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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I should focus on somebody who is single, but feelings are feelings aren't they?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (M)

- Hi there, i've had a pretty eventful year, a 12 month relationship which included the birth of my first son has recently ended, but that's not what i wanna talk about. There's a girl that i work with and we've been acquaintances for well over 18 months there. She's stunning... (306 words)

He broke up with me, I'm trying to move on after a broken heart, now he's trying to get close again. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years, before packing my bag to come to the US to be with him 6 months ago. The first 6 months were very stressful and challenging, as I learnt to adjust to the new environment, make friends, weather, etc. So we ended up arguing alot... (284 words)

How can I get the friendly but shy store clerk to ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - How can I get the friendly but shy store clerk to ask me out? I went there yesterday with the intention of flirting with him, but his boss was right there and we didn't have much time to talk. I don't know him very well, but he's a friend of a friend and we've talked on a few ... (136 words)

We're not agreeing on our wedding plans, can you help, please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - He wants a drive-thru wedding, i want a normal wedding.....I dont know what to do.....can you please help?... (18 words)

My fiance is fed up with me constantly worrying about my weight, and how I look. How can I overcome this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - What is wrong with me, with letting go? My fiance and i are due to be married, but believe it or not we still have issues in the bedroom! I'm the most self-conscious person i know which is partly the reason after having sex with the same person for over 10 years, i have still ... (148 words)

Out of the blue he says that he needs to experience life without me! This is like a bad dream.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I was just told two days ago by my, now ex-boyfriend, that he doesn't like me like he should. He says that he needs to experience life without me! All of a sudden, me and my son (from a previous relationship) have to move. My "ex" and I were together 4 years!!!!! I didnt see ... (172 words)

How can I get us back in a relationship again? He says he doesn't want to get hurt, so we are not "officially" together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Me and this guy have been seeing each other over the past year. We break up, then get back together.. and so on. We both love each other, and I dont know if its just me but I realy have the feeling we were made for each other. Yeah sounds stupid, huh? And im not into all that ... (221 words)

Pain in my testicles after I see my girlfriend, is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 April 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - hey, i was just wondering, after I see my girlfriend, even if we do nothing sexual, my balls nearly always ache after. It is really inconvienient, and I was wondering is this normal? I'm worried. Thanks... (36 words)

I want him to tell his ex about us., whereas he says he doesn't want to hurt her. Should I be suspicious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend now for 4 months. He was with someone when we met but finished their relationship to be with me. His ex now has been texting him daily, and he has been replying. After a secret quick inspection of his phone I found out that she has been asking him ... (161 words)

Why did he turn his caller ID off twice? This awakens my trust issues from the past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone, im really fed up with my boyfriend. H e was out with his friends fri night and he rang me today his phone was on private number. This also happened another time after he was on a night with the boys. With is number being off, i find this really suspicious because i ... (197 words)

Was our sex good enough? Am I pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and My boyfriend of 8 months decided to have sex for the first time last week. It was both of our first times and i enjoyed it but i feel that i have let him down as he is 2 years older than me. I feel that i have ruined it for him but he says 'It was good' But is that goo... (124 words)

He never trusts me! Now I've broken up with him but I love him and need him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - my bf has a problem with trusting people. and because of my past he doesnt trust me, and he has never trusted me for the 5 years we have been together. last week i just got really mad and broke up with him for not trusting me. he is also going through a very bad time due to ... (110 words)

Wish I could talk to women but I am too self-conscious, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

13 April 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - im a 21 year old male and still a virgin and i have scaring from my acne and real selfconcious about it and i wanna talk to women but am too scared is there any way to avoid this the only good thing about me is that im pretty built ... (50 words)

Guys call me fat - this makes other guys unwilling to make a move.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Guys have mixed opinions on me... I am not fat(as far as i'm concerned!) i'm size 14,but some guys often call me fat. Most of them don't,i'm CURVY.LITTERALY ..But the few guys that call me fat make it hard for the guys who tell me they like me to make a move. It's realy gett... (91 words)

How Can I get my mum to accept my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i am recently reconciled with my ex bf. We split up 3 years ago after moving in together waay too soon, and rowing over my then ex and also having big sexual issues and no money. We were together 3 years. After we split, we fell out big time and my ex came to ask my ... (519 words)

