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I want to sneak my boyfriend over when my mom is away...any tips on how to not get caught?

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - my mum is going away for a few days and am wantin to have my bf down to stay over. we've both agreed on not rushin into anything and takin things slow but am on the pill already the only thing am worryin about is my grandparents as they dont know am seein him and they have a ... (123 words

What are some other fun ways to masturbate?

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - i really like to masturbate. i have read about it and i dont do it the way that i have read. its just the first thing that i do when i get overly horny and no one is around. i also sometimes take a water bottle that squirts and lay on my back with my legs in the air and shove ... (101 words

How do you make a relationship work if it doesn't come naturally?

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5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Does getting back together with an ex ever really work? My ex and I dated for 2 and 1/2 yrs; broke up six months ago. We did the distance thing - no talking for two months, then some phone calls, then another 2.5 months no talking. He called a few weeks ago, out of the ... (276 words

Should I wait for my military man or cut it off? What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm getting depressed , My crush is military and recently deployed right now, he's stationed far from where I am. Before he left, I email him wishing luck and asked him a rhetorical question as how many people does he know that care for him as I do.... so for him to keep in ... (148 words

Is my girlfriend a SEX ADDICT?!! Can I trust someone like her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hello i have been dating my girlfriend for about 2 months now, i have heard some weird things about her in those past 2 months that i haven't heard about before, she has had sex at least 30 times before me and her started dating and she still talks to all of her exs, idk if she ... (124 words

He loves me and I love him but his temper causes him to hit me and I'm pregnant!

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have just turned two years and I'm five months pregnant with a beautiful little girl. There is one problem though, he has a really bad temper. Sometimes he throws me around or slaps the back of my head hard and I atleast cry once a day. I know that he loves ... (104 words

He's not pulling his weight. I have to clean everything. Will having separate living spaces work?

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5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together, lived together happily (until recently) for 7 years. The age old argument between men and women about cleaning hasn't stopped and has continued to get worse. I literally do everything around the house including making dinners and doing ... (138 words

Broke up and now we're back together. Not sure if this is the right thing to do. Help me out.

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5 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - So me and my ex split up in december, and we didnt talk and she starting going after different guys. Well recently, we have become good friends again, and have also made out quite a few times, even when she claimed to like these other guys. to be fair i have also had my fair... (180 words

I have a secret gay relationship with my friend, who is bisexual - and in an official relation with a girl. Scared he will eventually choose her over me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm 16, gay, but havent told anyone.. I recently started to get real close with my friend, he is also my age, we go to the same college, we actually havent been friends for that long, only about 3 months, but we actually became like best friends really quickly, just be... (603 words

When you love somebody, do you set them free or never leave them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Is it true, if you love somebody, you set them free? or is it if you love somebody you never leave?... (22 words

I gained much weight over the past months and fear a possible pregnancy, how can I calm down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5858 days ago

5 April 2008 (? age 30-35 - Okay, I've had back pain, breast tenderness, and i missed a period, but now my period has started back up again, and with FULL FORCE if you know what i mean. I took a pregancy test a while back, and it was negative, but i keep getting these symptoms.....oh, and i've gained A ... (61 words

There is a girl I like and I want to tell her everything I want to do but she lives too far away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok there's this girl that i like, She's 2 years older than me, we txt alot and say things like have fun at school and i love you and xoxo but i want to go up another level in love but she lives on the central coast and im in sydney so its hard to go up, but i wanna be more out ... (140 words

I like two guys, one of them likes me but I don't like him as much as the other one. What do I do?

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I like 2 guys. lets call one guy * and the other guy $. So, i like $ way more than * but i still like *. I'm bestfriends with *. Im going over his house(just the 2 of us) from 1230 til like 7 tomorrow. he sometimes acts like he likes me but then he just acts normal other times. ... (163 words

Should I believe my teenage BF in that he will wait for me until I am ready for marriage?

