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What does it take to get the guy you like to ask you out?!

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12 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - What does it take to get the guy you like to ask you out? Say if you think he's been keen, but your not so sure, he's kinda pushing you to say something or say it first? what does it take for me to get him to ask me out? im tired of chasing guys,... (64 words

My husband is wonderful but I can't help seeing this guy outside of work! Anyone else have this problem?

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12 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been married for almost 2 years (no kids) and am completely in love with a co-worker. He has been married for 8 (2 kids). We both knew we were married and could tell that we had a thing for each other- while traveling for work we ended up talking about our feelings one ... (184 words

14 and a virgin, I feel lonely and inadequate because all my friends have already had sex!

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12 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm 14 and from Hampshire, England. all my friends have had sex. i feel lonley because i'm still a virgin. they arn't saying i MUST pop the cherry but i don't fit in anymore eg. i'm not invited to party. i've always been a bit awkward around people and i'm not sure that i ... (132 words

17 and my voice hasn't changed yet. When will it fully break?...

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12 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok I am 17, and my voice hasn't changed fully. Like it still cracks, a lot. When i was younger like 7-12 I was in a chilren's choir and of course I was a soprano. I have been involved in many sports and stuff so it's not a development problem i dont think. My Father has an ... (80 words

Do all men experience a pre-ejaculation liquid?

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12 April 2008 (? age 30-35 - Does EVERY guy have pre-cum?... (5 words

Is it appropriate to greet my best friend with flowers and hugs as she returns from a trip?

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12 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi. my best friend is coming is back from her holidays and i havnt seen her in a couple of months. I want to welcome her back, so i thought on getting her a nice bunch of flowers followed by a hug. Do you think this would be appropriate? Does anyone have any other sugge... (65 words

My friend who's been always lying for attention may become home-schooled soon, should I influence her decision?

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12 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - My Friend is a complete fantasist. She has always been a fantasist scince we were young kids. As time moved on and we went to secondary school she began to struggle socialy and came out with outrageous lies for attention. Lies like "she'd been cutting herself" and "he... (109 words

What should I say for him to trust me again? (I lied in the past.)

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi all...my boyfriend cant seem to trust me because i lied to him in the past we got in a huge fight about 4 months ago and he caught me in a lie about who i was with and ive told him that im sorry and that ill do anything to get his trust back but whatever i say to him he wont ... (120 words

I doubt either of us was ready for a relation when we got together. I also fear he won't be able to provide stability and at times I regret my ex!?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello I'm in such a mess. My ex boyfriend split up with me at the start of last year because we both had commitment issues and didn't trust each other. Neither of us were unfaithful but we were both unable to let our barriers down at the same time and just go for it. We were ... (1139 words

Pregnant with my husband's child, but still in love with the ex... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

12 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Well I have a 2 yr old son with my ex fiance, we never really broke up he got deported to mexico and i had no way of getting hold of him for like 6 months. I became friends with this guy, I wasn't attracted to him but we just kept hanging out since I was lonely with a baby I ... (263 words

Attracted to a Married Man - we both talk about how we are married to the wrong person, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi all I have been married my for six years now but I have been with my husband for over ten year. Well I met this guy at work about seven years ago. The first time I met him, I knew he was someone special. Him and I talk on occasion but never really did anything. Two m... (421 words

Should I be worried that I am seen as flirtatious and probably giving off wrong signals to people?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - My friends are always teasing me by saying how I always seem to have so many admirers, even when some of these people are just simply being friendly to me. However, after one ocassion when someone had stopped by to say 'hi' and chat to me, one friend told me I was flirty! Ev... (136 words

I have a BF who is nearly perfect but I started developing feelings for my best friend.

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12 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - i really need help, im going crazy! i am 22 and i have a boyfriend who is almost perfect and we've been together for 5 and a half years now. Everything is great between us, but lately i started having feelings for my (boy) best friend and he just admitted to me that he loves... (149 words

Part of me feels I should telephone to explain, but the other part wants him to pursue me... any ideas?

