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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 I disagree with what you expect from him right now- he's already willing to see you 3x a week- wow! It's only been a month!! When I start dating someone, I usually see them no more than once a week and I certainly don't text them- they can pick up the phone to talk to me and vice versa. I would relax- he seems to like you ALOT, spending all his free time with you like that!! Don't overdo the communication, don't even tell him you love him- take the time to enjoy the pace and getting to know him. Let emotional and sexual tension build and wait for him to tell you he loves you first. You really shouldn't be freaking out, things seem to be going quite well!! You are important to him, a text means nothing, his actions are speaking how important you are. Congratulations!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have only been dating him for about a month. I feel actually i know he wants to take it slow. I am use to relationships that move along pretty fast and I'm afraid that maybe he will get bored with me as he did his last girlfriend. He is very quiet about how he feels or likes things and states that once he gets to know me I will find out. Strange things like he says he will call and wont. He is a very busy guy. Every monday night of his life he is at the fire station. He is a volunteer fire fighter. On tuesday and thursdays he is at the shop. He is with a group of guys that run race cars. He works monday to friday managing a garage. I know he can only fit me in on wednesday, friday and saturday. i feel that if i am important to him that he should make the effort and call at least to say that he is busy but just called to say hi. i don't know maybe im just being over cautious but I don't want to waste my time if he is not into it.
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (7 April 2008):
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