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, i was just woundering if you are still a teenager and you have a boyfriend, and he promises that he'll always love you and he says he would wait for me until i am ready for marriage, is he really telling me the truth? should i believe him? ... (49 words

Why this feeling of urination in the middle of the sexual act, even while fingering?? May it be female ejaculation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey this is a really embarrassing question! Ive recently started having sex with my boyfriend and everything is great only for one thing. Everytime we have sex when he goes into me deep i fell the urge to pee. It will not go away and i always have to excuse myself to leave. It ... (103 words

I keep having sick dreams about my dad. I'm bipolar and I'm confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - i keep having dreams are really sick in them i am having sex with my dad i also have sort of memories of times when my dad had had an argument with my mam and slept in my bed when i was younger i dont dont know if they are real or me just making them up in my head i honestly do ... (133 words

She told a white lie, could she tell bigger lies and what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi All, Ok, I have always had this belief that if someone can lie to you about a small thing, they can lie to you about anything. Recently my Girlfriend handed me a cute little blanket for my four year old son that she said she made for him. It did not look handmade, a... (147 words

I really like him. I'm not sure how he feels. I'm confused. Help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really like this guy. He is so sweet and cute and is always flirting with me. He always compliments me (like with my shirt being low cut and my boobs) And he tells me things like - " you know that the lower a girl's shirt is the more attracted a guy is to her?" and we were ... (230 words

I want another baby, he doesn't. I feel like he doesn't love me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend for 9 years i have a 15 year old and he has a 12 year old i want to have a baby but he dosnt i feel resentment that he has had what i want with someone else but dosnt want with me.i dont know whether i should split up with him why i still have ... (95 words

Found out I'm pregnant again. I don't know what to do.

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - HI rite were do i start well im 17 18 in 2 week i have a 2 and a half year old. And today i have just found out am exspecting again i have being with my bf for 3 years we are up and down. I had a abortion a couple of months ago and really dont want another one but then again i ... (113 words

I have brown vaginal discharge, what could it be?

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, This is one for the ladies, I know this topic sounds horrible but I'd really appreaciate your help. I have vaginal discharge that is a brown colour... it's quite mucassy. I had a normal period the week before last. Any ideas? I have abdominal pain, but it's not unbear... (67 words

Can this type of girl be trusted?

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5 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Can a girl who is engaged, but dates other guys, including making out, be trusted?... (15 words

I need to know, is it love?

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay so i have been talking to this kid i work with for about lik 7 months we are practically together and i know he has feelings for as and so do i but the other day he said he wants to spend his whole life with me and he told me he loved me but i don't know if he relly ... (154 words

Do I give my husband space after he says he no longer loves me? He says there is no one else!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 8 years and married for nearly 3. Three weeks ago he told me in tears he wasnt in love with me anymore, he said he still loved me and cared for me, but thought he should move out for a few weeks to see how he feels. He said there was knowone else ... (528 words

Her fiance is overseas but she acts VERY interested! Will I get hurt?

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5 April 2008 (M age - This is very confusing ... we have known each other for about 6 months but only started spending some time together in past few weeks. I don't think this is the typical male thing of misinterpreting a woman who is simply being friendly - suddenly we are texting 10 times a day, ... (234 words

He was looking for a girl to marry and "magic" happened- but now is he lost forever?

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5 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - i'v been engaged to someone i'v just met, we accidentally met at my freinds' party he was looking for a girl to marry, thats when the magic happend he loved me from the first sight, i also felt the same way ,although he wasn't my type, he told my freind that he wants to see ... (388 words

Are older girls more attractive or just out of my league?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - This is my first time doing this, and here's my problem: I find myself really attracted to an older girl who's about 5 years older than me. She's just about to finish her undergraduate degree while i'm in my first year in college. I find her incredibly interesting and ... (106 words

Should I let him go completely even though he really needs me?

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5 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am in such a dilemma! I am a 21 yr old woman and this dilemma has been going on for a few years now. When my dad was a child and his parents has died,this family consisted of 2 parents, 2 sons and 2 daughters and the parents looked after my dad like a 3rd son until he married ... (1610 words

I end up falling for straight guys again and again...could this guy be different?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hey there, I really need some advice re my feelings for a colleague. I am a gay man in my early thirties, though have never been in a relationship as such. However, for as long as I can remember, I have always focused my attentions on one individual at a time, who are in... (451 words

He teaches at a different school, so does that still make it illegal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

5 April 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hey everyone, i just need a little bit of advice, so here is my problem: I am 16 and the guy i like is 27, and my friend told me that he likes me too (i met him through her). I found out that he's a teacher, and i know that it is illegal for teachers to have a relationship... (81 words

Why do I still get sweat marks, even though I use deoderant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I wear loads of deodrant and sometimes don't even feel that hot, but I seem to always get sweat marks!! I hate it, no one else gets it! What can I do? x... (33 words

I've had a nice time with a married man, he's now like stranger to me.