Does his friends shouting show that he's been talking about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I asked him out about 9 months ago...... I know for a fact that he liked me otherwise I wouldn't have. He said maybe and 2 days later said not now maybe after the exams thanx for asking. After the summer he was watching me all the time and we spoke and once but we were both ... (406 words)

Should I tell her how I feel for her... before she leaves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Right... I have a problem...i am not sure about it... Okay this Student Teacher from my school... She is new and she came about 2 months ago.. i'm having a crush on her ....and daydream about her mostly in school and i do stalk her mostly at lunch and break ...(that might... (123 words)

I am not pleased with my appereance, what can I change to look better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hey, this a pretty selfish Question,.. but i have no confidence in myself at all.. i am not the prettiest of gurls, like ata ll. ima size 10/12 and like on a scale of 1 - 10, 10 bein the highest , im about a 3 on scale of looks. and that aint me bein paranoin.. i really ... (116 words)

If he accepts to go together to the cinema, does he implicitly accept to be my BF???...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I was wondering...If you ask a guy out to the movies and he's 13,will he then(once he's said yes) accept you as a gf. Because i could pluck up the courage to try it,but he might not think of me as his gf and simply GET ANOTHER GF. Are guys really that thick? Because ... (106 words)

Planning to tell him I like him so that he understands why I am avoiding him... my teacher...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - well I like my teacher a lot and im deciding whether I should tell him or not. I'm thinking telling him is the only way I'm going to stop liking him because its going to get rid of all the what if's going on in my head and I know it might make things awkward between us but ... (208 words)

My friend is going to ask the boy I like to go out with me, I'm so nervous about this situation!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey !! I need some advice . My very good close friend is going to ask the guy I like to go out with me and I'm totally nervous and scared .... he's showed signs that he liked me but I'm still not sure .... she thinks that he does but ...IDK .... I'm so nervous ... I'm even ... (139 words)

I'm in a lesbian relation with my own sister, which was favoured by our father's abuses. How can I end it with her, when I'm all she has got?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - This is going to sound weird and I dont know how to put it but me and my sister grew up with only our dad - our mother died when we were young. Our dad abused both of us when we were kids and this made me and my sister very close. When we were older we were too shy to expe... (220 words)

My soon-to-be husband sometimes flirts with women online or on the phone, once even asked out a married woman. Am I denial, minimising the magnitude of his habit?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf are in a serious relationship and have plans to get married by hopefully next year. There's one issue that has been bothering me though.. he sometimes flirts with women online or on the phone. He has done this a few times in the past year. The first time was when ... (260 words)

He has a GF but says he only goes out with her because he feels sorry for her!! Should I be getting involved with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

13 April 2008 (?) age 16-17 - well theres this guy who i had a crush on months ago. i liked him loads! and i was mad on him but now i dont seem as interested in him as i used to be and have got over him. but i was in ICT the other day and the power went so we were all just sat in dark listening to our ... (329 words)

For the past two years I've been feeling emotionally unstable, numb... I want to feel better.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - well for the past two years or so i haven't been able to feel the emotions im supposed to. i know what im supposed to feel cos its there in my head but i cant feel it in my body and heart. for example last night i was sad and crying a lot but didn't feel sad i just felt norm... (190 words)

Our relation is purely sexual and... in secrecy. I love him and don't want us to hide any longer, what to tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I like this guy right, but whenever he want to hang out it's when nobody is around or just to have sex and let it be confidential. I want our relationship to be out in the open, and I feel like he is hiding me from his friends. But, i reallly LOVE him. What do I dO? I don't ... (74 words)

Tired? Sickness? Cold? Stomach Pains? Any suggestions.........?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello my lovelies. =] This isn't really a relationship question, but just wanted a few ideas as I really despise going to the doctors. Over the last few weeks, I've been feeling very tired like to the point of only being able to stand for about an hour maximum, I keep re... (128 words)

I need a midlife ego boost any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, can anyone help with a self-esteem issue? I'm mid 40's and now find myself alone. I'm suffering from very low self-esteem, not helped by the sudden loss of hair, so I'm now 'thin on top' and I although I'm quite toned and female friends say I'm attractive and have a GSOH, ... (127 words)