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12 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - Met a guy on an internet chat site. We've been in contact for nearly six months,nothing heavy, extremely casual.But due to his work commitments and the distance it has been difficult to meet up. Today he texted me and said he was going to be coming to my town and that we ... (217 words

Am I a one-night-stand for her?? Oh, I wish I didn't have sex with her that quickly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

12 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - hey people! Here's my issue. I met this girl on an on-line dating site here in Spain. We had one date- and things got along fairly well. She seemed really intelligent (teaches at university) and not at all boring to talk to. I had some reservations because being ... (374 words

How do I show him how much I want him back in my life without looking desperate?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend broke up over six months back, we have stayed in contact and have met up a couple of times since and got on really well. He has now moved away to do a course for a year. I think this is the main reason why he broke up with me because he said he couldn't see ... (305 words

Do you think his nervous habits when paying me compliments are signs that he's just lying?

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12 April 2008 (F age - I would like to ask for the opinions of the aunts and uncles here about a man I am becoming very fond of who works in my neighborhood. We work in totally different places but met a few months back and have become quite friendly. I feel a strong connection to him mentally, ... (266 words

How do I get rid of this resentment and move on, and why is it that a man needs more that just a devoted wife to boost his ego??

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12 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - told my husband his incessant flirting with a coworker (all 3 of us work together) was going to stop, he admitted he crossed some lines because flirting makes him feel better about himself. word got to her that she needed to stop, and she admitted she felt lonely because she ... (227 words

I feel this is not a healthy relation for an active and social person like me, should I continue with my live-in BF?

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12 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I live with my boyfriend of four years but I am getting to the point where I don't know if I should stay with him. He never wants to do anything with me and when I ask he just gets discouraged and doesnt want to go out. He sleeps all day and I just don't know if I should stay ... (109 words

White spots on the nipples during pregnancy, any truth?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - do you get white spots on your nipples when your pregnant... (11 words

Is it harmful to swallow a man's discharge?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - can we swalow man's discharge. does it harm?... (8 words

I'm pregnant with his child but he doesn't think it's his! Should I keep it?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm pregnant with my bf baby and he doesnt belive it's his because he has only just come home after working away and that was 4 week ago i havent slept with anyone else and i'm under 4 week so why doesnt he belive me we have being arguing a lot and we broke up 2 days ago but i ... (110 words

Any tips on how I can be sexy for my husband?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi all..........just wanna know that how to look sexy. what are the tricks to attract my husband we married 2 yrs back. i want my husband to fall in love wit hme again well still he loves me but due to work we are a bit busy and now i want back my time my love time?... (57 words

My doc doesn't approve of my motives so how can I tell if I'm pregnant?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi im late by about 2 weeks on my period . i have been having pains in my stomach nearly everyday . im supposed to start the 21-day pill on my next period..is there anyway i can use this to regulate my period without it starting ? i cant go back to the docter because doc didn... (75 words

I'm pregnant and constantly fear miscarrying the baby! How can I put my mind at ease?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am currently 16 weeks and 3 days pregnant to my boyfriend but every sudden pain i have i worry about my baby. i had my first scan when i was 12 weeks pregnant and the doctor said that my baby was healthy and growing well but i worry all a time can you please give me some adv... (110 words

Can someone explain oral sex to me?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - What is oral sex? and what we called that type of sex whisc has done from backside?... (17 words

How can I stop myself from calling my "nasty" exes? I'm weak when it comes to love...

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12 April 2008 (F - I was seein a couple of lads a while back (not at the same time!!!) who were nasty to me so I ended it. When it comes to love and stuff, Im very weak - always giving in, chasing them etc. But on this occasion, I have cut all contact for which I am quite proud. But now Im single ... (144 words

How do I tell my parents we are back together? They don't like him!

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - ive had this boyfriend for almost two years and we been going out on and off.last time he broke up with me he hurt me really bad and my parents dont like him no more for that but the thing is that now i am going back out with him and i dont know if i should tell my parents(cuz ... (86 words

I put her "under pressure" to join my church and now she need "space"!