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5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have had a nice time with a married man, he's now like stranger to me. Told him that i can see that he doesn't like me anymore and he hasn't spoken to me since i said that. We were good. What can i do?... (45 words

I really want my ex-girlfriend to understand me, so we can be friends again. Can you help, please?

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5 April 2008 (? age 36-40 - I have a really messy situation with my ex g/f. I could use some advice. Bit of a back story, so i'll cut it short. We dated when we were younger about 4/5 years ago....she was really into me..i was off in lala land and didn't know what the hell i was doing. I liked her but ... (287 words

He's a Jehovah's Witness, I'm not, would there be a problem if we got serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have interest in a boy who, in my eyes, I think is perfect, we have the same interests and I think he is gorgeous! I know he likes me too. He is a Jehovah Witness and I am not at all religious, I also disagree with their ideas. If we fell into major love, I know this could ... (68 words

How do I know when my boyfriend means it when he says he loves me?

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really, really like my boyfriend. Hes really lovely and perfect to me. weve been goign otu for nearly a month and its all been great, ive shown him that i appreciate him by buying him a small gift. but how do i no that he really likes me? and also when i am with people i ... (83 words

I've got an addiction to butt plugs, how do I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - i have been using butt plugs for fun during sex and on my own for over four years now. Recently I have started using larger and larger ones as I haven't been satisfyed with the regular ones I used to use. I get a buzz from using bigger and bigger ones to see if i can get them ... (143 words

My friends cancelled our date and it made me angry. I think one of them has family problems but I don't know how to aproach them about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Earlier this week i invited two of my friends from another part of the country over to visit. We arranged everything and they were meant to be over on Saturday.. but on Friday night, i recieved 2 texts from them, saying they cant come. There reasons were perfectly valid, bu... (128 words

What would you do if you wanted an abortion, but your partner didn't?

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5 April 2008 (F - If you are pregnant and dont want to have the baby for a lot of reasons and know in your heart the best thing would be to not have the baby, but your boyfriend really does want to have the baby, how should you decide if you keep the baby or not? Would you take into accoun... (138 words

My guy doesn't get on with my child and wants us to move out. What should I do?

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5 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been going out with my partner for 4 years, everything is great between us,he says he loves me very much. He asked me to move into his house with my two children a couple of hundred miles away from my home town 2 years ago. I moved in and rented my house out and started ... (207 words

After just 2 dates, he's saying he loves me, I find this a bit alarming. Would you???

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5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I met a guy online on RSVP and we went on 2 dates. it turns out we actually have some mutual friends and have been to a lot of the same parties so were not complete strangers after all. The thing that bothers me is that after only 2 dates he has said he thinks he is falling ... (120 words

Is it safe for me to have sex while pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm Deborah 31yrs old female from Lagos just hot married and I'm 2 months old pregnant for my husband. I always feel pains in my Abdomen and stomach. Please, I want you to advise me if it is proper to continue to make love when pregnancy is 2 or 3 months old. Please I w... (87 words

Sleeping with my best friend who's getting married

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a bestfriend whom i've fallen in love with 3 years ago. When I asked him what our status was, he said we are "bestfriends-with-benefits." Stupid, but i stayed on even after he said that. When he had a gf, we stopped and decided just to become friends then. They're no... (148 words

My teacher is leaving and I am devastated

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5 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - omg please someone im crying right now ok heres the short story... im 12 yrs old nd i have a tutor and me and him are rlly close i tell him all my problems nd he helps me out all the time nd hes so kind and is always there for me. then i found out hes leving! he left y... (250 words

He tells me hes not cheating because the thought of me leaving him has changed him, but has it?

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5 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - i am at my wits end i have been with my husband for 19 years .He has always been a bit of a flirt but has taken to more than that with two people who were meant to be my friends. 6 months ago i found out he had been spending time with a friend of mine and had been going on ... (167 words

Am I being naive to think that there is still hope for our relationship?

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've recently broken up with my boyfriend of nine months. We were friends before that and I helped him to get over a previous relationship. The girl he was with before has given him very low self-esteem, she was constantly putting him down. Other incidents in his life have made ... (276 words

How do you get over your first love?

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5 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi all Its almost been 2 months since me and my ex broke up. We lived around 30 mins train journey from each other, and 2 days after I last visited her, she send me a text saying that she can't take it anymore. Our relationship was a rollercoaster ride, a very wild ... (495 words

Dad's moving away due to switching jobs. How can I support my mum?

