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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I like a girl in my class, but I don't know if she's cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 10-12 - there is a girl in my class and i like her but now i think shes cheaating on me. i heard of guy from another school she said. she also told me she likes someone but i'm not sure... she still nags me and calls my name for no reason. but she once refused to hang out with me. what ... (63 words

What is a clit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - Whats a clit? x... (5 words


   

When is it the best time to tell her about my problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hi, I need help I kind of got charge syndrome which means i got small penis, but when it's erect it's about six inches, is this normal to impress a female? I've made friends with someone but when is best time to tell her about my problem? Even so my doctor said i got good ... (62 words

Is it ok to kiss a friend on the lips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - Is it ok to kiss a friend on the lips? x... (12 words

I love her but, she is telling me that my parents may not accept her because she has a kid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - I am in love with a girl. She is married and has a 1 year old kid. she is two years older than me. Her relationship with her husband is not good. Before we were just friends. But now i have told her that i love her. She also told me that she loves me alot. But she is telling me ... (87 words

   

Is this bloating in my stomach---normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (M - dear cupid i would like to know if it normal for this to occur. i feel and see that my stomach is bloated and whenever i tell my parents they say its normal. i used to be fat but lost weight quickly and look slim a bit. my question is, is it normal to see your stomach blo... (86 words

I'm a tomboy who hates being emotional! Does anyone relate to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - im soo angry right now!!!!!!!!!!! like...its soo silly, but i dont know why i feel like this... when i was little, i was a proper little tomboy...my long curly hair combined with torn up jeans, jeans which were torn up by playing 'knock door run' or jumping over high w... (266 words

Do guys think I'm a loser because I'm a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I am 20 years old, and I am still a virgin. It's not because of religious reasons; I have dated before but I just haven't found the person to do it with. What I am fearing now is how guys see virgins. I have always watched TV and movies that basically say that people who ... (128 words

I "freeze up" around my crush....what can I talk about to be more comfortable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Long story short, I tend to freeze up and get nervous in front of my crush, even though during other times I am a pretty easy going and funny person. So from what he has seen, I pretty much look like a really dull person with no personality, because sometimes no matter how hard ... (105 words

Should I cut off my cheating ex boyfriend from my kids? He broke my heart in pieces!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I met this guy in 2004. He already had a girlfriend but said that he really did not want to be with her. I never expected anything to come from this relationship and when I was ready to stop communicating with him he kept calling and harrasing. Dumb me I told myself that ... (263 words

Does he really like me because he defends me from a wierdo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I quite like a boy in my year and we went to a party together yesterday, so we got there and a weirdo from school came up to me and started going on about that i wasn't invited (which i was) he was getting quite close as though he was going to hit me but then the boy i like ... (128 words

Why do older guys always try to get at me? I can't find a boyfriend at my school...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - This year it seems like all my friends have boyfriends or love interests and i don't have anyone. I don't think i'm ugly or unattractive. I get compliments on my appearance. It seems like older guys are always trying to get at me but no guys at my school. I don't stink, i'm ... (92 words

I'm developing feelings for a gorgeous guy at work! Is this okay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - A while ago, I met an amazing guy through work. It started off as just a business relationship but we ended up becoming quite good friends and I began to really fancy him. He made me laugh constantly, we had so much in common in terms of interests and hobbies and when he ... (296 words

Should a couple share ALL their secrets? What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F - Do you think a couple should share everything in their mind? All their secrets? ... (14 words

Does she see this as a date? I can't seem to read her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - Sorry to post 2 questions in a day but this is important- This girl, who I am seeing tomorrow morning, is really playing with me head atm. I don't know if she's seeing me as a friend or if she's nervous. As you may have gathered from earlier questions I've only met her once, 2 ... (206 words

I don't want him to be offended but I don't like to "swallow". Can I spit it out in the toilet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F - Okay here's my problem. I love giving my boyfriend head because i know he enjoys it so much. But, I can't stand the taste of come. With my ex boyfriend, he told me when he was going to come and I just switched and used my hand. But my boyfriend doesn't tell me when ... (165 words

