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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is she my friend or is she just screwing with my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I have a rather involved question. In high school I developed romantic feelings for my best friend who was also a female. At the time though I wasn't totally willing to admit to it, and I really tried to push those feelings away, and as such I wasn't always the best of friends, ... (961 words)

Is she cheating, or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice guys. My g/f is working lots of over time at work. She makes an extra effort to look good for work. eg. spends about 2hrs getting ready. She's gone on a diet. She went bowling on works nite out last week. The place shuts at 11pm and she came home gone 2am! Am... (67 words)

Could my friend be pregnant??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend who i love sooo much kind of makes some stupid decisions sometimes. She's on birth control and that usually is enough to keep someone from getting pregnant, but if you have a condom why not use it to make sure you are protecting yourself the best you can, right? We... (206 words)

I really like this girl at school, but I've never had a relationship before, and not sure what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old and i've never had a relationship. There's this girl I really like at school, but i'm not sure what to do.... (27 words)

Has he been pressured into breaking up with me because of the age gap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i'm 20 and was seeing a man of 47 years old who is separated with 2 children. We met at work and started seeing each other when he had problems with his wife, who he eventually separated from. For the past year we were seeing each other and got along really well, and we w... (212 words)

Are all guys put off by their girlfriend's sexual past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old who has been harshly judged by her past. Let's see... I'm now single, I guess. My (ex) B/F left me yesterday, over an issue from my past. Not the first time he's done it. However, yesterday he broke up with me, and today he went on a trip until Saturday. ... (1036 words)

Boys and Men...what do you think about teenage lesbians?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Older men..do you think 'Oh she's just a teenager, it's just a phase..she doesn't really know what she wants'? We had to talk about it in class today and it seemed that most boys thought it 'hot'. I know some guys think that, but what do the others think? Do you guys think it... (114 words)

How can I stop my Husband beating me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I stop my husband from beating me all the time? ... (12 words)

Should I just be patient and wait for his call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just recently got back from a vacation where i met an absolutly wonderful guy. He wrote me a little letter before we left, and we were romantically involved. He gave me his cell number, even though it went into the ocean and doesn't work. I also have his house number whic... (124 words)

I've tried talking to my best friend who is 14 after she slept with a 27 year old, but she wont listen!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my best friend is only 14 she slept with a 27 year old, who has kids, when she was very drunk, she didn't use protection and didn't get the morning after pill. I am worried about her, and not just for the pregnancy side of things. What can i do? I have tryed talking ... (67 words)

My period is late and I haven't had sex. Could I have a tumor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok well my last period was March 17-24 witch is my normal cycle I havent had sex I am still young but I watched a tv show and a girl have a brain tumor and missed her periods well now it is May 1st and I still didnt get my April period tumors dont run in my family but it has ... (93 words)

My husband will not stop looking at porn. How can I make him understand?

This question has 76 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband will not stop looking at porn. i have asked him to stop but he does it behind my back. when i catch him he turns the argument around on me. i am a heavy woman and i am trying to lose weight. it hurts me because i believe he thinks i am not attractive. how can i make ... (67 words)

What does he really mean when he tells me I'm a good girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What's implied when a guy says good girl? He treats me well, we get along and talk alot, but sometimes i get a hint of chauvinism from him. Sometimes he calls me a ''good girl''(eg after or during sex, the 1st time i made a comment that the anal sex we had was pleasant), what ... (75 words)

Is my boyfriend an expert liar, or worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am confused as to what to do with my boyfriend. He genuinelly acts like he cares about me and that he loves me. He says that every one is always saying that they love someone but they don't mean it, but when he says it he means it. He is married, but not happily, he slee... (296 words)

My friends fit into size 4. I'm overweight. How do I diet?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

30 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - well, I'm 16 and weigh about 8 stone. i fit into size 8 or 10 clothes usually. i never thought i was particularly fat, although everyone has hang-ups and I'm no exception. however, today, me and few female friends were talking and i discovered how a few of them can fit into siz... (120 words)