I really regret cheating but I regret not telling my boyfriend even more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, This is a really long story but please bear with me! If i am being honest i do not know why i am writting here other than i suppose to get it off my chest. The story is i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 half years and i really do love him stupidly. We met when we ... (642 words)

We broke up because he slept with my sister, but I want him back!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

13 April 2008 (?) age 16-17 - i really need some help, i dont know what to do about the situation im in.. ive being goin out with my boyfriend for over a year now, (16 months) and i adore him! but last night i found out that he has slept with my 13 year old sister!!!!!!! he is 18 and i am 15, we have only ... (149 words)

What is the best way to meet new folk and make friends at university?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi. Im off to university in September to study history and am feeling a bit anxious and nervous about making friends. I've had a bit of a bad time growing up and was severely bullied all the way through high school. After highschool rather than going to college I went away ... (200 words)

Family and boyfriend problems are driving me to drink..how can I cope better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hey i dont know where to start with all this well my mum and younger brother are moving to spain next year theyve decided and my mum told me that i was to stay here and keep this house incase it all went worng . I know she doesnt love me and never has i know she blames me fo... (270 words)

It used to be guys crushing on me, now I am struck dumb with first ever crush of my own!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - well i am a really confused teen...ever since high school i have been dtaing like the hottest guys ever,everyone used to try and make up converations with me,want to hang out with me..if i ever liked a guy i used to get him in know time..this is the reason why i never had a ... (174 words)

Advice please about females with hair on their backs and bums?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - okay this is like really akward and embarrasing but oh well is it normal 4 girls to have hair on their lower back and on/in their butt?? like does it turn guys off? please help/answer me it really bugs me!!... (44 words)

And useful advice on overcoming shyness around girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

13 April 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - when im round girls im very shy and try to avoid them as i dont know what to do and what to say any advice p;lease help ... (39 words)

First date advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - i relly like this girl and want to ask her out on a date. But i'm scared thing's will get arkward at parts, as we've never been totally close, just distant friends. What kind of conversations do you have? And what's off limits for a first date? how should i ask her out ... (57 words)

Do sweatpants (thick ones) prevent pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - If the guy had thick sweat pants on and underwear and i had nothing can i still get pregnant?... (19 words)

Help please aunts,me and my boyfiend are going to break up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everybody, I need some help from you guy. Me and my boyfiend is going to break up. This is a long story, me and him have been together for 2 years and our relationship have been very weird and iam sure is not normal. We have been arguing right after 3 months dating and on ... (254 words)

How can I get him to realise that I want a mature relatioship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm in love with him sooooooo much. And now that things have settled down since he dumped me i know if i asked him out he would say yes. But there are 2 issues... 1.If people ever found out,because we have been out before and of the rumours we would be teased and he would dum... (171 words)

Update-What do you think would happen if I came up to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Thanks for the help you guys. I always figured this guy wasn't the best person to crush on. Even if I did offend him by saying he looks funny because he dressed up.Winning the debate must have taken his mind off the note. I don't know what to do now. All my friends think I ... (111 words)

I still have a sex drive but not with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 25 and live with a guy I have been with for about a year. I never really wanted him to move in but his parents moved away last November and he had nowhere to go so it all seemed convenient at the time. We had been friends for about 6 years before so we share a lot of ... (263 words)

Why does he talk about girls chatting him up when he knows it annoys me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - well recently started seeing this guy ( am 16 he 21) and we really into one another but taken things slow as not to rush into anything. Only thing that worrying me is he drinks quite bit and goes to the pub alot, i trust him and wouldn't think he would cheat but he does ... (167 words)

Does it feel better for a girl to masturbate on her stomach?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My question is: Why does it feel better for a girl to masturbate on her stomach? My girlfriend was telling me about it once and she said that it felt waaay better to do it on her stomach rather than on her back or in the shower. Why is this?... (53 words)

Online he really does seem like my dream man but I’m not sure if I should accept his invitation to meet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There’s this man I really like and I haven't even met him yet!! We talk to each other through email and he seems so witty and it's like his personality shines through his writing. We first began contact in December because he sent an email to me by mistake meaning it to go... (272 words)

I cant seem to make him cum when I give him a blow job

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there I have a serious issue here. i've just started seeing someone new and i cant seem to make him cum when i give him a blow job. I've never had this problem before... (Infact past partners have usually cum quite quickly). Its reached a point now where its become quite... (80 words)