Tricky situation with the morning after pill? Can you use it twice in one cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - the condom came off while intercourse with my partner, he realised soon after and didnt cum inside of me,i would take a morning after pill but i took one 2 weeks ago and don't know if you can take 2 on one cycle. Also its a bit tricky because im really iregular (as in i cant ... (112 words

Should I hold back my feelings if he's dating another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - I like a guy whos in the same year as me in college!!! The only problem is that hes got a girlfriend of 9 months!!!! I've been friends with him for about 18 months and we became good friends about a year ago, he told me a couple of times over msn that he liked me, howeve... (274 words

I have a really low self esteem problem that my boyfriend doesn't understand

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I have a really low self esteem problem that my boyfriend doesnt understand, im always trying to find new ways of how i can make myself 'look better'. Im a size 18, and i just feel fat all the time, i have an eating dissorder as a result, my boyfriend tells me im sexy and beau... (130 words

His family don't like me because they preffered his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 95 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for over two years, and despite us having a perfect relationship...there is one thing that bothers me sooo much. His family! Before we met, my boyfriend was seeing a girl for almost four years. All fine...everyone has thir histories. They ... (208 words

I'm having serious doubts to whether I should stay with him because I don't fancy him anymore..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been with the same guy 6 years, he never wanted kids because of problems with his child that put him off, from his previous marriage. I ignored him.. now I feel nothing but resentment and don't fancy him and avoid sex but feel very unfulfilled and unhappy. I'm 38. Last ... (122 words

How can I learn to be a step-parent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F - My boyfriend has a 7 years old daughter. He's 27 and I'm 25. I understand I'm never going to be her mother. However, when I'm with her, I have to treat her like my own daughter. I'm pretty good with kids, but these are not just a friend's kids. Can someone tell me what I have ... (80 words

What is going on? Is he cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - About 4 months ago I was checking his phone for someone's phone number and noticed a message. I checked his messages and it was a women that he works with telling him that she missed him and wants him to come visit her again. She ended the message by saying that she loved and ... (223 words

Married and hating it! What am I do to about my husband's affairs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - i have been with my husband 27 years. I know of at least 3 affairs he has had only been caught in one. I like a fool decided to stay with him. I have no place else to go And do not know what to do. I found out 6 years ago he had an affair with our sons wifes oldest sister. And ... (382 words

I hit my pregnant girlfriend and now she is ignoring me! I feel awful...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - I hit my girlfriend and she is 5 months pregnant i feel bad and everthing but she is ignoring me and i dont get. I said sorry she was winding me up and i hit her i really need to see what can i do please help i feel awful. PLZ HELP?! she is alot younger than me and her parents ... (74 words

I'm 15 and feel realy down I feel like all my friends are using me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - i`m 15 and feel realy down i feel like all my friends are using me and not realy there for me,at the moment i hate my family and want to runaway.what should i do i cant go to anyone for help and just think my hole life is a waste of time.?... (53 words

Why when I try to get my girl friend to try oral sex she just sits there and gives me weird looks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 13-15 - here's my problem... when i try to get my girl friend to try oral sex she just sits there and gives me weird looks and so i ask her wat and shes like i dont know and so i ask her how does she not know and she doesnt really say anything so.. if anyone can help me think of ideas ... (71 words

I am in love with my husband's sister.!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am in love with my husband's sister. He knows and is ok with it cause we tell each other everything and have a great sex life. I wouldn't know where to start with telling my sister in law, she's married. I want to experiment with women and only want her. ... (51 words

It hurts when I rub her clit - why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 13-15 - okay well... my girl friend and i do things like me fingering her and oral sex and her giving me a hand job. but here's my problem when im fingering my girlfriend and then i try to rub her clit and she says that it hurts her and we dont know why.. and she will be really wet ... (92 words

What can I do about genital warts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I have genital warts. NOTHING helps.........any advice? PLEASE!!!!... (8 words