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12 April 2008 (M age - my fiancee and i were going to get married. we had a blissful relationship the only problem is i put her under pressure to join my church and gave her an ultimatum she wanted a break for a while to think and i involved her family now she has called the police but i ... (87 words

Isn't his love for me supposed to keep him away from other girls?!

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - i broke up with my b/f and now he wants me back.i want him back too But he kissed another girl and if they wern't on the dance floor they'd probably have had sex. I didn't see them,he told me after i broke up with him and he explained that was the reason for his acting weird ... (87 words

Does he have feelings for me and what should I do about my feelings for him?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a huge infatuation with a work colleague but we are both in 6-8 year relationships. I can't be sure if he is flirting with me or if he's just being friendly - he winks and smiles at me, we often exchange prolonged eye contact, he stares at me, he'll often make excuses to ... (218 words

Neither of us want his ex at OUR wedding, but we're under pressure to invite her!!

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - So here goes- it may be a bit of a long one! My fiance and I are due to get married this summer. His ex g/f who he has been broken up with for nearly 10 yrs has moved back to our small town in the last few years. My fiance and her family had stayed friends, actually his best... (387 words

He went to a stag do - and came home with foundation all over his top, do you think he cheated on me?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 6 years we have two kids together and a house. He had gone on a stag do and came home with foundation all over his top. (around the armpit as if he was hugging some one). When i confronted him he said he didn't know why it was there and shou... (180 words

Can I become an Agony Aunt?

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12 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey, I'm Chloe, i'm using dear cupid, because i used to love talking to agony aunts, and they always gave good advice when i didn't know who to ask. So i would like to become like that, and help others out from my experience, can i? Chloe x... (49 words

What is the true meaning of love?

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12 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - What is love? \\... (5 words

Why is he so selfish in bed, I do everything - but get nothing in return!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is so selfish in bed, our sex is praciticly a routine. I do everything for him, i want to be a good lover to him and i put his pleasure first. He asks me to wear sexy outfits and underwear when we have sex, which is fine with me. He tells me what he wants in bed ... (267 words

I realize that he loves me even when he's not showing me at the moment, but I'm not okay with dealing with his actions.

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, me and this boy have been together for almost 3 years - on and off, but do not go out...i am okay with that, but what i am not okay with is dealing with his actions. One day everything will be perfect, we will be happy and the next day he makes me feel like i am ... (149 words

I might be pregnant and I don't know what to do, please help me!!

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12 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Okay, I am only 13 years old and I recently had unprotected sex. My period was about a week before the sexual intercourse. And i'm so stressed because i'm bleeding unregularly and i'm afraid that i might be pregnant or even worse have a STD. It's only been a day after we had ... (82 words

He wants a long break until we are married, but that's for about 5 years!!!!

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend has recently asked for a long break which he wants until we're married! But that's for about 5 years, and i don't know how i'm meant to cope with it. I feel so lost and lonely and more than ever i need him by my side at the moment. I don't want to tell him that... (113 words

Still, a year on and I'm comparing potential daters to her, what should I do?

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12 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am a 25 year old male that has had a few substantial relationships in my day, but my last "girlfriend" simply stays implanted in my head. As we dated I found myself falling more and more deeply in love with her, but she didn't feel the same way. Though we are still extremely ... (133 words

Do you only bleed a bit with your first intercourse?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I had first time intercourse last night. We'd prepared well, and relaxed, and did lots of foreplay. We didn't expect too much. At first we fumbled and giggled our way through it!! But we enjoyed ourselves. I did bleed a bit but I expected it and my boyfriend was very gentle.... (87 words

I want my soulmate back but don't know how to go about it, Can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

12 April 2008 (M age 51-59 - My ex fiance and i split badly in January through someone else hasseling us for six months. I now hear she is in Wallsend again. How do i find out for sure if she is, and how do i get her back after all that was said in anger to each other? Can anyone help?... (59 words

I care to win my ex back and also care about my pride... what can you advise?