He don't give me money,but I feel he should do that sometimes or buy me things

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid, i've been in a relationship for four months now with a young charming guy,he is 27 n very matured. i get scared sometimes cos of things i have experienced in my past relationships.he is very nice n caring also matured as well,but i find it hard 2 trust guys dis d... (167 words)

What position is best to make love for the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey guys, i would like to know what position is best to make love for the first time. My boyfriend and i are both virgins, i know to have loads of foreplay and to take things slowly because of the pain that may or may not be present. But what are your opinions on the position ... (140 words)

My new guy is amazing but I think about my ex (who led me on) a lot...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - well...bascially I was dating this guy for about 9 months, and it was perfect. I was happy, and head of heels in love. Then, we suddenly started arguin, about the 'future', going to different univerities, he asked for a break, and i couldnt handle it emotionally, i was hea... (355 words)

12 and thinking to hide my relation from my parents in case they don't approve, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - hi guys um i am 11 nearly 12 and i have asked this guy to be my boyfriend.he has sorta said yes and i really like him.i am glad we can have a just at school thing and at home but privately but i cant tell my parents incase they dont approve.what can i do please help... (61 words)

Took the morning after pill, any chance of pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i was due for my period around april 8th i took a pregnancy test on the ninth to see if that was the cause of me not getting it. sure enough it came back negative, but later that night we had sex ( WITH A CONDOM) of course it broke not even within 24 hours had i gotten and took ... (91 words)

I think she should take time to sort this out but can't bear the thought of losing her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I have this amazing girlfriend, I am very much in love with her and she has told me she is too. she has this friend (a guy) who she has known from nursery, they have always been good mates but only recently has she found out that he is in love with her. Although he is now in ... (131 words)

"The risks outweight the rewards"??? What is he up to? I thought the sexual banters were leading us to an affair!?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just curious..married guy at work,I'm married also, we have been flirting for quite some time, it has moved to intense sexual banter. Recently I had, had it.I wanted to know what was he looking for.He even went on to state that he is responsive vs passive.I even asked him if he ... (184 words)

So confused over the only lad I've ever loved. Does he have feelings for me or hate me like the rest of them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hey ok i'm not even sure what i'm asking here but to give you the full picture i'm affriad this will be quite long even thought i will try to keep it brief. Right theres a guy in my class who i seriously like. Although we didn't speak loads we used to get on great and stuff but ... (999 words)

Small patches of dry skin under the head of my penis, rough and bumpy - what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I got a couple of small patches of dry skin on left and right under the head of my penis, the color of the skin that is just dry with no eches or sore, its light pink which has been since I was born is now rough and bumpy I haven't had sex in 10 years so I know I didn't catch ... (112 words)

How to keep my skin smooth and healthy without ingrown hairs? (I wax)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello I wax My body and want to make sure I can keep my skin smooth and healthy without ingrown stubble what can I buy for my skin to help keep healthy and to make my hair easier to bare when it grows out again need less echy's?... (48 words)

Sometimes I feel he doesn't respect me because he ignores me to talk to his friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i met a guy through common friends and we got together 2 weeks ago.we don't know each other very well,but i have fun when i am with him.problem is that he is sometimes very nice with me and sometimes i feel he doesn't respect me because he ignores me to talk with his friends. ok... (197 words)

I gave in to his request (oral sex) but he did not return the favour. Am I right to be upset?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently gave my 1st blowjob to a guy I was dating. He wanted it so much and so I gave in. Although personally I felt the act demeaning, I didn't mind doing it as I was attracted to this guy so much. However when I asked him if he would return the favour by going down on ... (77 words)

Involved in a relation with a teenager; when I realised it was wrong, he blackmailed to carry on with our relation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - After my marriage failed i was in a bad place emotionally and ended up allowing an affair to start with someone 15yrs younger than me and only 15 himself. When ppl started finding out about it realisation hit me and it felt wrong and i knew i had been wrong to allow it to ... (164 words)

Problems with curly hair...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey, this doesn't really have anything to do with love... directly... but my hair is naturally very curly, and sometimes it looks really nice but other times its awful, and i hate the unpredictability of it, so can anyone suggest a way to manage it / a suitable product to use? ... (60 words)