Help with bullying

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 10-12 - i have been bullyed for a while wat shall i do?... (11 words

My boyfriend hasn't called! Should I be patiently waiting? Is there a reason for this delay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi! I've been with my boyfriend for quite some time. We are very close and have alot of good memories together and I couldn't ask for more. I love him so much. But, this is what I found out strange. He hasn't contacted me for 2 days now (normally he would call everyday... (229 words

There's nothing going on! How do I make him trust me and put his mind at ease?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend of 4 months just broke up with me. I’m 26 and he’s 24. The reason we broke up was because he thought I was cheating on him with a coworker (technically my boss, but I do not report directly to him). I travel a lot for business and he believed that since I was ... (375 words

Trying to have sex but he 'can't get it in' and it really hurts, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi everyone, I am 20 years old and I tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time and he was unable to get in me. He tried but just could not get in and it hurt everytime he tried. Is this normal for the first time or do you think there is something wrong with me? H... (86 words

Unprotected sex - strange period - unpleasant discharge, could it be an infection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F - Hey, Im 24 years old and somethings worrying me about my period. I usually come on on the 15th of every month and very regular. 2 days ago tho, i noticed a brownish red discharge in my knickers when i went to the toilet, the type of discharge you get at the beginning and end of ... (165 words

Am I sticking with him because I hate the idea of being alone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (? age 16-17 - Hi, I'm really confused I fell in love with one guy and we were best friends for so long but we decided, well i decided, that it would be best that we didn't see eachother so we didn't ruin our friendship. Now i'm with another guy, i really do like him but i keep on thinking ... (160 words

Can I be pregnant even though I had a 'sort of' period and when should I test again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I had sex back in march about a week or so after intercourse I began to feel pregnant but I started bleeding light then heavy back to light off and on for 4 days Then it had stopped afterwards I still felt preggo so two days after bleeding I took a hpt and it was neg but I ... (102 words

Will he break up with me? Should I break up with him? Where is this going to lead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend has been with me for almost two years. We have had issues, and it seemed like we were working it out, but now, I don't know what to think about it. Sorry if this turns out to be long... We met through a mutual ex friend. This ex friend had been my friend wit... (838 words

Should I have the baby when I'm not sure who of the three is the father??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Im 2 months pregnant and i dont know who the father is there is 3 possible dads and i dont know wat to do. please help me !!!!!! its ethier my exs a one night stand or my mate that i had sex with once or twice PLEASE help i know if been stupid but i dont know what to do should ... (75 words

Dry skin and dandruff - how can I make these less noticeable at least?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - Uh... Hi. This is embarrassing. Well, I suffer from really dry skin and kinda bad dandruff. I use moisturiser and special shampoos and conditioners but nothing helps! I've used sensitive stuff as well but everything I've tried fails. I'm worried this may ruin my chan... (80 words

Do guys mind if when you ruffle their hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - Hi, this may sound a little random but i was just wondering... do guys mind when you ruffle their hair or run your fingers through it? i was just fantasising about doing that to a guy i like today and thought, cos i'm a girl, if someone ruffled my hair, i'd punch them! So is it ... (69 words

I have been sleeping with other men, but I don't want to ruin my current relationship of 4 years

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi everybody me and my man have been together for four years now we are very happy together and are getting married in three months time. i can honestly say i love him to bits and have never been with anyone who makes me so happy. but there is always a 'but'. i had a trouble... (188 words

My ex has moved on, but still talks to me like nothing has happened.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - my relationship ended a month ago and I still havent dealt with it properly and I cant seem to get past it. He has moved on and found someone else but still talks to me, like nothing has happened. why is he doing that? xx... (49 words

How can you tell is a guy is not a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - how would you know if the guys are already not virgin?... (11 words

How do I engage in phone sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - hello to all!!!i need help...uhm its about phone and text sex....how do i do it??how do i start??how do i know where to stop??i need all the help i can get from men and ladies.pretty please..tell me EVERYTHING YOU KNOW ABOUT PHONE AND TEXT SEX??thanks in advance... (47 words