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12 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Can you guys help me? Me and my girlfriend have been split up for 2 months, and a lot of stuff has happened since, but we are still in touch by text. She knows how i still feel about her and she has told me she still has feelings for me, this was a few weeks ago when we both... (137 words

I dream about my (older) ex, feeling lonely and empty as people my age are not as interested. Should I forget my ex? (parents disagreed to the relation)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok, about 6 months ago i was in a relationship with a 25 yr old guy when i was 15. we didnt do anything sexual or anyhting stupid, huggin and kissing was it. anyway my parents found out and now wer arent allowed to have contact with each otha at all, i understand why they did ... (192 words

In my culture, relationship at young age is frowned upon, so how to manage my feelings?

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12 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - well im 16 and sri lankan and in our culture, boyfroends and girlfriends at a young age is mmm frowned upon. Currently i am in love, i want to be with her and so does she, however im not sure to continue this relationship as if we get seen by relatives etc, it can cause issues ... (68 words

My ex kissed me several times, although he has another GF. How do I stop ceding to this temptation?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey Guys (: . Im 15 turning 16 =] Recently I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months. Our relasionship was nothing serious but I ended it cause it's our GCSE year at school and felt like I needed to concertrate on my studies. Wich i was totally fine about (: But Abo... (284 words

My friend's partner treats her miserably but she says she can't leave because she loves him. What could I advise her?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - i have a friend who i dearly love as my sister, shes having so much problems in her relationship that i dont know where to begin.. but says she's curious thats hes cheating on her,explains that her partner always comes home from work stays for only half an hour and leaves the ... (242 words

How often should I call my girlfriend the days I can't see her?

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12 April 2008 (M - After seeing my counsellor I realise now the only problem in my life is women. I have been on 3 dates in my entire life, longest relationship lasted 5 weeks. I now know it is because of low communication (i.e. when I didn't see her I would only send 1 text a day) I was wonderin... (71 words

I dearly want to rediscover the spark that we had between us in the "honeymoon period" but we're both so busy! How to spice things up a bit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

12 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship with a girl for almost a year and a half now. We both love each other to bits and we get on so well with each other. We have lots in common with each other and do lots together. I'm 25 and she's 24 however our sex life has never been amazing. Wh... (300 words

How long does it take for women to get over a break up?

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12 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - How long does it take for women to get over their previous relationship? I recently got dumped after a breif relationship, becuase she doesnt feel ready for one after only breaking up with her ex just under 2months ago?... (42 words

My soon-to-be husband is cheating on me, what should I do?

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12 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - I'm due to get married soon , but have just found out that my future husband has join a singles web site, and has give out his phone number, and is now having sex txt with this woman,she has also sent him dirty pictures. what should i do .... (49 words

Should I tell her to calm down a bit until we get to know each other? She's overexcited about us...

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12 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'm preparing to go out on a date with a girl who got divorced 2 years ago and she has a crush on me, and I like her to. She already has two kids, a house and works beside me. Before our first date she is planning for us to be together forever, I'm excited to but is she ... (81 words

The guy my partner had a fling with will also be at the ball, I fear this will ruin the enjoyment for me!

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12 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - In a few weeks theres a ball that I may be going to. However, I am worried aboout going and am having second thoughts. I am meant to be going with my GF bt i have a feeling that this guy she sort of had a fling with is going to be there. I dont know the guy but i think when... (176 words

I'm in a panic over my Final Exams!

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12 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I know this has got nothing to do with love but i wanted to ask some advice please. I am in my final year of my degree and really want to get a 2.1 which is a good pass. However, I have this fear that I am going to fail or not get a good mark! my exams are not to far away n im ... (130 words

He's not a flirty guy so how do I tell if he likes me or not?

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12 April 2008 (F - I am wondering if this guy who is in one of my university classes likes me or not. It could be nice to hear eveyrones point of views on whether or not they think he likes me and what I can do about the situation... In class he is always volunteering to help me with work and... (246 words

I need hugs and help aunts! Its our first wedding anniversary today and my husband has gone to work and seems to have forgot...