My boyfriend is going away for 4 months. Should we break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hello! I'm a 19 year old girl at university, just finishing my second year out of three, and have been with my lovely boyfriend for over a year. He lives in my home town so we're kind of long distance but obviously I spend all my breaks from university at home so we manage ... (354 words)

Is it OK for girls to look at gay porn?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is it ok for girls to look at gay porn? my parents said being gay was a sin but i like watching the men in the porn and i am worried for hell. also all my guy friends watch porn but say its not right for girls to watch it so am i weird?... (55 words)

A period twice in one month? Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 17 and Kay well I have my period April 7 - 13 and then I got it again April 25 - current... I did have unprotected sex with my boyfriend in between those times.. but I was just wondering if it was normal to get your period twice in one month.. 'cause its not normal for me. ... (90 words)

I'd like some suggestions as to how we forget the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for a long over a year before we broke up. Things weren't good. When we split up, i was devestated, and rebounded almost immediately with a boyfriend, who treated me like a god. My ex and i began to get in contact again, and eventually i cou... (286 words)

How do I get my love back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Forgive me if this is too long- Years ago, I met a wonderful man who fell madly in love with me, back then I was not sure of the things I wanted nor was I taking things seriously. We were together for a year and one day I broke up with him because I had met someone who I ... (231 words)

I love him more than anything and don't want our relationship to end but we're at the verge of breaking up please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 and until last year I'd never kissed anyone, let alone anyone else. When I was at school boys just weren't interested and then when I was older I was so embarrassed by my lack of experience that if guys did show an interest I'd pretend that I wasn't interested in them ... (990 words)

Please read and advise, is this the kind of person I am or even who I want to be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have a problem. I know im going to get all the generic answers of your a bitch who isn't satisfied with your own life so you have to go around messing up other people's etc etc....But Im not like that. Im just a young person who has done things. I shall start at the beg... (603 words)

How can I get a boyfriend without being too forward? Please help I am so lonely.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and i have never had a serious relationship with a boy. My friends tell me i am stunning and they don't understand why i can't get a boyfriend they think its because boys are intimidated by me wich i find hard to believe. I am going to be 18 soon and i am ... (92 words)

I'm in love with my lecturer at university, should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with my lecturer at university. He's kind, sweet and intelligent. I'm 20 and he's in his 30s. I keep thinking about him and I don't know what to do. I have a boyfriend of 2 years who I love, and I don't want to hurt him, but I'm confused. Should I tell my lecturer ... (77 words)

I'm having huge problems with my cold and withdrawn father! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i dont live with my parents anymore but ive a huge prob with my father and its affected me my whole life. He always lived with us and hes not physically abusive or anything but he is the coldest most withdrawn person. He always expects my mother to do every little thing for ... (222 words)

I now have to work with two people I have previously slept with, how do I keep it cool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll probably get judged as a complete slapper here (understandable)....but please give me some good advice before judgement. I know, i know....it's my own fault. I'm a student, and done temping work last summer for a great firm. I loved it, and they loved me. Grand. Durin... (140 words)

I have a gut feeling my husband has cheated on me before, has he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this gut feeling that my husband cheated on me in the past. We were having problems, he walked out on our less than a year marriage, said he lost all interest in everything and need to get away for awhile. He moved in with friends of his for 3 months. He did start ... (183 words)

I've been developing some strange sexual fetishes. Will this affect my relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 24 year old male from England. I am quite a good looking lad and don't really have any problem getting the girls, the only problem is I am confused as to what turns me on at the moment and it is the wrong sort of girls i attract. Since i was about 15 I have fant... (538 words)

How long does it take a girl to climax through fingering?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im quite young and still a virgin. I recently got a new girlfriend which i love very much but she is very shy and has not done much with any other boy except me. She is quite shy, and i have dry fingered her (over her pants), but she doesnt feel comfortable me d... (193 words)

She still swears nothing more than kissing ever happened what do YOU think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - About 2 years ago my girlfriend started a relationship with her ex for about 2 months behind my back (we had been together for 3 years at the time). They had been in an online relationship for years before we were together and talked frequently on the phone once we were ... (580 words)