How can I get my dad to change his ways? I need the father I've never had...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - This is about my father.... He and my mum split up when we were really youngand he's gone from woman to woman, none of which i particularly liken for exapmle the first one made me sleep in a cage when I was there an dmy dad was on nights, the second was a raging acoholic the ... (343 words

Will he get in trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - I am 16 years old. The man that I am in love with is 27. I live in the state of Maine and it said I could be/do anything with anyone over the age of 21 with parental consent. But he is still concerend that he can end up in jail. Can he still go to jail even if my parents ... (64 words

Am I right to say he just wanted sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am an Asian lady and dated a Caucasian guy for almost 2 months. He's the same age as me. I recently backed off from seeing him as I felt he didn't put in enough effort to make the relationship work or go further. It seems he's only interested in me physically but couldn't ... (150 words

How can I forget her and see better things for the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - Obsessed with my ex. Not a day goes by where I don't think about her and everything we did together while in our relationship, which eventually fell apart because of distance, which would have been too much for us to cope with when she went to university. For the past 10 mont... (114 words

Help me analyze this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - there's this guy i talk to a lot on facebook/myspace, and he's left a couple flirty messages before. half the time when i see him in the hallways he does cute stuff instead of just saying hi. he asks me to dance at dances. he doesnt give me xmas/bday presents, even though i do. ... (144 words

Is this guy really into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - ok so me and this guy that i had met in the club 2 or 3 weekends ago has been talking on the phone tome since then.he is a nice person to talk to but the only reason that we talk on the phone is bcuz i gave him my number when he called i was so nervous and suprised,we are ... (319 words

Having a relationship with my dad's friend, should I tell my parents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - Hi, i am 17 and my dads friend (who is 42) has told me he has had feelings for me for a long time, we have kissed on a few occasions and have been away on a weekend together where we had sex which i really enjoyed. I really like him, but i think my parents would be very ... (131 words

Where is her money coming from?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 26-29 - i and my fiancee loved each other the way two lovers should loved each other. but suddenly, i noticed that she spends money that the source is not properly cleared to me. each time i asked her, she tell me the source of the money but i am not satisfied. i am scared if she has ... (73 words

Long distance ends with a low blow but we can't cut off...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Apologies as this is a bit long but I thought readers would need some good detail. My relationship with my Ex (call her M) had been a year and a half. Being long distance with her main home in Australia we had met up in England and she spent most of her time here after split... (753 words

Can you love two people at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - hi Ok well i go out with this amazing boy he means the world to me, and i truly love him and he said he felt the same. We see each other every day at school and we meet at speedway every Thursday. Recently he's been acting really depressed and unhappy and he started avoiding ... (454 words

What are signs that someone is gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

11 April 2008 (F - out of curiosity what are signs that people are gay?? e.g taking shirt off with crossed hands and over the head. any more?? ... (23 words

He likes me but said he doesn't want me to fall in love with him, what's up with that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - I'm seeing a man who told me he likes me so much but he does not want me to fall in love with him and he does not want to ever hurt my feelings. What's up with that? he's Mexican and I'm American.... (43 words

He's finding it difficult to keep up with my pace, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've met man 63. Annd Im 45. He helps me to get through my divorce. We get on well and I love being around him. Our sex life is great. We can have sex twice a day. It's amazing for his age. I really enjoy making love to him. It's highly pleasurable when he is pounding ... (95 words

Does a woman make a man cum with her body, or does the man make himself cum using her body?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi People, On rare occassions wen me n my boyfriend ahve sex, hes more into it den me n i dnt usual put too much effort into it but he still manages to cum. I was just wondering, when men/boys cum wen having sex wud u say that: The woman made him cum using her body ... (93 words