A boy interferes in my private affairs and has approached me inappropriately. What can I do to avoid him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, I'm a 14 year old female living in the UK, I go to secondary school and a few months ago we asked the teachers whether were allowed to have some sort of prom, the teachers agreed after some discussions. The prom was like for raising money for the poor in Africa. Me and my m... (819 words)

Dating guys but attracted to girls. Am I bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 20 going 21 this december. I've been dating Guys all this while.. but I find myself always attracted to girls. i tends to be shy when am with guys, but i'll become touchy with the girls. am i a bisexual, lesbian or something? ... (50 words)

My mother let my BF live and sleep with me since I was 14, two years later I am pregnant. How to tell her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - how do i tell my mom i am prego at 16, should she already see this coming since my boyfriend lives with us and my boyfriend sleeps with me, does she want me to have a baby since she let him live with me since i was 14... (48 words)

My husband doesn't pay me compliments because, he says, I don't accept them. I feel ignored and unattractive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married 10yerars and have beautiful children. I get upset because my husband never compliments me...ever....yet he often has eyes for other women when we are out and enjoys looking at the women in porn....I have told him I would like him to compliment ... (164 words)

I'm jealous because the boy I like enjoys the company of a girl who shares his interest - playing the guitar...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hello. i just found this site and i'm excited to see the answers... theres this boy at my university i get along with... my friends think we have this connection and says he really likes me. i didn't see it at all. after they told me i sort of noticed. when he wanted to talk t... (276 words)

I have to be whipped and shed blood for my country to consider me a "woman". I'm scared!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - In my country a girl must be whipped and shed blood for there to be a good harvest. If we flinch we dissapoint our clan. We then also aren't considered women... just girls. If I succeed I get a husbund. But I'm scared. Do you have advice?... (47 words)

We are both married so how do I tell her my feelings? She was my first love...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having a real problem getting over my ex, and I really could use some advise. I am sorry if it seems so long. First, let me say a little about our relationship. When we met, she was a few years younger than I was and she was my first love, my first sexual experience, my ... (306 words)

I never thought this could happen but I've fallen for my brother. How do I tell my friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I never thought this would happen but I fell for my brother. We always got along,arguing every now and then like any brother and sister. One day I was fixing to go out with my boyfriend. As I was in the restroom finishing up my make-up(I had the door open,I was already dressed) ... (176 words)

Girls only! I have bumps on my vagina, are they supposed to be there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

13 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - what are the tiny bumps on the inside of the lips on your vagina? are they suppose to be there? should i see a doctor? they are viry tiny, and plenty of them on the inside not the ouside. what are they? how did i get them?... (47 words)

He told me to wait a MONTH after I asked him out! In the meantime, he's dating someone else!

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hey guys.... i am absuluty head over heals in love with this guy.... i asked him out...and he said to wait a month. So i waited.... and then he starts dating this other chick... who i really hate!!!! What should i do????? He looks at me in class and huggs me and stough... ... (55 words)

I have finally found it in me to trust someone again...but he acts "shady"!!

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - ok i havnt been with anyone in a really long time(a year to be exact) and not just sexually i havnt been in a relationship period! because i got tired of being hurt and treated badly by guys. well about 3 mo's ago this really nice guy finally got me to open up and trust someone ... (116 words)

I feel like breaking up but could this be "the one"?

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this special man for 7 months, we are very attracted to each other. We have a wonderful time when we are together(it's passionate, loving and deep) Everything feels so right. He says her loves me when we make love. I have strong feelings for him, and feel ... (135 words)

My boyfriend gives me "advice" and it seems controlling, so how do I set a boundary with this?

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been dating a man for nearly a year now and our sex life is great. I feel love for him and he for me, but this is now feeling strained for me. He constantly feels the need to tell me what to do, how to do it when to do it, how I'm not doing it right, etc. ... (124 words)

I have a huge crush on a guy, but he's likes another girl, what can I do?

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a HUGE crush on this guy. But he likes another girl. What should I do?... (18 words)

I'm 25, so why am I still single?