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12 April 2008 (F age - Its our first wedding anniversary today and my husband has gone to work and seems to of forgot. I feel devastated, am i just over reacting, come on aunts i need hugs and help, what do you think?... (38 words

How do you start a chat with someone you have never spoke to before?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - if u want to start talkin to a guy you have never spoken to..how do u go about it?no common class or study in the same college but we meet rarely so when i do how do i initiate the talk???... (41 words

I want to give up university for a modelling career

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey everyone here is the thing..i am in university right now pursiuing a highly qualified profession which takes nearly 6 years to finish studying but i am not happy in this field..i was interested initially and now i have lost interest..i think i am more into modelling and ... (107 words

How do I know if my crush likes the nickname I call him?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - It's nothing offensive on the contrary it should be flattering, but he never has said if he likes it or not when I call him like that, so Idk if continue calling him that name. I do it cuz I like him, but if he doesn't like it I can stop it and call him by his name. How can I... (100 words

What is the correct way to give a hand job?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - How do you give a hand job? Are you supposed to go up and down fast or slow? How tight should your hand be around his penis? I am afraid if you hold it too tight you maght yank it and that would be very painful! ... (47 words

What advice does anyone have to help keep our relationship strong?

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12 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I wrote a previous post about this,somewhat. Well recently I finally had the courage to tell my first cousin how I felt about her. I was so nervous but her reaction made everything worth it:) we are taking things one step at a time,she means the world to me. Growing up she was ... (103 words

How can I make a man fall for me?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - how can i make a guy fall for me...how much attention is to be given and how much disinterest is to be shown....plz help... (24 words

Is getting intimate with a guy important? Does this make you close?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - is getting physically intimate with a guy important to get close to him?... (13 words

I'm miffed over my spouse calling a former co-worker! How do I get over it?

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12 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I would like to know what this means? When your spouse calls someone they barely know from a former job, because their fiancee had just up and left one day, and they felt really bad for them, so they called them up to ask if everything was allright. Personally that is none of ... (93 words

I'm worried we will drift apart before we get serious! Any suggestions?

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12 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - Well here goes: I've been dating, what i consider to be an amazing woman, granted I'm 29 she's 23 but the level of maturity is the same so age was never a problem with us. We've been together for just over 3 months, and we've hit a huge snag. The honeymoon phase is over, and ... (320 words

My boyfriend has a low sex drive because of an accident. What can I do?

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12 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for about six months and he's had an accident a few years ago and is on constant medication - loads of it and he says it affects his sex drive it always has done since we got together and I know it's not his fault but we only have sex once a week if ... (150 words

Am I somehow in the wrong? Girlfriend gets emotional when I try to talk about sex!

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12 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - hi i am having a problem with my girlfriend. recently i told her that i wanted to talk to her about our sex life. i feel that we do not have as much sex as i would like which averages about once a month. i talked to her nicely about it and she got very upset and started cryi... (297 words

He disgusts me so much! All I see is an old pervert instead of the guy I fell in love with!

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12 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm having some guy issues. I'm going out with a guy who I met online and I have been dating him for 4 1/2 years. It didn't occur to me that he would ever lie to me about his age. But it all started when my mom didnt believe me when I told her he was 4 years older than me (I ... (640 words

She's betrayed me several times, so how do I move on?

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12 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok my ex and I met each other and went out about 2 years ago october. it was a long distance relationship. she lvied about 100 miles away. we went out for about 4 months then we broke up. then shortly after got back together. and did that a couple times then we got back ... (284 words

We don't seem to have much in common....will it still work?

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12 April 2008 (F - I am in a long distance relationship with my bf. Lately, I have been feeling that maybe we are just not there yet. I have always dreamt of having a perfect relationship where he would propose to me, get marry, have childrens, etc. I always wanted my bf to be madly in love ... (343 words

Due to give birth to my first baby soon--what will it be like?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi Im due to have my baby on the 21st of april but i am really scared about what my babys birth is going to be like? does it really hurt that much? its my first baby and im worried i ask the doctors but they use long words and my dr is a guy so he has never felt it before. Its ... (75 words

I have a lot of trust issues with my girlfriend. What can I do?

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12 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hey, my girlfriend and i have had an on and off relationship for about 18 months, she says that she loves me but i have doubts. At the start i caught her lieing to me and sleeping around. I at the start of the relationship said i wanted an open one - she said she didn't. Now ... (166 words

3yrs and he still hasn't got divorced, should I stay or should I go?

