nearly every genre. I have a playlist set uup on my phone which I listen to frequ... (210 words

My BF is bipolar and finds it hard to obtain work, should he lie about his medical history, other suggestions to facilitate the opening of perspectives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi my boyfriends bi-polar and struggling to get work because of his medical history. He seems to be getting more depressed and recently said he as to accept is life is over. Should he lie about his history? Does anyone know where he can get help getting work?... (48 words

She wants to get to know me so why am I feeling confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 26-29 - Well, There is this girl I like and we are in 1 of the same classes together. Before i saw that she would stare into my eyes sometimes but I never had the courage to talk to her, so I sent her an anonymous message over facebook. Well, about a month after I did talk to her in ... (215 words

How could he fancy me, when everyone says I'm ugly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - in the past ive been told by most people that im ugly and i believe them. ive got a horrible face, a huge nose, horrible eyebrows n im fat too. but now there is 1 lad (who is a lil older than me) who texts me a lot and tells me he thinks im gorgeous n that he likes me. hes good ... (94 words

My period is over due...when did I conceive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - i had my last LMP on march 6th it lasted 4 days. I had sex 15th and 16th march, was extremely hot and sweaty 17,18 and 19th march and releaed alot of mucus. Also had cramps. I then had sex on 21st march too. Am now 3 days od for period, when did i conceive. ... (56 words

Before we got serious he was also sleeping with someone else from work and I have only recently found this out. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have been seeing someone for over a year now and for the last 4-5 months we have become serious. I work with him and our relationship has devolped into a very loving serious one. The best I have ever had and he says it is for him too. The problem is before we got serious he ... (276 words

How do I get over him after five longs years - and is this my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Please help. My boyfriend dumped me a month ago. for reference, here is an edited version of the post I put up a few weeks ago.... I have been seeing my boyfriend for five years. It has always been a bit rocky, but recently things have been great and I finally thought we... (1118 words

Living with a depressed person - our sex life has vanished and I feel unattractive - how to cope??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Is this normal?- living with a depressed person My boyfriend (whom i live with) is under treatment for depression. He is taking anti depressants and seeing a psychotherapist every 2 weeks. He seems to be slowly responding to his antidepressants and can often have low days whe... (275 words

Need some interesting topics that we can talk about??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - uhm...i need advice AGAIN...well theres a girl that i chat with everyday!!i need sime topics interesting topics that we can talk about??i also want to talk about naughty stuff but not to naughty??help on that please!!because i dont want to give her the wrong impression!! sh... (108 words

Have been involved with my boss, now he promoted me his personal assisstant, does this mean he wants more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I really don’t know what to do….. recently (in the past week) I had ‘relations’ with my boss…. Today, I got promoted to his ‘personal assistant’, and that means that I’m in his office 24/7, running errands for him and in contact at all times… hes a genuine guy, and is not in a ... (68 words

It was just like a scene from a movie, help me make it real please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F - There is this guy in one of my university lectures who always seems to sit in the row in front of me. The other day we had what I would describe as a 'tpyical movie like scene'. I dropped my books onto the floor (by accident!) and I was about to pick them up and he turns around ... (150 words

How do I ask my ex manager out without him freaking out?... He seems insecure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - hi everyone! so, i like this reali amazing guy... hes turning 22 and im 18, he used to work with me, he was my manager and lately weve become great friends, hes different from others his age - hes straight edge, intellectual i mean he runs a business and he doesnt let his ... (93 words

My friend told me that guy just wanted sex, could that be true??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hello I met a guy last month. He's charming. He invited me to his home twice. And he's trying to get something more. I really like him. But I don't want to have sex with him since I am not ready. Recently, he became cold and seems to keep distance with me. I know that he ... (159 words

My boss hired me because I'm hot?!?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - my boss told me that i 'mainly got the job based on the fact that i looked hot, and sexy'.... what should i say?... (24 words

My boyfriend is a hermit! Why is he hiding our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - this is my first boyfriend and i have to admit...the circumstances are very annoying. his mother doesn't let him out of the house - EVER. he spends his weekends AT HOME watching TV or playing on the computer. and of course..like any 16 year old guy - he wants "something" from ... (301 words

Is it because of my ex I have problems with my new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I just got of a cheating relationship. I'm seeing a new guy and he tells me he's coming over after he does his homework....I think he's lieing...but he wasn't my friend dates his roommate and he as there the whole time doing his work. Today he said he was coming over he didn't ... (119 words

Why am I seeing so many underage people asking for advice about sex?....

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - Why am i seeing so many underage people asking for advice about sex?....do they not have responsible parents anymore?....I know there is a lot more pressure to perform nowadays, unlike when i was a teenager, but it still dosent explain it to me, do these children have no ... (57 words

My insecurity drove him away can anyone help me cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - hey there.im feeling so so low at the moment. i have been going out with the most amazing amazing guy in the world for nearly a year. we had some amazing times.however i was a very very jealous and insecure girlfriend and drove him away. he came to see me the other night and ... (321 words

My fiancee is still seeing his ex, should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - My fiancee would not stop seeing his ex wife. I would understand if there are kids involve, but they dont have any kids. He tells me that he loves me, but he wont stop seeing her. i confronted him and he said that they are just friends and he only sees her once a year. What ... (59 words