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Why am I still single? I'm a 25 year-old intelligent woman with a college education and a good job. I would say I'm above average in appearance, though slightly overweight, but I have lost weight recently and I'm getting many positive comments about it. I've had four serious ... (204 words)

My father will forbid me from seeing my boyfriend, should I break up with him?

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I have a boyfriend...we've been together for 1 month, last week i asked my father whether i could have boyfriend or not, he told me that it was my decision. I'm 15 and my b/f is 17. The problem is that now my dad told me that he had been said that my boyfriend has a bad life... (150 words)

She's defending the guy that sexually assaulted her whilst she was drunk?!

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13 April 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey guys, Well i have a wonderful girlfriend that is most definately the best thing that has ever happened to me! This much i promise.....but i have a problem...... I have come on this site and asked a couple times about what to do when dealing with her past.....she has... (333 words)

I'm in love with him, but I have future plans that he can't be involved with.

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm dating a 25 year old man and i'm 17. I am in love with him, but secretly i don't want to be with him forever, because i have future plans that he can't be in. He has a beautiful daughter who I love and see as my own, and i truly don't want to hurt her or him. Should i end ... (94 words)

What do you think of my note of apology to my crush that I unsulted last week?

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm now in a very awkard siuation because I think I offended my crush by accident. I should apologize, but how? Here's what I wrote in my apology note: "Hey, I'm really sorry if I offended you last friday. You have every right to be mad at me. Anyway congrats on winning y... (106 words)

My boyfriend's mum saw me going in to the cinema with a male friend, (it was innocent) and has since made my life hell.

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I am 16 and have moved out of my home due to a few problems with my mum a few months ago. I have been currently living with my boyfriend and his mum. I have stared college and made a new friend. However i met her boyfriend at a party and we kissed when we were drunk. After ... (219 words)

Is it alright to tell a girl that she is beautiful on your first date?

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13 April 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Is it alright to tell a girl that she is beautiful on your first date? I'm going on a date with this amazing girl who makes me laugh, i make her laugh and she's easy to talk to, and of course she's beautiful. Do you think if i tell her she's beautiful she will think i'm o... (69 words)

I am a emotional mess, I need closure and I want to be happy once more.

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am so torn. I have been with this guy for 5 years. He has been verbally abusive to me for the past 3. I am only here because I think I might be afraid of starting over. Worse, he has done a number on my self-esteem. He's put me down so much and I am just tired of crying all ... (96 words)

This curiosity I have about my husband and his co-worker is driving me crazy!

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband has a co worker at work. I am not saying anything is going on between them it's just curiousity for the moment. I noticed that there are a considerable amount of text to and from her. Even one text was in reference to a job and she was telling him what to do, but ... (112 words)

One for the guys..What's your favourite sexual position?

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - For the guys here...I am just curious what is your favorite sex position? I think that a lot of guys like the woman on top but I'd like to hear guy's opinions. Thanks!... (33 words)

I need money to help fund my tuition, but no one will employ me, what can I do?

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I am 17 and i'm a senior in highschool. I'm supposed to be going to college in September but I don't know how i'm gonna pay for things. Financial aid won't give me every penny I need. I've been trying to get a job since October of '07. I only had 3 interviews and no job. No o... (192 words)

If I waited longer would I have gotten her?

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13 April 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Thank you for even opening this thread .. I'm only a 16yr old male and this is the first time i've been this heart broken, I don't know if this applies to you but have you ever waited for someone you love soo much and in the end ...they slowly chipped off your heart a... (249 words)

I have lost the confidence I need for a healthy relationship. Please help.

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have experienced a traumatic relationship. I was assaulted by the guy I once loved. I fell into depression for a very long time. I have even transferred to another university to avoid him. I have obsessively fallen for my teacher since last autumn. I have been resisting t... (373 words)

Guy's opinions please...how could he do this to me? How could he just find someone else?

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in my fifties. I dated a guy for over two years, broke up last July of 07. He broke up, but he had become emotionally available. Question, how can they just move on to someone else after two months. He said he couldn't even afford a girlfriend when we were dating, doesn't ... (235 words)

Co-worker confusion!! How do I interpret his actions?

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13 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - how to tell if your male coworker likes you? okay, so i got promoted and transferred to a new store recently. I've been there for about a week, and I happen to work with a few people who trained at my old store. Theres this guy who's a little awkward, but hes incredibly f... (196 words)