Pregnant with his baby and he's cheated on me! He's only with me for the baby. Should I move on? Or forgive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Ok So Im 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend has cheated on me. I feel so hurt and angry. He has told me that he has relly strong feelings for the other woman. And He is only staying with me for the baby. All I do is cry and I dont eat. He calls me a selfish cow and do i even ... (123 words

I want to plan something nice and special because I am afraid when I go on deployment she might move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (? age 22-25 - My fiancee left arizona and went back home to here parents house. i was treating her badly and not being good to her, i am in the military and deploying soon, i want to see her when i come home but i am not sure of what we can do that wont make her feel uncomfortable doing. i ... (82 words

Why doesn't he want to have sex? Am I that bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - ive been with my boyfriend for almost three months now and we became sexually active after the first month. To cut a long story short, he broke up with his ex to be with me as he had had feelings for me for months and i did for him but we never told each other. We were f... (461 words

Smelly vaginal discharge, sore boobs, what does this mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - i have a realley smelly vaginal discharge,my boobs are also sore when i lean or touch them,im very worried about the discharge,ive been with my partner for 5 years and have never cheated on him,he would never cheat on me either.. what is this ... (47 words

I'm 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend has cheated on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Ok So Im 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend has cheated on me. I feel so hurt and angry. He has told me that he has relly strong feelings for the other woman. And He is only staying with me for the baby. What should i do forgive him so my baby has a dad? Or move on and try and ... (95 words

He says he can 'never get close enough to me' while cuddling, is this a bad thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - i was led in bed with my boyfriend yesterday morning and we were cuddling. He then asked me to lay on top of him so he could use me as a blanket (its a joke we have between us) and so we were cuddling like that and he then said to me ... "i dont know why but i can never get ... (130 words

I'm a 22yr old gay man I've recently came out but have issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - hi im a 22yr old gay man ive recently came out and everyone has been great about it. ive been seeing my boyfreind for about 6month and things at the beggining were great. But now i find him to have bad habbits that really annoy me. also i feel as if he is copying me, e.g ... (174 words

Should I walk away from this? Or is there something still there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Have posted before,but would like advice on situation.BF of year told me not in love with me and just wants to be friends,he was having sexual problems and I feel this is the reason for him ending it as he thinks i woudl eventually.I met with him last night and we went to a ... (192 words

Is sex with someone while separated classified as cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - is sex with someone while separated classified as cheating? i have been separated from my husband for 3 months and met a guy who i known from my past as a friend and colleague, he has a partner (but he has informed me that he no longer shared a bed together and just share a ... (176 words

A "spirit medium" said my marriage will not work out, is this a load of nonsense, in your opinion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, this may sound like a silly question to most people. Myself and some friends of mine went to see a medium,(this is someone who can talk to people who passed away) i basicly just went out of interest, my main concern is that so far everything that she has told my ... (129 words

Vaginal disharge advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I have been noticing i have been having quite thick white virginal discharge. Is this normal? I have no discomfort. I am also on the contraceptive pill and i have heard this can change your discharge... I would normally be on my period now but am skipping a month due to m... (60 words

So lost need as much help as I can get-I want my baby back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I got a place with my ex-boyfriend Bobby and we have been living together for 4 to 5 months now.He was going to ask me to marry him in a few months but I fucked up.Well we got into a big fight because I found out about him lying to me about his Ex-girlfriend/wife type thing ... (360 words

Sex is amazing for his age-but it doesn't last long

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

11 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've met this man 18 years my senior. Im 45. We gets on well and I love being round him. Our sex life is great. He can do it twice times a day. It's amazing for his age. I really enjoy making love to him. But it doesnt last long. A year on he finds it hard pounding on me ... (95 words

I trust her but I don't know what to do, although they don't talk anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

11 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - Dear Cupid: I'm just your average 18 year old guy i have a beautiful G/F. Well i'm goign straight to the point. You see last night my G/F and our former friend told in front of everyone (we had like 8 ppl in the chat)that she liked him...although i thought it ... (552 words

Why does he keep running away from things?