He is so set in his routines, am I being selfish in wanting spontaneity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I am a senior in college, and I have been dating a guy for almost two years. He graduated from college last May and is working now. We don't live together, and we both have busy schedules, so we see each other only on weekends for the most part, but we talk everyday. My boyf... (414 words

I am 20 and too shy to tell my professor I have a crush on him, advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I am 20 years old, in college, and I have a huge crush on my professor. It wasn't a big deal at first, he was just good looking and really funny. But then slowly it developed into this big crush that now I cannot stop thinking about him. I think about him all the time. He isn't ... (141 words

What is the most that a teacher can do with a student??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi...i was wondering: What is the most that a teacher can do with a student???? Are relationships illegal, even if you are about the same age????... (26 words

How do I rejuevenate it's once supple skin.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - My penis has shrivelled up like a fig in the bath. How do i rejuevenate it's once supple skin. Should i go to hospital? Any advise on how it happened?... (31 words

It seems I have a lot of insecurities. Can I get advice on how to control these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

4 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - I'm fairly confident with girls, that isn't the issue. I've met one that I have been dating for about 4 months, and damn I want to keep her for a long time. It seems I have a lot of insecurities; I have that 'natural jealousy' when she talks about her ex-boyfriend, or goin... (112 words

Is there a way to practice going down on a girl before actually doing it?

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4 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - Is there a way to practice going down on a girl before doing it?... (14 words

Am I wrong to be pissed at her and hurt?

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4 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - Am i right to be pissed off? So this girl who i am basically dating (we kiss, hug, cuddle, hang out all the time) but arent official because for some reason she needs time, i found today that she is possibly dating another guy. She has been going to albany(about 1hr away) ... (271 words

I just want to "fall pregnant" !!

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4 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - I know i'm only young but i'm in love with my boyfriend...but there's a problem, i love him too much, i hate it when i'm not with him, and i miss him uncontrolably!! He's someone who really understands me and i trust him compleatly! But i had a pregnancy scare, and even thou... (111 words

How do I stop myself being so jealous of him?

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4 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hi! I've been in a relationship for seven months, we live together already, and started building a house right now. I love him very much and i want to spend the rest of my life with him. I'm always being funny with him, how can i avoid it specially when were going out. I want... (77 words

Please be honest, what does emo mean?

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4 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - Hello. I'm a 12 yr old girl. I'm sill in public school. When i hang out with friends , they often bring up the word ''emo.'' I have never heard of that word before. I really want to know what is means. Be honest, what does emo mean?... (49 words

The biggest issue facing me right now is whether or not I am gay.

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4 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - I'm a 19 year old guy and I am so confused with my life. I need some serious help. The biggest issue facing me right now is whether or not I am gay. I'm going to lay everything out here and hopefully I'll find some help. So here goes. Since I was young I've alway... (277 words

I don't want commitment but this girl does, do you think I should tell her that?

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4 April 2008 (M - Hello hello. Battling with a few things in my love life and i'd appreciate some other peoples views on it. Basicly 2 years ago i felt ways for a girl that id never felt before, closest thing to love i've ever felt, but there was a messy break up after a month which i didnt ta... (237 words

He tells them EVERYTHING he does with me!!

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4 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - My boyfriend (same age) and I have been going out for a couple of months now and we're pretty close. Needless to say, he's practically my best friend. And vice versa...or not. You see, we have mutual "girl"friends and we all sorta have this huge group of friends and just people ... (212 words

All my friends have girlfriends and I don't, it's really depressing me. Please help.

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4 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - All my friends have gf's and like they are always together, but i dont. I feel so lonely and it really hurts, they all have someone to love them but i dont, and its starting to make me depressed. I'm so shy around girls i cant talk to them like other people can. It just make... (94 words

I want know if he likes me, what do you think?

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4 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - i met a guy through my bestfriend. they work together and she has known him a long time. he came over a few days ago to hangout with me, her and her boyfriend. we were all drinking and he ended up stayin the night. although he could have slept on the couch, he asked to slee... (218 words

I love being with him 24/7 so how do I make him care?

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4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I have been dating this guy for almost 3 months, and we talk about our future and we talk about moving away together.... When we got together he smoked pot everyday more than 4 times a day....more than 6 times a day! He eventually saw how much it bothered me that he smoked a... (369 words

Does he like me or not or is this wishful thinking on my part? Please help.

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4 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - Hello Everyone! How are you all doing? I have a bit of a dilemma. It may seem a bit juvenile but I'm really frustrated and irked by it. Anyway I have a major crush on this boy. He's rather cute and we are both in the same grade (9th) and share a few classes together. Anyh... (188 words

I think I depend on my boyfriend too much!! How do I stop being so clingy?

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4 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I'm really down. I feel like I depend on my boyfriend too much. I really love him and he's so important to me. But I hate that I think so much about him and that I rely on him so much. To the point that when he gets mad at me, I get really, really down. I have trust issue... (550 words

I love her but feel that it might be hard to trust her again.

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4 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - Hey guys, Ive been goin out with my g/f for 1 year 1 month now, apart from in december when we had a break, which on the whole was successful. I knew she fancied another guy in this time and had "pecked" him. I found out recently that they had sex once during the time that we... (210 words

My partner hates my mum, but she loves him, what am I supposed to do?

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4 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - My partner and i have been staying at my parents house for about 2 months now while we find a place. But I'm also 29 weeks pregnant, at first they all got along fine, but now my partner is constantly putting them down to me and being all friendly to them, he thinks they do ... (177 words

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