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5 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi. My Dad is moving away to Wales this weekend, about 2 hours from home. The reason behind it is that he is switching jobs. He finally go out of a job he hated after 25 years, but at the cost of us only being able to see him at weekends when he comes home. From this, I fea... (188 words

Should I call the girl who is cheating with my husband?

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5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - i caught my husband cheating with me . he is still mailing to his ex gf. what should i do should i called her and talked or should i talked to my husband? i feel to talked to that girl and want to say that i am divorcing to my husband so now u r free to meet him as i know my ... (122 words

I hate myself for having this sort of thought before things are over with hubby!

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5 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have known for a while now I would be leaving my husband at some point, and have told him on several occasions when i've been thinking about it, and he always says he wants me to stay and give him another chance. He treats me very poorly (NOTE TO ALL MEN: Wife does NOT equal ... (418 words

Come on girls help me out on this one!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - Why do women do this? i've had it happen three times now and its pissing me off. You meet a woman and she agrees to go out with you. She says she wants to take it slowly, you talk get to know each other, exchange thoughts and generally get on like a house on fire, then she says... (121 words

Why is my date not contacting me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I met a friend through a friend, and we went out to a club where he asked for my number saying that he'll be inviting some friends over and would like me to come too. Anyways I couldn't make it, then later that week he asked to go for drinks which we did, and we had a really ... (210 words

My wife abandoned me and our kids for her online lover!

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5 April 2008 (? age - I am 49, and my wife is 31. A year ago she started an online relationship with a man in Hungary, which she physicaly carried out by taking a vacation with my 4yr old daughter for two months, leaving me with my 12yr old son. While there she threatened to not return and said she ... (229 words

Why is he still hanging on to his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a problem with my boyfriend, when I met this man he had a girlfriend but now they are staying too close to each another. They stay in the same street and we meet almost everyday. He says he loves me and has made me meet his family and his mom knows me. But I hate the f... (98 words

How can I work on my attitude?

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey ok here is the thing..i am girl who doesnt talk to people until they come and talk to me be it friends,family or anyone..i am extra sweet and nice to people who i know and care..where else other people think that i have so called ATTITUDE..k i kinda agree with them i show a ... (146 words

How do I help my daughter dump her controlling and posessive boyfriend?

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5 April 2008 (F age - My 19 yr old daughter has been dating a young man for a little over a year now. When she first started dating him I felt very uneasy about it. There just seemed to be something about him that triggered an alarm in my head. Within this year I have found out that he is very... (139 words

Are virgins less likely to get pregnant the first time they do it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm a virgin and was wondering if i have sex without a condom for the first time what are the chances of me getting pregnant? Because my boyfriend has had sex before and wants to do it without a condom because he says condoms don't let him enjoy it, and he said that doing it ... (64 words

Please tell me how to flirt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I feel so clueless when it comes to flirting, because I never seem to know what to say. I can be awkward at times so there are awkward silences. But generally, can you guys just give me some pointers on how to flirt? Do what I say always have to be hinting that I like someone? ... (56 words

She is destroying my life, yet I don't leave her... what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - I've been with this girl for 2 years now, and I'm a total mess now. Here is the deal. We met in argentina where I was on vacation. She went to that vacation with a guy but dumped him on the trip because she met me, however she told me that that was just a friend and there... (765 words

I caught my husband emailing his ex is he cheating?

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5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - i caught my husband mailing to his old gf. what to do should i talked to him directly or wait and watch to get more proofs than talk. help me... (30 words

Is my younger girlfriend cheating?

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5 April 2008 (M age 51-59 - I am 48 (look 38) and dating a 28 year old former stripper who manages apartments. We have been dating a year and a half and have lived together for one year. Her mother recently died. After the funeral, she explained to me that she suddenly does not know what she wants ... (92 words

How do I not be insecure when there are hotter girls than me?

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've always felt insecure about my looks (never been considered pretty or hot). My BF thinks I'm hot. However, he's also said that there are hot chicks everywhere. Now I'm more insecure. He gets mad if I go on about feeling insecure. He said hot chicks are everywehere and some ... (84 words

I'm not his "ideal" because he says I'm too skinny! Should I still tell him how I feel?

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5 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a roommate who is 37 and I am 22. He and I are both seperated from our spouses. My husband (soon to be ex) will be 40 in November 2008. Now I am a tall skinny girl and he is a bit bigger than average and I am attracted to him both physically, sexually, and emotionally. ... (132 words

Was he letting me down easy before he went to Europe?