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11 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - does a leopard ever change its spots?ive realised since splitting up with my husband there seems to be a pattern with him.he had 2 businesses before i met him and just gave them up,he dumped his girlfriend of 5 years to go on holiday with his brother.dosent bother with his 2 ... (115 words

Where do we go to for abortion advice?

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11 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - well me and my girlfriend had unprotected sed right and now abit ago right and no she keeps feeling sick and and pissing all the time bu shes on the pill as well so we just took a test the other day and it sed she wont but she ant cum on her period yet so what do we do and we ... (109 words

At what point should you give up on a crush?

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11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Sometimes I feel that it is just a waste of time crushing on somebody, because in the end, he just won't like you. It's not even because I don't have confidence in myself that I have a chance with him, it's just that I see him with interacting with other girls (not ... (92 words

How can I let go of this fear and just start being my true self in front of him?

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11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I am normally a fun to be around person and easy going person who is also funny (I think), but the problem is that you really have to get me to be comfortable with the people before I am able to do this. I have a huge crush on this guy I know, and I guess because I'm so ... (155 words

I keep getting shut down by girls online!

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11 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm a single lesbian, to meet new ppl I have tried internet dating and met a few girls over the last year or so, made one friend and chatted to quite a few girls online. I dated one girl for a few weeks early this year. I email girls for a while, they seem interested then ... (164 words

I finally told him I like him and now its awkward!

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11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - okay,so i met this guy on myspace through an old friend.i started talking to him and it was awsome.i told him everything and he told me everything and i could just open up to him and he makes me laugh and smile and i get butterflies when i talk to him its just so great.so i ... (97 words

My girlfriend just broke up with me shall I wait or let her go?

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11 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend just broke up with me 4 days ago. I didn't realize that we'll end up like this because I thought that everything is flowing smoothly. We've been together for almost 1 and half years now and she told me that she still have feeling with her ex love who broke he... (177 words

He just wants me as a friend now-I'm confused, please help!

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11 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi there me again, the guy that i've met 2 years ago invited me to his place last night, he stay's on a farm a few km outside town when I got there he has lighten the fire place and got us a nice dvd we were lying on the coough watching the dvd he was holding me asked me out ... (268 words

Help me I am very much attracted to my aunt?

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11 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - help me........i am a guy of 18. i am very much attracted to my aunt.she is my uncle's wife.she has two daughters. i am really confused about her.at times she behaves as if she too is longing for me.... of all such incidents recently when i went to stay there at her house ... (126 words

I'm just worried about technique in case she has started to go off me since the last time we met...

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11 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - Tomorrow I'm meeting up with a girl who I've only met once before. I'm just worried about technique in case she has started to go off me in that time... do I remind her of our own little private jokes etc. or what? Do I have to try and act cool or just make her laugh? Don't ... (119 words

How to approach a "shy" girl???

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11 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - How would you like a guy to approach you if you were shy??? I have a girl in my class who i am interested in, and i think she is interested in me too. everytime i turn to look at her, she is looking back at me, and my friends all say she looks at me all the time. I am a pr... (166 words

Am I still a virgin even though he didnt break me?

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11 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - hi, yesterday i decided to have sex for the first time, i wanted to, the guy i tried to have it with i love so much, but when he tried to put it up it just wouldnt go in, even still i bled and it really hurt, am i still a virgin even though he didnt break me, because i had his ... (67 words

I'm engaged but have an irrepresable infatuation with someone else. What do I do?

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11 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my fiancée for six years now. We got engaged last year. I love her dearly and want to be with her. The trouble comes when I want to have my cake and eat it too. I'm just not sure how to control these feelings. You see there is this other woman I have been ... (147 words

Do young woman say 25 to 35 usually find men say 50 to 58 old and sexually unattractive?

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11 April 2008 (M age 51-59 - Do young woman say 25 to 35 usually find men say 50 to 58 old and sexually unattractive? I find myself interested in a woman 35 but am not sure if she really feels anything for me sexually or is just being nice as a friend?... (46 words

A friend is getting deployed soon, what can I say in order to cheer him up?