Just wondering if there is anyone out there that has hurt the person that they adore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my name is Kieron and up intill a month ago i was one of the happyest men youcould meet. But that all changed when my partner told me she was leaving. It all started about a 3 monthes ago i have had some problems with myself due to things in the past and can find myself ... (530 words)

Do you think he does like me really and if so what should I say to him ?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years old soon, and i like a man who is 42. My birthday is coming up soon and he said he will go.He has stared at me and looked at me alot, stood close to me when i have been talking to other people, once he looked at me through the corner of his eye when i was sat next ... (132 words)

I have sex five times a week but he has a girlfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have had sex 5 times in a single week with a man who already has a girlfriend. The sex was suprisingly very good and he wants to see me again(obvisouly). I just wanted to have fun and all but now I am not sure whether it's okay to continue down this line, especia... (80 words)

Off-white discharge for nearly a year, what could it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm 14 and I have been having a off white discharge for almost a year now I am a virgin I thought I might have caught a STD from a public bathroom but I heard that some women just have discharge I don't want to tell my mom becuse what if it is a STD then she'll think I am ... (71 words)

When do you give up? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I take psych medications for depression and anxiety so I dont always know if I am overreacting to something or getting being too nice and always question myself. So I am please asking for advice I am so angry and hurt! My bf of almost three years has been acting mean... (1060 words)

Sticky love triangle here...what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi... It all started when my mate and his girlfriend were going through problems. Me and his girlfriend had became good friends cause we spent alot of time going out and partying together with our other friends too. Then one thing led to another and I found myself in bed wi... (361 words)

Why can't my ex-boyfriend be my friend at least?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 31 years old and many of you may be wondering what is she doing here? But believe me it gets worse with age....I fell in love with someone who dumped me 2 months ago. I didnt see him for long, only 4 months but found him to be just the kind of person I was looking for. I ... (516 words)

I constantly want sex! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! I think im addicted to sex. Me and my bf have a great sex life but i think about sex all the time. Even at work. I suddenly get really horny without anything even triggering it! I masturbate every day (sometimes more than once) and even sometimes have to go to the toi... (87 words)

I do not want to see him until my skin looks amazing - how to hide my blemishes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.I need help with something.I like this guy but i don't want to see him unless my skin looks absolutely perfect.I just would like to know which is good make up to use to hide anything like blemishes. I have porcelain skin which is why i'm finding it difficult to find the righ... (64 words)

Could it be possible that the hymen stays intact after fingering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife and i were watching a tv show and the question of virginity came up. we started to talk about our first times and my wife said she was fingered for over 2 years before she had intercourse. what i do not understand is she says she still had her hymen. i don't understa... (78 words)

He hardly talks to me on his own. The relationship is going downhill, as his school results!... What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - HI... I'm sure youi get like a million letters with the same problem as i seem to be havin, but that doesnt change the fact that it makes you feel pretty much miserable. Well.. here goes... My boyfriend and i have been together for two and a half years.. Things have been rea... (281 words)

He is the most popular among girls but only seems interested in studying! How can I talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this question is for all the shy guys or people who know shy guys and also for guys who study all the time but dont perform well academically.. well what do these guys like in a girl..would they go for someoone as hot as a typical cheerleader..this shy guy is hot and is the ... (85 words)

Any advice on sex when I havent finished the course of albothyl suppositories for cervicitis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i really need help.... I have been using albothyl suppositories for my cervicitis, my ob said that i should not have sexual intercourse until i have finished all my medication for 2 weeks... the problem is my bf and i where having sex though i haven't finished yet the ... (62 words)

I can't imagine leaving my family and mainly my son, but I desperately want to be with this other woman-Can I have advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for the past 9 years and, like many others I'm sure, the past few years have been rocky ones. I have always done everything in my power to make my wife happy. We have moved 3 times to different homes because she wanted bigger and better. This is where the ... (305 words)