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12 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - What should i do? If my boyfriend of three years hasn't gotten a divorce, should i stay or should i go? He says he will do it soon, even his wife says she doesn't love him any more.... (38 words

The fact that he 'can't get me off in bed' makes him feel less of a man. So how can I make him feel better?

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12 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been going out with a guy for almost half a year now, and short of little spats here and there, we're pretty compatible. I honestly think he's a real sweetheart. There's only one thing, though - he finds it upsetting that he can't get me 'off' in bed. He feels that it ma... (159 words

I sent a note to my crush, I said he looked funny because he'd dressed up. I said I was kidding. What now?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I sent a note to my crush and his debate group wishing them luck. I said he looked funny because he had dressed up. I said I was kidding. Then he crumpled up the note and threw it away like he hated me or something. I supposed he'll be surprised after all we don't speak to each... (101 words

I made out with my best friends guy, now I feel horrible. What shall I do?

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12 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I made out with one of my best guy friend, and he's going out with my best friend!!! I feel horrible, my best friend doesn't know about it, but my boyfriend does. Now i'm starting to have feelings for him and i can't control them, if my best friend finds out it will be the end ... (119 words

I do wash every night, but I need to know do I have an infection?

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12 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Okay, well this is kind of a chix question, but i don't know. I'm kind of desperate...well my pussy like kinda smells bad and i wash EVERY night, but it still smells bad...does that mean i've got an infection???... (39 words

We both have dreams about the other but is it attraction or just friendship?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Basically I am very confused about how I really feel towards one of my closest friends - and whether or not she feels the same way. She's the most wonderful person, and I really don't want to hurt her. Recently things have changed between us ... She comes over to my house and ... (199 words

How can I make my boyfriend tust me??

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 18 and my boyfriend has some trust issues with me because i've lied to him in the past. I know that i wont do it anymore, but he just can't seem to believe what i say. I would do anything for him, but he doesn't trust me for anything. What i don't understand is that... (113 words

How can I let him down without spoiling our friendship?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - A guy keeps in asking me to go out with him, but i really don't want to. It's not like i don't like him, but he's more of a mate, and i don't want to ruin that. How do i let him down gently? ... (50 words

My husband is impotent, will my marriage survive? Please help.

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12 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband is impotent and feels it's ruining our marriage, we are sleeping separate 'cos of his disabillity. My question is that i've tried so hard to try different things, but he doesn't seem interested. I feel useless. Can marriage survive without intercouse ever again?... (46 words

Does anyone out there have ginger pubic hair?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Does anyone out there have ginger pubic hair? haha, My boyfriend always laughs. I'm cool with it as it's always mostly gone anyways. We have a real giggle. But no one in my family is ginger. They say they're all black. I have NATURALLY dark hair and eyebrows. Is there a mal-f... (58 words

I don't want to ruin future relationships because of my father. What should I do?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, so I had a talk with my boss the other day. She sensed I seemed nervous around her and decided to ask me why. I didnt really have an answer for her. Later that day she started telling me about her husband and how he is abusive. I started crying and said I can relate beca... (625 words

I wont know 'til tomorrow for sure, but do you guys think I'm pregnant?

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12 April 2008 (? age 36-40 - I think I may be pregnant, but I'm not sure. I am now 3 weeks late. I didn't get my period for march! however I have taken 5 at home pregnancy test and they were all negative the last one was today. I then went to one of the clinics here and got a blood pregnancy test done ... (91 words

I've heard that the herbs Fennel or Fenugreek boosts breast size!

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Where can i buy the herb Fennel or Fenugreek? Other than on the internet? I've heard it boosts breast size, I NEED IT. aha Please tell me :) x... (35 words

I have a feeling he's cheating on me, what shall I do?

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12 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18 and i've been seeing my boyfriend for almost 10 months and i have a feelings that he's cheating on me? He still talks 2 a couple of his ex's because he stayed friends with them, and he had a strong relationship with them. He tells me that he doesn't love them anym... (135 words

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