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11 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - This friend of mine is getting deployed quite soon, and he was telling me that this is his third deployment in his 3 year marriage (this is his 2nd marriage) and that he´ll lose his wedding anniversary again, like kinda of complaining. Since I´m single I don´t know what to ... (111 words

Did he really like me, or did I just assume he was flirting?

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11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - So here's the deal. I met a guy, a great guy. Funny, smart, tall and handsome. The works. We met while we were both working at the same location, for a few weeks. I think he "attempted" to flirt with me, jokes, teasing, poking me, asking me questions about myself and what not. ... (208 words

My boyfriends ex girlfreind is pregnant with his kid what should I do??

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11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I need help. Me an my boyfrind have been together for five months and we love each other so much. But he just found out from his ex from ten months ago that she just had a baby and it might be his. Please help me and give me some advice on what should i do. I am so confusse... (65 words

I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves m.!!!!

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11 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves me. i don't know how anyone can love some one so quickly. im kinda freaking out, he wants me to say it back, but i don't know if i love him, or even want to keep on dating him. what should i do, how should i ... (66 words

I keep digging a bigger hole for myself, what can I do to not make this anymore awkward?

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11 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - Okay i'm messing up this once grand friendship i had wit this girl. I liked her but she had a boyfriend, i told her how i felt and things went south. I keep trying to build our friendship back up by saying that i miss the good ol' days and stuff but i keep digging myself bigger ... (73 words

I hurts my girlfriend to sit down after anal sex, what should we do?

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11 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - Me and my g/f had anal sex for the first time a couple days ago, but now she says her butt hurts, and it hurts to sit down what do we do?... (32 words

IF two girls have sex can you still get STD's

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11 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - IF two girls have sex can you still get STD's ??? ... (15 words

What can I do about feeling super horny?

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11 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - I need advice.... Nowadays i get really really super horny. I dont think its hormones. I know alot of diffrent ways to masturbate. But i find it to be unsatisfying. Even when relaxed and empty minded. Btw i'm 14 years old and been masturbating since i was 10. The only thin... (86 words

I have feeling for this girl who got pregnant with a guy she has now broken up with. How do I handle this situation?

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11 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - I have feelings for this girl and we've been friends for 4 months now. We are both in college. She had a boyfriend but now they've broken apart from each other for about 3 weeks now and she is pregnant. I still have feelings for her but I don't know if she has any for me. We h... (149 words

How long do you think she'll like me for?

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11 April 2008 (M age 10-12 - How long will she like me for? The girl in my class is kinda obvious she likes me. She always flirts a lot with me, stares at me and laughs at me, and takes my work an starts correcting it for me. She tries to impress me sometimes, and most of the time i walk by her she touches ... (68 words

My best friend just wont hang out with me, why?

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11 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have a friend that I've known since high school 10th grade. We used to always hang at her house and we've been to the mall ONCE out of our entire friendship. Whenever I call her up and say, "let's hang out or go to a restaurant" she always come up with an excuse as to why ... (184 words

I'm 8 months pregnant, will having intercourse hurt my baby?

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11 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I'm 8 months pregnant, and me and my husbund still want to have sex, but find it hard what can we do to make it easier? Will it hurt the baby or am i just being silly?... (37 words

I have feelings for my best friends' cousin who lives in the same house. What should I do?

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11 April 2008 (M age 13-15 - Hey everyone, I was at my best friend's house a few days ago and his cousin came into the room that me and my friend were in, and she acted different to usual, less moody, more open with her own feelings rather than thinking of me from a stereotypical point of view. I now find... (96 words

How do you deal with your partner not wanting sex as much as you do?

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11 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - How do you deal with your partner not wanting sex as much as you do? I've been with my boyfriend for a few years and for a long time now I have really struggled with his diminished interest in sex. It feels like there is this fire raging inside me and now I am starting to get ... (273 words

I've just met a girl, but I haven't dated for so long, any suggestions?