Good break up tips? How do I say goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - 8 months ago i met Shawn when i began a new job where he worked. things went pretty fast and we began to date 2 mths later. along the line, we were convinced we shld get married. but lately there've been so many issues. we had an issue last wk when i put my phone on silent at ... (182 words)

I have a fear of rejection, so how do I make a move on some one I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I make a move on a girl I like??? I have a fear of rejection. In the past few months, some mutual female friends have told me there is a girl who fights over me with another girl. They've also tried to get me to go to some sort of formal with her and recently, the mu... (152 words)

My ex broke up with me when I revealed my secret, I'm not handling it very well, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont want to stop loving my ex. we broke up a month ago i really believed we were perfect together, best friends but i kept a secret from him for a year. last year his friend tried it on with me but i said no. i knew this would hurt my bf so i just kept it a secret so that i ... (132 words)

Pregnant with twins and just found out husband is cheating on me, I really need some help please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im 7 months pregnant with identical twins and have a 2 year old boy aswell i have just found out tht my husbund is cheating on me. And as been doing so for around 9 months. Im heart broken and i cant look at him or touch him he makes me feel sick and i dont want him touching ... (284 words)

How can I tackle my insecurities and get my bf back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm writing this following my bf splitting up with me last night. I know there are things about me I need to change, but not sure how. I also wonder if there's a way we can be together again - we've had some really good times and after over a year with him I don't want... (494 words)

Am I the only one who thinks it is wrong for married guys to flirt too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I have a bit of a common problem, I guess. This guy at my work clearly has a 'thing' for me. He also happens to be married. In my eyes this is inappropriate in itself, but someone told me once there is a line. Supposedly some actions are okay, some are not. Where doe... (116 words)

He seems to be no longer interested in sex and I am getting a strong impression that he feels that we are a bit past all that !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age - Iam a 53 yr old woman and having relationship problems with my husband of 30 years and it is now to the point where i am having moments of serious anguish.He seems to be no longer interested in sex and I am getting a strong impression that he feels that we are a bit past all ... (256 words)

I need an outsiders perspective of family problems disrupting our wedding plans?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Me and my fiance are due to get married in July. It's now almost May and she wants to call it off. The problem started when we got engaged. My parents started treating my GF different in a big way. It became a big problem and I became depressed. There are other issues a... (324 words)

Would you feel a bit rejected, even though it was first night sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok guys, if you had amazing sex after a first date after loads of talking. You sent her lots of messages saying how fantastic it was and you wanted to continue with it. But, the girl suddenly backed down a bit and said she was unsure and confused and sent you messages like ok... (124 words)

I am conflicted and seeking guidance, preferably from other Christians

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a serious problem I'm not sure how to explain it fully... I come from a very Christian background and I believe the bible very strongly. I married my husband almost a year ago, and lost my virginity to him on our wedding night. I am a very moral Christian and I go to ... (559 words)

Please Help Me!! Girlfriend wants a break but says she still loves me, still a chance for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Here we go, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little over a year and things were great in the beggining. But lately she has had alot to do and is always running around. one of my problems is that i get paranoid to easily and she tells me that she hates to go out ... (199 words)

Is it fair my married lover wants me 100% yet he is still committed to his other life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My married boyfriend seems to really love me and forsakes his family for me quite often.I feel guilty at times and when i tell him so he really gets angry at me.I know i can never have him 100% so i also keep abit of a distance from him but he doesnt like that.He wants me to ... (101 words)

Does a relationship with a married man ever work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in an unhappy marriage,ready to leave.Met this married man and fell in love.Subsequently i drifted out of my marriage.Now am together with the married man,he really loves me and helps me out alot both financially and emotionally.Will it really work?I get extremely jealous ... (62 words)

She likes me!... But she lives far away. I don't want to hurt her. How can I spare her feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl who likes me. Problem is, she lives over 3 hours away. We met over facebook. Until she revealed how she felt, I thought it was just friendly banter. Although, there were a couple of occasions where we were clearly flirting. During our conversations, i... (360 words)