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5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - And don't want to make myself false expectations. But before the guy I love left for a training job he's doing in Europe, I kinda let him know my feelings to him. Not directly, but more like for him to catch the idea. I told him that not many people can care for him as I do. An... (133 words

My boyfriend talks about himself in "3rd" person! Why is he like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Can someone please help me I dont understand what is going on. My b/f was sweet nice n down to earth. Now he talks about himself n 3rd person. Every single person we see on the street he makes fun of for some reason. He tells me I'm chuby, have a crappy job, wont amount to ... (188 words

Is kissing (making out) cheating?

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5 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Is kissing (making out) cheating? For a girlfriend? Fiancee? Wife?... (10 words

Is it really the end or is he just stressed out with school?

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5 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of one year has just broken up with me and I'm devastated. It was completely out of the blue so I'm still in shock. Up until very recently things were going really well, we were crazy about each other. He started a really intense college course last mont... (404 words

I am a straight female very attracted to my bisexual male friend- could this be love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am currently a straight female very attracted to my bisexual male friend. Although I really feel bad awhile back when he was testing the waters by replying awhile back that I only go for straight people. I had not realized he has been attracted to me for awhile now seems ... (180 words

My "virgin" girlfriend says some pretty shocking things! Is she for real?!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - My Brand new GF has told me that she is a virgin and says she wants to wait to see if she finds that special person to give herself to. she told me she has done genital to genital(no penetration just rubbing), and has given Blowjobs. I believe her but before we started dating ... (139 words

Am I too picky about girls? Am I really asking for too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5859 days ago

5 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Am i asking for too much in a girl? I want a girl who is cute, and doesnt have to be reassured all the time that she is yet isnt full of herself. She has to be loyal and honest, good sense of humor and likes to just relax around the house some nights. And i really dont like... (88 words

Where can I meet girls? I'm 20yrs old and need some ideas!

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5 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Where or how would be the best place for a 20yr old to meet a girl? I dont go to college, and i probably could get into a few bars around here but thats not my style, i work with my family at a family run store, so no luck with other girls. I dont know how exactly to fin... (96 words

My soulmate has left me "broken" and I have lost the best person in my life!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

5 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - i am a girl, and i had a friend(a guy) who was almost my soul mate, we were really close friends and we became close in a very short time bcz we had a lot in common, and we were both single. we work in the same company, so we see eahc other everyday. we told each other ... (257 words

What do you do with a boyfriend who cheats and talks bad about you?

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5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - What do you do if you date a guy and have been with him for almost 3 years that tells you he loves you and only you,but he talks behind your back and sees other women he leaves and doesn't call for days then calls back and makes excuses and denies it all? I am miserable without ... (58 words

I'm "confused" about continuing a relationship with a guy who lies!

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid i am in love with this guy for about two months now.he lie to me by tellin me he has one child ,when he figure out i no he lie he tell me he has three.from ever since that i no he was gonna continue to tell me more lies.his child mother calls him all the ... (164 words

My husband has changed since he joined the army and made "new friends"! What can I do?

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5 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband is in the military. We we were both in the Navy before and have been together for 5 yrs. He joined the Army after getting out for a year. We were fine when he left 3 mos. ago but now he found new friends to hang out with that are in their early 20s he's 28 yrs ... (335 words

I forgave him for cheating....so why are we still not together?

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Is there any way to be in a relationship with your teacher without any problems?

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5 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay lets say you love your teacher and then you find out he loves you back....cant there be someway for the two to be together with out any problems??... (29 words

Lost my best friend over a silly mistake I made! How can I show him how sorry I am?

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I had an affair and I love him.

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He smokes dope. It's starting to scare me. Help please.

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5 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend regulary smokes dope and suffers from depression. Recently I have noticed his moods steadily getting worse and worse, hes increased in paranoid episodes and become generally more difficult to get through to and talk to. He has suffered from depression for a while ... (291 words

Had sex without a condom but I'm on the pill. What are the chances I'm pregnant?

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In love with my 'Doc', we're both married but I think he wants more. What should I do?

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5 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - I've been in love with my doc and we have become frineds over the last 6 months. He's called me a few times and I see him out and about sometimes. I've known him for 8 years. We are both married, but I think he wants something more and I know I do. He comments about ... (72 words

Guys, would you be turned off if a girl had someone else's name tattooed on her?

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