Check this out for me aunties.. is he in love with this other woman? Was he planning to cheat on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfrend wanted to take a flite back to his hometown to meet up a group of ex collegues who were flying in from another country for work, in particular a girl he used to have strong feelings for when they were working together. they actually dated for a while, but she dumped ... (256 words)

Urgent advice needed!I am pregnant and I'm going to dubai in 2 weeks.?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am pregnant and im going to dubai in 2 weeks.? since everything is set, me and my boyfriend will be having a civil wedding here in the phils. ive heard that it will be a big problem if a girl delivered a baby in dubai out of marriage, so we thought that getting married ... (134 words)

Do you like going down on your girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (?) age 30-35 - One for the guys.. Do you like going down on your girl? I ask because you hear of girls' opinions on fellatio a lot more than you hear of guys' opinions on cunnilingus. So guys, how much do you enjoy performing oral on your girl?... (47 words)

Any tips on how to overcome my nervousness just to talk to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I like this girl at school and I've talked with her a few times however, I started noticing that I really liked her a few months ago and since then, it's really been getting hard to try and make the leap forward to trying to talk to her. The few times that I did talk to her, we ... (143 words)

I don't love my cheating hubby but my secret relationship with my ex is going nowhere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was blissfully married until last year when i bumped into my ex boyfriend who i had left 20years ago when i went to study abroad. He was my first love and his also married but when we meet we get very intimate. He says we are only friends and that he loves his wife. I dont ... (108 words)

Would my old school uniform turn him on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for awhile, and we totally love each other. But this weekend I have an empty house and I want him to come spend the night. I need something really amazing and sexy to surprise him. I used to go to Catholic school and I still ha... (91 words)

I'm in love with my girlfriend and her brother! help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am in a situation. I've always been straight but fell in love with my best friend who is a female. i dont know how it happened but we've been together for two years now and we are deeply in love. My problem is that before we got together, when we were bo... (207 words)

What can I do to stop these dreams about my ex and just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago. I've been having "nightmares" about him lately, despite not being n contact with him for 5 months. Summary: Together 3 years, 2 of which he was a homeless and jobless and various friends and family (including mine) took him in to h... (556 words)

She wont sleep with a married man, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been somewhat happily married for almost 9 yrs. now. I love my wife very very much, however we rarely have sex anymore due to wife's lack of interest! I have talked, begged, pleaded, and have done everything I know to do to help her "get in the mood" to no avail. I have ... (209 words)

My ex is text-pesting me what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me about three years ago and he has been somewhat of an annoyance for about two years. Initially when he broke up with me he said that he has changed and did not feel the same way he once did about me. That was really hard for me to deal with as I was ... (278 words)

He won't go down on me anymore, he says we are too old, what gives?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband wont go down on me anymore. We have been together for 14 yrs. He says we are not kids any more, he is 32 i am 35. I would be willing to give him a bj but he has never liked them. I dont orgasm from intercourse only clitoral stimulation. Dont older people do this too?... (58 words)

I've been broken up with my ex but should I tell him what my real feelings are?

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been broken up with my ex for almost a year, we're still friends, but I guess not "truly friends." I still think about him almost everyday, and I feel regret. He's had a girlfriend for a while now, and I'm feel the need to tell him how I'm feeling, but I'm afraid of what ... (78 words)

What turns men on when they masturbate?

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What do married men think about when masturbating to porn or thinking about another women????? (mod note: this first passage was virtually unintelligble so I have given it my best guess) PLease help??? Do they want the same thing with their wives in the bedroom??? Any... (80 words)

My new boyfriend hugged me, later that day I hugged him too but something doesn't feel right...but I do have strong feelings for him!

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a new boyfriend and I have liked him forever well he asked me out and I'm so happy but its more akward around him now that I'm dating him I don't understand it we have been going out for a couple of days now and he hugged me a quicky but still a hug and then later that ... (88 words)

I have mixed feelings about this, will my feelings change if he chooses me?

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am a young 22 yr old single mom. I am very scared because I met a married man who is ten yrs older than I am. I'm not scared because I met him but because when we talked for the first time it was for hours. We have so much in common and he is very handsome. We just ... (272 words)

He's obsessed with my past, now he's broken up with me again! Do you think he'll come back to me?

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30 April 2008 (F) age 30-35 - He broke up with me again! He always comes back after a while, do you think he'll come back to me again? Ok, I posted about something like this a few days ago. the thing is he has issues with my past. I really love him, and apparently he does too, however he confuses me beca... (604 words)

Is it weird to want children at 17?

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I find myself really wanting to be a mother, but I'm seventeen. I have names picked out, even. Is it weird to want kids so badly at my age?... (29 words)

True love...what does it mean?

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what are some definitions of true love or just love in general because i know i love my boyfriend at least i think i do i need the opinions of the aunts and uncles because i want to compare some other definitions of true love from family members! thank you 2 everyone who ... (58 words)

How can I get my husband to understand that I find anal sex painful?

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband likes anal sex but i find it painful. We have tried lube to no avail. How do i make him understand how i feel? ... (26 words)

Any advice on how I can fix or deal with the pain of fibromyalgia?

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30 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - If I have "Fibromyagia" how can I fix the pain? ... (10 words)

Why do we girls go for the bad boys?

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this is just a curious question here. Why do most girls fall for the "bad boy" lol so far i have liked 3 guys and two of them are bad. I wont get into it because i hate when folks judge, but anyways most girls who i know and are friends with much rather date a "bad boy" then ... (73 words)

He promised he wouldnt, but he's still looking at other girls, help!

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i trust my boyfriend again after he has lied so much? My boyfriend carried on looking at other girls even though he said that he wasn't, he seen how much it was hurting me yet he continued to do it, and lie about it again and again. Now my self esteem is gone and Im ... (76 words)

Please help me! I have two questions, one is should I try to talk with her again, and the other one is what type of stuff do you do when you get a girlfriend?

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30 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i need some HELP!! i relly like this girl i met her last year through a friend i have onely met up with her 2 times but talked alot on msn because my mate was going out with he and she split up with him and i helped her throught it, i have not spoke 2 her on msn since fe... (213 words)

How can I give hubbie a great blowjob, he's too big for my mouth!

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to give my husband amazing blow jobs, however, I have a very small mouth (and TMJ on top of that) and my husband has a big cock, so you see my dilemma here! Aside from that I have a shy husband (he's too shy to cum in my mouth, he's afraid I won't like it though I've ... (168 words)

My friend flirts with a married man,but only to take his job, should I tell him?

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend Patricia says that this married man loves her, she sees him regularly, always flirts and laughs at his jokes, he's 10 years her senior, she says he loves it and she thinks he's mad about her, she laughs about it but she's always degrading him behind his back. should i ... (72 words)

Lets just say I need some serious help here...should I tell him how I feel?

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - well ill try my best to explain this very complicated matter here: well, i first liked this guy, a red-head, all-american, totally original and classy. and we would talk all the time! ppl would ask if we were best friends or something. and his friend, who is a hispanic... (306 words)

I want my boyfriend to hug me, hold hands with me, kiss me...how do I get my point across?

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I really like my boyfriend I mean mabye even love him and I really want us to hug, hold hands, him put his arm around me, and kiss ya know stuff like that. But the problem is i dont know how to get the piont across to him and he is not the type of boyfriend who usually ... (95 words)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for there own reasons, the sexual ... (470 words)

He pursued me for about two months, then virtually overnight he changed!

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30 April 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy who is 42. He was very, very into me, and pursued me for about 2 months. He really gained my trust, and I liked him a lot. We started having sex (three weeks ago) and virtually overnight he stopped being on time, checking in with me, and we haven't ... (104 words)

I miss her friendship! She stopped talking to me when she found out I liked her...

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30 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I liked this girl for 2 yrs we were great friend. She found out n said no n we stopped talkin to me. Been 2 months! Tried talkin but its hard. I wana talk to her but how? Will it ever be the same? I reli miss her friendship but I can't say that because shell wonder y! Plz help ... (65 words)